Down the Rabbit Hole - Holly Madison
mansion walls, I was Rapunzel locked high away in the penthouse of the Luxor hotel. Criss had become so controlling that security shadowed my every move—I wasn’t even allowed to go downstairs to grab a Starbucks in the lobby without a security guard or assistant being ordered to follow me. I started to wonder: Was I really any better off than I had been at the mansion? AFTER OUR TRIP TO Cabo, Criss’s performance schedule started to catch up with him physically. He no longer had the energy for any of the off-day excursions we used to do—and during his on days, I had no choice but to adopt his routine. Criss wanted me to be with him 24/7 and he balked when I asked to go on simple errands by myself. We slept in most of the day, ate Mexican food in bed, and headed straight backstage two hours before the curtains went up so Criss could begin his preshow ritual: get an hour-long massage, eat a sandwich, and sit for hair and makeup. And I thought mansion life got monotonous! Not only was I beyond bored, but my body ached from lack of exercise and activity. Fueled by his failing show, recently called “a dog” by Variety, Criss’s treacherous outbursts became more and more frequent. I spent most days walking on eggshells, hoping to avoid yet another land mine. My nerves were so frayed that I often felt faint and nauseous, causing female members of his staff to joke that perhaps I was pregnant. As I was showering one day, Criss popped his head into the stall. With a false air of casualness, he said he saw that Bridget was hosting a Valentine’s Day party in town that week and asked me if I was planning on going. I think he was itching for a fight. I felt my body weaken and the light start to darken as my eyes rolled towards the back of my head. Criss swooped me up before my knees could buckle, pulled me out of the shower, and ran over to place me on his bed. He grabbed his terry cloth robe to lay over me and snatched a leftover chocolate cookie from Subway that was sitting on his dresser. “Here, eat this,” he said, tossing it to me from across the room. “What happened?” “I don’t know,” I uttered breathlessly. “I just felt really faint all of a sudden.” I unwrapped the cookie and took a few bites as he stood over me and watched. “I didn’t plan on going to Bridget’s party,” I finally said. “I didn’t think you’d want to.” I was scared to mention Bridget in front of Criss. He had become so controlling, always demanding to look at my phone and trying to keep me from seeing or speaking to any of my friends. He seemed to have a major problem with Kendra ever since she announced her plans to marry Hank at the mansion (which I always thought was a strange choice, considering the Kendra I thought I knew would probably have preferred a beach wedding). Criss was wild with jealousy at the very thought that I might attend. Apparently, that was the right answer, because his spirits immediately brightened. “No, let’s go to her party!” Criss said, in what had become a rare moment of happiness. I continued lying in bed for a moment, enjoying my cookie, my boyfriend’s good mood, and the security in knowing he had just rushed to care for me. I was so relieved to have avoided another major
lowout that I didn’t even worry about what caused me to feel faint in the first place. In the first few months of 2009, my primary occupation was being Criss’s moral and emotional support. When he flew to Los Angeles to tape a segment on Larry King Live, I traveled with him. “Do you want to go on with Criss?” one of his managers had asked me as Criss was being summoned onto set. Huh? I thought. I didn’t come here to be on the show. I thought I’d just be sitting in the greenroom with the rest of the entourage that made the trip to Los Angeles. “No, I’m okay,” I said, waving my hands at Criss as if to say “go ahead without me.” Criss pleaded with me to go with him, gesturing towards the sound guy, who was already holding a second mic pack. I didn’t feel like I had a choice in the matter. “Uh, okay,” I said, hesitantly, thanking God I wore makeup that day and wondering what I would talk about. I didn’t realize it at the time, but apparently I was the sideshow attraction that was to be trotted out to distract viewers from the disastrous show reviews that Larry would certainly be bringing up. I had become used to being used for publicity at this point, but was still completely surprised by this particular ambush. Before I had been used for photo ops, planted articles, and local Las Vegas programs, but this was prime time, national television. It felt very uncomfortable. “So . . . you’ve been on this show before,” Larry said, giving me a pointed look. In 2005, I’d appeared on Larry King Live with Hef, Bridget, and Kendra to promote The Girls Next Door. It was obvious to me what he was thinking. To him, it seemed as if I was jumping from one rich boyfriend to the next with no purpose or pursuits of my own beyond being professional arm candy. And in a way he was right. It hadn’t been my intention, but the relationship with Criss proved so controlling and consuming that I hadn’t been able to make any professional moves of my own. All of those dreams that I had been so enthusiastic about just a few months before had been shoved under the rug as my primary focus became being at Criss’s side. Once again a lightbulb went on, and I resolved right then and there that I needed to make a change. It had become increasingly clear to me that I had jumped headfirst into this relationship way too soon. Having striven hard for fame the first 35 years of his life, Criss was an expert at putting on a charming facade and being able to win people over. After I had spent several months with him, the facade faded and I started to see what was underneath, what the real Criss was like. I learned that our views on politics and most social issues were vastly different. He had a fifth-grader’s sense of humor. (His entourage had to muster up convincing fake laughs every time he repeated the same joke we’d heard a million times.) I found him to be unintelligent and he seemed virtually illiterate. (He misused the word “misnomer” so much—even during interviews—that it made me cringe for him.) It was disappointing to realize how incompatible we were, but I cared about him, so initially I just felt sorry for him. But as time went on, I saw a mean, bullying, and deceptive side of him, and I started to get disgusted. I had been so enchanted by this man and by my overwhelming desire to feel loved and needed that I hadn’t even taken the time to get to know him before committing myself to him. I realized I needed an exit strategy. And fast.
