BB-Aug-2016-I
You also want an ePaper? Increase the reach of your titles
YUMPU automatically turns print PDFs into web optimized ePapers that Google loves.
BandraBuzz<br />
7th <strong>Aug</strong>ust <strong>2016</strong> | Vol. 7 (I) Issue 8 | BandraBuzz.Newspapers | @Bandra_Buzz | BandraBuzzNewspaper | bandrabuzz.com | Price: Rs. 4/-<br />
creating community connect since 2010<br />
Development Plan or Disaster Proposal<br />
Everyone is talking about DP 2014 - 2034 –<br />
the plan that will make (or break?) Mumbai<br />
ready for the next twenty years. But, how<br />
much do we really know about the pros<br />
and cons of this DP? There are several mega<br />
projects built in this plan – involving several<br />
thousands of crores of rupees. What is<br />
decided now, will dramatically affect our<br />
lives and that of future generations. The DP<br />
can do good and bad – big time! Surely,<br />
most of those involved have hidden agendas.<br />
Can we detect them? Are tax-paying<br />
citizens not entitled to know the DP – in all<br />
its entirety, before it is finalised?<br />
To get an insight, Bandra Buzz got some<br />
inputs from heritage architect – David Cardoz,<br />
a social activist (AGNI Trustee) –<br />
Shyama Kulkarni and the Chairman Emeritus<br />
of the Forum of Environmental Journalists<br />
in India (FEJI) – Darryl D’Monte.<br />
We also asked Dy. Mayor of Mumbai, at her<br />
office in the BMC Headquarters, opposite<br />
CST – what she had to say about the DP.<br />
Smt. Alka Kerkar replied,“I’ve called two<br />
BMC officers here to answer DP queries<br />
from citizens. People got to know facts, instead<br />
of being misled – saying that FSI is<br />
more in the city compared to the suburbs.<br />
People residing in buildings going for re-development<br />
need to know the right regulations.<br />
These were clarified. Also, the issue<br />
of open spaces was clarified. I think this is<br />
a good DP – only when it functions will<br />
people be satisfied. We will be introducing<br />
a one-window system. Now, the AMC is<br />
also very citizen-friendly. The DP is for the<br />
people and they will benefit.”<br />
Contd. on Page 04 ><br />
L to R: Public, BMC Officials, Warren Fernandes & Dy. Mayor Alka Kerkar
02 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ IN FOCUS<br />
A Vet for all Pets<br />
Interacting with a veterinarian who does<br />
not love animals is as obscure as discussing<br />
with a pilot about their acrophobia issue,<br />
which is a fear of height! So after accepting<br />
the inevitable, and to a certain degree the<br />
intrinsic aspect of a vet's love for animals,<br />
let's find out what sets Dr. Amrita Deb's<br />
'WildVets' apart.<br />
After globe-crawling along side reptiles,<br />
iguanas and chasing the skies with the likes<br />
of falcons and the spix's macaw (remember<br />
the blue bird from the movie Rio) to name<br />
a few, she has returned home. This<br />
Bandraite holds a Master's Degree in Surgery<br />
from the Bombay Veterinary College,<br />
following which she pursued her Master's<br />
in Avian Health from the UK. Thereafter<br />
she shifted base to Qatar and was closely<br />
associated with the rehabilitation of endangered<br />
wildlife. This job presented her with<br />
the unique opportunity to work with falcons,<br />
leopards, sand cats and monkeys, besides<br />
gaining immense handling and<br />
diagnostic know-how, she also worked<br />
with the core research team and her papers<br />
have been published in more than 35 international<br />
veterinary journals.<br />
On returning home in tow with her<br />
family from Qatar which includes a rescued<br />
racer grey hound named 'Mafimushkil', she<br />
started working on a plan wherein she<br />
could exude all the learning & experience<br />
she had gained along the way. Her observations<br />
resulted in the birth of ‘WildVets’, she<br />
realized that there was no veterinary facility<br />
available locally for exotic pets like<br />
birds, rabbits & turtles, most of the professionals<br />
in the city offer services for conventional<br />
pet animals only. She decided to<br />
formulate a veterinary practice which<br />
cared & treated both domesticated pets as<br />
well as the wilder or rarer buddies. Secondly<br />
not many practices function on an<br />
‘all services under one roof’ format, owing<br />
to which the patient & the companion have<br />
to undergo a lot of unnecessary to and fro.<br />
Her facility addresses all the needs of her<br />
patients under one roof, including veterinary<br />
surgery & diagnostic services, grooming<br />
& a pet store with food & accessories.<br />
She systematically shows us around<br />
the clinic which has four sections, the first<br />
being the surgical section which is also<br />
equipped with a gas anesthesia machine<br />
and a x-ray machine. Dr. Amrita explains<br />
the benefits of administrating anesthesia<br />
through gas “This method is much safer as<br />
we can monitor the levels and reduce or increase<br />
the dosage if needed. The turnaround<br />
period after this procedure is<br />
quicker as well.” The next section is the tub<br />
table, all the pre surgery preparation is<br />
done here so that maximum sanitation is<br />
maintained while the surgery is underway.<br />
This tub table after a thorough wash down<br />
is used to give the pets, medicated or<br />
grooming related baths as well. The next<br />
section is where the monitoring equipment<br />
display the images of the scan, instant<br />
x-ray results expedites the course of<br />
treatment. The final section is the consultation<br />
section. The reception area of the<br />
clinic has many happy looking accessories<br />
and treats for all kinds of pets. The clinic<br />
also stores a range of pet food including<br />
brands which are not readily available for<br />
hamsters, rabbits, birds, dogs, cats and can<br />
source as per the requirement of your pet.<br />
They also arrange for cages and other super<br />
specialized tools for animal care.<br />
The mission of 'WildVets' is to support<br />
people who want to raise their own, if<br />
milder version of the jungle book in the city<br />
without having to worry about the medical<br />
support. Dr. Amrita's acquired experience<br />
and exposure renders her capable of handling<br />
and caring for all kinds of animals.<br />
She is raring to go and care for the pet, even<br />
if they are roaring!!<br />
Sidhant Nayangara<br />
Start reimagining home cleaning<br />
Book a Didi<br />
in one tap!<br />
Call us at 040 4142 3333<br />
Visit mydidi.in<br />
Tel: 022-26415376 / 26415375 Mob: 8879347788<br />
B-989, Casa Adriana, 15 St. John Baptist Road,<br />
Mt. Mary Steps, Bandra (West), Mumbai - 400 050<br />
SEARCH "MYDIDI" ON
A refreshing take on the e-commerce and waste management’. The cofounders<br />
Gurashish Sahni aged 23, take flight and what does it have in<br />
So what is RaddiConnect, how did it<br />
business model is embodied by the<br />
likes of startups such as RaddiConnect. Rahul Nainani aged 24 & the youngest store? RaddiConnect aims to facilitate<br />
The Bandra based online platform member Raunaq Singh Sahni who is 21 the activity of disposing ones waste by<br />
spearheaded by a team of youngsters, years old, have researched well and resolving the haphazard manner<br />
have their vision, heart and feet where have promising numbers to back their through which the customer and service<br />
provider conduct their transaction.<br />
they belong. With a vision propelling business model, however what struck<br />
them forward, feet on the ground and us was the fact that these youngsters RaddiConnect enables the customer to<br />
hearts pounding with the urge to create<br />
a difference, RaddiConnect is all ciates as they progress ahead, their for the pick-up, the back end team<br />
want to uplift their vendors and asso-<br />
fix a time slot as per their convenience<br />
geared to touch the sky.<br />
three fold mission includes establishing<br />
and formatting the market strucfirms<br />
the scheduled pick up & provides<br />
from RaddiConnect thereafter con-<br />
Quiz the founders about what inspired<br />
them to foray into such an unconventional<br />
segment & they quickly alter the perception of the raddiwallas market prices for paper, plastic, metal<br />
ture for disposing and recycling goods, the customer with the competitive<br />
retort with statistics about the unruly and to make a social change by supporting<br />
NGOs.<br />
Contd. on Page 2<br />
and glass.<br />
and dispersed market called ‘recycling<br />
><br />
creating community connect since 2010<br />
10th July <strong>2016</strong> | Vol. 7 (I) Issue 7 | BandraBuzz.Newspapers | @Bandra_Buzz | BandraBuzzNewspaper | bandrabuzz.com | Price: Rs. 4/-<br />
JUST OPENED<br />
BANDRA BUZZ<br />
AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 03<br />
Celebrity Hairstylist Vipul Chudasama’s flagship Hair Education and Studio at Jasmin House, Pali Naka<br />
LET YOUR HAIR<br />
DO THE TALKING<br />
What do the famous celebrities Aishwarya<br />
Rai Bachchan, David Beckham, Rihanna,<br />
Pink & Cristiano Ronaldo have in common?<br />
You guessed it right! They all have<br />
perfect hairstyles. But gone are the days<br />
when all we could do was sit and admire<br />
their dazzling hairdos on the television, in<br />
magazines and on billboards around town.<br />
One of our country's most renowned<br />
hairdressers & creative directors for many<br />
brands across India, Vipul Chudasama has<br />
now set hair studio right here in the heart<br />
of Bandra. The celebrity hairstylist and an<br />
acclaimed consultant for many brands,<br />
Vipul has launched his much-awaited flagship<br />
Hair Education & Studio, which boasts<br />
of a team of savvy hairstylists and artists<br />
who come from an extensive background<br />
to create new hair ideas without disregarding<br />
the classic. The studio services don't<br />
just include the usual haircut, hair colour,<br />
blow dry, treatment & hairstyling, but also<br />
includes the more exquisite bridal makeup,<br />
besides offering a wide selection of<br />
quality hair products to help you sport that<br />
awesome look.<br />
Vipul, who has trained and inspired top<br />
hairstylists in India as well as on the international<br />
stage brings over 10 years of experience<br />
to the studio and prides himself on<br />
providing an uplifting experience for his<br />
clients & students. He has styled top models<br />
for India's talented fashion designers,<br />
bollywood celebrities & showcased his creation<br />
at Haute Coiffure Francaise in Paris,<br />
the fashion capital of the world.<br />
An ecstatic Vipul exclaims, “I am<br />
thrilled to open my Hair Education and<br />
Studio in Mumbai, it is indeed a dream<br />
come true. We don’t view our customers as<br />
a job; for us no two customers are alike<br />
when it comes to haircutting and hairdressing.<br />
The diversity of services we offer allows<br />
us to customise each individual’s<br />
