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polish-american magazine <strong>#11</strong>, SEPTEMBER 2015<br />

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Summer is easily the most leisurely of seasons.<br />

Boundaries dissolve and bleed into<br />

each other the way the calendar warps,<br />

slowing towards the crescendo of Labor Day and<br />

then onto to crisper weather thereafter. This is the<br />

typical time when everyone starts reflecting on the<br />

last days of summer and begins to lament about<br />

our upcoming “Chicago Freeze”. I tend to get off<br />

track during the summer months when I am taking<br />

vacation, celebrating summer holidays, and attending<br />

barbecues, weddings and birthday parties,<br />

and it seems as if those things always hold precedence over work.<br />

I have to admit I’m somewhat glad summer is over. There is no question that I<br />

enjoy the warmth and all the attractions that come with it, but I have to admit that during<br />

the summer it seems like everyone is moving in slow motion. And I’m just as guilty<br />

of this as anyone. Like me, I bet many of you are wondering where the three quarters<br />

of the year went, and how you’re going to accomplish your New Year’s resolutions<br />

(Remember those?) and other goals you set at the start of the year, by December 31st!<br />

Don’t worry there is plenty of time still. We are entering a season where we cram what<br />

feels like a full calendar year into a slim 4 month.<br />

So as we complete “our end of summer issue” (marking almost a full year) I’m<br />

looking over the content and marveling at the cover story with Edyta Śliwińska, along<br />

with all the wonderful contributors who make <strong>REVIA</strong> possible and how the magazine<br />

has grown since our first issue. We have an amazing team here and seeing this progression<br />

has gotten me out of my summer funk and is driving me to continue to grow<br />

this wonderful magazine and offer more content to the ever growing next generation<br />

of Poles. Thank you all for your feedback and we hope you will continue this journey<br />

with us.<br />

Karl wrobel<br />

general manager<br />

With the end of summer in sight, many<br />

of you may already be making exciting<br />

plans for fall by dreaming up little minivacations<br />

to embark on, or shuffling through your<br />

closet in search of that favorite autumn outfit to<br />

wear for a long-awaited party or family gathering.<br />

Fall stirs up nostalgic childhood flashbacks filled<br />

with pumpkin patches, long walks in the park, beer<br />

festivals and cozy gatherings with family over dinner.<br />

In this issue, we wanted to note that fall can<br />

also be a great time to appreciate wellness: our own, those of others, and just the<br />

sense of wholesomeness in general.<br />

One thing I’ve noticed lately is the trend for people to take better care of not only<br />

themselves, but others too, in this collective kind of approach to wellness. As social<br />

creatures, we’re constantly sharing valuable bits of information on wellness with one<br />

another, drawn from daily experiences, the internet, or even the numerous social platforms<br />

we use on a consistent basis. Basically, we’re all experiencing an increase in<br />

empathy – a positive thing, and as a result, a more collective meaning of wellness is<br />

arising. Our altruistic urge and passion to help others eat smarter, exercise more, and<br />

have a deeper overall awareness of health is gradually becoming the social “norm”.<br />

And this is simply awesome.<br />

So, as we step into fall and try to appreciate the meaning of wellness, as it continually<br />

evolves into a mutually shared experience and phenomenon, we at <strong>REVIA</strong> would<br />

like to celebrate all the unique sides of you. Remember, there is no “right” path to<br />

wellness; each person carves and follows their own road. So take a moment of pride<br />

for all you do to help yourself and others EVERYDAY…. and enjoy our special end-ofsummer<br />

issue!!<br />

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06 -- Contributors<br />

08 -- marco Foster’s 5th annual “white Party”<br />

10 -- dar serca boat Cruise<br />

11 -- Pma summer ball 2015<br />

12 -- 2nd annual miami in Chicago<br />

14 -- musiC: top Female Vocal tracks<br />

16 -- dr irv’s health tips<br />

18 -- Polish entrepreneurs: marek janus<br />

20 -- edyta Śliwińska: beyond dancing with the stars<br />

24 -- ask an eye doctor<br />

26 -- Pma library Centennial Celebration<br />

27 -- polish cities: stary sącz<br />

28 -- Fga: Corinne meier<br />

30 -- ask a balanced babe<br />

31 -- memoirs of a model: garden of Flavor<br />

32 -- breaking barriers with allison sima<br />

33 -- ask anita : relationship reality 312<br />

34 -- supper with sylvia perez<br />

36 -- make-up tips<br />

38 -- la mode 38<br />

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stay healthy and insPirational,<br />

moniCa doleCKa<br />

managing editor<br />

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Allison is the Interactive Marketing Manager at Digi-Me and<br />

has over 10 years of marketing communications experience.<br />

She assists companies with brand development and<br />

lead generation. Allison is a proud mom, and a Chicagoland<br />

native. Her cultural background is Polish on her mother's<br />

side and German on her dad's.<br />

aNIa JaBLoNowskI<br />

Ania was born in Chicago to Polish immigrant parents.<br />

Growing up, she was always interested in exploring,<br />

embracing, and celebrating the experiences of first generation<br />

Americans, which eventually inspired her to start a<br />

nonprofit with a former classmate. Together they have<br />

interviewed hundreds of “first gen’s”.<br />

aNIa sZYMaNska<br />

Born in a Poland, Ania is a professional make-up artist<br />

and has resided in Chicago for over 12 years. Ania’s life<br />

passions include children, animals, and most of all, helping<br />

others. As a makeup professional, she now has the opportunity<br />

to put a confident smile on a client’s face.<br />

aNITa cHLIpaLa<br />

Founder of Relationship Reality 312, Inc., Anita’s passions<br />

in life are helping people with their love life and writing,<br />

and through her advice column, “Ask Anita”, she combines<br />

both! A Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Anita is on<br />

a mission to prove that happy and satisfying relationships<br />

are possible.<br />

sYLVIa pErEZ<br />

Sylvia is an Emmy Award winning broadcast journalist who<br />

worked with ABC7 Chicago as a news anchor and health<br />

reporter for over 20 years. Sylvia now leads Sylvia Perez<br />

Productions as a video producer, presentation coach and<br />

inspiring speaker and blogger.<br />

LEaNDro MULET<br />

Born in Cuba, Leandro is a fashion designer currently<br />

based in Chicago. His designs have caught the attention of<br />

models, fashion producers, and high profile photographers<br />

desiring to use his editorial ensembles for photo shoots.<br />

With his fashion expertise and good styling, Leandro has<br />

also dressed many celebrities from Chicago all the way to<br />

Miami.<br />

k MraZ<br />

Actress, model, writer, and filmmaker, K Mraz is also an<br />

activist for equal rights for women, minorities, and the environment.<br />

Owner of Ladie K Productions, Creative Works<br />

Media, and is actively pursuing a career in motion picture<br />

with the goal of changing how people perceive one another<br />

by shaping what they see in the media.<br />

MarTa DaBrowskI<br />

Activist, Editor and Writer. Originally from Poland, she is well known<br />

amongst the Polish community for her dedication and action for those<br />

in need. For the past four years, Marta has been helping women with<br />

her motivational group “Success in a Skirt”, where she helps women<br />

achieve their goals and pursuit their dreams.<br />

Marta loves vegetarian cooking and traveling.<br />

DIaNa EVa LEBIEckI<br />

Diana is very active in both Polish and Non-Polish events<br />

in Chicago, and is currently working on earning her MBA at<br />

Kellogg @ Northwestern. She enjoys meeting new people,<br />

volunteering and exploring all that Chicago has to offer.<br />

Diana is also on the Junior Board of the Gift From the Heart<br />

Foundation (Dar Serca).<br />

IWONA BOŻEK<br />

Iwona is Head Librarian and Special Collections Curator at<br />

The Polish Museum of America and oversees the library circulation<br />

and archival collections. Iwona is also responsible<br />

for the museum’s music, Polonica, and rare book collections.<br />

She loves nature and music. History is her passion.<br />

cHrIsTIaN DaVIs<br />

Christian is a UIC Honors College graduate, having graduated<br />

with the highest distinction in English and Rhetorical<br />

Studies. Christian has studied international journalism in<br />

Prague and is currently working on a novel. In his free time,<br />

he enjoys playing guitar and producing music.<br />

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Sarah is a certified, plant-based nutrition and holistic<br />

