The Ultimate Body Language Book
Chapter 7 - Opened Mind Opened Body Closed Mind Closed Body Ventral Displays When the chest is turned away, this is called “ventral denial.” It says, “I don’t like what you’re saying.” Torsos house important organs that are vital to keeping us alive. Our heart, lungs, liver, intestines and so forth are all easily accessible through a thin layer of skin, fat, muscle and sometimes ribs and a sternum although even these have spaces by which damage may be inflicted. Exposing our ventral side means that we trust we won’t be attacked. Laying on our backs is something we do only in our own houses because it exposes our bodies to attack and paralyzes us from defending ourselves. Women, in the wrong company will feel particularly sensitive about exposing their breasts and both sexes will avoid displaying their genitals when nervous or timid. This is where arm and leg crossing is prevalent creating shields so as to reduce threatening exposure. Other times, bodies may turn away from people with whom we lack trust, or we may distance our torsos to give us a time and space buffer so that if a threat should be advanced, we have enough of a cushion to escape.
His ventral display says that he’s ready to leave. When in conversation people will orient their ventral side to those they trust the most and away from those they trust least. They’ll also favour those with whom they agree with most and away from people they disagree with or have contempt for. People can be seen changing their orientation more and more over the course of a conversation as ideas diverge. In dating, as women are turned off by an approach they will first shift their feet toward the exit, followed by the torso. If they wish to remain polite so as not to offend, they might keep their faces oriented toward their solicitor, yet the rest of their body, the important parts, will face away. Even slight disagreement can produce ventral shifts as bodies orient away from the speaker based on topics of lessor interest or topics we wish not do discuss. Ventral distancing shows a lack of commonality.
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His ventral display says that he’s ready to leave.<br />
When in conversation people will orient their ventral side to those they trust the most and away from<br />
those they trust least. <strong>The</strong>y’ll also favour those with whom they agree with most and away from people<br />
they disagree with or have contempt for. People can be seen changing their orientation more and more<br />
over the course of a conversation as ideas diverge. In dating, as women are turned off by an approach<br />
they will first shift their feet toward the exit, followed by the torso. If they wish to remain polite so as<br />
not to offend, they might keep their faces oriented toward their solicitor, yet the rest of their body, the<br />
important parts, will face away. Even slight disagreement can produce ventral shifts as bodies orient<br />
away from the speaker based on topics of lessor interest or topics we wish not do discuss.<br />
Ventral distancing shows a lack of commonality.
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