characteristics to create the ultimate experience<br />
for our clients.”<br />
While at the studio the hairstylists bring<br />
out the beauty in you, the Hair Education<br />
offers foundation & advanced hairdressing<br />
courses that are designed to give professional<br />
hairdressers a greater understanding<br />
of their skills and craft. Designed to appeal<br />
to an upscale business and leisure clientele<br />
and professionals alike, this alternative hair<br />
education and studio is poised to redesign<br />
your hair to transform the look and education<br />
to develop skills of Indian Hairdressers.<br />
And, well, if you want to<br />
improve those selfies, you better rush to<br />
see your stylist aka Vipul Chudasama &<br />
his talented team.<br />
Jasmin House, 2 Upper Floor,<br />
1 Pali Village, Pali Naka,<br />
Bandra West, Mumbai 400050.<br />
Call: +91(22)26494411/5511 or 9769900010<br />
www.vipulchudasama.com<br />
Valerian D’costa<br />
RENTING A SHOP IN BANDRA<br />
IS NOT ENOUGH TO GET YOU BUSINESS<br />
Started a business & rented a shop in Bandra & Khar? Confused why there are no walk ins? Before you decide to shut shop, think again!<br />
Do people know about your shop? That’s because you haven’t promoted your brand with us. With a belief in quality over quantity,<br />
Bandra Buzz doesn’t only confirm clientele, but also renewals and repeated walk ins. If you don’t show it, they won’t know it! You took<br />
the risk of starting out, now get the expertise to make it work, with us!<br />
For advertising information call: 9820783686 / 9920299787<br />
BandraBuzz<br />
RADDICONNECT:<br />
BUILDING AN INDUSTRY
04 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ DEVELOPMENT PLAN<br />
Bandra West Residents Association<br />
The BWRA<br />
wishes to object<br />
very strongly to<br />
the newest alignment<br />
of the<br />
Coastal Road in<br />
Bandra West,<br />
which is shown<br />
in the Draft DP as<br />
having a connector at or around the amphitheatre<br />
on the public promenade on<br />
Carter Road - which the BWRA maintains<br />
on behalf of the BMC.<br />
Due to the overhead connectors, the<br />
amphitheatre can no longer be used for cultural<br />
activities, which are organised twice<br />
or more a month. Besides, during the 10-<br />
day Celebrate Bandra annual festival, this<br />
amphitheatre is used every evening and<br />
occasionally at dawn, which will no longer<br />
be possible due to the construction of a<br />
clover-leaf junction at the site and the din<br />
of traffic overhead and alongside the access<br />
and exit points. Yoga and other exercises<br />
will similarly be disturbed.<br />
The promenade is used by thousands<br />
of people every day and the connector will<br />
interfere with their opportunities for exercise<br />
and healthy living. No assessment has<br />
been done of the increase in air pollutants<br />
from the 200,000 cars that will be plying<br />
along the Coast Road every day, and the<br />
local impact at the connector. Since there<br />
will be no tolls on the Coast Road, the volume<br />
of traffic may increase.<br />
This will also damage, perhaps permanently,<br />
the beach which lies just off the<br />
promenade at this spot and is also a popular<br />
spot for recreation.<br />
This alignment, as others previously,<br />
has not been planned by taking into account<br />
the impact of increased traffic on<br />
Carter Road, as well as connector roads like<br />
Perry / Turner Road and roads leading to<br />
Pali Hill. These will be permanently<br />
clogged with motorists attempting to access<br />
the Coastal Road every morning and<br />
exiting from it every evening.<br />
Since this will be the only connector in<br />
this part of the western suburbs, apart from<br />
the existing one at the Bandra-Worli Sea<br />
Link, motorists from Khar and Santa Cruz<br />
will also be using it, since the next connector<br />
will be in Juhu.<br />
Since no study has been conducted<br />
into the volumes of traffic that are likely to<br />
be generated at Carter Road, we find an infirmity<br />
in the Draft DP and would like this<br />
connector to be removed from the area.<br />
Failure to do this would violate the Constitutional<br />
right to a clean and healthy environment<br />
for this and succeeding<br />
generations. We would like to be given an<br />
opportunity to present our objections in<br />
person before the DP is finalized.<br />
Darryl D'Monte - President,<br />
Bandra West Residents Association<br />
Development Plan Objection
DEVELOPMENT PLAN<br />
BANDRA BUZZ<br />
AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 05<br />
DP 2034: Development Plan or Disaster Proposal<br />
Sometime last<br />
year the BMC released<br />
a DP that<br />
had so many objections<br />
raised<br />
against it, that<br />
the Chief Minister<br />
was forced to<br />
withdraw it. The<br />
BMC has now apparently corrected the<br />
Plan and released a Revised Draft Development<br />
Plan – DP 2034, that will determine &<br />
control any ‘development’ of our city & in<br />
our neighbourhood for the next 20 years.<br />
But a closer look at the “corrected and<br />
revised” plan shows that it is still full of errors,<br />
particularly of plot numbers, that are<br />
crucial to identifying your property in the<br />
DP. Other clues such as iconic buildings /<br />
railway stations / road names & junctions,<br />
that help the common man in locating his<br />
/ her property - are also missing. If you cannot<br />
correctly identify your property how<br />
does the BMC expect us to correctly send<br />
in our suggestions / objections to the Plan?<br />
And there’s more missing!<br />
Road Widening Setbacks which were<br />
one of the most controversial proposals<br />
earlier, have now disappeared. The same<br />
goes for the Heritage Sites. Does this mean<br />
they are Not Applicable? Not at all! Setbacks<br />
in existence before this Plan and Heritage<br />
Lists will still apply, only they are not<br />
indicated in the Plan. And the list goes on…<br />
. Gaothans, Koliwadas and several religious<br />
structures, that have been around for years;<br />
have not been marked, even though the<br />
law requires that all of these be specifically<br />
shown in the Plan.<br />
Are these really ‘errors’ or is there some<br />
method in this madness? Is it possible that<br />
this time around, the BMC is leaving things<br />
out, just so we find it difficult to object -<br />
and the Plan gets somehow ‘pushed’<br />
through?<br />
This does seem to be the case as the<br />
BMC has already filed a Caveat in the High<br />
Court, against any legal challenge to the DP<br />
or the Coastal Road, presuming, obviously,<br />
that there will be serious objections! Now<br />
isn’t that defeating the very purpose of the<br />
procedure of Suggestions / Objections? Are<br />
we not supposed to voice our opinions<br />
about a Plan that will determine what we<br />
do for the next 20 years?<br />
So…what can we do? Well…the same as<br />
last time. Please do raise your voices,<br />
through submitting ‘Objections’ to what is<br />
being done and ‘Suggesting’ ways & means<br />
to improve the situation. You need not be<br />
Don’t Mess with My City<br />
“Most of our objections<br />
have not been looked into. Religious<br />
structures like Mt. Mary,<br />
Siddhivinayak Temple & the<br />
Mahim Darga where lakhs worship<br />
- are not even shown.”<br />
When the Development<br />
Plan<br />
(DP) was released<br />
last year,<br />
M u m b a i k a r s<br />
were enraged.<br />
Thousands of<br />
objections / suggestions<br />
were<br />
submitted to the BMC authorities.<br />
Agitations & public protests<br />
were seen across the city<br />
(mostly led by AGNI) - in<br />
Bandra on Pali Hill & at<br />
Carter Promenade.<br />
There was extensive<br />
media coverage and<br />
our main demand for<br />
“Scrap the DP” was<br />
accepted. Then, a new<br />
DP was announced in<br />
April <strong>2016</strong>.<br />
But is the new one any<br />
different from the previous<br />
one? No!<br />
In fact, in many ways it is worse. Most<br />
of our objections have not been looked<br />
into. Religious structures like Mount Mary,<br />
Siddhivinayak Temple & the Mahim Darga<br />
where lakhs worship - are not even shown.<br />
Extra FSI near Railway stations where<br />
there is no sufficient infrastructure like<br />
water, drainage & roads - are marked.<br />
However, my greatest anger or disappointment<br />
is the way this DP is playing<br />
with the environment. Aarey land which is<br />
a unique forest, will have a Metro shed; by<br />
cutting hundreds of trees, which can never<br />
be transplanted. Low income housing to<br />
be built on salt pan land. A Coastal road<br />
from Nariman Point to Kandivali, Malad.<br />
The original settlers of Mumbai, the Koli<br />
Community & the East Indians; will lose<br />
their livelihood. This coastal road<br />
will kill mangroves, ruin our<br />
promenades, Juhu Beach<br />
(where they are planning<br />
an underground tunnel)<br />
- and another tunnel<br />
under Malabar<br />
Hill, costing over<br />
twelve thousand<br />
crores. Imagine, my<br />
taxes, and the entire<br />
Mumbaikar’s taxes;<br />
being used to cater to<br />
less than 2% of the population<br />
(car owners).<br />
A retired geology professor<br />
from IIT, at a recent press conference; said<br />
that if this is done (the Coastal Road, etc.),<br />
you are messing with the unique environment<br />
of Mumbai. These decisions will lead<br />
to floods in Mumbai - and end in a big<br />
earthquake.<br />
Let’s not mess with nature, just to help<br />
the developer!<br />
Shyama Kulkarni<br />
Proposed Coastal Road in front of Bandra Bandstand Promenade<br />
an expert to demand what is your right!<br />
But we do not have much time. 29th<br />
July <strong>2016</strong> is the last day for submitting the<br />
Suggestions / Objections. You need to write<br />
in to ‘The Municipal Commissioner at the<br />
Office of the Chief Engineer DP, 5th Floor,<br />
When the earlier Draft Development Plan<br />
was released, St. Sebastian Homes was the<br />
first Society in Bandra to hold a public<br />
meeting, jointly with H-West Federation<br />
and Khar Residents Asociation (K.R.A.),<br />
where a panel of prominent speakers -<br />
housing activists, environmentalists, architects,<br />
advocates, developers and social<br />
activists shared their views. The society<br />
further appointed an architect, who<br />
pointed out that the plots were in the<br />
newly designated “Residential/Commercial<br />
Zone” and most of the roads were<br />
shown for road widening. Meetings were<br />
held with the ALMs, Municipal Councillors<br />
and the MLA.<br />
To achieve their goal of ensuring ‘Residential<br />
Zone’, a three-pronged strategy was<br />
used:<br />
1. Voiced their concerns using Media –<br />
Times of India, Radio One and 94.3 FM<br />
2. Submitted 494 individual objections<br />
3. Wrote to MLA, Adv. Ashish Shelar<br />
The Hon. Secretary Warren Fernandes told<br />
