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ART & TIMELESS FASHION<br />
Volume 9 // Experiences<br />
Volume 10 // <strong>The</strong> <strong>Man</strong> <strong>Issue</strong>
Cover Photo by Amy West<br />
Cover Design by Mariah Romero
CON<br />
TRI<br />
BUT<br />
ORS<br />
Editors<br />
Darnell Thomas<br />
Mariah Romero<br />
Design<br />
Mariah Romero<br />
Illustration<br />
Alex Conkins<br />
India Hearne<br />
Photography<br />
Raya Jade<br />
Darnell Thomas<br />
Rebeca Gonzalez<br />
Jo Herrera<br />
Amy West<br />
Words<br />
Anaiah Lupton<br />
Franco Romero<br />
Julian Williams<br />
Darnell Thomas<br />
Food<br />
Hannah Reiter<br />
Andie Fuller
Illustrations by Alex Conkins
HELLO<br />
Welcome to the <strong>Man</strong> <strong>Issue</strong>! We love our men and it is important<br />
they don’t feel limited when it comes to fashion and being true<br />
to themselves. We chose this theme to challenge what we’re told<br />
about masculinity and to appreciate men’s fashion of course. We<br />
believe in wearing something because you like it regardless of size<br />
or gender. Our summer favorites include men in short shorts, overalls,<br />
crop tops, accessories, sandals, high waisted bottoms, pony<br />
tails, etc. In the man issue we want to emphasize that it is okay to<br />
be a man and also be sensitive, it is okay to cry, a man shouldn’t<br />
prove his manliness by putting down femininity. Lastly, if you like<br />
how something looks and you want to wear it, go for it! Fashion is<br />
about self expression which surely shouldn’t be confined.<br />
Darnell & Mariah
Illustrations by India Hearne
MAN UP<br />
Written by Anaiah Lupton<br />
While observing the dualities between men and women and furthering<br />
understanding with androgynous and gender neutral civilians, one<br />
can find noteworthy overlaps in the human condition. When looking<br />
at the cultural connotations and systems that apply to gender<br />
there are many factors to consider; such as: eastern and western cultural<br />
dynamics, ethnicity, and societal pressures that either exacerbate or<br />
sedate raw emotion. As one who grew up predominantly around<br />
women, tackling concepts around masculinity feels similar to the<br />
introduction of “cooties” and my first understanding of gender<br />
and most importantly: division. A natural oppositional ideology<br />
came into play when learning about cooties. For many these divisions<br />
feel suffocating, and for some confusing. I find it imperative<br />
to focus on humanness and the overlaps in connection as opposed<br />
to the differences. In order to better understand the patriarchy and<br />
its hindrance on women’s (and men’s) opportunities, I spoke with<br />
several different men about masculinity and the role it plays in their<br />
life as a young male living in the United States in 2016. <strong>The</strong>se men<br />
come from different denominations, backgrounds, races and sexual<br />
orientations and speaking with them provided insight on their ideas<br />
of masculinity in western culture and how it has affected them.<br />
I sat down with a 22 year old musician from south texas who is married<br />
and asexual. He grew up in a militant, yet progressive household.<br />
He participated in Adventure Scouts (co-ed) which allotted boys and<br />
girls to experience wildlife and outdoor activities on an equal scale.<br />
His first understandings of sexism came when he was much older<br />
and when he was presented with a societal push to equate affection
Photography by Raya Jade // Modeling by Matt Villescas
with sex. Some of these implicat<br />
culture which equates nobility w<br />
of masculinity as a push toward<br />
sign of strength. No longer shelt<br />
faced with pressures and divides<br />
linity along with coming to term<br />
Thankfully, he was able to surrou<br />
uals who formed his closely knit<br />
spoke eloquently about the ways<br />
archetypal male, and notions of a<br />
sexual affection, but instead de<br />
towards many people in his life.<br />
ence with affection due to his ase<br />
establish affection in ways that c<br />
He notes however that it is also<br />
logical differences in males and fe<br />
