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BandraBuzz<br />

7th <strong>Aug</strong>ust <strong>2016</strong> | Vol. 7 (I) Issue 8 | BandraBuzz.Newspapers | @Bandra_Buzz | BandraBuzzNewspaper | bandrabuzz.com | Price: Rs. 4/-<br />

creating community connect since 2010<br />

Development Plan or Disaster Proposal<br />

Everyone is talking about DP 2014 - 2034 –<br />

the plan that will make (or break?) Mumbai<br />

ready for the next twenty years. But, how<br />

much do we really know about the pros<br />

and cons of this DP? There are several mega<br />

projects built in this plan – involving several<br />

thousands of crores of rupees. What is<br />

decided now, will dramatically affect our<br />

lives and that of future generations. The DP<br />

can do good and bad – big time! Surely,<br />

most of those involved have hidden agendas.<br />

Can we detect them? Are tax-paying<br />

citizens not entitled to know the DP – in all<br />

its entirety, before it is finalised?<br />

To get an insight, Bandra Buzz got some<br />

inputs from heritage architect – David Cardoz,<br />

a social activist (AGNI Trustee) –<br />

Shyama Kulkarni and the Chairman Emeritus<br />

of the Forum of Environmental Journalists<br />

in India (FEJI) – Darryl D’Monte.<br />

We also asked Dy. Mayor of Mumbai, at her<br />

office in the BMC Headquarters, opposite<br />

CST – what she had to say about the DP.<br />

Smt. Alka Kerkar replied,“I’ve called two<br />

BMC officers here to answer DP queries<br />

from citizens. People got to know facts, instead<br />

of being misled – saying that FSI is<br />

more in the city compared to the suburbs.<br />

People residing in buildings going for re-development<br />

need to know the right regulations.<br />

These were clarified. Also, the issue<br />

of open spaces was clarified. I think this is<br />

a good DP – only when it functions will<br />

people be satisfied. We will be introducing<br />

a one-window system. Now, the AMC is<br />

also very citizen-friendly. The DP is for the<br />

people and they will benefit.”<br />

Contd. on Page 04 ><br />

L to R: Public, BMC Officials, Warren Fernandes & Dy. Mayor Alka Kerkar


02 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ IN FOCUS<br />

A Vet for all Pets<br />

Interacting with a veterinarian who does<br />

not love animals is as obscure as discussing<br />

with a pilot about their acrophobia issue,<br />

which is a fear of height! So after accepting<br />

the inevitable, and to a certain degree the<br />

intrinsic aspect of a vet's love for animals,<br />

let's find out what sets Dr. Amrita Deb's<br />

'WildVets' apart.<br />

After globe-crawling along side reptiles,<br />

iguanas and chasing the skies with the likes<br />

of falcons and the spix's macaw (remember<br />

the blue bird from the movie Rio) to name<br />

a few, she has returned home. This<br />

Bandraite holds a Master's Degree in Surgery<br />

from the Bombay Veterinary College,<br />

following which she pursued her Master's<br />

in Avian Health from the UK. Thereafter<br />

she shifted base to Qatar and was closely<br />

associated with the rehabilitation of endangered<br />

wildlife. This job presented her with<br />

the unique opportunity to work with falcons,<br />

leopards, sand cats and monkeys, besides<br />

gaining immense handling and<br />

diagnostic know-how, she also worked<br />

with the core research team and her papers<br />

have been published in more than 35 international<br />

veterinary journals.<br />

On returning home in tow with her<br />

family from Qatar which includes a rescued<br />

racer grey hound named 'Mafimushkil', she<br />

started working on a plan wherein she<br />

could exude all the learning & experience<br />

she had gained along the way. Her observations<br />

resulted in the birth of ‘WildVets’, she<br />

realized that there was no veterinary facility<br />

available locally for exotic pets like<br />

birds, rabbits & turtles, most of the professionals<br />

in the city offer services for conventional<br />

pet animals only. She decided to<br />

formulate a veterinary practice which<br />

cared & treated both domesticated pets as<br />

well as the wilder or rarer buddies. Secondly<br />

not many practices function on an<br />

‘all services under one roof’ format, owing<br />

to which the patient & the companion have<br />

to undergo a lot of unnecessary to and fro.<br />

Her facility addresses all the needs of her<br />

patients under one roof, including veterinary<br />

surgery & diagnostic services, grooming<br />

& a pet store with food & accessories.<br />

She systematically shows us around<br />

the clinic which has four sections, the first<br />

being the surgical section which is also<br />

equipped with a gas anesthesia machine<br />

and a x-ray machine. Dr. Amrita explains<br />

the benefits of administrating anesthesia<br />

through gas “This method is much safer as<br />

we can monitor the levels and reduce or increase<br />

the dosage if needed. The turnaround<br />

period after this procedure is<br />

quicker as well.” The next section is the tub<br />

table, all the pre surgery preparation is<br />

done here so that maximum sanitation is<br />

maintained while the surgery is underway.<br />

This tub table after a thorough wash down<br />

is used to give the pets, medicated or<br />

grooming related baths as well. The next<br />

section is where the monitoring equipment<br />

display the images of the scan, instant<br />

x-ray results expedites the course of<br />

treatment. The final section is the consultation<br />

section. The reception area of the<br />

clinic has many happy looking accessories<br />

and treats for all kinds of pets. The clinic<br />

also stores a range of pet food including<br />

brands which are not readily available for<br />

hamsters, rabbits, birds, dogs, cats and can<br />

source as per the requirement of your pet.<br />

They also arrange for cages and other super<br />

specialized tools for animal care.<br />

The mission of 'WildVets' is to support<br />

people who want to raise their own, if<br />

milder version of the jungle book in the city<br />

without having to worry about the medical<br />

support. Dr. Amrita's acquired experience<br />

and exposure renders her capable of handling<br />

and caring for all kinds of animals.<br />

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So what is RaddiConnect, how did it<br />

business model is embodied by the<br />

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The Bandra based online platform member Raunaq Singh Sahni who is 21 the activity of disposing ones waste by<br />

spearheaded by a team of youngsters, years old, have researched well and resolving the haphazard manner<br />

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retort with statistics about the unruly and to make a social change by supporting<br />

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Contd. on Page 2<br />

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AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 03<br />

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04 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ DEVELOPMENT PLAN<br />