us, “When we went to submit the objections,<br />
the BMC refused to acknowledge all<br />
494 objections and was only willing to put<br />
BMC HO Annexe Building, CST, Mumbai -<br />
and let your voice be heard, so we can turn<br />
around this Proposal for Disaster into a true<br />
Plan for Development.<br />
David Cardoz - Architect<br />
St. Sebastian Homes<br />
in the forefront again!<br />
a stamp on the 1st objection letter. We had<br />
to go to the Municipal Commissioner’s Office<br />
and only after a dialogue, they<br />
stamped and acknowledged each of the<br />
494 objections. We believe that through<br />
our united effort, we have achieved the<br />
ZONING – ‘RESIDENTIAL’ for the whole of<br />
Bandra".<br />
Now with the Revised Draft DP, the society<br />
again studied the impact by appointing<br />
an architect. A seminar was held by the<br />
society which was well attended and appreciated<br />
by the society members. Mr.<br />
Hussain Indorewala, Architect of CSA explained<br />
the aspects of new roads, reservations,<br />
designations of plots, FSI, etc. -<br />
which would adversely affect the St. Sebastian<br />
Society. The society is encouraging<br />
its members to submit objections, some of<br />
which are:<br />
1. Omission of road names of Dr. Peter Dias<br />
Road and St. Roque Road not mentioned<br />
in the DP<br />
2. Objection to Mt. Carmel Church as a Religious<br />
Buildings not indicated.<br />
As we go for print, the St. Sebastian Homes<br />
have submitted 306 objections to the revised<br />
DP.<br />
Kailash Parab
06 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ FITNESS<br />
Have you forgotten to cycle?<br />
Mumbai Riders aims to revive the culture of cycling in Mumbai<br />
When was the last time you rode a cycle? If<br />
you can’t remember it then surely it’s been<br />
a long time and you need to revive yourself<br />
a bit. Cycling indeed gives birth to an immense<br />
feeling of nostalgia for we all learn<br />
to cycle as kids. In fact for most of us, ‘Cycling<br />
is the first sport’ we learn after running.<br />
Then, why not cycle again?<br />
You must be wondering where to cycle,<br />
how to cycle, who has a cycle, am I fit to<br />
cycle, do I have the strength to cycle, will I<br />
be able to cycle with my physique and<br />
what if I fall while cycling? A number of<br />
such thoughts might run through your<br />
mind but remember these thoughts just<br />
clutter your mind. You can cycle at any age<br />
and there is really nothing that can stop<br />
you from cycling.<br />
‘Mumbai Riders’ solves all your dilemmas<br />
as they organise cycle rides on the<br />
streets of Mumbai on weekends. It’s now<br />
time for the tourist buses to move over and<br />
make way for the bicycle for a new way of<br />
exploring the city is rapidly gaining popularity.<br />
Mumbai Riders, the brainchild of three<br />
commerce students Rishi Shah, Falak<br />
Parikh and Saurabh Punamiya, has brought<br />
the long lost cycling culture back to Mumbaikars<br />
in a fun filled enthusiastic way.<br />
So, what do Mumbai Riders do? In<br />
short, they give you a cycle, make you ride<br />
a cycle and let you explore the city of Mumbai<br />
mainly during the night. So, when the<br />
fast paced Mumbai is fast asleep, you venture<br />
out with your cycle to experience the<br />
peace, serenity and silence of the ever<br />
noisy and busy metropolitan.<br />
The idea of Mumbai Riders emerged<br />
through an experience that the founder<br />
had last summer when he took a cycle ride<br />
across a French town. He always looked<br />
out for cycling tours in whichever city he<br />
visited and, thus wanted to get that culture<br />
to the city of Mumbai. Started in December<br />
2015, Mumbai Riders have organised<br />
around 17 cycle ride events till date in the<br />
city of Mumbai with people of all age<br />
groups right from 12 to 50 years old attending<br />
the event.<br />
Anybody can cycle. There is no age bar<br />
and no discrimination of any sort. Walking<br />
on the streets of Mumbai in the night might<br />
be risky but cycling with a bunch of people<br />
turns out to be a healthy social networking<br />
event. Not only to you cycle and pump up<br />
your body with some movement but also<br />
you get to meet new people, make friends<br />
and build relations as you share your desire<br />
for cycling and the mesmerising love for<br />
Mumbai city.<br />
The team is fully equipped with a technician<br />
throughout the ride who takes of<br />
any unforeseen mishaps moreover, medical<br />
aid is provided too. Refreshments are<br />
on them so one doesn’t have to worry<br />
about getting hungry on the way. Well, all<br />
the pillars of Mumbai Riders namely Rishi<br />
Shah, Falak Parikh and Saurabh Punamiya<br />
have a unique passion towards cycling. In<br />
fact, all of them are fresh graduates around<br />
21 years old and the latter work as Chartered<br />
Accountants while Rishi is an analyst<br />
at KPMG. In short, all of them are young enthusiasts<br />
who work throughout the work &<br />
use their weekend in a constructive way by<br />
organising these cycling events.<br />
“We have our own Facebook Page<br />
called Mumbai Riders where we mention<br />
about our cycling event. Anyone can directly<br />
register there and attend our event.<br />
We want more people to know about it so<br />
that the culture spreads far and wide. Also,<br />
the authorities of Mumbai can be more<br />
supportive if large number of people attend<br />
our event for we wish to expand Mumbai<br />
Riders and organise many large scale<br />
events,” says Rishi Shah.<br />
The best part of cycling in a metropolitan<br />
like Mumbai is that it is pollution free.<br />
Cycling is completely eco-friendly and one<br />
with nature. “When we travel to various<br />
cities out of India, we witness a lot of people<br />
who cycle; even we use a cycle as the<br />
basic mode of transport in order to curb<br />
pollution. We want to impart this to every<br />
citizen of Mumbai so that we help make a<br />
better place. After all, Mumbai is our city<br />
and we all love the spirit of Mumbai, let’s<br />
cycle to make it better in our own little<br />
way,” expresses Rishi.<br />
Ronald Rodrigues
A refreshing take on the e-commerce and waste management’. The cofounders<br />
Gurashish Sahni aged 23, take flight and what does it have in<br />
So what is RaddiConnect, how did it<br />
business model is embodied by the<br />
likes of startups such as RaddiConnect. Rahul Nainani aged 24 & the youngest store? RaddiConnect aims to facilitate<br />
The Bandra based online platform member Raunaq Singh Sahni who is 21 the activity of disposing ones waste by<br />
spearheaded by a team of youngsters, years old, have researched well and resolving the haphazard manner<br />
have their vision, heart and feet where have promising numbers to back their through which the customer and service<br />
provider conduct their transaction.<br />
they belong. With a vision propelling business model, however what struck<br />
them forward, feet on the ground and us was the fact that these youngsters RaddiConnect enables the customer to<br />
hearts pounding with the urge to create<br />
a difference, RaddiConnect is all ciates as they progress ahead, their for the pick-up, the back end team<br />
want to uplift their vendors and asso-<br />
fix a time slot as per their convenience<br />
geared to touch the sky.<br />
three fold mission includes establishing<br />
and formatting the market strucfirms<br />
the scheduled pick up & provides<br />
from RaddiConnect thereafter con-<br />
Quiz the founders about what inspired<br />
them to foray into such an unconventional<br />
segment & they quickly alter the perception of the raddiwallas market prices for paper, plastic, metal<br />
ture for disposing and recycling goods, the customer with the competitive<br />
retort with statistics about the unruly and to make a social change by supporting<br />
NGOs.<br />
Contd. on Page 2<br />
and glass.<br />
and dispersed market called ‘recycling<br />
><br />
creating community connect since 2010<br />
10th July <strong>2016</strong> | Vol. 7 (I) Issue 7 | BandraBuzz.Newspapers | @Bandra_Buzz | BandraBuzzNewspaper | bandrabuzz.com | Price: Rs. 4/-<br />
FITNESS<br />
BANDRA BUZZ<br />
AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 07<br />
Track and Field Coach Daniel Vaz & his pacers ensure that every type of runner is looked out for during the run<br />
RUN WITH US<br />
I’ve always envied people who can wake<br />
up early & attack the day with a vengeance.<br />
Unfortunately the most action I could<br />
muster up in the wee hours has been clinging<br />
to my pillow for as long as possible. A<br />
year ago if you had told me that I would be<br />
waking up at 5.30 am to go running & that<br />
I was a part of a run-club I would have definitely<br />
looked at you funny while incessantly<br />
liking all those Facebook posts that<br />
say smarter & more creative people tend to<br />
be late risers, much to contrary belief.<br />
Fitness goals vary from individual to individual<br />
& even though I am an ardent<br />
yoga enthusiast you would never see me<br />
wake up early to strike a pose. The fitness<br />
culture has been tailor made to suit our<br />
schedules & not the other way around & so<br />
it’s not uncommon to find footfall at a gym<br />
much more after office hours & the mud<br />
track at Joggers Park to be packed post 7pm<br />
much to everyone’s dismay.<br />
However, those morning hours are unlike<br />
the rest of the day where you are likely<br />
to be distracted by work calls, crying babies,<br />
obligations & such, so sacrificing those<br />
2 hours of sleep every other morning can<br />
prove to be very fruitful. And you will<br />
never know until it happens to you & I’m<br />
so glad that NRC happened to me!<br />
This year Nike celebrated ‘International<br />
Woman’s day’ in Mumbai by organizing a<br />
run at 6am in Bandra by the seaside. Everything<br />
about that sounded good except the<br />
6am part of it, but I decided to bite the bullet<br />
& set the (most hated word in my dictionary)<br />
alarm. And ever since then there<br />
has been no looking back.<br />
NRC, which stands for the ‘Nike Run<br />
Club’ has a presence in various cities across<br />
the globe; they organize weekly running<br />
sessions to inspire runners, from a beginner<br />
to a marathoner; to run their first, most<br />
fun, fastest & fittest mile with the support<br />
of Nike appointed coaches, trainers & pacers<br />
who accompany you on the run.<br />
In Mumbai NRC takes place twice a<br />
week at 6.22am (I suggest you get there by<br />
6.05am as I’ve noticed they like to sometimes<br />
get a jump start on the session). On<br />
Wednesdays you can find them at Carter<br />
Road where they assemble for a warm up<br />
at the Amphitheatre opp. Café Coffee Day<br />
amidst all their branding paraphernalia,<br />
which I’ll admit adds to the professionalism<br />
of the sport & on Saturdays at Mumbai<br />