equality through sameness (and<br />
gender offers) he notes the impor
ions could be sited to suburb church<br />
ith stoicism. He describes this form<br />
s apathy, as though not caring is a<br />
ered around a utopia of equality but<br />
, the comparison of self to mascus<br />
with asexuality was very difficult.<br />
nd himself with like minded individfriend<br />
group. In our conversation, he<br />
in which he has rebelled against the<br />
pathy. This affection goes far beyond<br />
votes forms of love and tenderness<br />
His unique background and experixuality<br />
has provided opportunities to<br />
ould be considered counter culture.<br />
important to respond to the physiomales.<br />
Rather than trying to achieve<br />
thus sedating the unique aspects that<br />
tance of offering equal opportunities.<br />
IT IS ALSO IMPORTANT TO RESPOND TO THE<br />
PHYSIOLOGICAL DIFFERENCES IN MALES<br />
AND FEMALES. RATHER THAN TRYING TO<br />
ACHIEVE EQUALITY THROUGH SAMENESS.<br />
I then spoke with a 25 year old filmmaker/artist in a polygamous<br />
relationship who reflected deeply on how his mindset and ideas<br />
towards masculinity has evolved from early adolescents, to his adult<br />
life. He grew up primarily around women whose partners abandoned<br />
them. He soon identified men, and masculinity as “brutes, sexual liars,<br />
and abusers”. His remorse for sexism and the suffrage was great and he<br />
felt as though a hatred towards men was useful to the fight for equality.<br />
As he grew older and established a lifestyle that included spirituality<br />
his hatred towards men cultivated into a love for humans and identifying<br />
the human in people over their gender. After some thought he was<br />
able identify the differences gender plays in his life on a day to day,<br />
human level. He presses that in order to produce effective economic,<br />
societal, and cultural changes towards equality we need new language.<br />
He speaks heavily on the subject of language because it is the same<br />
source that he feels he can point to and note division, stereotypes of<br />
gender. He exemplifies how his male friends talk about sex in comparison<br />
to his female friends, and how the use of language is inherently<br />
different based on the physiological, and biological experience of sex.
An evolution of the phrase “I hooked up with someone last night” into<br />
“I didn’t feel lonely last night” establishes the vulnerability necessary<br />
for human bonding and trust, which ultimately progresses human<br />
evolution, via equality for genders. He goes on to discuss language<br />
and how the average individual is fed information through the scope<br />
of gendered based rhetoric. <strong>The</strong> way in which our potential presidential<br />
candidates are referred to in the news as opposed to comedians<br />
reveals the amount of value we place on vulnerability and empathy<br />
towards gender. More often than not the male condition tends to<br />
sacrifice connection firstly by using uncensored, perhaps crude language<br />
over vulnerability. However this act only functions when all<br />
of the men in the room have a predisposition and comprehension<br />
of what you are saying. <strong>The</strong>se implications made are so nuanced and<br />
subtle that the overarching cultural dynamic can be summed up as<br />
‘Guy Code’, furthermore: our modern idea around masculinity.<br />
<strong>The</strong> achievable goal I was able to garner from these interviews<br />
revealed a need for equal opportunity. It seemed as though these<br />
men could renew masculinity by acknowledging gender and allotting<br />
the same opportunities and treatment. <strong>The</strong>se opportunities should<br />
allow the human condition to be experienced through any scope<br />
with zero provisions on how they choose to express that identity/<br />
gender. Perhaps the exposure of nuance and gradation in gender<br />
reveals how femininity, masculinity, both, or none are merely applicable<br />
and is apart of the narrative and evolution of humankind. New<br />
language and new associations with affection can obstruct the restrictions<br />
of societal pressures, or even social and economic compromise.