Bandra West Residents Association<br />

The BWRA<br />

wishes to object<br />

very strongly to<br />

the newest alignment<br />

of the<br />

Coastal Road in<br />

Bandra West,<br />

which is shown<br />

in the Draft DP as<br />

having a connector at or around the amphitheatre<br />

on the public promenade on<br />

Carter Road - which the BWRA maintains<br />

on behalf of the BMC.<br />

Due to the overhead connectors, the<br />

amphitheatre can no longer be used for cultural<br />

activities, which are organised twice<br />

or more a month. Besides, during the 10-<br />

day Celebrate Bandra annual festival, this<br />

amphitheatre is used every evening and<br />

occasionally at dawn, which will no longer<br />

be possible due to the construction of a<br />

clover-leaf junction at the site and the din<br />

of traffic overhead and alongside the access<br />

and exit points. Yoga and other exercises<br />

will similarly be disturbed.<br />

The promenade is used by thousands<br />

of people every day and the connector will<br />

interfere with their opportunities for exercise<br />

and healthy living. No assessment has<br />

been done of the increase in air pollutants<br />

from the 200,000 cars that will be plying<br />

along the Coast Road every day, and the<br />

local impact at the connector. Since there<br />

will be no tolls on the Coast Road, the volume<br />

of traffic may increase.<br />

This will also damage, perhaps permanently,<br />

the beach which lies just off the<br />

promenade at this spot and is also a popular<br />

spot for recreation.<br />

This alignment, as others previously,<br />

has not been planned by taking into account<br />

the impact of increased traffic on<br />

Carter Road, as well as connector roads like<br />

Perry / Turner Road and roads leading to<br />

Pali Hill. These will be permanently<br />

clogged with motorists attempting to access<br />

the Coastal Road every morning and<br />

exiting from it every evening.<br />

Since this will be the only connector in<br />

this part of the western suburbs, apart from<br />

the existing one at the Bandra-Worli Sea<br />

Link, motorists from Khar and Santa Cruz<br />

will also be using it, since the next connector<br />

will be in Juhu.<br />

Since no study has been conducted<br />

into the volumes of traffic that are likely to<br />

be generated at Carter Road, we find an infirmity<br />

in the Draft DP and would like this<br />

connector to be removed from the area.<br />

Failure to do this would violate the Constitutional<br />

right to a clean and healthy environment<br />

for this and succeeding<br />

generations. We would like to be given an<br />

opportunity to present our objections in<br />

person before the DP is finalized.<br />

Darryl D'Monte - President,<br />

Bandra West Residents Association<br />

Development Plan Objection


DEVELOPMENT PLAN<br />

BANDRA BUZZ<br />

AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 05<br />

DP 2034: Development Plan or Disaster Proposal<br />

Sometime last<br />

year the BMC released<br />

a DP that<br />

had so many objections<br />

raised<br />

against it, that<br />

the Chief Minister<br />

was forced to<br />

withdraw it. The<br />

BMC has now apparently corrected the<br />

Plan and released a Revised Draft Development<br />

Plan – DP 2034, that will determine &<br />

control any ‘development’ of our city & in<br />

our neighbourhood for the next 20 years.<br />

But a closer look at the “corrected and<br />

revised” plan shows that it is still full of errors,<br />

particularly of plot numbers, that are<br />

crucial to identifying your property in the<br />

DP. Other clues such as iconic buildings /<br />

railway stations / road names & junctions,<br />

that help the common man in locating his<br />

/ her property - are also missing. If you cannot<br />

correctly identify your property how<br />

does the BMC expect us to correctly send<br />

in our suggestions / objections to the Plan?<br />

And there’s more missing!<br />

Road Widening Setbacks which were<br />

one of the most controversial proposals<br />

earlier, have now disappeared. The same<br />

goes for the Heritage Sites. Does this mean<br />

they are Not Applicable? Not at all! Setbacks<br />

in existence before this Plan and Heritage<br />

Lists will still apply, only they are not<br />

indicated in the Plan. And the list goes on…<br />

. Gaothans, Koliwadas and several religious<br />

structures, that have been around for years;<br />

have not been marked, even though the<br />

law requires that all of these be specifically<br />

shown in the Plan.<br />

Are these really ‘errors’ or is there some<br />

method in this madness? Is it possible that<br />

this time around, the BMC is leaving things<br />

out, just so we find it difficult to object -<br />

and the Plan gets somehow ‘pushed’<br />

through?<br />

This does seem to be the case as the<br />

BMC has already filed a Caveat in the High<br />

Court, against any legal challenge to the DP<br />

or the Coastal Road, presuming, obviously,<br />

that there will be serious objections! Now<br />

isn’t that defeating the very purpose of the<br />

procedure of Suggestions / Objections? Are<br />

we not supposed to voice our opinions<br />

about a Plan that will determine what we<br />

do for the next 20 years?<br />

So…what can we do? Well…the same as<br />

last time. Please do raise your voices,<br />

through submitting ‘Objections’ to what is<br />

being done and ‘Suggesting’ ways & means<br />

to improve the situation. You need not be<br />

Don’t Mess with My City<br />

“Most of our objections<br />

have not been looked into. Religious<br />

structures like Mt. Mary,<br />

Siddhivinayak Temple & the<br />

Mahim Darga where lakhs worship<br />

- are not even shown.”<br />

When the Development<br />

Plan<br />

(DP) was released<br />

last year,<br />

M u m b a i k a r s<br />

were enraged.<br />

Thousands of<br />

objections / suggestions<br />

were<br />

submitted to the BMC authorities.<br />

Agitations & public protests<br />

were seen across the city<br />

(mostly led by AGNI) - in<br />

Bandra on Pali Hill & at<br />

Carter Promenade.<br />

There was extensive<br />

media coverage and<br />

our main demand for<br />

“Scrap the DP” was<br />

accepted. Then, a new<br />

DP was announced in<br />

April <strong>2016</strong>.<br />

But is the new one any<br />

different from the previous<br />

one? No!<br />

In fact, in many ways it is worse. Most<br />

of our objections have not been looked<br />

into. Religious structures like Mount Mary,<br />

Siddhivinayak Temple & the Mahim Darga<br />

where lakhs worship - are not even shown.<br />

Extra FSI near Railway stations where<br />

there is no sufficient infrastructure like<br />

water, drainage & roads - are marked.<br />

However, my greatest anger or disappointment<br />

is the way this DP is playing<br />

with the environment. Aarey land which is<br />

a unique forest, will have a Metro shed; by<br />

cutting hundreds of trees, which can never<br />

be transplanted. Low income housing to<br />

be built on salt pan land. A Coastal road<br />

from Nariman Point to Kandivali, Malad.<br />

The original settlers of Mumbai, the Koli<br />

Community & the East Indians; will lose<br />

their livelihood. This coastal road<br />

will kill mangroves, ruin our<br />

promenades, Juhu Beach<br />

(where they are planning<br />

an underground tunnel)<br />

- and another tunnel<br />

under Malabar<br />

Hill, costing over<br />

twelve thousand<br />

crores. Imagine, my<br />

taxes, and the entire<br />

Mumbaikar’s taxes;<br />

being used to cater to<br />

less than 2% of the population<br />

(car owners).<br />

A retired geology professor<br />

from IIT, at a recent press conference; said<br />

that if this is done (the Coastal Road, etc.),<br />

you are messing with the unique environment<br />

of Mumbai. These decisions will lead<br />

to floods in Mumbai - and end in a big<br />

earthquake.<br />

Let’s not mess with nature, just to help<br />

the developer!<br />

Shyama Kulkarni<br />

Proposed Coastal Road in front of Bandra Bandstand Promenade<br />

an expert to demand what is your right!<br />

But we do not have much time. 29th<br />

July <strong>2016</strong> is the last day for submitting the<br />

Suggestions / Objections. You need to write<br />

in to ‘The Municipal Commissioner at the<br />

Office of the Chief Engineer DP, 5th Floor,<br />

When the earlier Draft Development Plan<br />

was released, St. Sebastian Homes was the<br />

first Society in Bandra to hold a public<br />

meeting, jointly with H-West Federation<br />

and Khar Residents Asociation (K.R.A.),<br />

where a panel of prominent speakers -<br />

housing activists, environmentalists, architects,<br />

advocates, developers and social<br />

activists shared their views. The society<br />

further appointed an architect, who<br />

pointed out that the plots were in the<br />

newly designated “Residential/Commercial<br />

Zone” and most of the roads were<br />

shown for road widening. Meetings were<br />

held with the ALMs, Municipal Councillors<br />

and the MLA.<br />

To achieve their goal of ensuring ‘Residential<br />

Zone’, a three-pronged strategy was<br />

used:<br />

1. Voiced their concerns using Media –<br />

Times of India, Radio One and 94.3 FM<br />

2. Submitted 494 individual objections<br />

3. Wrote to MLA, Adv. Ashish Shelar<br />

The Hon. Secretary Warren Fernandes told<br />

us, “When we went to submit the objections,<br />

the BMC refused to acknowledge all<br />

494 objections and was only willing to put<br />

BMC HO Annexe Building, CST, Mumbai -<br />

and let your voice be heard, so we can turn<br />

around this Proposal for Disaster into a true<br />

Plan for Development.<br />

David Cardoz - Architect<br />

St. Sebastian Homes<br />

in the forefront again!<br />

a stamp on the 1st objection letter. We had<br />

to go to the Municipal Commissioner’s Office<br />

and only after a dialogue, they<br />

stamped and acknowledged each of the<br />

494 objections. We believe that through<br />

our united effort, we have achieved the<br />

ZONING – ‘RESIDENTIAL’ for the whole of<br />

Bandra".<br />

Now with the Revised Draft DP, the society<br />

again studied the impact by appointing<br />

an architect. A seminar was held by the<br />

society which was well attended and appreciated<br />

by the society members. Mr.<br />

Hussain Indorewala, Architect of CSA explained<br />

the aspects of new roads, reservations,<br />

designations of plots, FSI, etc. -<br />

which would adversely affect the St. Sebastian<br />

Society. The society is encouraging<br />

its members to submit objections, some of<br />

which are:<br />

1. Omission of road names of Dr. Peter Dias<br />

Road and St. Roque Road not mentioned<br />

in the DP<br />

2. Objection to Mt. Carmel Church as a Religious<br />

Buildings not indicated.<br />

As we go for print, the St. Sebastian Homes<br />

have submitted 306 objections to the revised<br />

DP.<br />

Kailash Parab


06 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ FITNESS<br />

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When was the last time you rode a cycle? If<br />

you can’t remember it then surely it’s been<br />

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a bit. Cycling indeed gives birth to an immense<br />

feeling of nostalgia for we all learn<br />

to cycle as kids. In fact for most of us, ‘Cycling<br />

is the first sport’ we learn after running.<br />

Then, why not cycle again?<br />

You must be wondering where to cycle,<br />

how to cycle, who has a cycle, am I fit to<br />

cycle, do I have the strength to cycle, will I<br />

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what if I fall while cycling? A number of<br />