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mansion walls, I was Rapunzel locked high away in <strong>the</strong> penthouse of <strong>the</strong> Luxor hotel. Criss had<br />
become so controlling that security shadowed my every move—I wasn’t even allowed to go<br />
downstairs to grab a Starbucks in <strong>the</strong> lobby without a security guard or assistant being ordered to<br />
follow me.<br />
I started to wonder: Was I really any better off than I had been at <strong>the</strong> mansion?<br />
AFTER OUR TRIP TO Cabo, Criss’s performance schedule started to catch up with him physically. He<br />
no longer had <strong>the</strong> energy for any of <strong>the</strong> off-day excursions we used to do—and during his on days, I<br />
had no choice but to adopt his routine. Criss wanted me to be with him 24/7 and he balked when I<br />
asked to go on simple errands by myself. We slept in most of <strong>the</strong> day, ate Mexican food in bed, and<br />
headed straight backstage two hours before <strong>the</strong> curtains went up so Criss could begin his preshow<br />
ritual: get an hour-long massage, eat a sandwich, and sit for hair and makeup.<br />
And I thought mansion life got monotonous! Not only was I beyond bored, but my body ached<br />
from lack of exercise and activity.<br />
Fueled by his failing show, recently called “a dog” by Variety, Criss’s treacherous outbursts<br />
became more and more frequent. I spent most days walking on eggshells, hoping to avoid yet ano<strong>the</strong>r<br />
land mine. My nerves were so frayed that I often felt faint and nauseous, causing female members of<br />
his staff to joke that perhaps I was pregnant.<br />
As I was showering one day, Criss popped his head into <strong>the</strong> stall. With a false air of casualness,<br />
he said he saw that Bridget was hosting a Valentine’s Day party in town that week and asked me if I<br />
was planning on going. I think he was itching for a fight.<br />
I felt my body weaken and <strong>the</strong> light start to darken as my eyes rolled towards <strong>the</strong> back of my<br />
head. Criss swooped me up before my knees could buckle, pulled me out of <strong>the</strong> shower, and ran over<br />
to place me on his bed. He grabbed his terry cloth robe to lay over me and snatched a leftover<br />
chocolate cookie from Subway that was sitting on his dresser.<br />
“Here, eat this,” he said, tossing it to me from across <strong>the</strong> room. “What happened?”<br />
“I don’t know,” I uttered breathlessly. “I just felt really faint all of a sudden.”<br />
I unwrapped <strong>the</strong> cookie and took a few bites as he stood over me and watched.<br />
“I didn’t plan on going to Bridget’s party,” I finally said. “I didn’t think you’d want to.”<br />
I was scared to mention Bridget in front of Criss. He had become so controlling, always<br />
demanding to look at my phone and trying to keep me from seeing or speaking to any of my friends.<br />
He seemed to have a major problem with Kendra ever since she announced her plans to marry Hank<br />
at <strong>the</strong> mansion (which I always thought was a strange choice, considering <strong>the</strong> Kendra I thought I knew<br />
would probably have preferred a beach wedding). Criss was wild with jealousy at <strong>the</strong> very thought<br />
that I might attend.<br />
Apparently, that was <strong>the</strong> right answer, because his spirits immediately brightened.<br />
“No, let’s go to her party!” Criss said, in what had become a rare moment of happiness. I<br />
continued lying in bed for a moment, enjoying my cookie, my boyfriend’s good mood, and <strong>the</strong> security<br />
in knowing he had just rushed to care for me. I was so relieved to have avoided ano<strong>the</strong>r major