Down the Rabbit Hole - Holly Madison
to believe we had a shot at making it together. It’s easy to stand on the outside now and list the ways this relationship was clearly doomed, but I didn’t have anything to compare it to. I had never been in a healthy, committed adult relationship before, so I didn’t even know what was missing. With all my doubts, Criss seemed passionately in love with me and that was what mattered to me at that time. The declarations of love from Criss flowed freely and he talked in front of his friends about wanting to settle down with me. He took me back home with him to Long Island to show me off to everyone he knew. As the holidays approached, I was treated like I was already a member of his family. Since we were both December babies, I began thinking ahead to our birthdays. Criss had already scheduled our joint birthday celebration to be held at his favorite night spot, LAX, but I also wanted to keep a tradition that I’d developed over the last several years: a trip to Disneyland with a group of friends. Near my birthday, Criss and I planned a day trip to the Magic Kingdom and invited my usual guest list, which included a few girls from the mansion. As the day grew closer, my mansion “friends” suddenly became unavailable. “You won’t believe it,” said one of the girls who lived at the Bunny House. “Hef heard you were going to Disneyland for your birthday and decided to take his new girlfriends the same day you’re going.” Seriously? I thought. Hef abandoned making the trek down to Anaheim years earlier. He suffered from chronic back pain, so having to walk more than a few steps at a time was incredibly uncomfortable for him. What are the chances that he all of sudden decided to go to Disneyland on the very same day I would be there celebrating my birthday? It was a pathetic attempt to get in my face and perhaps try to remind me of his earlier accusation: that the girls were my friends only as long as I was his girlfriend. “I don’t know what to do,” she grumbled. “He invited me to go with him and I feel like I can’t say no because I live in his house. This is really awkward.” Several of the girls called to explain that they wouldn’t be going with either of us. It was obvious Hef was trying to force them to pick sides—and they didn’t want to get involved. If Hef wanted to go to Disneyland, that’s fine, I told myself. He wouldn’t deter my birthday celebration. Criss and I ended up spending the afternoon by ourselves. I asked our tour guide to help keep me from running into Hef’s group, which was also on a guided tour, which I’m sure soured Hef’s plans of ruining my day and flaunting the guests he had ripped away from my celebration. Despite the fact that we avoided Hef, it still wasn’t the most relaxed day at the park. Criss spent the whole day trying to orchestrate “candid” paparazzi shots without seeming obvious, which I found embarrassing. I never mind having my photo taken, but I hated his sneaking around. The way he tried to hide his oh-so-obvious agenda from our tour guide made him look, to me, like a complete idiot. This was the first time I felt embarrassed to be with him, and it wouldn’t be the last. Back in Vegas, Criss and I filmed a TV segment together for a local New Year’s Eve special. The bubbly reporter who interviewed us was very interested in the diamond ring that sparkled on my finger. It wasn’t an engagement ring, but the large diamond birthday gift Criss bought me piqued the press’s interest nonetheless. For Criss’s birthday, I wanted to get him something special. But what do you get the man who
has everything—or at least could afford to buy himself anything he could ever want? I started reading interviews he had done online, hoping that it might offer me a clue or two. Criss had told a reporter that he was a huge fan of Salvador Dalí. I’d never heard him mention art before, but why would he make something like that up? During one of my final trips to Los Angeles, I tracked down a rare Salvador Dalí print at a Beverly Hills gallery. When I gave him the present, Criss tried to act impressed and thanked me vigorously, but didn’t offer too much more. His manager, who was also in the room, seemed way more impressed than Criss. Huh, I thought. Maybe he doesn’t really care about art after all . This was just one example of how the public Criss and the private Criss seemed like two very different people to me. For Christmas, I played it a bit safer. Criss had mentioned wanting to shoot a snowboarding episode of Mindfreak, so I commissioned Burton to create a custom snowboard and snowboarding gear. Believe it or not, he actually had the gall to ask me if Burton did that for me for free. So much for its being the thought that counts! All Criss seemed to care about counting was pennies. In return, Criss showered me with an audacious diamond cross necklace—making the previous pendant he bought me pale in comparison. He also presented me with another necklace, this one with a large diamond-encrusted infinity symbol pendant. On the back, next to the clasp, was a little charm that read, in tiny diamonds, “XO CA.” Reading the huge smile on my face, Criss whispered that he had designed this especially for me and that he’d never designed jewelry for anyone before, not even his wife. Criss had been married before, to his hometown sweetheart, but they filed for divorce after she learned that he had been