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and there is really nothing that can stop<br />

you from cycling.<br />

‘Mumbai Riders’ solves all your dilemmas<br />

as they organise cycle rides on the<br />

streets of Mumbai on weekends. It’s now<br />

time for the tourist buses to move over and<br />

make way for the bicycle for a new way of<br />

exploring the city is rapidly gaining popularity.<br />

Mumbai Riders, the brainchild of three<br />

commerce students Rishi Shah, Falak<br />

Parikh and Saurabh Punamiya, has brought<br />

the long lost cycling culture back to Mumbaikars<br />

in a fun filled enthusiastic way.<br />

So, what do Mumbai Riders do? In<br />

short, they give you a cycle, make you ride<br />

a cycle and let you explore the city of Mumbai<br />

mainly during the night. So, when the<br />

fast paced Mumbai is fast asleep, you venture<br />

out with your cycle to experience the<br />

peace, serenity and silence of the ever<br />

noisy and busy metropolitan.<br />

The idea of Mumbai Riders emerged<br />

through an experience that the founder<br />

had last summer when he took a cycle ride<br />

across a French town. He always looked<br />

out for cycling tours in whichever city he<br />

visited and, thus wanted to get that culture<br />

to the city of Mumbai. Started in December<br />

2015, Mumbai Riders have organised<br />

around 17 cycle ride events till date in the<br />

city of Mumbai with people of all age<br />

groups right from 12 to 50 years old attending<br />

the event.<br />

Anybody can cycle. There is no age bar<br />

and no discrimination of any sort. Walking<br />

on the streets of Mumbai in the night might<br />

be risky but cycling with a bunch of people<br />

turns out to be a healthy social networking<br />

event. Not only to you cycle and pump up<br />

your body with some movement but also<br />

you get to meet new people, make friends<br />

and build relations as you share your desire<br />

for cycling and the mesmerising love for<br />

Mumbai city.<br />

The team is fully equipped with a technician<br />

throughout the ride who takes of<br />

any unforeseen mishaps moreover, medical<br />

aid is provided too. Refreshments are<br />

on them so one doesn’t have to worry<br />

about getting hungry on the way. Well, all<br />

the pillars of Mumbai Riders namely Rishi<br />

Shah, Falak Parikh and Saurabh Punamiya<br />

have a unique passion towards cycling. In<br />

fact, all of them are fresh graduates around<br />

21 years old and the latter work as Chartered<br />

Accountants while Rishi is an analyst<br />

at KPMG. In short, all of them are young enthusiasts<br />

who work throughout the work &<br />

use their weekend in a constructive way by<br />

organising these cycling events.<br />

“We have our own Facebook Page<br />

called Mumbai Riders where we mention<br />

about our cycling event. Anyone can directly<br />

register there and attend our event.<br />

We want more people to know about it so<br />

that the culture spreads far and wide. Also,<br />

the authorities of Mumbai can be more<br />

supportive if large number of people attend<br />

our event for we wish to expand Mumbai<br />

Riders and organise many large scale<br />

events,” says Rishi Shah.<br />

The best part of cycling in a metropolitan<br />

like Mumbai is that it is pollution free.<br />

Cycling is completely eco-friendly and one<br />

with nature. “When we travel to various<br />

cities out of India, we witness a lot of people<br />

who cycle; even we use a cycle as the<br />

basic mode of transport in order to curb<br />

pollution. We want to impart this to every<br />

citizen of Mumbai so that we help make a<br />

better place. After all, Mumbai is our city<br />

and we all love the spirit of Mumbai, let’s<br />

cycle to make it better in our own little<br />

way,” expresses Rishi.<br />

Ronald Rodrigues


A refreshing take on the e-commerce and waste management’. The cofounders<br />

Gurashish Sahni aged 23, take flight and what does it have in<br />

So what is RaddiConnect, how did it<br />

business model is embodied by the<br />

likes of startups such as RaddiConnect. Rahul Nainani aged 24 & the youngest store? RaddiConnect aims to facilitate<br />

The Bandra based online platform member Raunaq Singh Sahni who is 21 the activity of disposing ones waste by<br />

spearheaded by a team of youngsters, years old, have researched well and resolving the haphazard manner<br />

have their vision, heart and feet where have promising numbers to back their through which the customer and service<br />

provider conduct their transaction.<br />

they belong. With a vision propelling business model, however what struck<br />

them forward, feet on the ground and us was the fact that these youngsters RaddiConnect enables the customer to<br />

hearts pounding with the urge to create<br />

a difference, RaddiConnect is all ciates as they progress ahead, their for the pick-up, the back end team<br />

want to uplift their vendors and asso-<br />

fix a time slot as per their convenience<br />

geared to touch the sky.<br />

three fold mission includes establishing<br />

and formatting the market strucfirms<br />

the scheduled pick up & provides<br />

from RaddiConnect thereafter con-<br />

Quiz the founders about what inspired<br />

them to foray into such an unconventional<br />

segment & they quickly alter the perception of the raddiwallas market prices for paper, plastic, metal<br />

ture for disposing and recycling goods, the customer with the competitive<br />

retort with statistics about the unruly and to make a social change by supporting<br />

NGOs.<br />

Contd. on Page 2<br />

and glass.<br />

and dispersed market called ‘recycling<br />

><br />

creating community connect since 2010<br />

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FITNESS<br />

BANDRA BUZZ<br />

AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 07<br />

Track and Field Coach Daniel Vaz & his pacers ensure that every type of runner is looked out for during the run<br />

