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their soul from the time of birth.<br />

Just as a parent enjoys introducing<br />

new foods to a growing baby,<br />

we can enjoy training our small<br />

children to love what we love.<br />

Here is where example is<br />

extremely important. What we<br />

choose to love, our children will<br />

choose to love. Although God is<br />

not living inside a four-year-old<br />

child, that child can love going<br />

to church if you love to go to<br />

church. He can learn to love<br />

singing godly songs or going out<br />

on the streets to pass out tracts.<br />

Words and repetition do not<br />

teach affection for what is good;<br />

it is taught only by the example<br />

of the parents. The child emotionally<br />

senses what the parent<br />

loves, and the child finds his<br />

affections attached to the right<br />

things, even though God is not<br />

controlling him yet.<br />

A little two-year-old boy will<br />

want his Bible in his hand. He<br />

can’t read it, and he doesn’t<br />

know what is in it, but there<br />

is something inside him that<br />

he picked up from his father<br />

and mother that says, “There<br />

is something special about this<br />

book called a Bible.” He holds<br />

it in his little hand and carries<br />

it to church proudly. What is he<br />

doing? He is attaching his affections<br />

to the things his parents<br />

love. Someday the Spirit of God<br />

will come inside that child, and<br />

then he really is going to get<br />

excited about the Bible.<br />

Until then, let us use our<br />

example to guide the affections<br />

of our children in the ways<br />

they should go. We must guide<br />

them to love what is right and<br />

hate what is wrong. Watch the<br />

thrill level of your children. (I’ll<br />

say more about this in the next<br />

chapter.) What thrills your children?<br />

This tells you what their<br />

affections are attached to. Today<br />

that thrill of affection is called a<br />

rush. I want my children’s emotions<br />

to rush when they walk<br />

through the doors of the church<br />

on Sunday morning.<br />

Our emotions cover more<br />

than just our affections. Emotions<br />

also include anger, love,<br />

and many other feelings. A child<br />

should be trained to express the<br />

proper emotions at the proper<br />

times. Wouldn’t it be a blessing<br />

to children if they had never<br />

had an outburst of anger in<br />

their emotional experiences? It<br />

is possible. If they never see and<br />

hear outbursts of anger at home,<br />

and they are never allowed to<br />

view them on TV, they may not<br />

ever express them. Emotions are<br />

caught, as I explain in the next<br />

chapter.<br />

The whole purpose of teaching<br />

and training is to fill the<br />

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