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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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to the world around us, and the stimulus it contains. Behaviours produced by the limbic brain, over say<br />

behaviours that are controlled by the neocortex, are a true honest response. In other words, the limbic<br />

brain controls emotional body language so it’s our best gauge to indicate what the body is really<br />

feeling. It is the limbic brain that controls the arms, feet, hands, heads, and torsos when someone is<br />

feeling embarrassed or ashamed, sad, fearful, excited or happy. <strong>The</strong> limbic brain is hardwired into our<br />

nervous system and goes back in time with us through our evolution.<br />

While our neocortex can at times suppress the limbic brain, it can only do so when it is no occupied<br />

doing other things. <strong>The</strong> neocortex is in charge of doing complex conscious tasks (like calculus,<br />

engineering, and so forth), so when it is overwhelmed or turned off entirely, the body accidentally leaks<br />

emotional body language for others to read. <strong>The</strong> neocortex, because it is under conscious control, is the<br />

least reliable and least honest part of the brain. Research shows that the neocortex is the most active<br />

part of the brain during deception which is why it has been called the “lying brain.” Cheats might be<br />

able to control the words they use to describe their thoughts, but they can’t control their visceral<br />

reactions to these words, nor can they control their expressions stemming from this motivation. This is<br />

exactly how and why we can catch liars, read fear, stress, sadness, anger and so on.Chapter 1 - Why<br />

<strong>The</strong> Study Of <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong> Is Important<br />

Faking <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong> And Microexpressions<br />

Is body language a “learnable skill” and can it therefore be faked? <strong>The</strong> answer is yes and no. <strong>The</strong> vast<br />

majority of the more prevalent body language can be learned. For example, keeping your hands out of<br />

your pockets or using the hands expressively to remain honest and open, or keeping the hands away<br />

from the face to come off as more confident as easily learned through conscious thought and repetition.<br />

However, a new area of study reveals that there is a whole new set of cues that are much more difficult<br />

to control, if not impossible.

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