Blackout_ Remembering the Things I Drank to Forget - Sarah Hepola
I’m in Paris on a magazine assignment, which is exactly as great as it sounds. I eat dinner at a
restaurant so fancy I have to keep resisting the urge to drop my fork just to see how fast someone will
pick it up. I’m drinking cognac—the booze of kings and rap stars—and I love how the snifter sinks
between the crooks of my fingers, amber liquid sloshing up the sides as I move it in a figure eight.
Like swirling the ocean in the palm of my hand.
I’m in Paris on a magazine assignment, which is exactly as great as it sounds. I eat dinner at a
restaurant so fancy I have to keep resisting the urge to drop my fork just to see how fast someone will
pick it up. I’m drinking cognac—the booze of kings and rap stars—and I love how the snifter sinks
between the crooks of my fingers, amber liquid sloshing up the sides as I move it in a figure eight.
Like swirling the ocean in the palm of my hand.
DRINK MORE AT WORK I wanted to be a writer since I was a little girl. Actually, I wanted to be a writer-actress-director (and, for a brief and confusing time, a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader-writer-actress-director). But I made up my own worlds; I didn’t report on real ones. I never even considered journalism until my roommate Tara became the head of our college daily and invited me to contribute. I walked down into a dingy basement where pale chain-smokers argued about school vouchers. A sign hung at the entrance. Welcome to the Daily Texan —where GPAs go to die. I found a home in the entertainment section, which allowed me to cover any theater production in town, while boys in ratty concert T-shirts grappled for the latest Pavement album. It hadn’t occurred to me I could write a story today, and it could show up on your kitchen table tomorrow. What a rush. There are wonderful reasons to become a journalist. To champion the underdog. To be professionally curious. Me? I just wanted to get free stuff and see my name in print. And I was charmed by the companionship of the newsroom. Writing had always been a solitary pursuit, but winding my way alongside those cubicles full of keyboard clatter felt like being backstage before a show. I had stopped acting, in part because I’d grown uncomfortable with people looking at me. Journalism offered a new kind of exposure, like performing on a stage with the curtains closed. At 23, I landed a gig at a beloved alt weekly called the Austin Chronicle, and I couldn’t have been more ecstatic. A real-live salary. Something called “health benefits.” I felt like I was standing on the first step of a staircase that stretched all the way to—why not?—the New York Times. Then again, the Chronicle was the kind of place a person wouldn’t mind staying forever. Staffers wore flip-flops and arrived after 10 am. A group got stoned by the big tree each afternoon, and production halted at 5 for a volleyball game. Each morning, a woman appeared in the lobby to sell breakfast tacos for a dollar, one of a million reasons Austin was amazing: random people showing up out of nowhere to hand out hangover food. My desk was in front of a brick wall that I decorated with a giant poster from the musical Rent. I’d bought the poster on my first trip to New York City, where I visited my brother, who was in grad school there. He’d taken me to a Broadway show, and I sat in those squeaky seats watching a vision of bohemia I hoped might one day be mine: documentarians with spiky gelled hair, drug addict musicians, lipstick lesbians in black catsuits. A week after I started at the paper, a scruffy guy from production stopped in front of the poster, pointed to it, and shook his head. “Seriously?” he said, and moved on. I didn’t know Rent had become a punch line of ’90s sincerity and manufactured edge. I didn’t realize AIDS victims singing in five-part harmony about seasons of love could make some of my colleagues want to punch an old lady in the neck. But that day I learned my first lesson in pop-culture tyranny: Subjective tastes can be wrong. That Saturday, when no one was around, I took down Rent and replaced it with Blade Runner, a film beloved by sci-fi nerds and cinephiles, although I wasn’t certain why. I’d only seen it once, and fallen asleep.
The production guy passed my desk again on Monday. “Now we’re talking,” he said, giving me the thumbs-up, and moved on. I’d always considered myself fluent in pop culture, but the Chronicle was a crash course in acceptable indie tastes. I kept a mental list of artists I needed to become familiar with, much like the vocab words I used to memorize in middle school to casually drop into conversation. Jim Jarmusch, François Truffaut, Albert Maysles. The Velvet Underground, Jeff Buckley, Sonic Youth. The spirit of an alt weekly, after all, was to be an alternative. Our mandate dictated that the most important stories lived outside the mainstream. And also: Top 40 sucked. Every Thursday afternoon, the staff gathered in a cramped meeting room that looked more like a bomb shelter and lined up stories for the week. Debates were always breaking out, because those people could argue about anything: the most overrated grunge band, the notion of objective journalism, black beans or refried. I sat with my hands in my lap and hoped to God the conversation wouldn’t drift my way. But when the meeting ended, and nobody had called on me, I’d feel weirdly crestfallen. All that anxious buildup for nothing. I’ve always been mixed up about attention, enjoying its warmth but not its scrutiny. I swear I’ve spent half my life hiding behind a couch and the other half wondering why no one was paying attention to me. On the weekends, coworkers and I started going to karaoke, which was the perfect end run around my self-doubt. I would sit in the audience, drinking beer after beer, filling myself up with enough “fuck it” to take the microphone. Karaoke was a direct line to the parts of our brains unburdened by aesthetics, the child who once found joy in a Journey song. No singer was bad, no taste was wrong— which was pretty much the inverse philosophy of the paper, but my coworkers