health coach, and creator of the women's wellness brand,<br />

BalancedBabe.com. Since her own holistic awakening, Sarah<br />

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• Personal Injury<br />

• Work and Automobile Accidents<br />

• Asbestos Exposure causing<br />

Mesothelioma/Lung Cancer<br />

• Construction Work and Fatal Accidents<br />

• Medical Malpractice<br />

• DUI, and Traffic Violations<br />

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What to do if you are accused of driving<br />

under the influence of alcohol<br />

1. Pull the car over<br />

2. Show the police officer your<br />

driver’s license, proof of insurance<br />

and auto registration.<br />

3. Listen carefully to the officer’s<br />

instructions,<br />

and do not object to their<br />

requests or resist cooperation.<br />

4. Remember, you have the right<br />

to refuse answering<br />

any of the<br />

following questions until consulting with a lawyer: where were you? Did<br />

you consume alcohol? How much alcohol did you consume? Instead, you<br />

can choose to answer in the following way: “I don’t want to answer any<br />

questions, I just want to speak to my attorney”<br />

5. You also have the right to deny the request to take part in any<br />

kind of testing whether on site or at the police station, that could prove the<br />

consumption of alcohol:<br />

• This includes being asked to touch your nose, stand on one leg, make eye<br />

contact, walk, or turn around<br />

• You also have the right to deny a breathalyzer test, blood test, or any kind of<br />

bodily fluid test, including testing of body tissue<br />

• Searching you, your car, or any of your belongings<br />

Instead, you can explain to the officer in the following way:<br />

“I refuse to take any tests until I first speak to my lawyer”.<br />

6. Should you decide to not answer any questions, or refuse testing,<br />

be prepared to possibly face psychological pressure by the officer through<br />

yelling, verbal or physical threats, or even through exaggerated friendliness.<br />

7. CONTACT PETER C. WACHOWSKI.<br />

What to do in case<br />

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Keep nearby<br />

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1. Pull the car over.<br />

Never leave the scene of<br />

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2. Offer assistance<br />

If anyone has sustained<br />

injuries, immediately call<br />

for a doctor or ambulance.<br />

3. Seek medical<br />

attention Should you have any doubts regarding your<br />

health or anyone else involved in the accident with you,<br />

immediately call for an ambulance to transport you to the<br />

nearest medical facility.<br />

4. Notify the police<br />

Filing a police report can be helpful should an investigation<br />

be carried out and the case goes to court.<br />

5. Gather and provide information<br />

State law requires drivers to release their first and last<br />

name, address, telephone number, and vehicle registration<br />

number, as well as the information of the vehicle<br />

owner. Also, ask for proof of the other drivers insurance,<br />

and collect necessary information from any witnesses.<br />

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Contact your insurance company as soon as possible to<br />

provide them with all crucial information.<br />

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e v e n t s<br />

white party<br />

Honoring philanthropy in unforgettable fashion, Marco Foster’s fifth annual<br />

White Party had Chicagoans painting the town white hot. On Friday, July 24,<br />

2015, Chicago altruist and entrepreneur, Marco Foster, hosted over 800 guests<br />

with an evening of premium food and drink from Untitled Supper Club, along<br />

with energetic music, creative performances, and sizzling summertime fashion<br />

– all benefiting the locally founded charity, One Hope United. The event was<br />

well-attended and ultimately raised over $20,000 for the charity very close to<br />

Marco’s heart.<br />

PhotograPhers: hanK Pearl, julio KnaPP<br />

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e v e n t s<br />

Dar serca Boat cruise 2015<br />

On Sunday, June 28th 2015, Gift from the Heart<br />

Foundation (Dar Serca) celebrated its 4th annual<br />

charity boat cruise – which was a huge success! A<br />

sunny and warm Chicago Sunday sky embraced<br />

the event with perfect weather, remarkable people,<br />

great food and tons of fun. Nearly 500 guests were<br />

in attendance, including special guest, International<br />

Boxing champion, Andrzej Fonfara and several<br />

current Dar Serca children and their parents, who had<br />

a magnificent time enjoying the company of loyal Dar<br />

Serca’s supporters. The event was co-lead by Junior<br />

board Vice President, Diana Lebiecki, and fellow Junior<br />

board member, Andrzej Wolosewicz.<br />

The luxurious Mystic Blue yacht featured 4<br />

amazing floors of festivities, including a spacious<br />

outdoor sundeck where all enjoyed the perfect 80<br />

degree weather, complemented with music by DJ<br />

Roman KW who cheered the crowd to let loose, dance<br />

and have a good time. Many were happy winners of a<br />

fabulous raffle prize lottery (which successfully sold<br />

out of tickets – nearly double from last year) where<br />

proceeds directly benefit the Dar Serca kids.<br />

Dar serca is a charitable organization in<br />

existence for over 27 years that has helped over 700<br />

children from Poland/Eastern Europe receive lifesaving<br />

medical treatments they could not otherwise get in<br />

their home countries. These children are brought to<br />

the USA from Poland where they receive specialized<br />

medical treatments including spine correction, limb<br />

lengthening, tumor removal, etc.<br />

Dar Serca also assists with housing, transportation,<br />

translation and other basic living needs and expenses<br />

during the treatment process.<br />

For ComPlete inFormation regarding Future<br />

eVents, sPonsorshiP oPPortunities, or joining<br />

the dar serCa<br />

junior board, Please ContaCt diana lebieCKi at<br />

diana@darserca.org or visit darserca.org<br />

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artiCle by: diana eVe lebiCKa | Photos by: andrzej braCh


pMa summer Ball 2015<br />

On Friday June 5th, the Polish Museum of America<br />

(PMA) celebrated its 35th Annual Summer Ball at<br />

Galleria Marchetti in Chicago. Over 160 Guests<br />

enjoyed cocktails, dinner and dancing with music<br />

provided by the Anthony Kawalkowski Orchestra.<br />

Guests were greeted by PMA representatives –<br />

President Richard Owsiany, Summer Ball Chair<br />

Virginia Cudecki, Managing Director Małgorzata Kot,<br />

and several other directors of the board, as everyone<br />

enjoyed the elegant affair over delicious food, great<br />

company and appreciated honor- with special<br />

awards going to Gift from the Heart Foundation and<br />

Shriners Hospitals for Children- both recipients of<br />

this year’s Polish Spirit Award. With warm regards,<br />

the Consul General of the Republic of Poland, Paulina<br />

Kapuścińska, shared her wishes in the development<br />

and purpose of the PMA, stressing the importance<br />

of the PMA in Chicago, particularly with its large<br />

Polish diaspora. Guests were also graced with the<br />

presence of a last minute speaker – Joanna Fabisiak<br />

– member of the Sejm of the Republic of Poland, and<br />

chairman of the Commission on Liaisons with Poles<br />

Abroad. This year’s event also featured a generous<br />

raffle, silent auction and “wish list” of items attendees<br />

could sponsor to further assist the PMA in their<br />

daily mission to sustain and expand its library and<br />

precious archives.<br />

artiCle by: diana lebieCKi | Photos by: julita siegel


e v e n t s<br />

The 2nd Annual<br />

Miami in chicago<br />

continues to Flourish<br />

On July 16th, JG Events hosted the 2nd Annual Miami in Chicago event benefiting<br />