spotted with an A-list movie actress. Criss never missed an opportunity to remind me of his high-profile conquests. “Wow,” I exclaimed, truly breathless at these elaborate gifts. “I don’t know what to say. I love them!” He picked me up in a huge hug. No one had ever lavished me with such elaborate romantic gestures before. Even though Hef had dropped a few pieces of jewelry on me, they were always pieces of mass-produced Playboy-branded merchandise, made even less personal by the fact that identical pieces were given to his other girlfriends at the same time. To me, it was the care that mattered . . . not the carats. Criss offered to fly my parents to Las Vegas to celebrate the holidays with us. I was impressed and flattered that he showed such an active interest in getting to know my family, something Hef had never done. “I think Holly should have her own perfume,” Criss told my parents one evening over dinner. “The slogan could be Holly Madison: Bring Out the Bunny in You.” My dad couldn’t help but stifle a laugh. “Can you even use that?” he asked Criss. “Isn’t that kind of a Playboy thing?” Criss was beside himself. He’d spent his entire career surrounded by yes people, so he was completely at a loss for words and clearly uncomfortable that someone dared disagree with his idea. Ever the entertainer, Criss could charm the pants off anyone (in some cases . . . literally), but I was
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has everything—or at least could afford to buy himself anything he could ever want? I started reading<br />
interviews he had done online, hoping that it might offer me a clue or two.<br />
Criss had told a reporter that he was a huge fan of Salvador Dalí. I’d never heard him mention<br />
art before, but why would he make something like that up? During one of my final trips to Los<br />
Angeles, I tracked down a rare Salvador Dalí print at a Beverly Hills gallery.<br />
When I gave him <strong>the</strong> present, Criss tried to act impressed and thanked me vigorously, but didn’t<br />
offer too much more. His manager, who was also in <strong>the</strong> room, seemed way more impressed than<br />
Criss.<br />
Huh, I thought. Maybe he doesn’t really care about art after all . This was just one example of<br />
how <strong>the</strong> public Criss and <strong>the</strong> private Criss seemed like two very different people to me.<br />
For Christmas, I played it a bit safer. Criss had mentioned wanting to shoot a snowboarding<br />
episode of Mindfreak, so I commissioned Burton to create a custom snowboard and snowboarding<br />
gear. Believe it or not, he actually had <strong>the</strong> gall to ask me if Burton did that for me for free. So much<br />
for its being <strong>the</strong> thought that counts! All Criss seemed to care about counting was pennies.<br />
In return, Criss showered me with an audacious diamond cross necklace—making <strong>the</strong> previous<br />
pendant he bought me pale in comparison. He also presented me with ano<strong>the</strong>r necklace, this one with<br />
a large diamond-encrusted infinity symbol pendant. On <strong>the</strong> back, next to <strong>the</strong> clasp, was a little charm<br />
that read, in tiny diamonds, “XO CA.”<br />
Reading <strong>the</strong> huge smile on my face, Criss whispered that he had designed this especially for me<br />
and that he’d never designed jewelry for anyone before, not even his wife.<br />
Criss had been married before, to his hometown swee<strong>the</strong>art, but <strong>the</strong>y filed for divorce after she<br />
learned that he had been spotted with an A-list movie actress. Criss never missed an opportunity to<br />
remind me of his high-profile conquests.<br />
“Wow,” I exclaimed, truly breathless at <strong>the</strong>se elaborate gifts. “I don’t know what to say. I love<br />
<strong>the</strong>m!” He picked me up in a huge hug.<br />
No one had ever lavished me with such elaborate romantic gestures before. Even though Hef had<br />
dropped a few pieces of jewelry on me, <strong>the</strong>y were always pieces of mass-produced Playboy-branded<br />
merchandise, made even less personal by <strong>the</strong> fact that identical pieces were given to his o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
girlfriends at <strong>the</strong> same time.<br />
To me, it was <strong>the</strong> care that mattered . . . not <strong>the</strong> carats.<br />
Criss offered to fly my parents to Las Vegas to celebrate <strong>the</strong> holidays with us. I was impressed<br />
and flattered that he showed such an active interest in getting to know my family, something Hef had<br />
never done.<br />
“I think <strong>Holly</strong> should have her own perfume,” Criss told my parents one evening over dinner.<br />
“The slogan could be <strong>Holly</strong> <strong>Madison</strong>: Bring Out <strong>the</strong> Bunny in You.”<br />
My dad couldn’t help but stifle a laugh.<br />
“Can you even use that?” he asked Criss. “Isn’t that kind of a Playboy thing?”<br />
Criss was beside himself. He’d spent his entire career surrounded by yes people, so he was<br />
completely at a loss for words and clearly uncomfortable that someone dared disagree with his idea.<br />
Ever <strong>the</strong> entertainer, Criss could charm <strong>the</strong> pants off anyone (in some cases . . . literally), but I was