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Hundreds of years ago the great reviver of yoga
in India, Shankara, is reported to have said, “Even the
greatest yogi cannot gaze into the eyes of a beautiful
woman without having his seed jump.”
With knowledge of the holdback method we can
balance sexual relations to the benefit of both the man
and the woman. Over time, the man’s staying power
becomes very great, even from the beginning of a
lovemaking session. A change occurs gradually in his
sexual biology as a result of using the holdback
method. This brings freedom to both partners in
lovemaking, and solves the challenge of sex that
Shankara pointed out.
As we progress with the holdback method we
discover that we are on a new path in our sexual
relations. It involves longer sex, which is a boon to
both the man and the woman. But with the holdback
method we get much more than length. We get
height, which is the greatest payoff.
What do we mean by height? As the man goes
through the cycles of stroking and holding back, a
stairway of rising ecstasy is being climbed. Of course,
the woman is not inert in this process. She is active
every step of the way – coaxing her man when he is
in her, and becoming more aroused with anticipation
each time he lingers near her entrance. There is
stimulation, and then pause, more stimulation and
then pause, and so on. With each cycle the pleasure
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– Tantra