Photography by Raya Jade // Modeling by Malcom Morgan
SEN<br />
SITI<br />
VITY<br />
For as long as I can remember, I’ve enjoyed going to<br />
the movies by myself. I go on weekday evenings, if possible.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re’s something about sitting alone in a dark<br />
theater and watching fantasies unfold on the screen.<br />
Now, that’s not to say that I don’t like to bring my wife.<br />
She told me early on in our relationship that she was a<br />
fan of the “classic” date; dinner and a movie. It’s always<br />
been a pastime of ours. It’s a very different experience<br />
for me though. When we watch movies together, we<br />
experience them together. I sneak glances at her face<br />
every few minutes to see what she’s getting out of the<br />
film. When I’m by myself, I experience the story, the<br />
cinematography alone. I fall in love with characters<br />
alone. And alone, I shed a few tears.<br />
It feels strange to type out those words, to admit to<br />
myself, let alone a reader, that I’ve cried in my life;<br />
that I cry frequently. No matter how many times I’m<br />
told that to have emotions is to be human, it continues<br />
to feel like I’ve done something wrong when I say<br />
the words out loud: I cry a lot.<br />
<strong>The</strong> world I live in, even in my progressive tribe of<br />
like-minded human beings, divides itself based on<br />
two categories: masculine and feminine. Unfortunately,<br />
more often than not, the aspects of life that take<br />
on the masculine disguise are features like aggression<br />
and indifference. I’ve heard Robert Smith’s whimsical<br />
voice emphasize the lack of socially acceptable male<br />
emotional expression in our culture a thousand times<br />
over, yet even as <strong>The</strong> Cure points out the obvious to<br />
me, nothing is changed; Boys don’t cry.<br />
Written by Franco Romero<br />
<strong>The</strong>re’s a song by <strong>The</strong> Temptations with similar subject<br />
matter, and it has stuck with me ever since I heard my<br />
father singing it while we drove through downtown<br />
Albuquerque when I was a child, ever since I realized<br />
that he identified with it as both a music lover and<br />
a man. <strong>The</strong> song, ‘I Wish It Would Rain,’ predates<br />
Smith’s lamentations, perhaps laying the groundwork<br />
for them as David Ruffin’s pained, soulful voice paints<br />
the portrait of a man whose lover has left him, and who<br />
cannot express himself because “a man ain’t supposed<br />
to cry.”<br />
Ruffin’s solution is to wish for rain. If the rain can<br />
come pouring from the heavens, drenching his body<br />
in thick sheets, then he can let himself cry. This way,<br />
no one will be able to distinguish his tears from the fat<br />
raindrops. It’s a beautiful song, with an honest sentiment,<br />
but a troubling one nonetheless. For many years,<br />
empty movie theaters were like the rain for me. I let<br />
the emotion of the film occupy my mind, and as I expressed<br />
my feelings about the plot, so too did I find a<br />
way to deal, briefly, with whatever was going on in my<br />
life at the given moment.<br />
I think we need to ask ourselves: what does it mean to<br />
be sensitive? I can’t speak for all men. I only have my<br />
limited experience. However, within that experience,<br />
within my life as it has existed from moment to moment,<br />
being called “sensitive” always has been accompanied<br />
by a stinging pain in my chest, like someone<br />
has wounded me. In high school, girlfriends would tell<br />
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me that it was “okay” with them that I was sensitive. At<br />
various jobs I’ve taken, my male co-workers have jokingly<br />
called me a “sensitive guy” in tones that suggest<br />
attempted male dominance, their attempt to put me<br />
in my place. In Catholic school, a nun told me that I<br />
was “too sensitive” because I became shy when asked to<br />
speak in front of the class.<br />
When we refer to someone as sensitive, the idea that<br />
seems to permeate is that they are wounded easily. I<br />
can’t say that, for me, there isn’t some truth to this. I<br />
think I am wounded easily. I want to be praised. I want<br />
to be loved. I want to be told that what I do in this life<br />
matters, and that if I make mistakes it’s going to be<br />
alright. I think that’s what each of us wants: to matter.<br />
My sensitivity is not something I was born with; it is<br />
something I have nurtured in myself, even if I have not<br />
