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e done in other positions also once the partners
become familiar with the principles. It is the most
difficult to do with the woman on top, as will become
evident.
When a man and woman are in lovemaking, the
holdback method involves just what it says – holding
back. It is done by the man. It is done before his
orgasm, preferably not too close to his orgasm. The
idea is not to get to the edge of orgasm and then hold
back. It can be too late then, and then the man is out
of business until next time. No doubt it will happen
that way sometimes, and that is okay. We will discuss
another method in the next section to help with that.
For now, let’s continue with the holdback method.
Intercourse is simulative stroking, yes? This is
the natural way it goes until the man has orgasm.
Maybe the woman has orgasm first, maybe not. But
when the man has orgasm it is over, at least for a
while. He may come back soon in a semi-recovered
state to try and satisfy his lover, and then maybe lose
more semen. She may find some satisfaction, but he
has paid a high price, energy-wise. If this goes on
daily for a long time, the man’s progress in yoga
practices will suffer. The woman’s progress in yoga
won’t be helped much either. If it happens only once
a week, or less often, it is not such a big deal. But
even those who have sex only occasionally can find
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