University Grounds on Marine Drive.<br />
The best part about it is that anyone can<br />
do it & be great at it, you don’t need to be an<br />
athlete, it doesn’t matter that you didn’t<br />
play any sports in school or college. All you<br />
need to do is put on a pair of shoes & let<br />
that brisk walk gradually turn into a slow<br />
jog & before you know it you’ll be running.<br />
The NRC Mumbai conducts various<br />
types of sessions which cater to all kinds of<br />
runners such as the ‘Ready Set Go Run’ for<br />
first timers, core sessions such as the<br />
‘Speed Run’ & ‘Long Run’ for a more advanced<br />
run & even training sessions such<br />
as NTC (Nike Training Club) & HIIT & Run<br />
(high intensity interval training) to train<br />
your body for the run.<br />
NRC trains everyday athletes to take to<br />
their sport seriously & helps them realize<br />
their true potential while providing participants<br />
with overall conditioning, several<br />
training tips, expert advice, inspiring experiences<br />
& Nike product trialing that would<br />
help them achieve their personal best.<br />
NRC Mumbai is led by renowned track<br />
& field Coach Daniel Vaz, a veteran of 29<br />
full marathons, who has been with NRC<br />
since its inception. Dan is accompanied by<br />
an able group of young pacers who cater to<br />
different levels of running & paces, which<br />
ensures that every type of runner is looked<br />
out for during the run. You will find this<br />
bunch of Nike pacers to be a fun-loving<br />
group & you don’t need to take my word for<br />
it just check their Instagram accounts.<br />
They have proved to be the best company<br />
for an early morning run be it rain or sunshine<br />
through various humidity levels,<br />
constantly smiling & cheering you on while<br />
feeding you with fitness tips along the way.<br />
If you would like to come run with us<br />
all you need to do is register online at<br />
www.nike.com/Mumbai (at no cost) to attend<br />
sessions and get further information<br />
on the upcoming runs and their locations.<br />
So come on, just do it!<br />
Francesca Mascarenhas is a travel enthusiast<br />
and a freelance writer. Her love for adventure<br />
& eclectic view on life encourages<br />
her to explore the world collecting countless<br />
stories to tell and memories to frame.<br />
For a little insight into her world log on to<br />
thechicaway.com<br />
RENTING A SHOP IN BANDRA<br />
IS NOT ENOUGH TO GET YOU BUSINESS<br />
Started a business & rented a shop in Bandra & Khar? Confused why there are no walk ins? Before you decide to shut shop, think again!<br />
Do people know about your shop? That’s because you haven’t promoted your brand with us. With a belief in quality over quantity,<br />
Bandra Buzz doesn’t only confirm clientele, but also renewals and repeated walk ins. If you don’t show it, they won’t know it! You took<br />
the risk of starting out, now get the expertise to make it work, with us!<br />
For advertising information call: 9820783686 / 9920299787<br />
BandraBuzz<br />
RADDICONNECT:<br />
BUILDING AN INDUSTRY
08 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ NEWS<br />
Tattoos - A form of expression or aggression?<br />
In the past, only sailors used to get tattoos all<br />
over their body but today, body art has become<br />
a popular form of self expression not<br />
just restricted to sailors. On one hand some<br />
may perceive people with tattoos to be aggressive,<br />
immature & rebellious while on the<br />
other it is considered as a popular form of art<br />
that expresses ones individuality & uniqueness.<br />
It is almost impossible to understand<br />
why do people choose to go through the<br />
pain to get inked without actually talking to<br />
an accomplished tattoo artist who has inked<br />
clients right from the age as young as 10 to<br />
72 year olds. After all, why would someone<br />
endure the feeling of a cat continuously<br />
scratching them or a feeling of being repeatedly<br />
being poked/stabbed by a needle right?<br />
I recently interviewed Jeffry D'souza, an<br />
experienced tattoo artist located in Santacruz<br />
East. Tattooing has always fascinated<br />
Jeffrey. Whenever he would look at someone<br />
with a tattoo, he used to wonder how a<br />
tattoo can remain permanent as in life there<br />
is nothing permanent as such. It got him curious<br />
& that’s how he fell in love with tattoos.<br />
All of us used to make tattoos on our<br />
hands back in school days with markers &<br />
sketch pens, Jeffrey was no different. However,<br />
what makes him really different from<br />
you & I is the fact that he actually went<br />
ahead to make a career out of his passion to<br />
make tattoos.<br />
When this young tattoo artist showed<br />
me his several master pieces, I was left<br />
dumbstruck like a gapping frog. However I<br />
decided to write on 'The Timeless Watch' as<br />
it caught my fascination. This client travelled<br />
all the way from Kolkata with his story to get<br />
inked by Jeffry. There are no digits or numbers<br />
in the clock as this client doesn't believe<br />
Jeffry D'souza inking at his tattoo parlour<br />
in the concept of time. You are never too old<br />
or too young to try something new. The<br />
roman number connotes the client & his better<br />
half's anniversary date. Having been born<br />
at 4am, the arms of the clock are frozen at<br />
that time moreover his client had been<br />
brought up in a Christian area, thus a cross<br />
has been drawn. The cross symbolises the<br />
impact the Christian traditions & religious<br />
customs that left on him as a kid.<br />
When I asked him about the connection between<br />
aggression & tattoos he said that the<br />
links between tattoos & aggression ‘are<br />
slowly being eroded’.<br />
'Tattoos are not being used in the same<br />
way, they don’t symbolise aggression, you<br />
can’t go with that assumption any more.<br />
People are attempting to emphasise their<br />
uniqueness as an individual. Tattoos have<br />
become an accessory.<br />
Jeffry also strongly believes that it isn't<br />
necessary to get inked just because your<br />
friend has got a tattoo. According to him, one<br />
should get inked to express themselves or<br />
get tattoo with a memory which they would<br />
cherish throughout their life.<br />
Jeffry also advises Bandra Buzz readers<br />
to do a lot of research about the tattoo artist,<br />
his work & experience before going in to<br />
make a tattoo. He also warns readers to beware<br />
of artist who plagiarise other artist’s<br />
work & cheat people. He tells the readers to<br />
avoid inking names of their lovers because<br />
in future it can put them in a terrible situation<br />
after they decide to end their relationship.<br />
He also says that one must always go<br />
for good quality tattoos, even if it is on a<br />
slightly expensive side because it will remain<br />
with you for the rest of your life.<br />
Sidhhant Kapai
NEWS<br />
BANDRA BUZZ<br />
AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 09<br />
Pokémon Go<br />
storms Bandra<br />
It’s just been two weeks since Pokémon Go<br />
released in 30 countries across the globe<br />
and it’s already taking the world by storm.<br />
However, it hasn’t been released in India<br />
yet. But that hasn’t stopped Android users<br />
from all over the country from downloading<br />
the APK and iPhone users’ from faking<br />
their location to acquire the game.<br />
So what the hell is Pokémon Go? It’s a<br />
virtual game that you play in the real world.<br />
But you have to get off the couch if you<br />
want play this game. Our world has begun<br />
to experience a phenomenon where augmented<br />
reality games encourage players to<br />
travel throughout the real world & enable<br />
them to interact with digital characters and<br />
objects programmed to appear as if they<br />
exist at a specific point in physical space.<br />
The gaming format of this game is what<br />
makes it so special. One usually steps out<br />
of their house with a destination in mind,<br />
but what Pokémon Go offers is different.<br />
It’s a Poké centric journey that makes you<br />
visit new places. The end goal, far easier<br />
said than done, is to catch 151 Pokémon.<br />
According to Keenan Burroughs, a resident<br />
of St. Peter’s Colony, who found most<br />
of his Pokémon outside Jogger’s park,<br />
“Pokémon Go is a huge phenomenon. It’s<br />
the biggest scene right now and everyone<br />
wants to be a part of it. The biggest Poke<br />
Stop in Bandra is outside Jogger’s park.<br />
Every time you activate a lure module,<br />
hordes of people are attracted to it. When I<br />
activated mine near Manuel Gonsalves<br />
road, cars stopped by and fellow players got<br />
off their cars in search of more Pokémon<br />
and we began socialising. In fact, all my<br />
friends got together and organised a Pokémon<br />
walk in Bandra for our group.”<br />
For Keenan & other players, walking<br />
around Bandra in search of Pokémon has<br />
become a daily routine. Off lately, if you<br />
visit Bandstand or Carter road promenade,<br />
you’ll see groups of energetic youngsters<br />
with their faces glued to the phone walking<br />
around aimlessly. It may seem absurd at<br />
first but you’ll get used to it.<br />
Players on their toes to capture their next Pokémon<br />
Another Bandraite hooked to the game is<br />
Rebello road resident Warren D’mello who<br />
said, “It’s a new form of socialisation, you<br />
make new friends. I made a couple of<br />
friends while in search of Pokémon at Supari<br />
Talao. Each time you find a new Pokémon<br />
you scream and the rest follow.”<br />
Just out of curiosity the other day, I<br />
stood outside McDonald’s where a Pokémon<br />
trainer had set up a lure module. And<br />
I must say I was pretty dazzled. Within no<br />
time there were approximately 20 people<br />
gathered there despite heavy rains.<br />
If you thought Candy Crush was bad,<br />
Pokémon Go takes things to an entirely<br />
new level. In a few years or maybe a few<br />
months, we’ll see psychologists examine &<br />
study the unprecedented level of gaming<br />
addiction in Pokémon players.<br />
One positive note though is that the<br />
game is hoping to become an exercise app<br />
that has a lot of people walking around.<br />
Though out of compulsion, but at least you<br />
find the internet generation on their toes.<br />
However, it also raises safety issues.<br />
When a rare Pokémon was spotted at Central<br />
Park in New York, it created a rampage.<br />
Fortunately we haven’t witnessed such a<br />
sight in our suburb yet, but only time will<br />
tell. So basically, people are running around<br />
Bandra, with their smart phones out, trying<br />
to capture virtual pets. Not exactly my cup<br />
of tea, but whatever floats your boat.<br />
Sue-Ellen Fernandes
10 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ NEWS<br />
Every Bride's<br />
Cinderella Fantasy<br />
What’s the big deal<br />