The New Horizons Center. The event was a smashing success selling out tickets on<br />

the evening on July 15th. During the event, Oak Street Beach was transformed into<br />

a spectacle of fashion and flair, featuring Brazilian dance performances by Body<br />

Movin’ and sounds from renowned local talents, DJ Madrid and DJ Kamil, along with<br />

the enjoyment of hosted cocktails.<br />

Now in its second year, the event has proven to continue growing, this time raising<br />

nearly $2,000 for The New Horizons Center, with the specific intention dedicated<br />

to building a new park. New Horizons has honored Janay Graves, Founder of JG<br />

Events, with the Friends of Friends award for her unsurpassed support over the past<br />

several years. NHC provides education and development to children and adults with<br />

disabilities and autism. The goal for JG Events and the NHC partnership is provide<br />

assistance to overcome challenges in reaching optimal potential. The anticipation<br />

for next year is already building and the longstanding partnership of JG Events and<br />

NHC will only grow in strength and numbers.<br />

Miami in Chicago can only be a success with its dedicated sponsors:<br />

Spoil Me Salon, Oak Street Beach and Levy Restaurant Group, and more.<br />

source: j. noel public relations<br />

PhotograPhy: roCKin ray PhotograPhy<br />

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m u s i c<br />

Top Female Vocal Tracks<br />

to Enjoy This Fall (part I)<br />

By: Christian Davis<br />

& Monica Dolecka<br />

The Civil Wars - Falling<br />

– Featuring Joy Williams<br />

(Christian’s pick)<br />

With dark lyrics of love, this folk<br />

duet spellbinds audiences with<br />

their vocal chemistry and their<br />

uncanny image as two Alabaman<br />

sweethearts, circa 1864. The<br />

captivating pair, comprised<br />

of the ever-enticing Joy<br />

Williams and the handsome<br />

John Paul White, originally<br />

met at a songwriting workshop<br />

in Nashville in 2008<br />

(144 years after their ghosts<br />

THE CIVIL WARS<br />

were buried holding hands in a<br />

confederate cemetery from the<br />

American Civil War). Following<br />

their first single, “Falling”, the<br />

duo’s first album Barton Hollow<br />

sold 623K copies, landing them<br />

the first of four Grammy Awards<br />

for Best Folk Album, and was<br />

the No. 1 album on iTunes and<br />

Billboard Folk Albums chart.<br />

Fans were devastated when the<br />

couple split in 2014.<br />

HAERTS<br />

Haerts – All the Days –<br />

Featuring Nini Fabi<br />

(Monica’s pick)<br />

Formed in 2010, Haerts hails<br />

from the heart of Brooklyn.<br />

Nini Fabi, Ben Gebert, Garrett<br />

Lenner, and Derek McWilliam<br />

first tied their unique talents<br />

after joining souls as music<br />

students at the Iceland Academy<br />

of Arts – and they’ve been on<br />

fire ever since. Their first album,<br />

Hemiplegia, was released in<br />

October 2013 and has<br />

topped charts across the<br />

globe. Nini’s voice is<br />

one of a modern Stevie<br />

Nicks, a confident<br />

feminine roar reflecting<br />

a woman proud of her<br />

eclectic spirit – yet sultry<br />

– as her hum echoes<br />

into a soft background<br />

of xylophone, guitar and<br />

tambourine. Nini’s contralto<br />

voice invigorates the air with<br />

power and passion, while instantaneously<br />

humming back<br />

to cloak the soft strum of the<br />

guitar. “All the Days” oozes of<br />

melodious beach instruments,<br />

evoking a story of emotions<br />

about life, loss and coveted<br />

summer love. Haerts undeniably<br />

celebrates a fondness for<br />

the simple life. The group is<br />

currently touring this summer in<br />

both America and Europe.<br />

The Hics - Tangle –<br />

Featuring Roxane Dayette<br />

(Christian’s pick)<br />

The Hics, an admittedly lackluster<br />

monicker, is actually derived<br />

from Hickory, the type of wood<br />

used to make drumsticks. The<br />

mellow, urban and somewhat<br />

tribal vibe of this 6-piece electronic<br />

act is likewise comprised<br />

of a female and male vocal duet,<br />

starring the mellifluous Roxane<br />

Dayette and baritone, Sam Paul<br />

Evans. Lyrically, they deliver an<br />

awe-inspiring blend of riddles<br />

that thematically play into the<br />

locked horns of intimacy and<br />

individuality, and their metaphors<br />

address the persuasive<br />

elements at play when it<br />

comes to falling both in and<br />

out of love; hence, “Tangle,<br />

be close, just go, too close,<br />

confined to illusion pulling me<br />

in, dissolving before me, about<br />

to give in.” After having met at<br />

Pimlico Academy in Westminster<br />

London, the group released<br />

their first full length EP Tangle,<br />

in August of 2013.<br />

Lykke Li - I Never Learn<br />

(Monica’s pick)<br />

Swedish-born indie-pop singer,<br />

Lykke’s Li’s first single, “Follow<br />

Rivers” (2011) borrows the<br />

girlish swagger of modern popmuse,<br />

Ellie Goulding. Lykke’s<br />

vocals emit into the air a soft<br />

sweetness, although her lyrics<br />

explicitly assure women as powerful<br />

and self-sufficient beings<br />

who endure some of life’s toughest<br />

hardships.<br />

Her solo soprano<br />

voice is timeless, incorporating<br />

elements of<br />

electronica, indie-house<br />

and classical, blended<br />

with traditional pop<br />

and alternative. Lykke’s<br />

lyrics flow as one melodious<br />

string of love<br />

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frequently seen in older, post-menopausal<br />

women. The difference between the sexes is<br />

due to the makeup of the connective tissue<br />

between the overlaying skin and the deep<br />

muscle fascia. In women, this fascia has<br />

been shown to be more vertically oriented,<br />

thus creating closed pockets that cause enlarged<br />

or excessive fat cells in order to “push<br />

out” the overlaying adjacent skin, which<br />

leads to the puckering we call “cellulite”.<br />

When cellulite is present, there is nothing<br />

abnormal about a person’s body makeup, or<br />

their fat cells. Even a thin athletic body can<br />

have localized areas of dimpling due to the<br />

connective tissue compartmentalizing the fat<br />

between the skin and underlying muscle.<br />

The question is: What can be done?<br />

Creams<br />

We have all seen ads in fashion magazines<br />

and infomercials marketing a wonder cream<br />

that can “dissolve” cellulite. Most of these<br />

creams contain a medicine called theophylline.<br />

Theophylline is a commonly prescribed<br />

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as well as a decrease in waist and thigh<br />

circumference with the use of theophylline,<br />

however, the problem is there is no scientific<br />

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But the good news is that are minimal side<br />

effects from these kinds of products. There<br />

is minimal systemic absorption of the cream,<br />

in addition to the very low chance [25%] of<br />

developing a rash.<br />

Massage<br />

Endermologie is a form of deep tissue massage<br />

where a mechanical device is used to<br />

essentially suction up folds of skin and roll<br />

it two revolving rollers. It breaks down fat<br />

and excretes it from the body, leading to a<br />

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and cellulite. An analysis of bodily<br />