still loved it. I guess even people who judge others for a living can secretly long for a world with no judgment. At our holiday karaoke party, I blew out my vocal cords with an over-the-top version of “Total Eclipse of the Heart.” I was in that sparkling state of inebriation where the chain comes off your inhibitions and your voice grows so bold. The following Monday, our cranky editor-in-chief kicked off the staff meeting. “I have one thing to say about the holiday party.” He turned toward me, and his eyes lit up. “Sarah Fucking Hepola.” You could’ve seen my glow from space. Before that, I wasn’t even sure he knew my last name. GROWING UP, I saw journalism as a serious profession. I never anticipated how much damn fun it would be. Music festivals, interviews with celebrities, parties where Quentin Tarantino showed up. Dot-com money was pouring into our flophouse hamlet, and the city’s growth made the paper fat with advertising. We got bonus checks and open-bar celebrations. Coming to the Chronicle a year after college was like leaving a five-year house party only to plunk down on the ripped couches of nevernever land. Swag. That was the name for the promotional items that arrived with alarming abundance. T- shirts, tote bags, novelty toys. For a year, a beach ball with the words “There’s Something About Mary” roamed through the hallway like a tumbleweed. We got free movies and free CDs and free books. Complimentary bottles of Tito’s Vodka lived in the kitchen. Shiner Bock popped up in the fridge (we paid for that). Each Wednesday night, we put the paper to bed—and those were the words we used, like the paper was our toddler—and I stayed late
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DRINK MORE AT WORK<br />
I wanted <strong>to</strong> be a writer since I was a little girl. Actually, I wanted <strong>to</strong> be a writer-actress-direc<strong>to</strong>r<br />
(and, for a brief and confusing time, a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader-writer-actress-direc<strong>to</strong>r). But I<br />
made up my own worlds; I didn’t report on real ones. I never even considered journalism until my<br />
roommate Tara became <strong>the</strong> head of our college daily and invited me <strong>to</strong> contribute. I walked down in<strong>to</strong><br />
a dingy basement where pale chain-smokers argued about school vouchers. A sign hung at <strong>the</strong><br />
entrance. Welcome <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> Daily Texan —where GPAs go <strong>to</strong> die.<br />
I found a home in <strong>the</strong> entertainment section, which allowed me <strong>to</strong> cover any <strong>the</strong>ater production in<br />
<strong>to</strong>wn, while boys in ratty concert T-shirts grappled for <strong>the</strong> latest Pavement album. It hadn’t occurred<br />
<strong>to</strong> me I could write a s<strong>to</strong>ry <strong>to</strong>day, and it could show up on your kitchen table <strong>to</strong>morrow. What a rush.<br />
There are wonderful reasons <strong>to</strong> become a journalist. To champion <strong>the</strong> underdog. To be professionally<br />
curious. Me? I just wanted <strong>to</strong> get free stuff and see my name in print.<br />
And I was charmed by <strong>the</strong> companionship of <strong>the</strong> newsroom. Writing had always been a solitary<br />
pursuit, but winding my way alongside those cubicles full of keyboard clatter felt like being backstage<br />
before a show. I had s<strong>to</strong>pped acting, in part because I’d grown uncomfortable with people looking at<br />
me. Journalism offered a new kind of exposure, like performing on a stage with <strong>the</strong> curtains closed.<br />
At 23, I landed a gig at a beloved alt weekly called <strong>the</strong> Austin Chronicle, and I couldn’t have been<br />
more ecstatic. A real-live salary. Something called “health benefits.” I felt like I was standing on <strong>the</strong><br />
first step of a staircase that stretched all <strong>the</strong> way <strong>to</strong>—why not?—<strong>the</strong> New York Times. Then again, <strong>the</strong><br />
Chronicle was <strong>the</strong> kind of place a person wouldn’t mind staying forever. Staffers wore flip-flops and<br />
arrived after 10 am. A group got s<strong>to</strong>ned by <strong>the</strong> big tree each afternoon, and production halted at 5 for<br />
a volleyball game. Each morning, a woman appeared in <strong>the</strong> lobby <strong>to</strong> sell breakfast tacos for a dollar,<br />
one of a million reasons Austin was amazing: random people showing up out of nowhere <strong>to</strong> hand out<br />
hangover food.<br />
My desk was in front of a brick wall that I decorated with a giant poster from <strong>the</strong> musical Rent. I’d<br />
bought <strong>the</strong> poster on my first trip <strong>to</strong> New York City, where I visited my bro<strong>the</strong>r, who was in grad<br />
school <strong>the</strong>re. He’d taken me <strong>to</strong> a Broadway show, and I sat in those squeaky seats watching a vision<br />
of bohemia I hoped might one day be mine: documentarians with spiky gelled hair, drug addict<br />
musicians, lipstick lesbians in black catsuits.<br />
A week after I started at <strong>the</strong> paper, a scruffy guy from production s<strong>to</strong>pped in front of <strong>the</strong> poster,<br />
pointed <strong>to</strong> it, and shook his head. “Seriously?” he said, and moved on.<br />
I didn’t know Rent had become a punch line of ’90s sincerity and manufactured edge. I didn’t<br />
realize AIDS victims singing in five-part harmony about seasons of love could make some of my<br />
colleagues want <strong>to</strong> punch an old lady in <strong>the</strong> neck. But that day I learned my first lesson in pop-culture<br />
tyranny: Subjective tastes can be wrong.<br />
That Saturday, when no one was around, I <strong>to</strong>ok down Rent and replaced it with Blade Runner, a<br />
film beloved by sci-fi nerds and cinephiles, although I wasn’t certain why. I’d only seen it once, and<br />
fallen asleep.