about Breakfast?<br />
Isn't it every girl's dream to see themselves<br />
draped in that perfect wedding gown seeming<br />
classically elegant. Whether it's the look<br />
or the feel of it, choosing a wedding dress is<br />
much more than simply falling in love with<br />
your gown it sets the tone for the day you<br />
say the words 'I do.'<br />
But if you thought shopping for a wedding<br />
dress was as effortless as falling head<br />
over heels for your man, the exotic world of<br />
wedding dress shopping can be er..confusing,<br />
although fascinating & much fun. Enter<br />
aliishadliima a bridal attire & occasio wear<br />
specialist who's given many a bride a magical<br />
wedding experience.<br />
Working her way here over the past five<br />
years, Alisha has handled the most intricately<br />
designed dresses you could dream of;<br />
be it sentimentally romantic, minimalistic,<br />
excitingly dramatic or plain decadent, she<br />
has seen it all. From wedding gowns to the<br />
traditional lehengas to the entire bridal entourage,<br />
the aliishadliima brand is focused<br />
on helping brides to be gracefully put together<br />
ensembles for the entire bridal entourage<br />
& make their wedding dream<br />
something truly magical.<br />
The latest trends in bridal gowns call for<br />
layering & adding novel dimensions to<br />
them. From experimenting with three dimensional<br />
embellishment on sheer shirts &<br />
illusion bodices, to detachable overskirts to<br />
reveal the more party friendly gown beneath,<br />
more women are setting the trends<br />
with their bold yet elegant styles. The trend<br />
seems to be moving towards more traditional<br />
silhouettes, especially considering<br />
the comeback of the long lace sleeves with<br />
added sparkly sequins, intricate beading &<br />
embroidery adding to the visual interest. "At<br />
the same time, brides want to show off their<br />
bodies, so they opt for the low back or illusion<br />
back necklines which adds a perfect<br />
modern twist to the modest front. The<br />
princess overlay too is a silhouette that is<br />
soon gaining popularity. You add an extra<br />
layer of tulle, lace or organza to give the<br />
dress a ball gown feel, but with the slimming<br />
effect of a sheath silhouette underneath<br />
it's the bridal version of having your<br />
cake & eating it too," says this wedding costume<br />
genius.<br />
The brand is soon launching its entire<br />
bridal makeover solution consisting of its<br />
classy hair & make up assistance, bridal bouquet,<br />
flowers, bridal clutches, shoes, jewelry,<br />
hair accessories et al making it the one stop -<br />
shop for all you need to make your dream<br />
wedding the ultimate fairytale wedding.<br />
The most personally rewarding moment<br />
for Alisha was when she did an entire<br />
makeover of a bridal gown right from<br />
scratch with less than a week for the wedding<br />
of a client, who had gotten her gown<br />
done elsewhere initially and wasn't satisfied.<br />
Finally, the end result being the most<br />
gorgeous wedding gown she had ever done.<br />
Trust Alisha D'Lima to take away your<br />
wedding dress dilemma as she tips off to be -<br />
brides, "Try not to get caught up in the trend<br />
of the moment, but instead focus on your<br />
personal style and what flatters you the<br />
most." After all it's the most distinctive bit of<br />
attire you'd ever wear and talk about for the<br />
rest of your life!<br />
Alisha D'Lima<br />
702, Jagdamba Complex,<br />
off Link Road, Malad (W), Mumbai 400064<br />
aliishadliima@gmail.com | +91 9819819027<br />
www.facebook.com/aliishadliima<br />
Valerian D’Costa<br />
Starting your day without breakfast is like<br />
trying to drive your car without fuel. Breakfast<br />
is the most important meal of the day.<br />
The last meal of the day being dinner when<br />
you eat the next morning you are literally<br />
breaking an 8-10 hour fast.<br />
Here are some of the benefits of eating<br />
breakfast everyday:<br />
Breakfast keeps you alert: The human<br />
brain needs glucose as a direct source of energy<br />
to perform its functions. Even while<br />
you are asleep at night your body performs<br />
various functions which take up energy that<br />
is stored in the body, so when you have a<br />
good breakfast in the morning it helps you<br />
refuel & provides the much needed energy<br />
to the brain keeping you alert through the<br />
day & helping you improve your concentration.<br />
Breakfast helps you lose weight: Eating<br />
breakfast boosts your metabolic rate enabling<br />
your body to burn more calories even<br />
at rest. What’s more it helps you eat lesser<br />
servings at the next meal. Most people who<br />
avoid breakfast overeat at lunch & also tend<br />
to feel more hungry later in the evenings<br />
both of which in the long run cause you to<br />
gain weight.<br />
Breakfast helps you control your appetite:<br />
Eating a healthy breakfast helps to regulate<br />
your blood glucose levels, as a result of<br />
which you will not experience “energy<br />
lows” all of a sudden during the day which<br />
will make you reach out for a quick energy<br />
supply in the form of high calorie food like<br />
a chocolate bar.<br />
Breakfast prevents heartburn: Several people<br />
complain of acidity on waking up &<br />
these are the people who usually skip breakfast.<br />
Keeping your stomach empty for several<br />
hours & then eating a heavy meal at<br />
lunch all of a sudden can cause severe acidity,<br />
which can be minimized & completely<br />
controlled over a period of time by making<br />
sure you eat breakfast.<br />
Breakfast helps you meet your nutrient requirements:<br />
A healthy choice of fruits, milk<br />
& cereal can help you meet at least part of<br />
your days requirement for fibre, minerals &<br />
some protein. Most of us end up eating fruit<br />
& or milk only at this time of the day so skipping<br />
breakfast would mean skipping vital<br />
nutrients from the diet.<br />
So what is an ideal breakfast?<br />
A nutritionally balanced breakfast is one<br />
that contains food from at least 3 different<br />
food groups. An energy source from the cereal<br />
group, a protein food from pulses or a<br />
lean meat or milk or eggs and a fibre source<br />
from a fruit or a vegetable.<br />
Eating your breakfast within 1.5 hours of<br />
waking up is ideal. This helps to boost energy<br />
levels and also helps the breakfast to<br />
provide the nutrients needed by your body<br />
first thing in the morning!<br />
Samreedhi Goel<br />
Nutritionist &<br />
Fitness Expert<br />
She runs her exercise<br />
studio Size wise in<br />
Mumbai since 1999 &<br />
has helped thousands of<br />
people get in shape. She<br />
prescribes a Zig Zag diet,<br />
the basis of which is<br />
carb cycling which is a diet plan that has a<br />
mix of high carb & low carb days. She is the<br />
official nutritionist for Kellogg’s India.
NEWS<br />
BANDRA BUZZ<br />
AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 11<br />
Have you heard of a lounge bar dedicated to<br />
serving ladies only? A place where you could<br />
go to confide your deepest secrets and get<br />
the best over-the-counter advice, without<br />
having to consume all those unnecessary<br />
calories that you will regret with certainty<br />
the next morning and never having to worry<br />
about the walk of shame but rather you walk<br />
out glowing, literally. I always wondered<br />
what that might be like, until I was told a<br />
story. ‘A skin story.’ By a very charming<br />
young storyteller who has brought this new<br />
concept lounge bar to our very doorstep<br />
right here in Bandra.<br />
Nikeeta Vishak had a fabulous idea, to give<br />
women the kind of lounge bar that they had<br />
been longing for, whilst some didn’t even<br />
know that was what they needed. Her facial<br />
lounge or facial bar, a one-of-a-kind concept,<br />
first in Mumbai, is called ‘Skin Story’ and<br />
specializes in artisan facials that are designed<br />
and individually customized for<br />
women, whether they have troubled skin,<br />
sensitive or seasonally affected skin or even<br />
if they have flawless complexions and<br />
would like to ensure it remains that way.<br />
Nikeeta, holds a degree and diploma in<br />
esthetics CIDESCO/CIBTAC from New York<br />
& Mumbai, she believes that women spend<br />
far more attention on their hair while sidelining<br />
what should be of utmost importance,<br />
our faces. Every one of us who has had a zit<br />
or a pimple growing up or even in our adulthood<br />
know how disheartening it is as we<br />
make a beeline to a dermatologist or to find<br />
the right concealer to hide this harsh reality.<br />
At Skin Story, you will not only be guaranteed<br />
a facial treatment customized for<br />
your skin type but also a royal experience<br />
that will ensure you never want to take off<br />
that crown. (Now that’s something that will<br />
Lounge Bar - Women only!<br />
surely make the men jealous.) With exquisitely<br />
designed & well-maintained interiors,<br />
they are easily located at the junction of Pali<br />
market and Ambedkar road, which is often<br />
referred to as ‘Pali Naka’ though finding<br />
parking around here may prove to be quite<br />
daunting.<br />
The products used by Skin Story are<br />
from the popular French Luxury brand -<br />
Thalgo, which are completely marine based<br />
products. I’m sure you’ve read the research<br />
by now & are quite aware that ocean plants<br />
have anti-ageing and other nutritional benefits<br />
and the varied importance of marine<br />
based skin care products. The Thalgo range<br />
of products are available at many spas in and<br />
around the city but it’s likely to cost you an<br />
arm and a leg. Whereas this esthetician has<br />
decided to keep it affordable, as it shouldn’t<br />
be treated as a once-in-a-blue-moon experience,<br />
she believes that our faces require constant<br />
care coupled with the correct skin care<br />
regimes, which she is quick to tailor make for<br />
you. Moreover the treatments here are 100<br />
percent hygienic, with everything that is<br />
used being either sterilized or disposable assuring<br />
that you’re in the hands of skilled<br />
therapists while your eyes are closed.<br />
I confess to being one of those women<br />
who prefers to let her dermatologist pinch<br />
and poke her face, as I believed that they<br />
know best. However, a little TLC, a light<br />
spray and a gentle scrub that give you the<br />
benefits of the sea may have just transformed<br />
me. And since it’s easy on the pocket<br />
(treatments start from 1300 INR), which is almost<br />
hard to believe, you can easilyaccommodate<br />
these affordable luxurious rituals<br />
into your regular skin and beauty regime.<br />
Quick tip: These treatments also make for<br />
great gifts!<br />
Francesca Mascarenhas<br />
Energize your Friendships<br />
with Feng Shui Entrepreneur Maria Hussain<br />
This year Friendship<br />