always done so in a healthy fashion. From the time I was<br />
young, I rejected masculine tendencies to brush away<br />
emotion. I believe, and always have believed, that my<br />
emotions were valid and that experiencing them was vital.<br />
I think I got lucky, because I had a good role model<br />
in my father.<br />
He grew up playing music. He’s made a living as a<br />
substance abuse therapist. In him, I saw a man who<br />
needed his gym time, who was adamant about protecting<br />
his family, who was a sports fan and who had<br />
served in the U.S. military. I also saw a man who<br />
cared about music, who helped people work through<br />
their emotions for a living, and who was deeply in<br />
tune with his own. I have only seen my father cry a<br />
handful of times in my life, but I know it’s not because<br />
he was afraid to. Lots of the time, he was just<br />
trying to figure out how.<br />
He encouraged me to do the same. My father never<br />
told me that boys don’t cry, or that I should learn<br />
how to hold back my emotions. He’s let me cry on his<br />
shoulder when I needed to, and shown me that to be<br />
masculine does not mean to be an emotionless zombie.<br />
Masculinity and sensitivity are not mutually exclusive.<br />
A man can be comfortable in his own skin, while also<br />
shedding a few tears over Ryan Gosling’s performance<br />
in the notebook.<br />
I don’t go to the movie theater to work through my<br />
emotions anymore. When I do shed tears there, it’s<br />
just because I’m comfortable with feeling passionate<br />
about stories. It will always be a struggle to maintain<br />
the reassurance that what I am doing is good for myself,<br />
that experiencing the emotions that surge through<br />
me from moment to moment is healthy. But, in doing<br />
so I make myself a happier person, and I become more<br />
empathetic towards the world around me. When I am<br />
in touch with my own emotions, I can sympathize<br />
with the emotions of my wife more easily, strengthening<br />
our marriage and our friendship. I can experience<br />
art on a level that is almost spiritual. I can, between<br />
my moments of sadness and joy, find stillness.
MASCULINITY AND SENSITIVITY<br />
ARE NOT MUTUALLY EXCLUSIVE
REAL MEN<br />
Written by Julian Williams<br />
When I was growing up, I loved playing football. It taught me comradrey,<br />
respect, patience, and to be quick on my feet. I’m sure there are<br />
countlesss other lessons that I could take away from my time playing<br />
football as well, but these are the ones that stuck for me. But I know that<br />
there are different lessons that others took away from the game. One<br />
time I was in a game and an opposing player got hit pretty hard. He was<br />
in the air. He hobbled to the sidelines crying and his dad approached<br />
him, observed him, and left him with these words; “Real men don’t cry.”<br />
As we grow develop, young men are bombarded with statements like this<br />
by parents, peers, and countless forms of media. “You throw like a girl!”<br />
“Don’t be a sissy!” “Be a man!” <strong>The</strong> thesis of this rhetoric is to achieve<br />
and maintain Masculinity; which is described in the Webster’s Dictionary<br />
as having qualities traditionally ascribed to men, as strength and boldness.<br />
But perhaps the mere fact that there is a definition of Masculinity<br />
in itself is a harmful aspect of an ever-changing society. Especially when<br />
that definition is as vague as it is. What one person considers “strong”<br />
or “bold” differs greatly from the rest of the world. And while strength<br />
and boldness might be good qualities for a man to have, perhaps there is<br />
a different lesson we need to be teaching the young men of our society.<br />
<strong>The</strong> status quo percieves a man’s relationship with masculinity as fluid,<br />
but not necessarily in a positive way. We are taught that a status of Masculinity<br />
is not something everyone is born with. It must be “earned.” Not
Photography by Raya Jade // Modeling by Shawn Khounphithack
only are we taught that it must be earned, but we are<br />
also made aware that it can be lost or diminished. This<br />
occurs when we do things that “Real Men” don’t do,<br />
and traditionally this correlates with actions that are<br />
seen as weak or effeminate.<br />
Our obsession with masculinity and our dependence on<br />
it for validation is rooted deeply in society’s disrespect<br />
of women. We are taught as men that we do no want to<br />
have “womanly traits.” We are told “don’t throw like<br />
a girl, throw like a man.” We are taught that to truly<br />
