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courtesy the Bisignano family<br />

Jon cont. from page 33<br />

bored. She called her friend at the<br />

Lambda Chi Alpha fraternity to see<br />

if there was anything going on.<br />

They were playing beer pong, he<br />

said. Come on over.<br />

She and another girl walked to<br />

the fraternity. When she arrived<br />

and found her friend, she saw a<br />

blue-eyed boy sitting watchfully on<br />

the steps of the house’s atrium.<br />

“Eyes so blue they just stop you,”<br />

Tamkin later recalled. “They are the<br />

first thing you see when you walk<br />

into a room.”<br />

She asked her friend who the boy<br />

was, and he told her Jonathan was<br />

his big brother at the fraternity.<br />

“You didn’t tell me you had a really<br />

cute big brother,” she told him.<br />

“Thanks.”<br />

She and Jonathan ended up talking,<br />

and then taking a walk together<br />

to a campus bar to have a drink. He<br />

told her she had the most beautiful<br />

eyes. Though flattered, she scoffed<br />

at him.<br />

“Are you okay? My eyes are<br />

brown,” she said.<br />

He gave her his phone number<br />

but she later realized it was missing<br />

a digit. She assumed it was on purpose<br />

and she’d never talk to him<br />

again. But weeks later, in Cabo for<br />

spring break, she ran into him on<br />

the beach. They ended up hanging<br />

out for the next four days. When<br />

she got back to USC, she thought,<br />

“You know what, I’m just going to<br />

text him.” He came over that night<br />

to do homework with her, and they<br />

worked and talked, the beginning of<br />

a conversation that would be ongoing<br />

until the day he died a little<br />

more than two years later. They fell<br />

seamlessly and deeply into love.<br />

Her first impression had been<br />

that Jonathan, with his good looks<br />

and cool swagger, puffed out chest<br />

and perfect posture, was “such a<br />

frat boy.” But he turned out to be<br />

anything but. He was broadly curious,<br />

unconventional in how he<br />

thought and the intensity with<br />

which he lived. He was absolutely<br />

full of love, both for the world and<br />

for the people he shared his life<br />

with, and completely unafraid to<br />

show it.<br />

“Being in college, the guys are all,<br />

‘Yeah, hook up with a hot girl,’”<br />

Tamkin said. “Jon was so different,<br />

so kind, so unlike anyone I ever<br />

met. He just wanted to hang out<br />

and talk and get to know you. We<br />

just hit it off the moment we met.”<br />

“What was so special is he really<br />

lived every day like it was his last,”<br />

she said. “That is something I take<br />

away as a lesson from him. He was<br />

so full of life. The last weekend we<br />

spent together, he was dancing in<br />

the desert, having the time of his<br />

life, nonstop, go, go, go.”<br />

Next month: love, loss, lessons, and<br />

the embrace of community. B<br />

34 Easy Reader / <strong>Beach</strong> magazine • <strong>Nov</strong>ember 10, <strong>2016</strong>

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