Day falls on<br />
the 7th <strong>Aug</strong>ust. I<br />
feel the desire to<br />
write about<br />
friends because I<br />
am truly blessed<br />
with the dearest<br />
ones. I’ve also<br />
made a sincere effort to weed out the depleting<br />
people in my life. A truly painful<br />
but necessary exercise for each one of us to<br />
consider at some point of time in our lives.<br />
Just like objects in your environment,<br />
your friends either nourish or deplete you.<br />
Your uplifting friends have a positive impact<br />
on you - they elevate your spirits, contribute<br />
to your wellbeing, success and<br />
happiness. They motivate and believe in<br />
you. You feel energized, happy and confident<br />
after spending time with them. You<br />
can easily share your dreams and goals and<br />
they say, "Go for it!”. They are your rejuvenation<br />
vitamin pill and bring out the best<br />
in you.<br />
Unfortunately, your negative, depleting,<br />
energy-draining friends do not. They<br />
constantly complain and do not ask you<br />
about yourself. If you share your ideas with<br />
them, they maybe be quietly jealous of<br />
your positive energy and enthusiasm. They<br />
may send out energy daggers causing you<br />
self-doubt, exhaustion or depression.<br />
Do you stay with such friends out of guilt?<br />
Why do you tolerate their antics? It's up to<br />
you to create a group of healthy friends<br />
around you. Energy is contagious. The happier<br />
and more positive your friends, the<br />
more their energy will rub off on you.<br />
If you find that you are continually depleted,<br />
you may have to consider releasing<br />
these people from your daily life. Apply the<br />
concept of spring-cleaning to the people<br />
and situations that do not encourage you<br />
to live with enthusiasm. It is very essential<br />
that you must "cut the cord" from these<br />
"energy suckers" because they will suck the<br />
life out of you, even before you realize it.<br />
Do you wish<br />
• To strengthen or improve relations with<br />
existing friends<br />
• To focus on meeting & makin new friends<br />
• To revive those friendships that have<br />
gone stale<br />
Then you need to uplift and energize the<br />
following Bagua areas:<br />
The North West - Helpful Friends and<br />
Blessings Area<br />
The Centre - Health and Unity<br />
South West - Love and Relationships<br />
South - Fame and Reputation<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
Let me show you how you Feng Shui can<br />
help you to create a best friend out of your<br />
home.<br />
Call for an appointment +919967678652 or<br />
email us at bhcfengshui@gmail.com. For<br />
more info visit www.bhcfengshui.com<br />
Here’s your chance to indulge in the<br />
most authentic Italian and American<br />
cuisines in town! Located in the vicinities<br />
of Bandra, Burrito Factory is a one<br />
stop destination for all much more. Now<br />
order online www.burritofactory.in &<br />
grab different offers. Ordering only<br />
through Burrito Factory website.<br />
CALL:<br />
022-26418141<br />
7045532535<br />
RENTING A SHOP IN BANDRA<br />
IS NOT ENOUGH TO GET YOU BUSINESS<br />
ADVERTISE IT IN BANDRA BUZZ<br />
CALL 9820783686 / 9920299787
12 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ CLASSIFIEDS<br />
ALTERNATIVE HEALING THERAPY<br />
FREE FIRST TRIAL SESSION. For restore, rejuvenate<br />
and revive your any health problems with Alternative<br />
Healing Therapy without medicine. Stress, insomnia,<br />
weight control, negative thinking, anxiety, sinus,<br />
headache, laziness, backache, vertigo, slip disc, sprain,<br />
tonsils, infertility, stiff neck, frozen shoulder, poor<br />
memory, knee/joint pain, detoxification body,<br />
acidity/gas, menstrual disorder. At SMC Medical Centre<br />
behind KFC. Contact 9833624025 /8652244353<br />
ARTIFICIAL FLOWERS<br />
Theresa's Artificial Flowers, Absorbant Towels and Assorted<br />
Bags - available near Mount Marys Steps (everyday<br />
except Wednesday) & on Wednesdays at Mahim<br />
Church. Contact Theresa: 9820386916, Prakash:<br />
9920300021<br />
Ad Agent for The Examiner & all leading newspapers.<br />
East Indian Bottle Masala @ 900/- per kilo. Buses to<br />
Tabor on First Fridays. Contact Adlord: 9702085823,<br />
26005536 Helen: 88798 75918 Arun: 94200 85849<br />
BABY SITTING<br />
Are you and your husband off to work with no one trust<br />
worthy to look after your newborn baby. Call us on<br />
9819427965 for baby sitting in Bandra & Khar<br />
BAKING & COOKING CLASSES<br />
Learn cakes, designer cakes, cupcakes, desserts, cake<br />
pops, sugarcraft, christmas sweets, easter eggs, chocolate<br />
making & different cuisines like mughlai, chinese,<br />
italian, mexican, ramzan special, biryani's, sandwiches,<br />
salads, lebanese, starters, pizzas, breeads & lots more.<br />
Call 9821310728 / 26422689 Facebook page: Chocolate<br />
Mania 9821310728<br />
BEAUTY CARE<br />
Attraction Beauty Personalized Home Services Hair -<br />
Step Haircuts, Hair Color Beauty Treatments - Eyebrows,<br />
Bleach, Facial, Waxing, Manicure and pedicure<br />
call for prior appointments - (Ladies only) Bandra (W)<br />
Natasha - 8879296806 natral2408@gmail.com<br />
CREATE A NEW YOU - Hair & Skin Treatment : Hair<br />
Styling, Ironing, Colouring, etc. All Types of Facials,<br />
Waxing (Egyptian, Herbal, Chocolate), Manicure, Pedicure,<br />
Threading, Body Polishing / Bleach, Nail Art / Extension,<br />
Bridal Package. Call Rekha’s Salon & Hair Spa:<br />
9833562171<br />
CARS RENTALS<br />
We offer 8 seater Innova cars with triple AC for local and<br />
outstation for hire at minimum market rates. Contact<br />
Karamath 9820359884 e: keithssquare@yahoo.com<br />
COURIER SERVICES<br />
MUMBAI EXPRESS - We deliver your feelings for personalised<br />
deliveries of your cakes, chocolates, flowers,<br />
bouquets, personalised gifts, fragile gifts, etc. anywhere<br />
in Mumbai. Call 65502345 / 7208002345<br />
DANCE - JIVE/ ROCK & ROLL<br />
Learn social dancing in 8 easy & fun sessions. Timings:<br />
Mon & Wed 7-8 pm (Jive/Waltz/Foxtrot) & 8-9 pm<br />
(Salsa/Chacha). Venue: St. Peters KG School, Bhaba<br />
Nagar, Off Hill Road, Bandra (W). Cost: 1800 per head<br />
for 8 hours. Contact Marlon 9820344010.<br />
EAST INDIAN ITEMS<br />
For all your requirements of East Indian Lugras and<br />
other accessories, please contact: GAOTHAN KALA,<br />
Mumbai Gaothan Panchayat Office, 3A Benny Jacinto<br />
House, Kolovery Village, Near CHRIS Chinese Corner,<br />
Next to St. Roque's Grotto, Santacruz (East), Mumbai-<br />
400094 or call: 7045022631<br />
FOR LIMITED PERIOD<br />
14% dividend paying Malaika Credit Society (managed<br />
by Catholics since last 15 years) is offering 11% interest<br />
on Fixed Deposits to general public and half percent<br />
more to senior citizens. Interest is paid every month<br />
without deduction of TDS. For more details call Moses<br />
Cardoz on 8976537375.<br />
FRENCH TUITIONS<br />
Students who have not studied French in school &<br />
wish to take it in college may contact Ms. E. DeSouza<br />
(26557915, 8879209904) For individual tuitions. Get a<br />
headstart by studying French before college opens.<br />
INCOME TAX CONSULTANT<br />
Income tax Consultant available for e-filing of income<br />
tax returns and also attending to notices issued to individuals<br />
by the income tax department. Total cost ITR 1<br />
Rs 2,000, ITR 2 Rs 3,000. (Home Service) Mobile<br />
09323244906 or e-mail: lionsunilkhosla@gmail.com<br />
30th Road, Bandra West.<br />
INVESTMENTS<br />
For all your Investment/Insurance needs: Life, General,<br />
Mutual Funds, FDs, Retirement Planning, Mediclaim &<br />
Overseas Travel Insurance, Personalised Portfolio Management<br />
Investment Advisory (1 Cr has grown to 20 Cr<br />
in 13 years) - Contact Prudentz Investments - 'Your One-<br />
Stop Financial Shop'. Call Merwyn D'Souza (a resident<br />
of Bandra) on 9821484282 or e-mail<br />
merwyndsouza@rediffmail.com<br />
LOST PHYSICAL SHARES/DIVIDENDS<br />
Get doorstep personal service for your lost physical<br />
shares/dividends. Duplicate procedure & FIR & notary<br />
all in-house. We also offer services in insurance of<br />
cars/buildings/mediclaim and other financial consulting<br />
services. Contact 9821172450 or meet at B/34 Elco<br />
Arcade with prior appointment.<br />
MATHS TUITIONS<br />
Do you have a phobia of Maths? Does your mind go<br />
blank when you see a Maths paper? Get all your concepts<br />
cleared & learn the right way to attack problems<br />
at all levels & classes with Ritu Sharma, alumnus of IIT<br />
KANPUR, ex-faculty The Scindia Sschool, Gwalior. Also<br />
over SKYPE. 08056143523.<br />
NEEDLE WORK & CROCHET<br />
LADIES Knitting, Crochet, Embroidery, Dressmaking<br />
courses. Rs 1500 each. Visit www.handson.makes.it.<br />
Call Mrs. D'silva 9820451695. Girls dresses stitched.<br />
Mufflers & baby sets available Rs 320.<br />
PASSPORT CONSULTANT<br />
Passport Consultant available for online filing of passport<br />
in Mumbai and also taking appointment for Lower<br />
Parel/Andheri/Malad office. Total Cost Rs 3,500 (Home<br />
Service). Mobile: 09323244906. 30th Road Bandra<br />
West. email: lionsunilkhosla@gmail.com<br />
REPAIRS & SERVICES<br />
Refrigerators / Air Conditioners / Splits / Frost Free Refrigerators<br />
/ Indian / Imported. Guaranteed Repairs / Installations<br />
/ AMC - FRIZARE, 30th Road, Bansari<br />
Apartments, opp. H2O, Pali Naka, Bandra (W) Mumbai<br />
98201 97439 / 654 4903<br />
24 hrs Home, Sales & Service (Bandra only) Gas Stoves,<br />
Hobs, Table Tops & Chimneys. Contact: Mahendra<br />
Sales Shiv Asthan, Shop no. 7, Plot No. 31, 16th road,<br />
near Shiv Sagar, Bandra (w). Call Amrut 9323431633<br />
SALE<br />
Furniture (tables and chairs), Sofa-cum bed, Fridge (bar<br />
type), Pedestal Fans, Cutlery and Crockery, English Tea<br />
Set, English Dinner Set for 12, Ladies - clothes (new<br />
with labels); handbags; accessories, Mobile phones and<br />
accessories, Miscellaneous household items, Curtains<br />
/ Drapes. 10 x 1 feet semi-furnished room; independent<br />
entrance with bath & toilet accommodation. Available<br />
for male or female. Contact: 993022 3057<br />
SHARES & MUTUAL FUNDS<br />
Transfer, Probate, Letter of Administration, Succession<br />
Certificate, Legal Heir, Will, Demat and Addition / Deletion<br />
of Name. Mobile: 9323244906 (Home Service)<br />
email: lionsunilkhosla@gmail.com (Advocate Co-ordinator<br />
Sunil Khosla, 30th Road, Bandra West<br />
SPANISH CLASSES<br />
Hispanic Horizons is an Institute for teaching Spanish<br />
language. We have weekday and weekend courses suitable<br />
for both college students & working professionals.<br />
We are an accredited examination center to conduct international<br />
Spanish exams like DELE, DIE and specialized<br />
spanish exams for Business, Tourism and<br />
Medicine. We have a placement cell as well through<br />
which we help our students to get Spanish related jobs.<br />
There is no age limit for the Spanish courses; a person<br />