achieve and maintain a status of masculinity, we must<br />
sever all possible traits that would reduce us to the same<br />
level as the woman, and this greatly adjusts what a man’s<br />
relationship with masculinity is. In a way it is no longer<br />
about striving to ACHIEVE masculine status, as much<br />
as it is about AVOIDING femine status. And there is<br />
definitely a better lesson that we can be teaching future<br />
generations. If teaching masculinity boils down to<br />
diminishing women, then there is another lesson that<br />
needs to be taught.<br />
Being aware of what our history with masculinity is,<br />
it is perhaps possible to paint a picture of this “Real<br />
<strong>Man</strong>” we have been told about since we were children.<br />
He is strong. He is bold. He lives in constant fear of<br />
being percieved as weak to others. He has zero interactions<br />
with anything that can be percieved as related to<br />
women or being a woman. He disrespects women. He<br />
disrespects men. This is the “Real <strong>Man</strong>” we are pressuring<br />
young men to be. Yet we obviously don’t want<br />
our youth to grow up into this man. And that is why<br />
it is necessary to abandon this train of thought for another.<br />
We have essentially provided our youth a map<br />
to a destination that no one has ever reached; even<br />
ourselves, in the hopes that they can use the lessons of<br />
the past to somehow emerge perfect and masculine.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re is no such thing as a “Real <strong>Man</strong>” Returning the<br />
kickoff for a 100 yard touch down doesn‘t make you<br />
a real man. Pairing your heels with the perfect shade<br />
of nail polish doesn’t make you a real man. Teaching<br />
your sons to look down on women in order to raise<br />
themselves on a pedestal does not make you, or them,<br />
real men. <strong>The</strong>re is not one “Real <strong>Man</strong>” on this earth.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are only men. And the greatest men live their<br />
lives respecting themselves as much as they respect the<br />
world around them, and embracing every aspect of<br />
themselves that makes them who they are. Do not live<br />
your life in order to be a “Real <strong>Man</strong>.” Live it in order<br />
to be a Great one.
Photography/Art Direction by Darnell Thomas, Modeling by Zaqariah Causey
style profile : DAVID GREY<br />
Written by Darnell Thomas, Photography by Rebeca Gonzalez<br />
WHAT IS NEW WITH THE<br />
@COTTAGESCHOLAR?<br />
I published a few issues years ago.<br />
<strong>The</strong>n decided to stop and make work<br />
because all of the blogs and internet<br />
postings made it easier for me to share<br />
my work that way than it was to print<br />
and ship to people in hopes that it<br />
was received or shared. For the last<br />
three or four years, I have just been<br />
making work on a daily basis. I updated<br />
my website in the fall which<br />
includes lots of postings of my commercial<br />
and contemplative work as<br />
well. A friend put me on Instagram<br />
about a year ago and I instantly got<br />
hooked. That is where the cottage<br />
scholar lays. It became a daily practice<br />
for me . I would either post everyday<br />
or every other two or three<br />
days. It has become a nomadic experience<br />
to me when I am away from<br />
the studio or traveling. Wherever i<br />
travel to I make something which is<br />
how the idea of the Cottage Scholar<br />
came along. <strong>The</strong> first logo was actually<br />
the castle chess piece in a carriage<br />
just being carried along. <strong>The</strong> notion is<br />
that you can live by yourself and have<br />
your own studio and your own books<br />
rather than needing a big community.<br />
DO YOU HAVE ANY STYLE ICONS?<br />
Basquiat is certainly an icon. Every<br />
moment of his waking life he<br />
was tapped in. It looks like he just<br />
woke up in the middle of the best<br />
used or vintage clothing store and<br />
still looks put together. Paul Newman<br />
and anything in the early seventies<br />
which was an amazing time.<br />
It was the time when we weren’t to<br />
bell-bottomed out yet where things<br />
still fit and sun drenched with a Mexican<br />
style to it. It was fun and stuff<br />
fit. Sean Connery has always been a<br />
style icon for me. In the first three<br />
bond films. It is perfect in the modern<br />
era where everything is fitted and<br />
clean. <strong>The</strong>re is Carrie Grant in north<br />
films and he is the epitome of cool.
