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Chapter 8 – Dominant and Submissive Gestures<br />

Environment Plays On Height And Dominance<br />

Standing up while others are seated instantly creates dominance.<br />

If your goal is to gain the dominance advantage, but nature dealt you the short stack, there are several<br />

ways to use your environment in your favour. One of which is to create a scenario where it is natural to<br />

present to a seated audience. Obviously this particular example is more suitable to a boardroom<br />

business meeting, but can also be amongst friends by roaming a room, rather than taking a fix seat<br />

while entertaining. When created an artificial scenario it would be wise to include ample comfortable<br />

seating to provide an incentive for people to plop themselves down. A man might use the standing<br />

advantage at a bar to pick up women by waiting for her sit instead of approaching her while she dances.<br />

Present to the seated naturally gives you a large height advantage.

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