RUN WITH US<br />

I’ve always envied people who can wake<br />

up early & attack the day with a vengeance.<br />

Unfortunately the most action I could<br />

muster up in the wee hours has been clinging<br />

to my pillow for as long as possible. A<br />

year ago if you had told me that I would be<br />

waking up at 5.30 am to go running & that<br />

I was a part of a run-club I would have definitely<br />

looked at you funny while incessantly<br />

liking all those Facebook posts that<br />

say smarter & more creative people tend to<br />

be late risers, much to contrary belief.<br />

Fitness goals vary from individual to individual<br />

& even though I am an ardent<br />

yoga enthusiast you would never see me<br />

wake up early to strike a pose. The fitness<br />

culture has been tailor made to suit our<br />

schedules & not the other way around & so<br />

it’s not uncommon to find footfall at a gym<br />

much more after office hours & the mud<br />

track at Joggers Park to be packed post 7pm<br />

much to everyone’s dismay.<br />

However, those morning hours are unlike<br />

the rest of the day where you are likely<br />

to be distracted by work calls, crying babies,<br />

obligations & such, so sacrificing those<br />

2 hours of sleep every other morning can<br />

prove to be very fruitful. And you will<br />

never know until it happens to you & I’m<br />

so glad that NRC happened to me!<br />

This year Nike celebrated ‘International<br />

Woman’s day’ in Mumbai by organizing a<br />

run at 6am in Bandra by the seaside. Everything<br />

about that sounded good except the<br />

6am part of it, but I decided to bite the bullet<br />

& set the (most hated word in my dictionary)<br />

alarm. And ever since then there<br />

has been no looking back.<br />

NRC, which stands for the ‘Nike Run<br />

Club’ has a presence in various cities across<br />

the globe; they organize weekly running<br />

sessions to inspire runners, from a beginner<br />

to a marathoner; to run their first, most<br />

fun, fastest & fittest mile with the support<br />

of Nike appointed coaches, trainers & pacers<br />

who accompany you on the run.<br />

In Mumbai NRC takes place twice a<br />

week at 6.22am (I suggest you get there by<br />

6.05am as I’ve noticed they like to sometimes<br />

get a jump start on the session). On<br />

Wednesdays you can find them at Carter<br />

Road where they assemble for a warm up<br />

at the Amphitheatre opp. Café Coffee Day<br />

amidst all their branding paraphernalia,<br />

which I’ll admit adds to the professionalism<br />

of the sport & on Saturdays at Mumbai<br />

University Grounds on Marine Drive.<br />

The best part about it is that anyone can<br />

do it & be great at it, you don’t need to be an<br />

athlete, it doesn’t matter that you didn’t<br />

play any sports in school or college. All you<br />

need to do is put on a pair of shoes & let<br />

that brisk walk gradually turn into a slow<br />

jog & before you know it you’ll be running.<br />

The NRC Mumbai conducts various<br />

types of sessions which cater to all kinds of<br />

runners such as the ‘Ready Set Go Run’ for<br />

first timers, core sessions such as the<br />

‘Speed Run’ & ‘Long Run’ for a more advanced<br />

run & even training sessions such<br />

as NTC (Nike Training Club) & HIIT & Run<br />

(high intensity interval training) to train<br />

your body for the run.<br />

NRC trains everyday athletes to take to<br />

their sport seriously & helps them realize<br />

their true potential while providing participants<br />

with overall conditioning, several<br />

training tips, expert advice, inspiring experiences<br />

& Nike product trialing that would<br />

help them achieve their personal best.<br />

NRC Mumbai is led by renowned track<br />

& field Coach Daniel Vaz, a veteran of 29<br />

full marathons, who has been with NRC<br />

since its inception. Dan is accompanied by<br />

an able group of young pacers who cater to<br />

different levels of running & paces, which<br />

ensures that every type of runner is looked<br />

out for during the run. You will find this<br />

bunch of Nike pacers to be a fun-loving<br />

group & you don’t need to take my word for<br />

it just check their Instagram accounts.<br />

They have proved to be the best company<br />

for an early morning run be it rain or sunshine<br />

through various humidity levels,<br />

constantly smiling & cheering you on while<br />

feeding you with fitness tips along the way.<br />

If you would like to come run with us<br />

all you need to do is register online at<br />

www.nike.com/Mumbai (at no cost) to attend<br />

sessions and get further information<br />

on the upcoming runs and their locations.<br />

So come on, just do it!<br />

Francesca Mascarenhas is a travel enthusiast<br />

and a freelance writer. Her love for adventure<br />

& eclectic view on life encourages<br />

her to explore the world collecting countless<br />

stories to tell and memories to frame.<br />

For a little insight into her world log on to<br />

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08 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ NEWS<br />

