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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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posture occurs by placing one or both hands in front of the midsection and takes its ‘fig leaf’ name<br />

from Adam and Eve’s traditionally portrayed posture in the Garden of Eden artwork. Modest men and<br />

women who find themselves accidentally disrobed will instinctively clasp their hands over their private<br />

areas. Naked women will split their attention from both breasts with one arm and hand, with the other<br />

hand over their genitals. Men will exclusively protect their genitals from view with both hands.<br />

In real life however, will rarely find ourselves nude and exposed in public, but our minds are still<br />

hardwired to harbour feelings of insecurity from overexposure. In day to day situations women won’t<br />

be fund covering their breasts by clasping them and men won’t grab their genitals a-la Micheal<br />

Jackson, but they will claps both hands together either tightly by interlocking their fingers, or loosely<br />

with hand in hand and then casually placing them over their mid-section. Standing is the most obvious<br />

and common way that the fig leaf position shows itself, but it can also find its way in a seated position<br />

as the hands are rested on the lap. Women can and do block their chests from view, as well, but not in<br />

an offensive or obvious way. Rather, women cross their arms in front of their chests as a barrier or<br />

block their breasts from view when threatened with whatever objects they have handy, a textbook, a<br />

jacket or scarf, even bar tops.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se postures, of course, show insecurity and occur when we find ourselves in novel environments or<br />

around people we aren’t familiar with. We will often see this from less confident speakers who find<br />

themselves exposed to large audiences or when a presenter requires a participant (victim) to<br />

demonstrate a concept.

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