WHAT DO YOU BUILD<br />
YOUR DAILY LOOK<br />
AROUND? WHEN DO YOU<br />
DRESS YOUR BEST?<br />
I’m really lazy. I walk into<br />
my closet to scan my things<br />
and it takes 25 seconds to<br />
come up with an outfit. If I<br />
am not in front of people, I<br />
WE NOTICE THAT YOU<br />
TRAVEL QUITE A BIT.<br />
WHAT DO YOU PICK UP<br />
FORM THESE UNIQUE<br />
PLACES? WHAT WOULD<br />
YOU SAY IS THE MOST<br />
STYLISH CITY THAT YOU<br />
HAVE BEEN TO?<br />
Traveling to places like<br />
WHAT HAS BEEN YOUR<br />
FAVORITE TREND<br />
THROUGHOUT YOUR<br />
LIFE? HOW HAS YOUR<br />
STYLE TRANSFORMED?<br />
I was always a wannabe<br />
skate kid. I was always really<br />
inspired by that late<br />
seventies skate world. We<br />
WHAT ARE YOUR<br />
THOUGHTS ON THE<br />
MILLENNIALS AND OUR<br />
FASHION TRENDS?<br />
I think everything is fascinating<br />
right now in terms<br />
of trends. Because of the<br />
internet you can see everything<br />
at any given moment.<br />
get comfortable with wear-<br />
Italy, India, Mexico and<br />
are talking blue vans, blue<br />
I find it fascinating because<br />
ing the same things. My<br />
jean and my t-shirt will be<br />
worn to about four or five<br />
straight days. It gets really<br />
conferrable for me. Being<br />
in Santa Fe, I don’t sweat<br />
and smell the same way because<br />
it is so dry. I can actually<br />
wear things that will<br />
get dirty but not smelly. It<br />
tends to be the actual material<br />
that I feel like wearing<br />
on that day. <strong>The</strong>re is certain<br />
times I like to wear linen<br />
but I love wearing t-shirts<br />
because they are very casual.<br />
When I was teaching, it<br />
the US you pick up pattern.<br />
Cultures have different<br />
approaches to pattern<br />
making and different<br />
combinations of patterns.<br />
Indians have the most<br />
amazing ability to put together<br />
about four different<br />
patterns. That is just<br />
incredible to me. Europe<br />
in particular, people are<br />
stunning everywhere. <strong>The</strong>y<br />
understand proportion in<br />
Italy. Not just their clothing<br />
but even the size of<br />
their handbag in propor-<br />
jeans and a white Hanes<br />
t-shirt. I have alway felt<br />
comfortable in that and<br />
there was a period in the<br />
early two-thousands when<br />
everyone where rocking<br />
graphic tees all of the time.<br />
A graphic designer can get<br />
a job at some place or at<br />
some point just making<br />
t-shirt graphics. For a good<br />
couple of years my uniform<br />
was just seventies Levis,<br />
white Hanes and blue<br />
vans partially because everything<br />
was to big for me.<br />
it sped up the collage mentality<br />
really fast. You have<br />
trends now in the fashion<br />
industry that are fast paced<br />
and you have people making<br />
things when they want<br />
to make it with all of these<br />
resources. We are burning<br />
through all of our references<br />
but still some things<br />
will stay. It is those things<br />
that are starting to linger<br />
around that is interesting to<br />
me and it doesn’t seem like<br />
people are judging. It seems<br />
now that whatever feels<br />
was really nice dressing up<br />
tion to the type of cloth-<br />
genuine to the person be-<br />
for those who appreciated<br />
it. I like getting dressed for<br />
class because it really sets<br />
the tone compared to having<br />
a tie and jacket. I’m<br />
never uncomfortable being<br />
super casual in a non-casual<br />
environment. I am not one<br />
of those people who think<br />
ing they’re wearing or how<br />
many rings they’re wearing<br />
in relationship to their<br />
belt. <strong>The</strong>y get it all. Now,<br />
we are not talking about<br />
just models and high-end<br />
fashionistas but the average<br />
person on the street.<br />
comes relatively adaptable<br />
and acceptable by others.<br />
style is inappropriate. I<br />
mean, you can wear a ripped<br />
t-shirt to the grammy’s and<br />
it’ll still look appropriate.