Tattoos - A form of expression or aggression?<br />

In the past, only sailors used to get tattoos all<br />

over their body but today, body art has become<br />

a popular form of self expression not<br />

just restricted to sailors. On one hand some<br />

may perceive people with tattoos to be aggressive,<br />

immature & rebellious while on the<br />

other it is considered as a popular form of art<br />

that expresses ones individuality & uniqueness.<br />

It is almost impossible to understand<br />

why do people choose to go through the<br />

pain to get inked without actually talking to<br />

an accomplished tattoo artist who has inked<br />

clients right from the age as young as 10 to<br />

72 year olds. After all, why would someone<br />

endure the feeling of a cat continuously<br />

scratching them or a feeling of being repeatedly<br />

being poked/stabbed by a needle right?<br />

I recently interviewed Jeffry D'souza, an<br />

experienced tattoo artist located in Santacruz<br />

East. Tattooing has always fascinated<br />

Jeffrey. Whenever he would look at someone<br />

with a tattoo, he used to wonder how a<br />

tattoo can remain permanent as in life there<br />

is nothing permanent as such. It got him curious<br />

& that’s how he fell in love with tattoos.<br />

All of us used to make tattoos on our<br />

hands back in school days with markers &<br />

sketch pens, Jeffrey was no different. However,<br />

what makes him really different from<br />

you & I is the fact that he actually went<br />

ahead to make a career out of his passion to<br />

make tattoos.<br />

When this young tattoo artist showed<br />

me his several master pieces, I was left<br />

dumbstruck like a gapping frog. However I<br />

decided to write on 'The Timeless Watch' as<br />

it caught my fascination. This client travelled<br />

all the way from Kolkata with his story to get<br />

inked by Jeffry. There are no digits or numbers<br />

in the clock as this client doesn't believe<br />

Jeffry D'souza inking at his tattoo parlour<br />

in the concept of time. You are never too old<br />

or too young to try something new. The<br />

roman number connotes the client & his better<br />

half's anniversary date. Having been born<br />

at 4am, the arms of the clock are frozen at<br />

that time moreover his client had been<br />

brought up in a Christian area, thus a cross<br />

has been drawn. The cross symbolises the<br />

impact the Christian traditions & religious<br />

customs that left on him as a kid.<br />

When I asked him about the connection between<br />

aggression & tattoos he said that the<br />

links between tattoos & aggression ‘are<br />

slowly being eroded’.<br />

'Tattoos are not being used in the same<br />

way, they don’t symbolise aggression, you<br />

can’t go with that assumption any more.<br />

People are attempting to emphasise their<br />

uniqueness as an individual. Tattoos have<br />

become an accessory.<br />

Jeffry also strongly believes that it isn't<br />

necessary to get inked just because your<br />

friend has got a tattoo. According to him, one<br />

should get inked to express themselves or<br />

get tattoo with a memory which they would<br />

cherish throughout their life.<br />

Jeffry also advises Bandra Buzz readers<br />

to do a lot of research about the tattoo artist,<br />

his work & experience before going in to<br />

make a tattoo. He also warns readers to beware<br />

of artist who plagiarise other artist’s<br />

work & cheat people. He tells the readers to<br />

avoid inking names of their lovers because<br />

in future it can put them in a terrible situation<br />

after they decide to end their relationship.<br />

He also says that one must always go<br />

for good quality tattoos, even if it is on a<br />

slightly expensive side because it will remain<br />

with you for the rest of your life.<br />

Sidhhant Kapai


NEWS<br />

BANDRA BUZZ<br />

AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 09<br />

Pokémon Go<br />

storms Bandra<br />

It’s just been two weeks since Pokémon Go<br />

released in 30 countries across the globe<br />

and it’s already taking the world by storm.<br />

However, it hasn’t been released in India<br />

yet. But that hasn’t stopped Android users<br />

from all over the country from downloading<br />

the APK and iPhone users’ from faking<br />

their location to acquire the game.<br />

So what the hell is Pokémon Go? It’s a<br />

virtual game that you play in the real world.<br />

But you have to get off the couch if you<br />

want play this game. Our world has begun<br />

to experience a phenomenon where augmented<br />

reality games encourage players to<br />

travel throughout the real world & enable<br />

them to interact with digital characters and<br />

objects programmed to appear as if they<br />

exist at a specific point in physical space.<br />

The gaming format of this game is what<br />

makes it so special. One usually steps out<br />

of their house with a destination in mind,<br />

but what Pokémon Go offers is different.<br />

It’s a Poké centric journey that makes you<br />

visit new places. The end goal, far easier<br />

said than done, is to catch 151 Pokémon.<br />

According to Keenan Burroughs, a resident<br />

of St. Peter’s Colony, who found most<br />

of his Pokémon outside Jogger’s park,<br />

“Pokémon Go is a huge phenomenon. It’s<br />

the biggest scene right now and everyone<br />

wants to be a part of it. The biggest Poke<br />

Stop in Bandra is outside Jogger’s park.<br />

Every time you activate a lure module,<br />

hordes of people are attracted to it. When I<br />

activated mine near Manuel Gonsalves<br />

road, cars stopped by and fellow players got<br />

off their cars in search of more Pokémon<br />

and we began socialising. In fact, all my<br />

friends got together and organised a Pokémon<br />

walk in Bandra for our group.”<br />

For Keenan & other players, walking<br />

around Bandra in search of Pokémon has<br />

become a daily routine. Off lately, if you<br />

visit Bandstand or Carter road promenade,<br />

you’ll see groups of energetic youngsters<br />

with their faces glued to the phone walking<br />

around aimlessly. It may seem absurd at<br />

first but you’ll get used to it.<br />

Players on their toes to capture their next Pokémon<br />

Another Bandraite hooked to the game is<br />

Rebello road resident Warren D’mello who<br />

said, “It’s a new form of socialisation, you<br />

make new friends. I made a couple of<br />

friends while in search of Pokémon at Supari<br />

Talao. Each time you find a new Pokémon<br />

you scream and the rest follow.”<br />

Just out of curiosity the other day, I<br />

stood outside McDonald’s where a Pokémon<br />

trainer had set up a lure module. And<br />

I must say I was pretty dazzled. Within no<br />

time there were approximately 20 people<br />

gathered there despite heavy rains.<br />

If you thought Candy Crush was bad,<br />

Pokémon Go takes things to an entirely<br />

new level. In a few years or maybe a few<br />

months, we’ll see psychologists examine &<br />

study the unprecedented level of gaming<br />

addiction in Pokémon players.<br />

One positive note though is that the<br />

game is hoping to become an exercise app<br />

that has a lot of people walking around.<br />

Though out of compulsion, but at least you<br />

find the internet generation on their toes.<br />

However, it also raises safety issues.<br />

When a rare Pokémon was spotted at Central<br />

Park in New York, it created a rampage.<br />

Fortunately we haven’t witnessed such a<br />

sight in our suburb yet, but only time will<br />

tell. So basically, people are running around<br />

Bandra, with their smart phones out, trying<br />

to capture virtual pets. Not exactly my cup<br />

of tea, but whatever floats your boat.<br />

Sue-Ellen Fernandes


10 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ NEWS<br />

Every Bride's<br />

Cinderella Fantasy<br />

What’s the big deal<br />

about Breakfast?<br />

Isn't it every girl's dream to see themselves<br />

draped in that perfect wedding gown seeming<br />

classically elegant. Whether it's the look<br />

or the feel of it, choosing a wedding dress is<br />

much more than simply falling in love with<br />

your gown it sets the tone for the day you<br />

say the words 'I do.'<br />

But if you thought shopping for a wedding<br />

dress was as effortless as falling head<br />

over heels for your man, the exotic world of<br />

wedding dress shopping can be er..confusing,<br />

although fascinating & much fun. Enter<br />

aliishadliima a bridal attire & occasio wear<br />

specialist who's given many a bride a magical<br />

wedding experience.<br />

Working her way here over the past five<br />

years, Alisha has handled the most intricately<br />

designed dresses you could dream of;<br />

be it sentimentally romantic, minimalistic,<br />

excitingly dramatic or plain decadent, she<br />

has seen it all. From wedding gowns to the<br />

traditional lehengas to the entire bridal entourage,<br />

the aliishadliima brand is focused<br />

on helping brides to be gracefully put together<br />

ensembles for the entire bridal entourage<br />

& make their wedding dream<br />

something truly magical.<br />

The latest trends in bridal gowns call for<br />

layering & adding novel dimensions to<br />

them. From experimenting with three dimensional<br />

embellishment on sheer shirts &<br />

illusion bodices, to detachable overskirts to<br />

reveal the more party friendly gown beneath,<br />

more women are setting the trends<br />

with their bold yet elegant styles. The trend<br />

seems to be moving towards more traditional<br />

silhouettes, especially considering<br />

the comeback of the long lace sleeves with<br />

added sparkly sequins, intricate beading &<br />

embroidery adding to the visual interest. "At<br />

the same time, brides want to show off their<br />

bodies, so they opt for the low back or illusion<br />

back necklines which adds a perfect<br />

modern twist to the modest front. The<br />

princess overlay too is a silhouette that is<br />

soon gaining popularity. You add an extra<br />

layer of tulle, lace or organza to give the<br />

dress a ball gown feel, but with the slimming<br />

effect of a sheath silhouette underneath<br />

it's the bridal version of having your<br />

cake & eating it too," says this wedding costume<br />

genius.<br />

The brand is soon launching its entire<br />

bridal makeover solution consisting of its<br />

classy hair & make up assistance, bridal bouquet,<br />

flowers, bridal clutches, shoes, jewelry,<br />

hair accessories et al making it the one stop -<br />

shop for all you need to make your dream<br />

wedding the ultimate fairytale wedding.<br />

The most personally rewarding moment<br />

for Alisha was when she did an entire<br />

makeover of a bridal gown right from<br />

scratch with less than a week for the wedding<br />

of a client, who had gotten her gown<br />

done elsewhere initially and wasn't satisfied.<br />

Finally, the end result being the most<br />

gorgeous wedding gown she had ever done.<br />

Trust Alisha D'Lima to take away your<br />

wedding dress dilemma as she tips off to be -<br />

brides, "Try not to get caught up in the trend<br />

of the moment, but instead focus on your<br />

personal style and what flatters you the<br />

most." After all it's the most distinctive bit of<br />

attire you'd ever wear and talk about for the<br />

rest of your life!<br />

Alisha D'Lima<br />

702, Jagdamba Complex,<br />

off Link Road, Malad (W), Mumbai 400064<br />

aliishadliima@gmail.com | +91 9819819027<br />

www.facebook.com/aliishadliima<br />

Valerian D’Costa<br />

Starting your day without breakfast is like<br />

trying to drive your car without fuel. Breakfast<br />

is the most important meal of the day.<br />

The last meal of the day being dinner when<br />

you eat the next morning you are literally<br />

breaking an 8-10 hour fast.<br />

Here are some of the benefits of eating<br />

breakfast everyday:<br />

Breakfast keeps you alert: The human<br />

brain needs glucose as a direct source of energy<br />

to perform its functions. Even while<br />

you are asleep at night your body performs<br />

various functions which take up energy that<br />

is stored in the body, so when you have a<br />

good breakfast in the morning it helps you<br />

refuel & provides the much needed energy<br />

to the brain keeping you alert through the<br />

day & helping you improve your concentration.<br />

Breakfast helps you lose weight: Eating<br />

breakfast boosts your metabolic rate enabling<br />

your body to burn more calories even<br />

at rest. What’s more it helps you eat lesser<br />

servings at the next meal. Most people who<br />

avoid breakfast overeat at lunch & also tend<br />

to feel more hungry later in the evenings<br />

both of which in the long run cause you to<br />

gain weight.<br />

Breakfast helps you control your appetite:<br />

Eating a healthy breakfast helps to regulate<br />

your blood glucose levels, as a result of<br />

which you will not experience “energy<br />

lows” all of a sudden during the day which<br />

will make you reach out for a quick energy<br />

supply in the form of high calorie food like<br />

a chocolate bar.<br />

Breakfast prevents heartburn: Several people<br />

complain of acidity on waking up &<br />

these are the people who usually skip breakfast.<br />

Keeping your stomach empty for several<br />

hours & then eating a heavy meal at<br />

lunch all of a sudden can cause severe acidity,<br />

which can be minimized & completely<br />

controlled over a period of time by making<br />

sure you eat breakfast.<br />

Breakfast helps you meet your nutrient requirements:<br />

A healthy choice of fruits, milk<br />

& cereal can help you meet at least part of<br />

your days requirement for fibre, minerals &<br />

some protein. Most of us end up eating fruit<br />

& or milk only at this time of the day so skipping<br />

breakfast would mean skipping vital<br />

nutrients from the diet.<br />

So what is an ideal breakfast?<br />

A nutritionally balanced breakfast is one<br />

that contains food from at least 3 different<br />

food groups. An energy source from the cereal<br />

group, a protein food from pulses or a<br />

lean meat or milk or eggs and a fibre source<br />

from a fruit or a vegetable.<br />

Eating your breakfast within 1.5 hours of<br />

waking up is ideal. This helps to boost energy<br />

levels and also helps the breakfast to<br />

provide the nutrients needed by your body<br />

first thing in the morning!<br />

Samreedhi Goel<br />

Nutritionist &<br />

Fitness Expert<br />

She runs her exercise<br />

studio Size wise in<br />

Mumbai since 1999 &<br />

has helped thousands of<br />

people get in shape. She<br />

prescribes a Zig Zag diet,<br />

the basis of which is<br />

carb cycling which is a diet plan that has a<br />

mix of high carb & low carb days. She is the<br />

official nutritionist for Kellogg’s India.


