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The following narrative tells the arduous<br />

story of the Dale family’s journey with<br />

cancer. Jill Dale made regular journal<br />

entries about the journey on CaringBridge.<br />

org. This includes excerpts of Jill’s posts as<br />

compiled by Susan Marquez.<br />

Snips and snails and puppy dog tails,<br />

that’s what little boys are made of. Campbell<br />

Dale was a normal little boy in every way.<br />

Spirited. Curious. Exuberant. At least, until<br />

he began having issues with constipation one<br />

weekend. The series of events that followed<br />

became a journey of heartbreak tempered<br />

with faith and love.<br />

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed,<br />

for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you;<br />

I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”<br />

– Isaiah 41:10<br />

“My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made<br />

perfect in weakness.” – 2 Corinthians 12:9<br />

<strong>February</strong> 12, 2014 was a day the Dale<br />

family will never forget, for that was the day<br />

life as they knew it forever changed. “We had<br />

not noticed anything abnormal over the<br />

weekend,” his mom, Jill Dale, wrote on the<br />

overview of the family’s CaringBridge site.<br />

“Campbell had been constipated a little, but<br />

nothing unusual. On Monday, <strong>February</strong> 10,<br />

he went to school like normal.” Yet the<br />

four-year-old still complained about being<br />

constipated. An enema, a trip to the doctor,<br />

and a couple of rounds of Miralax later,<br />

Campbell’s temperature was climbing and<br />

his belly was swollen. His doctor sent them<br />

to a Radiology group to get an X-ray done.<br />

When that came back inconclusive, a CT<br />

scan revealed a mass in the boy’s abdomen.<br />

“We were immediately sent to Blair E.<br />

Batson Hospital for Children where we were<br />

admitted at 5:30pm. After running more<br />

tests on Thursday, we sat down with our<br />

doctors and were told our son had a mass in<br />

his belly that needed to be removed. It could be<br />

anything from lymphoma, to neuroblastoma,<br />

to a taratoma or rhabdomyosarcoma (at this<br />

time rhabdo was toward the bottom of the<br />

list).” On Friday, surgeons were able to remove<br />

a 4 1/2 to 5 inch mass from his abdomen.<br />

The mass was sent to a pathology lab and on<br />

<strong>February</strong> 19, the family learned that Campbell<br />

had been diagnosed with rhabdomyosarcoma,<br />

a rare form of cancer of the tissue. “They were<br />

able to remove all of his tumor, but of course,<br />

there were what they call studs left. We were<br />

scheduled immediately for a bone scan and<br />

PET scan for Monday, Feb. 24th. On Tuesday<br />

the 25th, a bone marrow aspiration was done<br />

along with the placement of a chemo port.<br />

The preliminary results from the bone scan<br />

and PET scan came back favorable meaning<br />

it had not spread to the bones or other organs.<br />

That Tuesday at 5:00, we were told that our<br />

son has Stage IV rhabdomyosarcoma and<br />

they had found a spot in his bone marrow.”<br />

Campbell’s parents, David and Jill, were<br />

told the road before them would be difficult<br />

and hard. “We didn’t want to know the success<br />

rate, that didn’t matter to us,” Jill wrote. “All<br />

that mattered was ‘Can we beat this?’” The<br />

chemo regimen would be aggressive, radiation<br />

would be needed and 54 weeks is what it will<br />

take. “As I laid my head on the table and cried<br />

more than I have in two weeks, I didn’t think<br />

I would be able to walk out of the room. So<br />

David and I looked at each other, signed the<br />

papers to begin treatment and told the doctor<br />

to do whatever needed to be done to save our<br />

son. The one thing that stood out in my mind<br />

was David telling the doctor we know the<br />

Great Physician (Jehovah Rapha) can heal<br />

Campbell, not doctors or medicine…HE<br />

provides the means to do it. So we called our<br />

family in to tell them. The road before us<br />

might be difficult, but we were determined<br />

not to lie down and give up. We were in the<br />

fight of our lives and we were confident that<br />

Campbell would beat this.”<br />

The family resolved to bathe themselves<br />

in scripture and pray continuously without<br />

ceasing.<br />

“But those who hope in the LORD will renew<br />

their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles;<br />

they will run and not grow weary, they will walk<br />

and not be patient.” – Isaiah 40: 29-31<br />

Campbell’s first chemotherapy treatment<br />

began on Wednesday, <strong>February</strong> 26. All went<br />

well. He actually slept through the first<br />

treatment (he had been given some medicine<br />

to calm him after a rough morning so he slept<br />

all afternoon). The treatment started with<br />

two drugs, Irinotecan and Vincristinem. The<br />

Irinotecan was scheduled for five days straight.<br />

Campbell’s twin sister, Avery (aka ‘’Shu”)<br />

visited, and the children watched movies and<br />

ate Chick-fil-A together. At the time, Jill was<br />

reading a book, “The Red Sea Rules,” given<br />

to hear by a woman at church. “I have found<br />

so much wisdom and guidance in this book,”<br />

Jill wrote. “Meditating on the truths in it has<br />

brought so much peace: ‘So take a deep<br />

breath and recall this deeper secret of the<br />

Christian life: when you are in a difficult<br />

place, realize that the Lord either placed you<br />

there or allowed you to be there for reasons<br />

perhaps known for now only to Himself.<br />

The same God who led you in, will lead you<br />

out.’ So we trust in this and we know that<br />

HE will make a way. We don’t understand<br />

why we are enduring this trial and may never<br />

know while we are here on this earth, but we<br />

know that the same God who paved the road<br />

before us will walk beside us down this road<br />

every step of the way. Mine and David’s<br />

prayer throughout this entire journey is that<br />

God will be glorified in everything. Don’t<br />

worry about anything; instead pray about<br />

everything and don’t forget to thank God for<br />

His answers.”<br />

78 • <strong>February</strong>/<strong>March</strong> <strong>2016</strong>

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