The Ultimate Body Language Book
Eye Access Cues. 1) Visual Remembered: Think of the colour of your first bicycle. Think of the first person you saw as you entered the office this morning. 2) Visual Construction: Imagine what it would be like to fly. Imagine your dream home and pretend you are entering through the front door, what do you see? 3) Auditory Remembered: What was one of your most favourite things your parents have ever said to you? What types of sounds do you most enjoy? 4) Auditory Constructed: What would a rabbit sound like it if could talk? What would your boss say if he knew you were stealing office supplies? 5) Auditory Digital (Internal Self Talk): What does the sound of your inner voice make? What kind of dialogue happens when you think of your spouse and children? When do you find you talk to yourself the most?
6) Kinesthetic Remembered (Tactile and Emotional): Imagine what sandpaper feels like against your skin. Imagine what a cat feels like as you pet it. Think of a time in your life when you felt you had accomplished something that made you proud. When was the last time you were completely exhausted? 7) Kinesthetic Construction (Tactile and Emotional): Imagine the feeling of sand between your fingers that gradually turned sticky instead of rough. Imagine the feeling of helplessness turned into empowerment.
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Eye Access Cues.<br />
1) Visual Remembered: Think of the colour of your first bicycle. Think of the first person you saw as<br />
you entered the office this morning.<br />
2) Visual Construction: Imagine what it would be like to fly. Imagine your dream home and pretend<br />
you are entering through the front door, what do you see?<br />
3) Auditory Remembered: What was one of your most favourite things your parents have ever said to<br />
you? What types of sounds do you most enjoy?<br />
4) Auditory Constructed: What would a rabbit sound like it if could talk? What would your boss say if<br />
he knew you were stealing office supplies?<br />
5) Auditory Digital (Internal Self Talk): What does the sound of your inner voice make? What kind of<br />
dialogue happens when you think of your spouse and children? When do you find you talk to yourself<br />
the most?