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muscle fascia, which may lead to a smoothing<br />

out of contour irregularities. However,<br />

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data. Other things to consider with this form<br />

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to 14 treatments, which may be painful, and<br />

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Radio frequency (Javeshape tm, Accent<br />

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This technology can create a tighter,<br />

smoother and long-lasting appearance of the<br />

skin, usually taking 1-3 treatments before<br />

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Surgical Treatment<br />

Surgical treatment is also a reasonable and<br />

reliable option for treating the underlying<br />

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pickle for, or loop lysing cannula, can be<br />

used to disrupt the facial attachment between<br />

the skin and underlying musical fascia<br />

that causes dimpling. This may need to be<br />

combined with liposuction, or fat injection,<br />

to improve any contour irregularity and<br />

prevent reattachment of the fascia, thereby<br />

providing an overall improvement in body<br />

contour and appearance.<br />

Laser Therapy<br />

Cellulaze is another invasive treatment that<br />

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liquefy the fibrous bands of the fat packets.<br />

The additional heat from the laser will also<br />

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Cellulite is a difficult, and often misunderstood,<br />

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Surgical intervention is an option, but<br />

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WHEN YOU FIRST SET EYES ON EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA, YOU CAN’T HELP BUT<br />

BE AWESTRUCK BY HER NATURAL AND SOPHISTICATED BEAUTY, AND<br />

HER DANCING, WHICH FLOWS CALMLY AND EFFORTLESSLY. EDYTA’S<br />

POSITIVE ENERGY CAN LIGHT UP A ROOM AND HER POSITIVITY IS SIMPLY<br />

INFECTIOUS. YOU MAY RECOGNIZE EDYTA FROM HER 10 MEMORABLE<br />

SEASONS ON DANCING WITH THE STARS, WHERE SHE UNVEILED TO THE<br />

WORLD HER SWEET AND FIERCE PERSONALITY, FLAWLESS DANCING, AND<br />

SUPERB COACHING SKILLS. I FIRST MET EDYTA IN 2011 WHEN SHE WAS<br />

INVITED TO COACH AT A STUDIO WHERE I REGULARLY DANCED, HERE<br />

IN CHICAGO. TO ME, SHE IS AN INSPIRATIONAL BALLROOM DANCER<br />

– AND WOMAN – AND I WAS TRULY HONORED TO LEARN HER STORY<br />

ABOUT WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A MOM, BALLROOM DANCE ICON, AND<br />

ENCOURAGING ROLE MODEL TO WOMEN EVERYWHERE.<br />

<strong>REVIA</strong>: Where are you originally from<br />

in Poland, and how did you eventually<br />

come to the States?<br />

EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA: I was born in<br />

Warsaw, and spent the first 20 years<br />

of my life there. Before coming to<br />

the US, I was dancing and traveling<br />

to big competitions like Blackpool<br />

in England – the biggest ballroom<br />

dance competition in the world. I<br />

was looking for a partner at the time<br />

because I had just split up with my<br />

long-term partner and eventually…<br />

I met Alec! We had a little try-out,<br />

and Alec and I clicked from the<br />

start. So I decided to give it a try and<br />

moved to San Francisco for a couple<br />

months and thought, Let’s just see<br />

how it goes. It’s a common practice<br />

in the ballroom world to try out with<br />

someone from a different region<br />

because when you’re at a certain<br />

level, there aren’t many people in<br />

your own country to choose from. It<br />

was summer time then, and I could<br />

easily take time off from school, so<br />

it was perfect timing. And it actually<br />

went really well. We went to our first<br />

competition, got great results and,<br />

well, I just never moved back [Softly<br />

Laughs].<br />

But, it’s not like I desperately<br />

wanted to move to America. I was<br />

very happy at home, very close to my<br />

family, but I knew dancing with Alec<br />

was a once in a lifetime opportunity,<br />

especially because it’s very difficult<br />

to find a partner compatible with<br />

your style, ability and personality. It<br />

was a difficult decision, but I knew I<br />

loved dancing. So when I met Alec,<br />

I thought, THIS is the opportunity<br />

to do what I love… and I want to<br />

continue doing it. At the time, I<br />

obviously didn’t foresee the career<br />

I would have. I just went with my<br />

intuition.<br />

<strong>REVIA</strong>: How did you first meet Alec?<br />

EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA: Well we both<br />

had mutual friends. The ballroom<br />

I always<br />

loved<br />

dancing and<br />

performing,<br />

and as a<br />

girl I would<br />

perform in<br />

front of my<br />

family and<br />

friends.<br />

world is huge, but at the same time,<br />

very tight-knit, so you know people<br />

from all over the world, and everyone<br />

meets every once in a while at these<br />

international competitions. I had<br />

a friend, British ballroom dancer,<br />

James Jordan, who asked me to<br />

dance with him at the time. But I<br />

wasn’t keen on moving to England<br />

because the conditions weren’t so<br />

great. James was on Strictly Come<br />

Dancing, the British version of<br />

Dancing with the Stars. Eventually<br />

James introduced me to Alec. One<br />

of the main reasons I moved to the<br />

US, besides that I loved dancing with<br />

Alec, was that I could still continue<br />

my studies. Alec and his brother ran<br />

a dance school in San Francisco,<br />

where I was able to work. I knew that<br />

if I moved to England I would have<br />

to ditch my studies and work as a<br />

waitress or maid to support myself<br />

while dancing. And I just didn’t want<br />

to do that.<br />

<strong>REVIA</strong>: You said you’re close to your<br />

family. Do they live in the States too?<br />

EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA: No, my whole<br />

family is in Poland; my parents,<br />

brother, Adrian, and two sisters,<br />

Renata and Magda. Both sisters<br />

have their own families now. No<br />

one moved here, except me, and I<br />

don’t think they plan to. It would<br />

be difficult for them to leave behind<br />

everything they built in Poland. But<br />

my husband’s family is here. Alec was<br />

born in Gomel, Belarus and moved to<br />

the US with his family when he was<br />

12, so he went to high school, college,<br />

and got his Master’s Degree in the<br />

U.S.<br />

It was very difficult for my parents<br />

to let me go across the ocean alone<br />

to America, but they understood my<br />

decision because they knew I love<br />

dancing. From the beginning they<br />

were extremely supportive, and from<br />

both an emotional and material<br />

point-of-view, they were always there<br />

for me. Dancing is expensive and<br />

my parents are not wealthy people,<br />

but they did everything to make sure<br />

I can continue my passion, from<br />

driving me to competitions across<br />

the country, to paying for lessons and<br />

costumes. I’m sure it wasn’t easy for<br />

them.<br />

<strong>REVIA</strong>: I know you recently had a baby.<br />

Has being a mom changed your life in<br />

any surprising way?<br />

EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA: Yes! I had my son<br />

in 2014, so he’s a year and half now.<br />

There are so many new surprises<br />

as a mom! Everyone tells you how<br />

incredible it having children, but<br />

you don’t get it until you have a child<br />

yourself. I mean I knew the logistics<br />

of having kids, like never having<br />

time for yourself, how you can’t plan<br />

anything, and how everything is<br />

dependent on your child’s schedule.<br />

When you have kids, it gets tricky.<br />

You definitely have to shift your<br />

priorities. When you’re responsible<br />

for yourself, that’s one thing, but<br />

when you have a child, suddenly<br />

everything is out of your control.<br />

But the most surprising thing is<br />

that a child gives you a new sense<br />

of purpose in life. It’s like suddenly<br />

you understand what it’s all about.<br />

People wonder what the meaning of<br />

life is, and I think it’s to pass down<br />

your legacy, accomplishments, and<br />

of course your love, to your children.<br />

I don’t want to get too philosophical<br />

[Laughs], but I think that’s our<br />

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destiny – to prolong our bloodline<br />