NEWS<br />

BANDRA BUZZ<br />

AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 11<br />

Have you heard of a lounge bar dedicated to<br />

serving ladies only? A place where you could<br />

go to confide your deepest secrets and get<br />

the best over-the-counter advice, without<br />

having to consume all those unnecessary<br />

calories that you will regret with certainty<br />

the next morning and never having to worry<br />

about the walk of shame but rather you walk<br />

out glowing, literally. I always wondered<br />

what that might be like, until I was told a<br />

story. ‘A skin story.’ By a very charming<br />

young storyteller who has brought this new<br />

concept lounge bar to our very doorstep<br />

right here in Bandra.<br />

Nikeeta Vishak had a fabulous idea, to give<br />

women the kind of lounge bar that they had<br />

been longing for, whilst some didn’t even<br />

know that was what they needed. Her facial<br />

lounge or facial bar, a one-of-a-kind concept,<br />

first in Mumbai, is called ‘Skin Story’ and<br />

specializes in artisan facials that are designed<br />

and individually customized for<br />

women, whether they have troubled skin,<br />

sensitive or seasonally affected skin or even<br />

if they have flawless complexions and<br />

would like to ensure it remains that way.<br />

Nikeeta, holds a degree and diploma in<br />

esthetics CIDESCO/CIBTAC from New York<br />

& Mumbai, she believes that women spend<br />

far more attention on their hair while sidelining<br />

what should be of utmost importance,<br />

our faces. Every one of us who has had a zit<br />

or a pimple growing up or even in our adulthood<br />

know how disheartening it is as we<br />

make a beeline to a dermatologist or to find<br />

the right concealer to hide this harsh reality.<br />

At Skin Story, you will not only be guaranteed<br />

a facial treatment customized for<br />

your skin type but also a royal experience<br />

that will ensure you never want to take off<br />

that crown. (Now that’s something that will<br />

Lounge Bar - Women only!<br />

surely make the men jealous.) With exquisitely<br />

designed & well-maintained interiors,<br />

they are easily located at the junction of Pali<br />

market and Ambedkar road, which is often<br />

referred to as ‘Pali Naka’ though finding<br />

parking around here may prove to be quite<br />

daunting.<br />

The products used by Skin Story are<br />

from the popular French Luxury brand -<br />

Thalgo, which are completely marine based<br />

products. I’m sure you’ve read the research<br />

by now & are quite aware that ocean plants<br />

have anti-ageing and other nutritional benefits<br />

and the varied importance of marine<br />

based skin care products. The Thalgo range<br />

of products are available at many spas in and<br />

around the city but it’s likely to cost you an<br />

arm and a leg. Whereas this esthetician has<br />

decided to keep it affordable, as it shouldn’t<br />

be treated as a once-in-a-blue-moon experience,<br />

she believes that our faces require constant<br />

care coupled with the correct skin care<br />

regimes, which she is quick to tailor make for<br />

you. Moreover the treatments here are 100<br />

percent hygienic, with everything that is<br />

used being either sterilized or disposable assuring<br />

that you’re in the hands of skilled<br />

therapists while your eyes are closed.<br />

I confess to being one of those women<br />

who prefers to let her dermatologist pinch<br />

and poke her face, as I believed that they<br />

know best. However, a little TLC, a light<br />

spray and a gentle scrub that give you the<br />

benefits of the sea may have just transformed<br />

me. And since it’s easy on the pocket<br />

(treatments start from 1300 INR), which is almost<br />

hard to believe, you can easilyaccommodate<br />

these affordable luxurious rituals<br />

into your regular skin and beauty regime.<br />

Quick tip: These treatments also make for<br />

great gifts!<br />

Francesca Mascarenhas<br />

Energize your Friendships<br />

with Feng Shui Entrepreneur Maria Hussain<br />

This year Friendship<br />

Day falls on<br />

the 7th <strong>Aug</strong>ust. I<br />

feel the desire to<br />

write about<br />

friends because I<br />

am truly blessed<br />

with the dearest<br />

ones. I’ve also<br />

made a sincere effort to weed out the depleting<br />

people in my life. A truly painful<br />

but necessary exercise for each one of us to<br />

consider at some point of time in our lives.<br />

Just like objects in your environment,<br />

your friends either nourish or deplete you.<br />

Your uplifting friends have a positive impact<br />

on you - they elevate your spirits, contribute<br />

to your wellbeing, success and<br />

happiness. They motivate and believe in<br />

you. You feel energized, happy and confident<br />

after spending time with them. You<br />

can easily share your dreams and goals and<br />

they say, "Go for it!”. They are your rejuvenation<br />

vitamin pill and bring out the best<br />

in you.<br />

Unfortunately, your negative, depleting,<br />

energy-draining friends do not. They<br />

constantly complain and do not ask you<br />

about yourself. If you share your ideas with<br />

them, they maybe be quietly jealous of<br />

your positive energy and enthusiasm. They<br />

may send out energy daggers causing you<br />

self-doubt, exhaustion or depression.<br />

Do you stay with such friends out of guilt?<br />

Why do you tolerate their antics? It's up to<br />

you to create a group of healthy friends<br />

around you. Energy is contagious. The happier<br />

and more positive your friends, the<br />

more their energy will rub off on you.<br />

If you find that you are continually depleted,<br />

you may have to consider releasing<br />

these people from your daily life. Apply the<br />

concept of spring-cleaning to the people<br />

and situations that do not encourage you<br />

to live with enthusiasm. It is very essential<br />

that you must "cut the cord" from these<br />

"energy suckers" because they will suck the<br />

life out of you, even before you realize it.<br />

Do you wish<br />

• To strengthen or improve relations with<br />

existing friends<br />

• To focus on meeting & makin new friends<br />

• To revive those friendships that have<br />

gone stale<br />

Then you need to uplift and energize the<br />

following Bagua areas:<br />

The North West - Helpful Friends and<br />

Blessings Area<br />

The Centre - Health and Unity<br />

South West - Love and Relationships<br />

South - Fame and Reputation<br />

<br />

<br />

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<br />

Let me show you how you Feng Shui can<br />

help you to create a best friend out of your<br />

home.<br />

Call for an appointment +919967678652 or<br />

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more info visit www.bhcfengshui.com<br />

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Income tax Consultant available for e-filing of income<br />