of any age is welcome to do our courses. Hispanic Horizons,<br />
Vas Chambers Building, 1st Floor, Hill Road, Bandra<br />
(West), Mumbai 400 050, Telphone:<br />
+91-22-26409039, Mobile: +91-8082647938, Website:<br />
http://www.hispanic-horizons.org<br />
TUITIONS<br />
Khanna Tutorials Professor Vijaya Khanna's (Head of<br />
Psychology Department) private tuition for L.D. case<br />
and for weak students S.S.C/ICSE/IGCSE/CBSE/NIOS<br />
boards at Bandra opp. Lilavati ground Call 9820559502<br />
Professional Coaching tuitions in Maths and Science<br />
for VII, VIII, IX, X (S.S.C. and I.C.S.E.) Cavin Almeida on<br />
9324259375 / 9769206294 / 7666738135<br />
Save time & energy on travelling with 100% Success<br />
Tuitions. Group/Individual tuitions for Sanskrit, Hindi,<br />
Marathi, English & French for ICSE, CBSE, IGCSE, IB &<br />
SSC at your place (Bandra, Khar & Santacruz). Crash<br />
course for boarding students and creative writing in<br />
Hindi and English. 40 years of teaching experience &<br />
M.A. in Hindi & Sanskrit. Contact Usha on 9892063221<br />
YOGA CLASSES<br />
Combo package of Yoga, Power Yoga, Aerobics, Zumba,<br />
Kickboxing, Weight training, legs & abs shaping & toning.<br />
(All in one session). Loose weight & inches faster.<br />
Guaranteed 100% results. (Group Classes & Personal<br />
Training). Call Raajaani on 93224 36447 / 92205 71395
EDITORIAL<br />
BANDRA BUZZ<br />
AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 13<br />
Letters to the Editor<br />
Winds of Change<br />
DEVELOPMENT PLAN<br />
BMC Development Plan 2034 is not structured<br />
to meet urgent needs. Priority given<br />
to Salt Pans, National Park and Coastal<br />
Road. Makes no sense to ordinary people<br />
struggling with congestion, hopeless living<br />
conditions and noise pollution.<br />
Slum clearance other than Dharavi is<br />
totally ignored. Why? Because Project<br />
Dharavi is funded by World Bank. So do<br />
people living in other slums have to wait<br />
for next 30 yrs? Absolutely ridiculous idea.<br />
CRZ regulation is often used as excuse<br />
to reject redevelopment. BMC prefers skyscrapers.<br />
Redevelopment of Goathan has<br />
been non-starter from begining. Another<br />
excuse for no redevelopment because<br />
posh people don't live in Goathan. Religious<br />
places marked heritage sites are<br />
blank. Any motive for omission? Or simply<br />
ignorance? No mention of road widening<br />
even when city is clogged at every junction<br />
with honking motorists and bikers.<br />
Coastal Road is no solution for traffic congestion.<br />
CM Fadnavis should seek approval of<br />
PM Modi before finalization of draft plan.<br />
Let's all hit the Bulls Eye.<br />
Amar Singh<br />
VANDRE MUSEUM<br />
I am shocked to know that MLA / MC<br />
funds are being used for asphalting /<br />
paving the internal roads / pathways of religious<br />
institutions. These funds should be<br />
used for public places and not private / religious<br />
institutions.<br />
Does the Municipal Commissioner<br />
know that these funds are being used in<br />
private / religious places?<br />
Christopher Rodrigues<br />
KHAR CHAWL DEMOLITION<br />
Kindly correct the statement made by me,<br />
which was published in Bandra Buzz<br />
dated 14th July, regarding the payments of<br />
lawyers fees.<br />
It should read as ‘All lawyers fees were<br />
paid by the society only - and not by<br />
Darissa Builders. The society has been reimbursed<br />
these amounts by the Developer<br />
- Darissa Builders.’ Please excuse my<br />
error.<br />
Thomas D’Silva<br />
Email your letters to<br />
news.bandrabuzz@gmail.com<br />
Dear Reader,<br />
It is already <strong>Aug</strong>ust and some of our lakes<br />
are full – thanks to downpours in the<br />
catchment areas. Closer home, gusty<br />
winds and stormy weather with lashing<br />
rain are all part of the scenes at the Bandra<br />
Reclamation, Bandstand & Carter Promenades<br />
– and the inner roads of our suburbs.<br />
Mercifully, there are intervals of dry spells.<br />
Uneven road surfaces are much more<br />
prominent now – even as pedestrians play<br />
‘hopscotch’ to avoid the puddles & pools;<br />
with fallen trees or branches which add to<br />
the hurdle race.<br />
Yet, we take all this in our stride.<br />
Bandra and her surrounding suburbs<br />
are very good at adapting. Even as we<br />
adapt to changing environment, with<br />
every different season; we are superb at<br />
adapting to other changes. The DP 2034 is<br />
all set to be finalised. In spite of thousands<br />
of protests regarding several issues, the<br />
authorities seem to be in a mighty hurry<br />
to get it passed and implemented. With<br />
major projects incorporated in the DP – the<br />
next twenty years is slated to see a lot of<br />
change. Change can be good or bad. The<br />
point here is that will this change be good<br />
– after spending tons of tax-payer’s<br />
money? So, citizens of our city will be witnessing<br />
the winds of change – something<br />
that may be irreversible, if wrong decisions<br />
are taken now. Our hope is that those<br />
in power, avoid any hidden agendas – and<br />
think only of the common good.<br />
This local newspaper that you are<br />
reading now – is your platform to express<br />
your views on topics you feel strongly<br />
about. Do use Bandra Buzz to disseminate<br />
newsworthy information to your neighbourhood<br />
– who are our well wishers &<br />
readers. We are evolving into a force to<br />
reckon with – and with your valuable inputs,<br />
Bandra, Khar & Santacruz will surely<br />
be a better place. Let’s be the Winds of<br />
Change.<br />
Till next time, take care.<br />
Regards,<br />
Merck N. D’Silva<br />
Editor-in-Chief<br />
WE-FIX<br />
COMPUTER<br />
SERVICES<br />
• Fix Slow or Hanging Computers<br />
• Windows OS Re-installation<br />
• Virus and Spyware Removal<br />
• Hard Disk Data Recovery<br />
• Home and Office Networking<br />
Please Call or WhatsApp:<br />
Dennis Mendonca<br />
77386 47535 / 90047 30695<br />
Over 15 years of experience in PC service<br />
DISCLAIMER: The opinions expressed in this paper, are of the authors - and<br />
do not reflect the opinion of the publishers and editors, unless otherwise stated.<br />
Readers should act on the information provided, only after consulting with their<br />
own independent advisors.
14 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ NEWS<br />
Jyoti Dhawale Surve - An Unsung Hero<br />
"I am divorcing<br />
you, I can’t live<br />
with you anymore”,<br />
said my<br />
(ex) husband,<br />
whom I married<br />
in 2004 (when I<br />
was negative and<br />
got the virus<br />
through Medical<br />
Negligence), who<br />
finally divorced me in 2008, and even took<br />
the custody of my only child.<br />
“You are HIV Positive?!”, exclaimed the<br />
HR of the company “But I thought that only<br />
prostitutes and drug users get it.”<br />
“She is HIV positive, don’t even go near<br />
her. If you talk to her or even be friends with<br />
her, the whole society will outcast you. Even<br />
your friends will abandon you…What will<br />
people say? We have a reputation to protect”,<br />
said a mother of my friend when he spoke of<br />
what good work I am doing for the community<br />
and disclosed my status to her.<br />
“What did you say? She is HIV Positive?<br />
Don’t even bring her inside the house. Get<br />
her out from here right now, right this moment”,<br />
said a mother of another friend, and<br />
she dusted the sofa where I once sat, took the<br />
glass of water where I had sipped and threw<br />
it in the dustbin.<br />
“My doctor tells me that saliva transmit<br />
the virus thus no kissing”, said my boyfriend,<br />
“and Jo, he is a well–qualified doctor, who<br />
holds several degrees” ..and the lump<br />
formed on my throat knowing that nothing<br />
I will do or say will convince him that it is<br />
NOT true. But still I educated him that the<br />
virus in saliva is not transmissible and virus<br />
from blood don’t thrive outside the body and<br />
die within few seconds after coming in contact<br />
with air. At least he listened. - Jyoti Surve<br />
In our society, HIV is perceived as a disease<br />
of “others” – of people living on the margins<br />
of society, whose lifestyles are considered<br />
“perverted” and “sinful.” People suffering<br />
from it face denial, stigmatization & discrimination<br />
in every walk of their life. In<br />
order to break this preconceived notion of<br />
HIV being a “disease”, I interviewed Ms.<br />
Jyoti Surve, who is suffering from HIV.<br />
She is not only a member of the Community<br />
Advisory for the Well Project USA.<br />
According to the website of the organisation,<br />
it is “a global hub for resources that<br />
help women & girls overcome the inequalities,<br />
barriers, & stigma that contribute to<br />
the epidemic among women”, but is also<br />
the Indian ambassador at the Stigma Project<br />
- “An organization that aims to lower the<br />
HIV infection rate & neutralize the stigma<br />
associated with HIV/AIDS through education<br />
& awareness via social media. It seeks<br />
to create an HIV neutral world, free of<br />
judgement & fear by working with both<br />
positive & negative individuals from all<br />
walks of life, regardless of their gender, sexual<br />
orientation, race, or background,” as per<br />
the Stigma Project website. In March 2015,<br />
Jyoti who is known mononymously as Jo,<br />
won the prestigious Karamveer Chakra<br />
award in New Delhi. This award is instituted<br />
in the partnership with the UN for<br />
Global empowerment & citizen justice.<br />
Coming from defence background,<br />
Jyoti’s hobbies are vast. From gardening,<br />
painting, stamp/coin collections, arts &<br />
crafts, adventure outings, she has lived it<br />
all. She is passionate about music, dancing<br />
& travelling acts as a great stress-buster.<br />
Jo contracted HIV due to medical negligence<br />
but definitely NOT from blood<br />
transfusion – because as far as she remembers,<br />
she never had a blood transfusion<br />
during any of those forceful attempts for<br />
abortions that I had undergone.<br />
“Forceful” yes, as it wasn’t her idea or<br />
wish to abort. Her ex wasn’t ready to start a<br />
family & every time she get pregnant (she<br />
got pregnant thrice!), she was taken to do<br />
MTP. Before one could think why she hadn’t<br />
tried any contraceptive measures, the<br />
answer is that she did. “Oral pills had adverse<br />
affect on my body & hence I couldn’t<br />
take it. Vaginal contraceptive has its own<br />
time frame (10-15 minutes of waiting period)<br />
& the failure rate is high. Top of all,<br />
when a man is forcing himself upon you<br />
(which I term as “marital rape”) then one is<br />
very helpless in this condition.”<br />
She did not realize it back then but can<br />
clearly assert now that she has been a victim<br />
of marital rape. “Rape is rape, whether<br />
in marriage or outside it. Anything that is<br />
