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the breath of life<br />
Imagine that you’re driving along in your car with the radio on, calmly heading <strong>to</strong>ward a favorite<br />
destination. Suddenly, your cell phone dings, signaling that a text message has come in, <strong>and</strong> even<br />
though you’re not going <strong>to</strong> rummage through your bag <strong>to</strong> look for it because it’s dangerous (not <strong>to</strong><br />
mention illegal in some states), your pulse has already quickened. In this scientific experiment,<br />
Pavlov’s bell has rung. In a way that would make Pavlov proud, you’re jumping because the addictive<br />
part of your brain has been triggered <strong>and</strong> you’re no longer as present as you were seconds before.<br />
Forget that you’re operating a large piece of machinery where your safety—your very life, in fact—is<br />
at risk.<br />
“Ding!” Another text! And wait, now what? The phone is actually ringing, which you feel<br />
compelled <strong>to</strong> answer, but you won’t because you know better, right? Yet squelching that reflex <strong>to</strong><br />
respond requires more energy than you might imagine, <strong>and</strong> you’re suddenly feeling stressed, muttering<br />
under your breath about forgetting <strong>to</strong> turn off the ringer, again.<br />
Our brains are so overwhelmed <strong>to</strong>day by information overload—phone calls, messages, social<br />
media notifications, news reports, TV, Internet—that we can’t keep up with all the things we’re<br />
supposed <strong>to</strong> tick off our endless <strong>to</strong>-do lists. <strong>Your</strong> car isn’t out of gas, but you are. You feel exhausted<br />
<strong>and</strong> anxious. And you’re in a really, really bad mood. Is it just me, or do you feel like shouting, “S<strong>to</strong>p<br />
the madness! I want <strong>to</strong> get off this merry-go-round <strong>and</strong> leave it all behind—the crush, the noise, the<br />
nons<strong>to</strong>p activity!”?<br />
Let me remind you of something. You’re in charge. All you need <strong>to</strong> do <strong>to</strong> make life-enhancing<br />
choices, like turning your cell phone off, is <strong>to</strong> s<strong>to</strong>p <strong>and</strong> take a breath—a deep, complete, unhurried,<br />
full-body breath—<strong>and</strong> you’ll have the clarity <strong>to</strong> create greater peace, not just in your car, but<br />
anywhere you choose.<br />
When was the last time you <strong>to</strong>ok a deep breath? I’m going <strong>to</strong> bet that you just did. Notice that you<br />
suddenly feel refreshed, more awake, <strong>and</strong> more aware? The quickest way <strong>to</strong> wake your energy? Take<br />
a deep breath. It’s the source for oxygen, which is the body’s key element in producing energy.<br />
Each time you respond <strong>to</strong> your phone, it targets the brain’s pleasure <strong>and</strong> addiction center, the<br />
nucleus accumbens, flooding it with dopamine, which is then reinforced by the hippocampus, which<br />
makes sure you’ll remember this feeling of instant gratification by laying down sweet memories of it