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EDITORIAL<br />

BANDRA BUZZ<br />

AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 13<br />

Letters to the Editor<br />

Winds of Change<br />

DEVELOPMENT PLAN<br />

BMC Development Plan 2034 is not structured<br />

to meet urgent needs. Priority given<br />

to Salt Pans, National Park and Coastal<br />

Road. Makes no sense to ordinary people<br />

struggling with congestion, hopeless living<br />

conditions and noise pollution.<br />

Slum clearance other than Dharavi is<br />

totally ignored. Why? Because Project<br />

Dharavi is funded by World Bank. So do<br />

people living in other slums have to wait<br />

for next 30 yrs? Absolutely ridiculous idea.<br />

CRZ regulation is often used as excuse<br />

to reject redevelopment. BMC prefers skyscrapers.<br />

Redevelopment of Goathan has<br />

been non-starter from begining. Another<br />

excuse for no redevelopment because<br />

posh people don't live in Goathan. Religious<br />

places marked heritage sites are<br />

blank. Any motive for omission? Or simply<br />

ignorance? No mention of road widening<br />

even when city is clogged at every junction<br />

with honking motorists and bikers.<br />

Coastal Road is no solution for traffic congestion.<br />

CM Fadnavis should seek approval of<br />

PM Modi before finalization of draft plan.<br />

Let's all hit the Bulls Eye.<br />

Amar Singh<br />

VANDRE MUSEUM<br />

I am shocked to know that MLA / MC<br />

funds are being used for asphalting /<br />

paving the internal roads / pathways of religious<br />

institutions. These funds should be<br />

used for public places and not private / religious<br />

institutions.<br />

Does the Municipal Commissioner<br />

know that these funds are being used in<br />

private / religious places?<br />

Christopher Rodrigues<br />

KHAR CHAWL DEMOLITION<br />

Kindly correct the statement made by me,<br />

which was published in Bandra Buzz<br />

dated 14th July, regarding the payments of<br />

lawyers fees.<br />

It should read as ‘All lawyers fees were<br />

paid by the society only - and not by<br />

Darissa Builders. The society has been reimbursed<br />

these amounts by the Developer<br />

- Darissa Builders.’ Please excuse my<br />

error.<br />

Thomas D’Silva<br />

Email your letters to<br />

news.bandrabuzz@gmail.com<br />

Dear Reader,<br />

It is already <strong>Aug</strong>ust and some of our lakes<br />

are full – thanks to downpours in the<br />

catchment areas. Closer home, gusty<br />

winds and stormy weather with lashing<br />

rain are all part of the scenes at the Bandra<br />

Reclamation, Bandstand & Carter Promenades<br />

– and the inner roads of our suburbs.<br />

Mercifully, there are intervals of dry spells.<br />

Uneven road surfaces are much more<br />

prominent now – even as pedestrians play<br />

‘hopscotch’ to avoid the puddles & pools;<br />

with fallen trees or branches which add to<br />

the hurdle race.<br />

Yet, we take all this in our stride.<br />

Bandra and her surrounding suburbs<br />

are very good at adapting. Even as we<br />

adapt to changing environment, with<br />

every different season; we are superb at<br />

adapting to other changes. The DP 2034 is<br />

all set to be finalised. In spite of thousands<br />

of protests regarding several issues, the<br />

authorities seem to be in a mighty hurry<br />

to get it passed and implemented. With<br />

major projects incorporated in the DP – the<br />

next twenty years is slated to see a lot of<br />

change. Change can be good or bad. The<br />

point here is that will this change be good<br />

– after spending tons of tax-payer’s<br />

money? So, citizens of our city will be witnessing<br />

the winds of change – something<br />

that may be irreversible, if wrong decisions<br />

are taken now. Our hope is that those<br />

in power, avoid any hidden agendas – and<br />

think only of the common good.<br />

This local newspaper that you are<br />

reading now – is your platform to express<br />

your views on topics you feel strongly<br />

about. Do use Bandra Buzz to disseminate<br />

newsworthy information to your neighbourhood<br />

– who are our well wishers &<br />

readers. We are evolving into a force to<br />

reckon with – and with your valuable inputs,<br />

Bandra, Khar & Santacruz will surely<br />

be a better place. Let’s be the Winds of<br />

Change.<br />

Till next time, take care.<br />

Regards,<br />

Merck N. D’Silva<br />

Editor-in-Chief<br />

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14 AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> BANDRA BUZZ NEWS<br />