and give our kids everything we have.<br />

Not only in a material sense, but in<br />

an emotional, spiritual and cultural<br />

way. And the love…it’s unconditional,<br />

deep and very overwhelming. The<br />

amount of love you feel – it’s an<br />

incredible feeling, and you never<br />

imagine you could love someone like<br />

that. This is a completely different<br />

kind of love. So that was a surprise<br />

too!<br />

<strong>REVIA</strong>: How did you get started in<br />

dancing – and are you and Alec<br />

currently dancing?<br />

EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA: It’s funny –<br />

no one else in my family dances<br />

professionally, but I heard my<br />

Babcia was really good at dancing;<br />

best dancer in the village! [Laughs].<br />

Actually, in my family, I’m the<br />

only one who pursued dancing<br />

professionally.<br />

I always loved dancing and<br />

performing, and as a girl I would<br />

perform in front of my family and<br />

friends. When I was 10, I signed up<br />

for a dance class at school, and just<br />

got deeper and deeper into dancing<br />

until I fell in love with it! My first<br />

partner wasn’t really into it. He<br />

danced because I think he liked me<br />

[Laughs]. Well, he realized quickly<br />

that I was serious about dancing –<br />

and didn’t want to just hang out.<br />

Eventually, I found a partner equally<br />

involved in dancing and we started<br />

competing at regional competitions,<br />

then later traveling to compete in<br />

different countries. I started out<br />

taking class 2 days a week, which<br />

turned into almost every day, for<br />

very many hours. But because I<br />

loved it, it seemed very natural.<br />

Alec and I still love doing show<br />

dances. We’ve even produced<br />

Broadway-style performances<br />

and corporate events. I produced<br />

the show, Dancing Pros Live, a<br />

competition held on stage where the<br />

best pro dancers battle it out and<br />

the audience chooses the winner –<br />

right from their seat! So we are on<br />

the other side of the entertainment<br />

industry now, but still perform<br />

occasionally. We’ll be in Chicago<br />

performing at the Harvest Moon Ball<br />

Dance Championships in October.<br />

But in general, we are rather at the<br />

end of our careers as competitive<br />

dancers.<br />

<strong>REVIA</strong>: How did you initially land a<br />

spot on Dancing with the Stars?<br />

EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA: Some of the<br />

professional dancers on Strictly<br />

Come Dancing were personal friends<br />

of ours, so it was easy to find out<br />

where to send our resumes and<br />

audition videos. We knew a lot about<br />

the show and so when we heard it’s<br />

going to be produced in America,<br />

we thought it would be a good idea<br />

to try. I was 25 at the time, and Alec<br />

and I were at the point in our careers<br />

where we were unsure if we wanted<br />

to stick with competitive dancing.<br />

We both loved performing and<br />

thought DWTS would be something<br />

different since it’s still a competition,<br />

but the main focus is on celebrity<br />

performances. The opportunity really<br />

came at the perfect moment; we were<br />

both invited to audition and got on<br />

the first season of DWTS. That’s how<br />

it all started. I did 10 seasons of the<br />

show, and got along with everyone<br />

very well. I had the opportunity to<br />

dance with some great people like<br />

Miami Dolphins football player,<br />

Jason Taylor, and Cameron Mathison<br />

from the fifth season, who was a lot<br />

of fun – very energetic and positive.<br />

One of the blessings of the show is<br />

you get to meet so many different<br />

and unique people.<br />

But, dancing is a profession that<br />

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usually ends at a younger age, much<br />

like any other sport. It’s an art, but<br />

it also takes a big toll on your body.<br />

At the top of our careers, physically,<br />

Alec and I were training very hard<br />

every day, but now, we rather give<br />

up the spotlight to the younger<br />

generations. So I won’t be coming<br />

back to DWTS. The show gave me<br />

a completely different direction in<br />

my career, opened a lot of doors, but<br />

essentially, right now, I want more<br />

independence and stability in my life.<br />

<strong>REVIA</strong>: Having grown up in Poland,<br />

do you feel you’ve conserved any<br />

specific Polish traditions or values still<br />

important to you today?<br />

EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA: Of course. I think<br />

traditions are really important. They<br />

manifest your cultural identity. I<br />

speak to my son in Polish now, and<br />

would like him to speak Polish, or<br />

at least understand it, in the future.<br />

Traditions bring families together<br />

because they’re an opportunity<br />

to share important customs,<br />

like [Wigilia] on Christmas, and<br />

[Wielkanoc] for Easter. Traditions<br />

celebrate family, and I would like to<br />

maintain them as much as possible.<br />

Now that I’m a mom, I want to make<br />

sure my son learns the same Polish<br />

traditions I grew up with, and… who<br />

knows, maybe we can even create our<br />

own little traditions and customs.<br />

Another important value I gained<br />

from my family is definitely their<br />

work ethic; to work hard in life for<br />

anything you really, really want. Also,<br />

my parents taught me that every time<br />

I’m nervous, I need to remember<br />

there will always be things out of my<br />

control. They taught me that in order<br />

to see what can happen, sometimes<br />

you just have to… let go. Basically, I<br />

learned to be a lot more positive and<br />

believe in myself, and not compare<br />

myself to others. I know as long as I<br />

pull in my end of work – that will be<br />

good enough.<br />

Also, I’m thankful for the<br />

educational system in Poland, which<br />

many people complain about. I<br />

went to some great schools (Liceum<br />

Tadeusza Czackiego and Warsaw<br />

University) with great teachers and<br />

professors and I think I received a<br />

very broad and universal education<br />

that I’m proud of. But I have to<br />

admit, opportunities for younger<br />

generations were not as open as they<br />

are here, and I still believe there are<br />

lot more opportunities in America<br />

than in Poland. But I’m definitely<br />

very proud of my Polish upbringing,<br />

and especially grateful for what my<br />

family has given me.<br />

But the<br />

most<br />

surprising<br />

thing is that<br />

a child gives<br />

you a new<br />

sense of<br />

purpose in<br />

life. It’s like<br />

suddenly<br />

you<br />

understand<br />

what it’s all<br />

about.<br />

<strong>REVIA</strong>: Are there any final thoughts<br />

you would like to share with us?<br />

EDYTA ŚLIWIŃSKA: One thing I’ve<br />

noticed is that Polish people can be<br />

very self-critical, and pessimistic.<br />

So my advice is just to believe in<br />

yourself, and give yourself credit,<br />

instead of only looking at your<br />

deficiencies. Look at what you<br />

can do, not at what you can’t and<br />

maximize that. Perhaps that will<br />

give you a leg up and then…you can<br />

do anything! For example, when I<br />

look at videos of myself dancing,<br />

I’m extremely self– critical. All I see<br />

are mistakes and things I want to<br />

change. At a certain point I learned<br />

to tell myself, ‘you just have to let go’.<br />

I know I’m doing my best; it is what<br />

it is. Don’t get me wrong, obviously<br />

you need to work very hard, but don’t<br />

judge yourself excessively or worry<br />

about what other people think of you,<br />

because that’s out of your control.<br />

If you let everything get to you, it<br />

will weigh you down and your selfconfidence<br />

will suffer.<br />

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THE POLISH MUSEUM OF AMERICA<br />

