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array of tools we have in AYP to purify and open our
nervous system to higher experiences of the divine
within us.
Next we will talk about getting a better handle
on male orgasm. It is not likely that knowing the
holdback method alone will be enough for all men to
stay in front of orgasm right from the beginning, even
with a great desire to do it. It is not an easy thing to
master. It takes some special self-training.
Transforming Male Orgasm
The holdback method is pretty straightforward.
There is only one catch to it. Many men have little or
no control over their orgasm. And in the heat of the
moment they don’t want any control. The semen
wants to go, and that is it. Sex is a mad dash for that,
and everything else tends to fall by the wayside.
So, how do we get around this? The key is in
altering the habit of the inner neurology of orgasm.
We do this by giving the male neurology a familiarity
with a different way of traveling the road of
stimulation. In doing so, we find a different
experience of pleasure, and the experience of divine
ecstasy coming up through the nervous system. In
time, divine ecstasy becomes more charming than the
jerking and lurching of genital orgasm, and we
become motivated to spend more time in the habit of
pre-orgasmic stimulation. We then have the choice –
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