that four hour meeting to<br />
WHICH PUBLICATIONS<br />
DO YOU READ OFTEN?<br />
I read a lot less these days<br />
and I tend to just look at<br />
pictures online. Instead of<br />
actually reading publications<br />
I just follow fashion<br />
lines instead. I love New<br />
York Times and the Sunday<br />
fashion publications they<br />
release each season. Often I<br />
find myself looking at women<br />
fashion more than mens<br />
fashion. I decided that I enjoy<br />
clothing and food these<br />
days rather than a publication<br />
or a printed magazine.<br />
WHEN YOU WERE A<br />
CHILD, DID YOU WANT TO<br />
BECOME A DESIGNER?<br />
When I was a kid I have always<br />
wanted to be some type<br />
of artist. Growing up in the<br />
suburbs, there was not a lot<br />
of culture around me so I fell<br />
in love with things like comic<br />
book and album covers<br />
because it was accessible to<br />
me mostly. I wanted to be a<br />
comic book illustrator when<br />
I was ten or twelve. If I had<br />
the discipline to study an instrument<br />
and If I could do it<br />
again I would be a musician.<br />
I have always liked designed<br />
things but more from object<br />
placement and space. I like<br />
placing things and I like the<br />
DO YOU HAVE ANY AD-<br />
VICE FOR THE YOUNG?<br />
I think this country is still<br />
an incredible land freedom<br />
but a lot of our systems are<br />
really broken. You are being<br />
persuaded to enter this<br />
system and be “paid slaves”.<br />
My only advice is to try to<br />
recognize some relative<br />
talk about nothing but I<br />
am not participating. <strong>The</strong>re<br />
is a lot of broken things in<br />
our system. Another thing<br />
I would say is that you<br />
have to find a spiritual<br />
path. You actually have to<br />
find a way to connect to<br />
an energy that is greater<br />
than your own self indulgence<br />
that you have no<br />
control over with concept<br />
or mind that flows in this<br />
universe. If you don’t then<br />
you will be lost. We are a<br />
spiritually bankrupt country<br />
as a culture right now<br />
because we have everything<br />
and do not know how to<br />
enjoy it. We are in abundance<br />
here in this country<br />
and so many people are<br />
scared, confused, sad and<br />
lonely. It doesn’t get much<br />
richer than this and have as<br />
much fun as possible while<br />
being mindful about it.<br />
sensation that objects relate<br />
truth and learn how to say<br />
to each other more than<br />
no to some of this stuff<br />
crafting things from scratch.<br />
because you are the only<br />
ones who will break these<br />
broken structures. You are<br />
just gonna have to say no.<br />
No I am not gonna work<br />
for two dollars. No I am<br />
not gonna work on that<br />
project for six months for<br />
you. You guys can go to
Photography by Jo Herrera, Styling by Delong Sui, Modeling by Aaron
Photography by Amy West, Creative Direction by Mariah Romero, Modeling by KT<br />
Collins, Modeling by Charles-Austin Ross
RAW BEET, GRAPEFRUIT AND ARUGULA SALAD + GRILLED CHICKEN<br />
+ BROWN DERBY<br />
Written by Hannah Reiter<br />
This recipe marries all my favorite aspects of summer cooking: grilling, farmer’s market produce, fresh fruit and homemade<br />
dressings. Salad dressings are incredibly easy to make and much healthier than anything you can find bottled at the<br />
grocery store. <strong>The</strong>y follow a simple formula of 3 parts oil to 1 part acid plus whatever herbs/spices or flavors you’d like to<br />
add! <strong>The</strong> one in this recipe is a simple 4 ingredient dressing that sets the citrus tone for the entire meal. <strong>The</strong> lemon offers<br />
a bright summery flavor while the mustard adds depth and compliments the earthiness of the beet and peppery arugula<br />
(which I bought down the street at my local Friday Night Farmer’s Market). <strong>The</strong> deep purple beet and bright pink<br />
grapefruit provide beautiful color to the presentation and make it impressive to dinner guests or as a fun meal for one.<br />