PMA Library Centennial<br />

By: Iwona Bożek<br />

HEAD LIBRARIAN / SPECIAL COLLECTIONS<br />

This year, the Polish Museum of<br />

America Library officially celebrated<br />

its Centennial. Exactly a century ago,<br />

Rev. Jan Obyrtacz blessed the newly opened<br />

Library of the PRCUA. One hundred years<br />

later to the day, Rev. Andrzej Maslejak of<br />

Holy Trinity Parish, blessed the Library<br />

Reading Room and the newly renovated<br />

Rare Books Room, adjacent to the Library<br />

on the first floor.<br />

The April 18th 2015 jubilee celebrations<br />

commenced in the museum’s Sabina P.<br />

Logisz Great Hall, where over 200 guests<br />

were welcomed by Managing Director,<br />

Małgorzata Kot (immediate past Head<br />

Librarian since 1995); the Master of<br />

Ceremony, Jacek Niemczyk, led the formal<br />

program with great zest and enthusiasm.<br />

The first speaker, Michele Jaminski, PMA<br />

Vice-Chair and PRCUA Vice-President<br />

congratulated the Library on its 100th<br />

anniversary. Shortly after, the large crowd<br />

was entertained by a musical performance<br />

by the Grazyna Auguscik Group. The jazz<br />

music harkened everyone back to the start of<br />

the 20th century, which was appreciated by<br />

the guests – some who themselves dressed<br />

in styles resembling the early 1900s.<br />

The dialogue portion of the evening<br />

began with Paulina Kapuscinska, Consul<br />

General of the Republic of Poland,<br />

who, having toured the exhibition prior<br />

to program, spoke heartfelt words<br />

on the Library’s mission to preserve<br />

the historic publications on display.<br />

Paulina congratulated the Library for its<br />

achievements, wishing it another 100<br />

years. At her request, Halina Misterka,<br />

Head Archivist, led the audience in a<br />

slightly revised rendition of the traditional<br />

Polish song, “Sto lat” – this time wishing<br />

the Library “200 years”. PMA President,<br />

Richard Owsiany, spoke on the Library’s<br />

history, while Iwona Bozek, Head Librarian<br />

and curator of the centennial exhibition,<br />

discussed the selected books on display<br />

(the oldest printed in 1508), and their<br />

importance not only to Polonia, but also to<br />

Polish literature and historiography.<br />

The winners of the “Bookmark Contest”<br />

for children and youth were announced,<br />

and met with great applause. The selection<br />

of the nine winners within the three age<br />

groups was not an easy task for the contest<br />

judges, as over 150 participants submitted<br />

their artwork; all were displayed during<br />

the celebration. In addition to cash prizes,<br />

winners received books and complementary<br />

PMA Library memberships. The winning<br />

selections were immediately printed as<br />

official bookmarks commemorating the<br />

centennial.<br />

A beautiful cake, especially baked for this<br />

occasion and decorated with the Library<br />

Centennial logo, was presented and cut by<br />

Mrs. Kot. Wine and refreshments, prepared<br />

by the Friends of the PMA Library, were<br />

served as ragtime music played by Włodek<br />

Zuterek filled the Great Hall. Guests had<br />

the opportunity to examine the specially<br />

prepared exhibition of old and rare prints,<br />

commenting with the amazement on the<br />

printed editions that served so many before<br />

us – and hopefully, will be as useful to many<br />

future generations of readers.<br />

Today, the Library is an integral part of<br />

the PMA, but its history began much earlier<br />

than the Museum and Archives, which were<br />

founded in 1935, opening to the public in<br />

1937.<br />

According to Mieczyslaw Haiman,<br />

Librarian and first Curator, the idea to<br />

create the Library was born at the end of<br />

19th century. It was not until 1913, however,<br />

when the decision was made to build the<br />

Polish Roman Catholic Union of America’s<br />

national headquarters in Chicago, when<br />

plans to include the Library were added to<br />

the project. PRCUA President Stanislaw<br />

Adamkiewicz called upon the organizing<br />

committee to create a library. Within a<br />

year, the committee raised enough funds<br />

to purchase the first collection of 4,000<br />

books. From the beginning, the Library was<br />

established to serve the Polish American<br />

public.<br />

Since its foundation, the Library’s<br />

mission has been to disseminate Polish<br />

culture and language, and that mission is<br />

as valid and current today as it was at its<br />

inception.<br />

Over the past 100 years, the Library’s<br />

collections have grown significantly,<br />

currently consisting of more than 60,000<br />

cataloged titles. Such a collection is<br />

possible thanks to Polonia’s involvement,<br />

as approximately 70% of books come from<br />

donations. In 2012, the Library initiated the<br />

Rare Book Conservation Project, focusing on<br />

the oldest prints in the collection. Currently,<br />

40 volumes, dating from the 16th to 18th<br />

centuries, have been restored. The first<br />

Library collection was bound in distinctive<br />

black cloth covers, and is referred to as the<br />

“Black Collection.” There are also collections<br />

originating from well-known publishers in<br />

Polonia, including Dyniewicz and Paryski,<br />

as well as textbooks printed for Polish<br />

Saturday schools, adding to the uniqueness<br />

of the collections. The Music Collection of<br />

books, songbooks, sheet music, and sound<br />

recordings by Polish and Polish-American<br />

composers and performers reflects the rich<br />

musical traditions of Poles in the US. The<br />

circulating collection is the largest of its<br />

kind, consisting of books in Polish covering<br />

fiction, biographies, language studies,<br />

history, geography, art, theater, culture,<br />

customs, and folklore, by classical and<br />

contemporary authors. The collection also<br />

features English language titles on Polish<br />

subjects, or books written by Polish authors.<br />

The Library also has a Children’s Corner,<br />

with books selected especially for young<br />

readers. v<br />

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p o l i s h c i t i e s<br />

