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e done in other positions also once the partners become familiar with the principles. It is the most difficult to do with the woman on top, as will become evident. When a man and woman are in lovemaking, the holdback method involves just what it says – holding back. It is done by the man. It is done before his orgasm, preferably not too close to his orgasm. The idea is not to get to the edge of orgasm and then hold back. It can be too late then, and then the man is out of business until next time. No doubt it will happen that way sometimes, and that is okay. We will discuss another method in the next section to help with that. For now, let’s continue with the holdback method. Intercourse is simulative stroking, yes? This is the natural way it goes until the man has orgasm. Maybe the woman has orgasm first, maybe not. But when the man has orgasm it is over, at least for a while. He may come back soon in a semi-recovered state to try and satisfy his lover, and then maybe lose more semen. She may find some satisfaction, but he has paid a high price, energy-wise. If this goes on daily for a long time, the man’s progress in yoga practices will suffer. The woman’s progress in yoga won’t be helped much either. If it happens only once a week, or less often, it is not such a big deal. But even those who have sex only occasionally can find Discovering the Power of Pre-Orgasmic Sex – 19
their yoga progress improved by knowing the methods of tantric sex. Mastery of the holdback method changes the dynamic of this old style of orgasmic sex, introducing a new dynamic of pre-orgasmic sex with many benefits. In the holdback method, the lingam enters the yoni for a number of strokes and then pulls out and lingers around the opening of the yoni. How many strokes is up to the man, but well short of orgasm is recommended. This is supposed to be a long lovemaking, so holding back sooner rather than later is best in the beginning, as this is when the staying power will be least in most men. A few things are going on when the lingam is in holdback mode. First, the staying power of the man in front of orgasm is being strengthened, recharging to a higher level of staying power than before the previous entry into the yoni. Second, the woman is in anticipation, and this is sexually exciting for her. She does not know when the lingam is coming back into her, and this anticipation will increase her arousal. To add to the woman’s anticipation and excitement, the man may do a little teasing with the tip of his lingam, without risking his own orgasm. He may enter the yoni just a little bit and then pull back out. Or he may not touch the yoni at all with his lingam, and then all of a sudden when she least expects it ... Well, use your 20 – Tantra
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