RAW BEET, GRAPEFRUIT AND ARUGULA SALAD<br />
4 oz Arugula<br />
1/2 beet, raw, shredded<br />
1/2 grapefruit<br />
1/2 Avocado, diced<br />
1/2 oz Goat cheese<br />
2 oz lemon thyme dressing<br />
(for salad)<br />
4 oz lemon thyme dressing<br />
(to marinate chicken)<br />
1 chicken breast<br />
Place chicken breast and 4oz dressing in bowl. Cover and refrigerate for<br />
at least 2 hours<br />
Heat grill to 500º Fahrenheit. When grill is hot, place marinated chicken<br />
breast in center and cook 8-10 minutes on each side.<br />
While the chicken cooks, toss arugula in half of the remaining dressing<br />
and arrange on a plate. Toss the shredded beet in the remaining dressing<br />
and place on top of the arugula.<br />
Segment the grapefruit and add to the plate along with the avocado. Crumble<br />
the goat cheese over the salad<br />
When the chicken is done, let rest on a cutting board for 1 minute then<br />
slice and place on plate.<br />
Drizzle any remaining dressing over the finished salad and enjoy!<br />
LEMON THYME DRESSING<br />
(makes about 8oz of dressing)<br />
Juice of 2 lemons (about 2 oz)<br />
1 tablespoon brown mustard<br />
3 sprigs fresh Thyme<br />
salt & pepper to taste<br />
6 oz extra virgin olive oil<br />
Combine lemon, mustard, thyme, salt and pepper in a small bowl<br />
Slowly add olive oil and whisk till thoroughly combined.
BROWN DERBY<br />
Never one to pass up the opportunity to use every last ingredient or make a fresh cocktail, I used the other half of my<br />
grapefruit to make this simple, refreshing bourbon cocktail to pair with my summer salad.<br />
2 oz bourbon<br />
2 oz fresh grapefruit juice<br />
1 tsp honey<br />
Pour all ingredients into a shaker with ice. Shake until cold (about 20 seconds)<br />
Strain and pour into lowball glass with fresh ice. Garnish with a lemon slice.<br />
Photography by Robert I Mesa
ALMOND-RASPBERRY GOODNESS SHAKE<br />
Written by Andie Fuller, Photography by Andie Fuller<br />
Happy June babes! To celebrate making it half way through the year here’s my Almond-Raspberry Goodness Shake.<br />
Whether you’re celebrating a good morning workout, a successful completion of another school year or just the fact that<br />
you lived through a Monday this is the treat for you. It’s a treat you don’t have to feel guilty about because it’s full of some<br />
mood-boosting, skin-boosting, hunger nixing ingredients. Maca powder is full of vitamin B, C, and E. It also provides<br />
plenty of zinc, iron, magnesium, it’s a great addition for both men and women but it’s especially helpful for women.<br />
Raspberries are high in ellagic acid, which has great anti-inflammatory properties. And the protein from the almond<br />
butter and Whey Protein are crucial for tissue regeneration and repair, plus protein helps keep you feeling fuller, longer!<br />
So, as if I had to say it… Treat Yo Self!<br />
OOEY GOOEY RASPBERRY PART<br />
1 handful of raspberries (fresh or frozen)<br />
2 tsp of maple syrup<br />
2 Tbsp water<br />
ALMOND-VANILLA PART<br />
2 bananas, frozen*<br />
1 cup + 2 Tbsp almond milk<br />
1 Tbsp almond butter<br />
2 tsp maple syrup<br />
1 tsp vanilla extract<br />
1 tsp Maca powder (optional)<br />
+ 1-2 heaped tbsp Vanilla Whey Protein Powder<br />
Use a small saucepan to heat up the raspberries, maple<br />
syrup and water. Heat until the raspberries begin to<br />
soften and break down.<br />
Add frozen bananas, almond milk, almond butter, maple<br />
syrup and vanilla to a high speed blender and blend<br />
until smooth.<br />
If using the Maca powder and Vanilla Whey Protein<br />
Powder, add now and blend for 1 more minute.<br />
Pour the warmed raspberries into a glass, top with<br />
your creamy almond/vanilla shake, give the quickest<br />
stir and enjoy!<br />
*Note: I love to buy an extra bundle of bananas, cut them up and put them individually<br />
into bags for the freezer. It makes it super easy to make this and other smoothies on a whim!
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