STARY SĄCZ<br />

most popular and tasty of the mushrooms,<br />

great for making homemade “zupa<br />

grzybowa”.<br />

WHAT TO DO AND FAMOUS SITES<br />

The famous market square is a great place<br />

to start your exciting Stary Sącz expedition!<br />

Tiled with charming granite cobblestones<br />

from the local Tatra Mountains, the square<br />

is a historically rich scene, offering the best<br />

in local amenities, yet embodies a modern<br />

day charisma of its own. Breathing in the<br />

air, the town, you can feel the mystical<br />

aura serenade you – a true reliving of<br />

Poland’s longtime beauty – while at the<br />

same time enjoying modern Stary Sącz with<br />

local shopping and entertainment. The<br />

essence of the market place is an exquisite<br />

combination of historical culture mixed<br />

with contemporary appeal, easily attracting<br />

By: Monica Dolecka<br />

THE HISTORY<br />

Stary Sącz is the cultural traveler’s haven – a<br />

place filled with history, religious inspiration<br />

and a love for nature.<br />

A majestic city in southern Poland, Stary<br />

Sącz is nested low in the Kotlina Sądecka<br />

valley, belonging to the Malopolska, or<br />

“little Poland” province, within the Nowy<br />

Sącz administrative district. The town<br />

sits between the Dunajec and Poprad<br />

(Carpathian) rivers – the crisp blue<br />

waters famous to the professional sport of<br />

kayaking, as well as for many other nautical<br />

expeditions throughout history. Just north<br />

of Slovakia, Stary Sącz is bordered by Beskid<br />

Sądecki, a scenic mountain range in the<br />

glorious western Carpathians.<br />

The city itself dates far back into the<br />

Middle Ages, as early as 1235, when the<br />

then royal Duchess Kinga (daughter of King<br />

Béla IV of Hungary), and her husband King<br />

Bolesław V the Chaste, acquired the land we<br />

now know as Stary Sącz, in 1257. For most of<br />

its early-mid history, the city was a bustling<br />

trade route to and from Hungary, under the<br />

rule of King Kazimierz the Great. In 1795 a<br />

raging fire nearly destroyed the whole town,<br />

which had to eventually be rebuilt from the<br />

ground up.<br />

THE CULTURE AND CLIMATE<br />

Adam Zagajewski’s well-known book,<br />

Eternal Enemies: Poems, perfectly describes<br />

the heart of rustic Stary Sącz, as it is still<br />

experienced today:<br />

“The sun sets behind the market square…<br />

teapots whistle in the house, like many<br />

trains departing simultaneously. Bonfires<br />

flame on meadows and their long sighs<br />

weave above the trees like drifting kites.<br />

Knives descend on bread, on sausage, on<br />

wood, on offerings. Rain falls, the cobbled<br />

streets go black.”<br />

From this image you can’t help but<br />

imagine a welcoming town where hellos<br />

and goodbyes are easily exchanged as<br />

people go about their busy, yet peaceful life,<br />

where there is always time to invite your<br />

neighbor over for some afternoon coffee and<br />

homemade cake. Today, life in Stary Sącz<br />

still looks very much like this.<br />

As among most regions in Poland,<br />

maintaining religious traditions is very<br />

important for the citizens here. Ecclesiastical<br />

architecture brims the town with historical<br />

churches, some built over a half a century<br />

ago, which are conveniently found at every<br />

turn of the corner. People here tend to<br />

value their religion [mostly Catholic, but<br />

not always] and faith over materialistic<br />

possessions and prosperity, thus inspiring<br />

people to appreciate the ‘less is more’<br />

approach to life. It is also normal and very<br />

common for the whole family to attend<br />

church together at least a few times a week.<br />

Stary Sącz boasts an ideal mountain<br />

climate – very sunny, but with enough rain<br />

to harvest healthy crops. June and July<br />

are peak months for fruits and vegetables,<br />

particularly berries from the Carpathian<br />

meadows, and in the fall it is common to<br />

see people filling handmade baskets with<br />

the wild mushrooms picked fresh from the<br />

forest. The saffron milk cap is among the<br />

visitors from around the world. Music is<br />

also an important part of life for the people<br />

of Stary Sącz. As an expression of this love<br />

for music and entertainment, the annual<br />

Festival of Old Music offers an eclectic<br />

variety of both traditional and contemporary<br />

melodies for all to enjoy during the warmer<br />

months.<br />

The famous Papal Altar, which also<br />

houses the local museum, is dedicated to<br />

Pope John Paul II, and is a revered sight<br />

to experience. It is an honored site whose<br />

construction was inspired by the Pope’s final<br />

visit in 1999 after church authorities noticed<br />

a significant increase in tourism after the<br />

Pope’s special pilgrimage. The city wanted to<br />

commemorate the Pope and offer people the<br />

chance to celebrate his life and mission in an<br />

accessible way.<br />

‘Dom na Dołkach’ (aka, ‘House on the<br />

Pits’) is the official local museum of Stary<br />

Sącz and is a great crevice to learn more<br />

about the town’s legendary, yet sophisticated<br />

history. This baroque, Hungarian-inspired<br />

wooden house was constructed from local<br />

plank wood and stone (very common in<br />

Polish architecture), and is topped with a<br />

shingled roof comprised of individual layers<br />

of plank. It is one of the only structures to<br />

withstand the tragic 18th century fire. v<br />

PHOTOS: WIKIPEDIA<br />

SOURCES: WIKIPEDIA; WWW.WSTARYMSACZU.PL<br />

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FIRST GENERATION AMERICAN<br />