Jyoti Dhawale Surve - An Unsung Hero<br />

"I am divorcing<br />

you, I can’t live<br />

with you anymore”,<br />

said my<br />

(ex) husband,<br />

whom I married<br />

in 2004 (when I<br />

was negative and<br />

got the virus<br />

through Medical<br />

Negligence), who<br />

finally divorced me in 2008, and even took<br />

the custody of my only child.<br />

“You are HIV Positive?!”, exclaimed the<br />

HR of the company “But I thought that only<br />

prostitutes and drug users get it.”<br />

“She is HIV positive, don’t even go near<br />

her. If you talk to her or even be friends with<br />

her, the whole society will outcast you. Even<br />

your friends will abandon you…What will<br />

people say? We have a reputation to protect”,<br />

said a mother of my friend when he spoke of<br />

what good work I am doing for the community<br />

and disclosed my status to her.<br />

“What did you say? She is HIV Positive?<br />

Don’t even bring her inside the house. Get<br />

her out from here right now, right this moment”,<br />

said a mother of another friend, and<br />

she dusted the sofa where I once sat, took the<br />

glass of water where I had sipped and threw<br />

it in the dustbin.<br />

“My doctor tells me that saliva transmit<br />

the virus thus no kissing”, said my boyfriend,<br />

“and Jo, he is a well–qualified doctor, who<br />

holds several degrees” ..and the lump<br />

formed on my throat knowing that nothing<br />

I will do or say will convince him that it is<br />

NOT true. But still I educated him that the<br />

virus in saliva is not transmissible and virus<br />

from blood don’t thrive outside the body and<br />

die within few seconds after coming in contact<br />

with air. At least he listened. - Jyoti Surve<br />

In our society, HIV is perceived as a disease<br />

of “others” – of people living on the margins<br />

of society, whose lifestyles are considered<br />

“perverted” and “sinful.” People suffering<br />

from it face denial, stigmatization & discrimination<br />

in every walk of their life. In<br />

order to break this preconceived notion of<br />

HIV being a “disease”, I interviewed Ms.<br />

Jyoti Surve, who is suffering from HIV.<br />

She is not only a member of the Community<br />

Advisory for the Well Project USA.<br />

According to the website of the organisation,<br />

it is “a global hub for resources that<br />

help women & girls overcome the inequalities,<br />

barriers, & stigma that contribute to<br />

the epidemic among women”, but is also<br />

the Indian ambassador at the Stigma Project<br />

- “An organization that aims to lower the<br />

HIV infection rate & neutralize the stigma<br />

associated with HIV/AIDS through education<br />

& awareness via social media. It seeks<br />

to create an HIV neutral world, free of<br />

judgement & fear by working with both<br />

positive & negative individuals from all<br />

walks of life, regardless of their gender, sexual<br />

orientation, race, or background,” as per<br />

the Stigma Project website. In March 2015,<br />

Jyoti who is known mononymously as Jo,<br />

won the prestigious Karamveer Chakra<br />

award in New Delhi. This award is instituted<br />

in the partnership with the UN for<br />

Global empowerment & citizen justice.<br />

Coming from defence background,<br />

Jyoti’s hobbies are vast. From gardening,<br />

painting, stamp/coin collections, arts &<br />

crafts, adventure outings, she has lived it<br />

all. She is passionate about music, dancing<br />

& travelling acts as a great stress-buster.<br />

Jo contracted HIV due to medical negligence<br />

but definitely NOT from blood<br />

transfusion – because as far as she remembers,<br />

she never had a blood transfusion<br />

during any of those forceful attempts for<br />

abortions that I had undergone.<br />

“Forceful” yes, as it wasn’t her idea or<br />

wish to abort. Her ex wasn’t ready to start a<br />

family & every time she get pregnant (she<br />

got pregnant thrice!), she was taken to do<br />

MTP. Before one could think why she hadn’t<br />

tried any contraceptive measures, the<br />

answer is that she did. “Oral pills had adverse<br />

affect on my body & hence I couldn’t<br />

take it. Vaginal contraceptive has its own<br />

time frame (10-15 minutes of waiting period)<br />

& the failure rate is high. Top of all,<br />

when a man is forcing himself upon you<br />

(which I term as “marital rape”) then one is<br />

very helpless in this condition.”<br />

She did not realize it back then but can<br />

clearly assert now that she has been a victim<br />

of marital rape. “Rape is rape, whether<br />

in marriage or outside it. Anything that is<br />

‘forced upon’ the body without consent is<br />

rape. If a man does not like to wear a condom,<br />

then, a woman, even if she happens<br />

to be his wife, has the right to refuse & say<br />

NO. Why have I gone through this thrice &<br />

ended up being HIV positive? Why am I living<br />

with stigma & discrimination – I blame<br />

the govt. first & the society next! The govt<br />

– which does not recognize marital rape as<br />

a crime; & this society – which blames the<br />

woman for everything.” She reiterates.<br />

She was entranced by her ex husbands<br />

gentlemanly behaviour. Things went fine<br />

until she missed her period for the first<br />

time in her life. “When I missed my period,<br />

I remember rushing to the store to buy a<br />

home pregnancy test kit. Oh! The joy of<br />

being a mother; of having a child of my<br />

own!” That joy lasted till she informed her<br />

husband of the news. “He told me to go in<br />

for an abortion,” she recalls.<br />

“I was dealing with the shock of having<br />

learnt that I was HIV positive & postpartum<br />

depression simultaneously. Amidst this<br />

my ex-husband informed me that he had<br />

been having an extramarital affair & would<br />

be leaving me for her. So I needed to become<br />

financially independent, & began<br />

searching for a job. I was not yet ready to<br />

give up on my marriage. But when my<br />

maid informed me that my husband had<br />

been bringing his girlfriend to our home behind<br />

my back, I knew it was over. Whatever<br />

that was written in the divorce agreement<br />

was not mutual. As per the court, it was the<br />

duty of a judge to call the husband & the<br />

wife & hear both sides of the story – which<br />

in my case has never happened. I was<br />

never produced in court, never produced<br />

before any judge. A forceful signature<br />

means nothing.” says Surve as she fumes.<br />

Jo has no regrets about her failed marriage<br />

as she believes life is a learning experience<br />

life being the greatest teacher &<br />

people being an experience. She believes<br />

that whatever she went through only made<br />

her & moulded her into a better person<br />

mentally, emotionally & spiritually.<br />

Jo met her current husband - Vivek<br />

Surve an HIV negative partner, in an online<br />

chatroom. “He was a chat friend. He sent<br />

me a request not once, not twice, but five<br />

or six times. I kept rejecting him until I decided<br />

to scan his profile. What fascinated<br />

me (not 'attracted', she clarifies) were the<br />

biker jacket & Honda Fireblade next to him!<br />

That got me to finally accept his request. At<br />

that time I was working for an IT firm,<br />

doing the graveyard shift. This 'Hi how are<br />

you doing, I am fine, I hope you are fine,<br />

take care, bye' saga continued for 6 months.<br />

Then came a day I could never imagine."<br />

Her father passed away on 28th June,<br />

2011. She wanted to pay her last respects<br />

but her stepmother would not allow her<br />

near him. “He was all I had,” she says.<br />

“Anger & hatred for my stepmother, & grief<br />

over my father’s death was eating me up.<br />

My best friend was in Dubai. However,<br />

Vivek, my new friend, drove down all the<br />

way to be with me, emotionally & physically.”<br />

They planned to meet the next<br />

weekend. "My husband says it was love at<br />

second sight for him," Jyoti says.<br />

“Vivek’s parents were naturally apprehensive<br />

about their son marrying an HIV<br />

positive partner. But when they saw how<br />

happy she made him, their objections<br />

dwindled. Their fears were dictated by ignorance.<br />

Once they came to know that HIV<br />

is nothing more than a illness & that it can<br />

be controlled by medication, they accepted<br />

me whole heartedly.” says Jyoti with a<br />

slight blush on her face.<br />

According to Jo, the biggest misconception<br />

people have about living with HIV &<br />

AIDS is that they think That HIV is a “dangerous”<br />

disease. No it is not. It can be controlled<br />

& managed with proper care &<br />

medication. People also tend to think that<br />

HIV & AIDS are the same which isn’t true.<br />

Though HIV & AIDS are from the same<br />

virus, it is a different medical condition.<br />

HIV is an ILLNESS whereas AIDS is a disease.<br />

Not necessary all people who suffer<br />

from HIV die from AIDS. With better medication<br />

coming into the market, one can<br />

live a happy healthy positive life despite<br />

being HIV Positive. Another misconception<br />

among people is that one cannot marry &<br />

has to abstain from sexual intercourse with<br />

an HIV positive person which isn’t true.<br />

One can live a happy healthy married life &<br />

even plan to have a baby provided that you<br />

follow up on the treatment with strict discipline<br />

& never ever miss the dose (of ART<br />

medication).<br />

“Now when anyone tells me “You are<br />

HIV positive? But I thought that only prostitutes<br />

& drug users get it” I reply back with<br />

a pitiful smile (pitiful yes, because of their<br />

ignorance) “Have you ever tested yourself?<br />

You too may never know. I didn’t know I<br />

was carrying the virus until my blood got<br />

tested when I was undergoing abortion”<br />

And I could hear the gasp, I could see their<br />

stunned face with wide eyes, open mouth<br />

& dropping jaw, & believe me, I absolutely<br />

love the reactions I get!”<br />

As for “She is positive, don’t even go<br />

near her. If you talk to her or even be<br />

friends with her, the whole society will outcast<br />

you. Even your friends will abandon<br />

you…What will people say? We have a reputation<br />

to protect”, I had replied to that<br />

lady straight on her face, “Aunty, there are<br />

thousands of people who admire our<br />

courage to speak up & they are those people<br />

who back us up. Your son is one of them<br />

who had participated in Awareness Program<br />

& who encouraged others to join in.”<br />

And she was glaring at her son as if wanting<br />

to know what I had just said was right & her<br />

son was facing her proudly & boldly saying<br />

“She will always be my friend”.<br />

And oh yes….coming to the point of a<br />

hysterical mother of my friend “What did<br />

you say? She is HIV Positive? Don’t even<br />

bring her inside the house. Get her out<br />

from here right now, right this moment,”,<br />

said a mother of another friend, & she<br />

dusted the sofa where I once sat, took the<br />

glass of water where I had sipped & threw<br />

it in the dustbin. Before leaving the house<br />

I had told her that HIV Virus is not transmittable<br />

by air/water/sharing. I reminded<br />

her that I had come to this house many<br />

times & she had served me many tea/water<br />

in crockery that has also been used &<br />

reused for other guests. She wasn’t aware<br />

of my status then & now that she is, just<br />

throwing off one glass in the dustbin won’t<br />

suffice, she should throw off all the crockery<br />

in the kitchen if & only if she find one<br />

of the guest having contracted the same.<br />

My ex boyfriend is now my husband.<br />

We got married on 2013. He still kisses me,<br />

heck, more than that, the husband-wife do.<br />

Twice a month he tests himself which is always<br />

"negative".<br />

Last but not least, as for the divorce<br />

from my ex husband, I am blessed that it<br />

had happened because now I realized the<br />

“purpose” of my life. This is where I belong<br />

and this is where my heart is: HIV Activism….To<br />

reach out…To give love to many<br />

people who need it and to spread the love<br />

to those seeking it. My suffering is not mine<br />

alone, it is also their suffering as they are<br />

also the part of my journey, walking<br />

through the same winding thorny path,<br />

having many long way to go, many difficulties<br />

and hurdles to cross to finally find the<br />

path laden with bed of roses.<br />

Sidhhant Kapai


NEWS<br />

BANDRA BUZZ<br />

AUGUST <strong>2016</strong> 15<br />

Valencia Misquitta Irani inducted<br />

Director of MEICOCAI – Global<br />

Valencia at the investiture ceremony with President Brian Pereira of MEICOCAI<br />

At an investiture ceremony held lately to<br />

induct Valencia Misquitta Irani of Avion<br />

Hotels & Hospitality, Mumbai, Maharashtra<br />

- as a Director on the MEICOCAI Board;<br />

Rtn. Calwyn D'Abreo, Founder & Initiator<br />

of the Chamber of Commerce for the<br />

Mumbai East Indian Community said,<br />

"MEICOCAI’s Mission is to strengthen the<br />

Mumbai East Indian community, by having<br />

their presence in all geographies of the<br />

world in the business of Trade & Industry<br />

- while simultaneously promoting & fostering<br />

bilateral trade, commerce & economic<br />

relations between India &<br />

wherever a Mumbai East Indian is within<br />

the progress & deployment of his / her<br />

business activities."<br />

The MEICOCAI President, Brian G<br />

Pereira informed all present that with Valencia<br />

Misquitta (I), an opportunity to<br />

showcase the value & strength that a business<br />

woman can bring to the table; was<br />

evident in the successful enterprise that<br />

Valencia runs in collaboration with her<br />

family members.Avion Hotels & Hospitality<br />

is a force to reckon with in the Mumbai<br />

network of convenient airport hotels & is<br />

a fully managed three-star hotel owned &<br />

run by East Indians. The other properties<br />

that the ‘Avion Group’ owns are three<br />

other star holiday hotels in Khandala &<br />

Lonavala besides the very famous Samara<br />

Gardens on the outskirts of Mumbai city-<br />

Madh Island.<br />

MEICOCAI thanks Valencia Misquitta<br />

(I) for coming on Board. The Chairman of<br />

MEICOCAI, Neil Creado - who is abroad at<br />

this time, has sent his congratulations to<br />

Valencia and wishes her the best for her<br />

tenure with MEICOCAI.<br />

All Bandra<br />

Parish Zonals<br />

Talent Contest<br />

kicks off on<br />

4th <strong>Aug</strong>ust<br />

It's the busiest time of the year in Bandra as<br />

the All Bandra Parish Zonals Talent Contest<br />

kicks off next Sunday, 14th of <strong>Aug</strong>ust <strong>2016</strong><br />

& once again Bandra will be looking forward<br />

to an exciting month of Music, Dance<br />

and Drama where Bandra's finest talents<br />

will come together to compete and perform<br />

on one stage for the ultimate crown.<br />

This is where you'll get to see and hear<br />

some finger snapping popular tunes been<br />

sung and played, grooving dance moves<br />

and some stellar acting performances. And<br />

of course, not to mention the fooood, the<br />

delicious homemade snacks which gets<br />

served at the zonal practices. So we hope<br />

you have blocked your dates to either take<br />

part or come watch and support your respective<br />

zones because this is going to be<br />

one exciting year of the All Bandra Zonals<br />

Talent Contest you wouldn't want to miss.<br />

Dujon Fernandes

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