‘forced upon’ the body without consent is<br />
rape. If a man does not like to wear a condom,<br />
then, a woman, even if she happens<br />
to be his wife, has the right to refuse & say<br />
NO. Why have I gone through this thrice &<br />
ended up being HIV positive? Why am I living<br />
with stigma & discrimination – I blame<br />
the govt. first & the society next! The govt<br />
– which does not recognize marital rape as<br />
a crime; & this society – which blames the<br />
woman for everything.” She reiterates.<br />
She was entranced by her ex husbands<br />
gentlemanly behaviour. Things went fine<br />
until she missed her period for the first<br />
time in her life. “When I missed my period,<br />
I remember rushing to the store to buy a<br />
home pregnancy test kit. Oh! The joy of<br />
being a mother; of having a child of my<br />
own!” That joy lasted till she informed her<br />
husband of the news. “He told me to go in<br />
for an abortion,” she recalls.<br />
“I was dealing with the shock of having<br />
learnt that I was HIV positive & postpartum<br />
depression simultaneously. Amidst this<br />
my ex-husband informed me that he had<br />
been having an extramarital affair & would<br />
be leaving me for her. So I needed to become<br />
financially independent, & began<br />
searching for a job. I was not yet ready to<br />
give up on my marriage. But when my<br />
maid informed me that my husband had<br />
been bringing his girlfriend to our home behind<br />
my back, I knew it was over. Whatever<br />
that was written in the divorce agreement<br />
was not mutual. As per the court, it was the<br />
duty of a judge to call the husband & the<br />
wife & hear both sides of the story – which<br />
in my case has never happened. I was<br />
never produced in court, never produced<br />
before any judge. A forceful signature<br />
means nothing.” says Surve as she fumes.<br />
Jo has no regrets about her failed marriage<br />
as she believes life is a learning experience<br />
life being the greatest teacher &<br />
people being an experience. She believes<br />
that whatever she went through only made<br />
her & moulded her into a better person<br />
mentally, emotionally & spiritually.<br />
Jo met her current husband - Vivek<br />
Surve an HIV negative partner, in an online<br />
chatroom. “He was a chat friend. He sent<br />
me a request not once, not twice, but five<br />
or six times. I kept rejecting him until I decided<br />
to scan his profile. What fascinated<br />
me (not 'attracted', she clarifies) were the<br />
biker jacket & Honda Fireblade next to him!<br />
That got me to finally accept his request. At<br />
that time I was working for an IT firm,<br />
doing the graveyard shift. This 'Hi how are<br />
you doing, I am fine, I hope you are fine,<br />
take care, bye' saga continued for 6 months.<br />
Then came a day I could never imagine."<br />
Her father passed away on 28th June,<br />
2011. She wanted to pay her last respects<br />
but her stepmother would not allow her<br />
near him. “He was all I had,” she says.<br />
“Anger & hatred for my stepmother, & grief<br />
over my father’s death was eating me up.<br />
My best friend was in Dubai. However,<br />
Vivek, my new friend, drove down all the<br />
way to be with me, emotionally & physically.”<br />
They planned to meet the next<br />
weekend. "My husband says it was love at<br />
second sight for him," Jyoti says.<br />
“Vivek’s parents were naturally apprehensive<br />
about their son marrying an HIV<br />
positive partner. But when they saw how<br />
happy she made him, their objections<br />
dwindled. Their fears were dictated by ignorance.<br />
Once they came to know that HIV<br />
is nothing more than a illness & that it can<br />
be controlled by medication, they accepted<br />
me whole heartedly.” says Jyoti with a<br />
slight blush on her face.<br />
According to Jo, the biggest misconception<br />
people have about living with HIV &<br />
AIDS is that they think That HIV is a “dangerous”<br />
disease. No it is not. It can be controlled<br />
& managed with proper care &<br />
medication. People also tend to think that<br />
HIV & AIDS are the same which isn’t true.<br />
Though HIV & AIDS are from the same<br />
virus, it is a different medical condition.<br />
HIV is an ILLNESS whereas AIDS is a disease.<br />
Not necessary all people who suffer<br />
from HIV die from AIDS. With better medication<br />
coming into the market, one can<br />
live a happy healthy positive life despite<br />
being HIV Positive. Another misconception<br />
among people is that one cannot marry &<br />
has to abstain from sexual intercourse with<br />
an HIV positive person which isn’t true.<br />
One can live a happy healthy married life &<br />
even plan to have a baby provided that you<br />
follow up on the treatment with strict discipline<br />
& never ever miss the dose (of ART<br />
medication).<br />
“Now when anyone tells me “You are<br />
HIV positive? But I thought that only prostitutes<br />
& drug users get it” I reply back with<br />
a pitiful smile (pitiful yes, because of their<br />
ignorance) “Have you ever tested yourself?<br />
You too may never know. I didn’t know I<br />
was carrying the virus until my blood got<br />
tested when I was undergoing abortion”<br />
And I could hear the gasp, I could see their<br />
stunned face with wide eyes, open mouth<br />
& dropping jaw, & believe me, I absolutely<br />
love the reactions I get!”<br />
As for “She is positive, don’t even go<br />
near her. If you talk to her or even be<br />
friends with her, the whole society will outcast<br />
you. Even your friends will abandon<br />
you…What will people say? We have a reputation<br />
to protect”, I had replied to that<br />
lady straight on her face, “Aunty, there are<br />
thousands of people who admire our<br />
courage to speak up & they are those people<br />
who back us up. Your son is one of them<br />
who had participated in Awareness Program<br />
& who encouraged others to join in.”<br />
And she was glaring at her son as if wanting<br />
to know what I had just said was right & her<br />
son was facing her proudly & boldly saying<br />
“She will always be my friend”.<br />
And oh yes….coming to the point of a<br />
hysterical mother of my friend “What did<br />
you say? She is HIV Positive? Don’t even<br />
bring her inside the house. Get her out<br />
from here right now, right this moment,”,<br />
said a mother of another friend, & she<br />
dusted the sofa where I once sat, took the<br />
glass of water where I had sipped & threw<br />
it in the dustbin. Before leaving the house<br />
I had told her that HIV Virus is not transmittable<br />
by air/water/sharing. I reminded<br />
her that I had come to this house many<br />
times & she had served me many tea/water<br />
in crockery that has also been used &<br />
reused for other guests. She wasn’t aware<br />
of my status then & now that she is, just<br />
throwing off one glass in the dustbin won’t<br />
suffice, she should throw off all the crockery<br />
in the kitchen if & only if she find one<br />
of the guest having contracted the same.<br />
My ex boyfriend is now my husband.<br />
We got married on 2013. He still kisses me,<br />
heck, more than that, the husband-wife do.<br />
Twice a month he tests himself which is always<br />
"negative".<br />
Last but not least, as for the divorce<br />
from my ex husband, I am blessed that it<br />
had happened because now I realized the<br />
“purpose” of my life. This is where I belong<br />
and this is where my heart is: HIV Activism….To<br />
reach out…To give love to many<br />
people who need it and to spread the love<br />
to those seeking it. My suffering is not mine<br />
alone, it is also their suffering as they are<br />
also the part of my journey, walking<br />
through the same winding thorny path,<br />
having many long way to go, many difficulties<br />
and hurdles to cross to finally find the<br />
path laden with bed of roses.<br />
Sidhhant Kapai
NEWS<br />
BANDRA BUZZ<br />
AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 15<br />
Valencia Misquitta Irani inducted<br />
Director of MEICOCAI – Global<br />
Valencia at the investiture ceremony with President Brian Pereira of MEICOCAI<br />
At an investiture ceremony held lately to<br />
induct Valencia Misquitta Irani of Avion<br />
Hotels & Hospitality, Mumbai, Maharashtra<br />
- as a Director on the MEICOCAI Board;<br />
Rtn. Calwyn D'Abreo, Founder & Initiator<br />
of the Chamber of Commerce for the<br />
Mumbai East Indian Community said,<br />
"MEICOCAI’s Mission is to strengthen the<br />
Mumbai East Indian community, by having<br />
their presence in all geographies of the<br />
world in the business of Trade & Industry<br />
- while simultaneously promoting & fostering<br />
bilateral trade, commerce & economic<br />
relations between India &<br />
wherever a Mumbai East Indian is within<br />
the progress & deployment of his / her<br />
business activities."<br />
The MEICOCAI President, Brian G<br />
Pereira informed all present that with Valencia<br />
Misquitta (I), an opportunity to<br />
showcase the value & strength that a business<br />
woman can bring to the table; was<br />
evident in the successful enterprise that<br />
Valencia runs in collaboration with her<br />
family members.Avion Hotels & Hospitality<br />
is a force to reckon with in the Mumbai<br />
network of convenient airport hotels & is<br />
a fully managed three-star hotel owned &<br />
run by East Indians. The other properties<br />
that the ‘Avion Group’ owns are three<br />
other star holiday hotels in Khandala &<br />
Lonavala besides the very famous Samara<br />
Gardens on the outskirts of Mumbai city-<br />
Madh Island.<br />
MEICOCAI thanks Valencia Misquitta<br />
(I) for coming on Board. The Chairman of<br />
MEICOCAI, Neil Creado - who is abroad at<br />
this time, has sent his congratulations to<br />
Valencia and wishes her the best for her<br />
tenure with MEICOCAI.<br />
All Bandra<br />
Parish Zonals<br />
Talent Contest<br />
kicks off on<br />
4th <strong>Aug</strong>ust<br />
It's the busiest time of the year in Bandra as<br />
the All Bandra Parish Zonals Talent Contest<br />
kicks off next Sunday, 14th of <strong>Aug</strong>ust <strong>2016</strong><br />
& once again Bandra will be looking forward<br />
to an exciting month of Music, Dance<br />
and Drama where Bandra's finest talents<br />
will come together to compete and perform<br />
on one stage for the ultimate crown.<br />
This is where you'll get to see and hear<br />
some finger snapping popular tunes been<br />
sung and played, grooving dance moves<br />
and some stellar acting performances. And<br />
of course, not to mention the fooood, the<br />
delicious homemade snacks which gets<br />
served at the zonal practices. So we hope<br />
you have blocked your dates to either take<br />
part or come watch and support your respective<br />
zones because this is going to be<br />
one exciting year of the All Bandra Zonals<br />
Talent Contest you wouldn't want to miss.<br />
Dujon Fernandes