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The Ultimate Body Language Book

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Chapter 7 - Opened Mind Opened <strong>Body</strong> Closed Mind Closed <strong>Body</strong><br />

Ventral Displays<br />

When the chest is turned away, this is called “ventral denial.” It says, “I don’t like what you’re saying.”<br />

Torsos house important organs that are vital to keeping us alive. Our heart, lungs, liver, intestines and<br />

so forth are all easily accessible through a thin layer of skin, fat, muscle and sometimes ribs and a<br />

sternum although even these have spaces by which damage may be inflicted. Exposing our ventral side<br />

means that we trust we won’t be attacked. Laying on our backs is something we do only in our own<br />

houses because it exposes our bodies to attack and paralyzes us from defending ourselves.<br />

Women, in the wrong company will feel particularly sensitive about exposing their breasts and both<br />

sexes will avoid displaying their genitals when nervous or timid. This is where arm and leg crossing is<br />

prevalent creating shields so as to reduce threatening exposure. Other times, bodies may turn away<br />

from people with whom we lack trust, or we may distance our torsos to give us a time and space buffer<br />

so that if a threat should be advanced, we have enough of a cushion to escape.

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