Drinks & Dialogue with<br />

Corinne Meier<br />

By: Ania Jablonowski<br />

God works in wonderful ways. As some<br />

of our readers know, I volunteer with<br />

the networking group, Connect.Inspire.<br />

Grow. Each month our group meets at St.<br />

John Brebeuf Church in Niles for a packing<br />

party to assemble lunches for the homeless, on<br />

behalf of St. Vincent DePaul’s aggregate food<br />

drive. Many parishioners know this as “Uncle<br />

Pete’s Food Drive”, in loving memory of Pete<br />

Zonsius. One day, I randomly stationed myself<br />

at the brown bag table alongside Corinne<br />

Meier, a first generation Swiss-American.<br />

After discovering how passionate Corinne was<br />

about her cultural experience, I invited her for<br />

an interview. Here is her story.<br />

“I was born in Switzerland, but raised in<br />

Coral Gables, Florida. My entire family and<br />

lineages are from there, so there’s only one<br />

American-born member in our family and<br />

that’s my brother,” says Corinne.”<br />

Corinne’s father had a business concept<br />

he wanted to launch, which her mom supported<br />

as she was not partial to the weather in<br />

Switzerland. “Life there is heavenly. It’s one of<br />

the most beautiful countries in the world. The<br />

weather can be like Chicago though, longwinded<br />

winters where you don’t see sunshine<br />

for days. The decision to launch the business<br />

was perhaps a bit influenced by the consistent<br />

sunshine that Miami could guarantee.”<br />

Her parents packed up their belongings<br />

and moved to the States when Corinne was 3<br />

months old. “My father rented, sold and leased<br />

used station wagons, vans, motor homes; any<br />

car for traveling and sightseeing. The kind that<br />

you could go camping in, where you could see<br />

the entire United States. It was called Swiss<br />

Am Drive”, she continues. “From the European<br />

perspective, when you visit the US, you<br />

want to see the entire country. They have the<br />

train system [in Europe] so he thought of his<br />

business the way customers would want to see<br />

the US – in its entirety. The economy was so<br />

strong in Switzerland in the ‘80s and ‘90s that<br />

people were able to afford it, and so it worked<br />

out well.<br />

It was this experience that exposed Corinne<br />

to the entire US landscape, from a Swiss-<br />

American perspective. She says, “It was one<br />

of the most beautiful ways to see the United<br />

States.”<br />

After her parents closed the business, they<br />

separated shortly thereafter, and Corinne’s<br />

mother moved to Chicago, while her father<br />

moved back to Switzerland. “As a licensed<br />

massage therapist and energy healer, my mom<br />

came here for the progressive alternative healing<br />

scene in Chicago. Her whole life’s intention<br />

revolves around building a natural healing<br />

practice. She currently works with cancer<br />

patients, right after chemo, to children with<br />

A.D.D. through LaHoChi Energy Healing, and<br />

she is also a Law of Attraction coach, hosting<br />

workshops in Chicago. She continues improving<br />

lives with all that she does.”<br />

Corinne remembers how she only had<br />

immediate family in the US for holidays. “We<br />

quickly built a tie with a huge Italian family in<br />

Miami, the DeNunzio’s. They treated us like<br />

we were part of their family, inviting us on all<br />

major holidays like Thanksgiving and Easter.<br />

They were European themselves, so it was<br />

almost as though they really were our family.”<br />

While visiting family in Switzerland,<br />

Corinne recalls, “It’s amazing. You land and<br />

everybody knows you are there. You got to<br />

see every member through a sit-down meal.<br />

Breakfast at one person’s house is followed by<br />

lunch at the next family member’s house. Food<br />

and conversation are a huge part of Swiss culture,<br />

where life is dedicated to large amounts<br />

of time for deep family bonding. In many parts<br />

of the country, the father will come home from<br />

the office to meet the kids and family for lunch<br />

while the children are in school. ”<br />

Before my interview with Corinne, I honestly<br />

did not know much about Switzerland.<br />

One element of these FGA interviews I truly<br />

appreciate is the Cultural 101.<br />

Corinne shares, “Switzerland as a country<br />

is divided into four areas. Italian, French,<br />

German and this little Romanian sliver, and<br />

regardless of the location, the directions on<br />

packaging for products to street signage are<br />

written in all four languages. In the German<br />

part, you speak Swiss, but read and write in<br />

German. Swiss is a dialect that flexes depending<br />

on what Swiss part you are in. Language<br />

is big and learning another language is a<br />

mandatory part of the school system. It is<br />

a country of precision, from homes being<br />

highly clean and organized - to never being<br />

able to say you were late because the train<br />

was late. A Swiss person is simply timely and<br />

well mannered. It’s ingrained in us at an early<br />

age, because people still live in small villages<br />

where everyone knows each other’s business.<br />

There are more unspoken rules than you can<br />

count and anything that bucks the system<br />

is immediately noticed. Standards are high<br />

for everything from education to business.<br />

A Swiss product is considered a high-quality<br />

product because they do not believe in cutting<br />

corners. Everyone has a true respect and love<br />

for nature. There is a deep understanding of<br />

waste management and how to be “eco”. For<br />

example, you have to pay per garbage bag. No<br />

matter where you go, you are surrounded by<br />

nature – from the city to the countryside. The<br />

air is fresh and they work hard to maintain<br />

that delicate balance. ”<br />

Corinne attended IB German programming<br />

from 3rd to 12th grade and has a minor<br />

in German from Florida State University. “I<br />

was lucky to inherit the Swiss language from<br />

my parents, giving me a head start on my<br />

German language fundamentals. This placed<br />

me into advanced language classes early on,<br />

which consisted of endless reading, writing<br />

and translating of poems. There was a beauty<br />

to this art of translation. I mean, the way the<br />

translation made us cross-compare the German<br />

versus American cultures. It was intense<br />

and often there was no direct English translation<br />

that would capture the same meaning;<br />

both interesting and challenging.”<br />

Directly influenced by her parents successful<br />

entrepreneurial spirits, Corinne decided to<br />

combine her passions for digital marketing,<br />

design, networking, fitness and dance into<br />

her own flourishing businesses. In addition to<br />

volunteering with Connect.Inspire.Grow, and<br />

Share Your Love, Corinne runs two exciting<br />

and unique brands. v<br />

Corinne Meier is the CEO and Founder of<br />

Meier Marketing, an inbound<br />

marketing agency working with Fortune<br />

500 companies to start-ups.<br />

Connect with Corinne at meiermarketing.com<br />

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SK<br />

Balanced Babe<br />

By: Sarah Baker<br />

BALANCEDBABE.COM<br />

Q: I WANT TO ENJOY THIS LAST<br />

MONTH OF SUMMER AND EAT AS SEA-<br />

SONALLY AS POSSIBLE BEFORE FALL<br />

COMES. HOW CAN I DO THIS? - ANNA B.<br />

HI ANNA! Summer is one of my favorite<br />

times to eat local, crisp produce. You can<br />

find this at Farmers’ Markets. They will<br />

never lose their popularity as a way to find<br />

fresh, local, and oftentimes organic seasonal<br />

fruits and veggies. Another great way to<br />

take advantage of seasonal produce is to<br />

enjoy a farm-to-table dinner by attending a<br />

Farm Dinner while you socialize and enjoy<br />

music. And finally, consider joining a CSA<br />

(community supported agriculture). CSAs<br />

allow you to enjoy the farmer’s harvest<br />

by personally investing money in the<br />

harvest. They are not without risk, so do<br />

your research first. To find out about local<br />

farmers’ markets, CSAs and farm dinners,<br />

do a quick internet search and you’ll get a<br />

list of what’s available.<br />

Q: I’M TRYING TO BE AS BIKINI READY<br />

AS POSSIBLE AND WANT TO WORK ON<br />

KEEPING IT THAT WAY YEAR ROUND. ANY<br />

SUGGESTIONS HOW TO DO THIS WITH-<br />

OUT DRIVING MYSELF CRAZY? - MARY H.<br />

HELLO MARY! Preach to that, sister. Don’t<br />

we all want to be bikini ready? Here are a<br />

few things to think about. First, be aware of<br />

the healthy balance of calorie control plus<br />

simply choosing the right foods. We know<br />

if we are burning more calories than we are<br />

consuming, we are losing weight. But we<br />

also have to focus on the TYPES of calories<br />

we are eating. Choosing “diet” foods low<br />

in calories, but high in other chemical<br />

additives, can really create havoc with your<br />

health. Focus on the outer limit of your<br />

grocery store where there are whole foods<br />

like fruits and vegetables, nuts, legumes,<br />

and lean proteins. Secondly, by eliminating<br />

foods and beverages loaded with sugar,<br />

you’ll start to see a difference. For example,<br />

alcohol is a beverage that can really prevent<br />

us from losing those extra five pounds.<br />

So, limit any alcohol consumption to the<br />

weekends or once a week. Another trick is<br />

to find a photo of yourself when you were<br />

at a slim and healthy weight and stick it on<br />

your fridge. This can be your reminder of<br />

what you CAN look like!<br />

Q: I’M FEELING INCREDIBLY BURNT<br />

OUT LATELY BETWEEN WORK, FAMILY,<br />

AND MY SOCIAL LIFE. I SEEM TO ALWAYS<br />

BE TIRED. WHAT CAN I DO TO RECHARGE?<br />

- TIFFANY M.<br />

DEAR TIFFANY: Burnout happens to us all.<br />

If you’re feeling the old burnout, maybe you<br />

should try to “date” yourself. Yes - this may<br />

make you raise your eyebrow, but women<br />

need time for themselves to connect, center<br />

and press that restart button. Sometimes<br />

we seek validation in being with others,<br />

but it can actually be empowering to do<br />

activities alone. Try these self-dates next<br />

weekend: Go to a coffee shop and bring<br />

your book or laptop. People-watch and get<br />

some work done while you relish your “me”<br />

time. Visit the local art gallery or museum<br />

to enjoy artistic and historic relevance of<br />

others’ creativity, or sit at the beach (while<br />

you still can!) and take in the sunshine, the<br />

calming water ions, as you enjoy the sounds<br />

of seagulls and waves, breathing in the fresh<br />

air. Or, read the book you’ve been putting<br />

off!<br />

Q: EVERY TIME I TRY TO LOSE WEIGHT, I<br />

TRY A NEW DIET. WHY IS THIS LEADING ME<br />

BACK TO WHERE I STARTED? - NICOLE C.<br />

HELLO NICOLE: This is one of my absolute<br />

favorite questions. One of the most<br />

important things when it comes to weight<br />

loss is focusing on your relationship with<br />

food and your emotional eating habits.<br />

Why do you binge eat? Is it stress? Lack<br />

of sleep? Or, is it feelings of guilt because<br />

of no willpower? Maybe you need to take<br />

“diet” out of the equation and concentrate<br />

on taking care of YOU. It makes a big<br />

difference when we look for the root<br />

cause of our stress. When we lack sleep,<br />

for example, we start to eat more for<br />

energy reserve. When stressed, we could<br />

be reaching for the tub of ice cream. Start<br />

balancing other arenas of your life and<br />

you will see that cravings and “diets” may<br />

start to fade away, and you will simply be<br />

practicing more mindful habits of eating<br />

whole foods. If we improve on these,<br />

we can concentrate on seeing ourselves<br />

as healthy and fit, and then slowly start<br />

incorporating these changes into the foods<br />

we eat.<br />

Q: MY KIDS ARE SO HOOKED ON VIDEO<br />

GAMES AND WATCHING TV THAT THEY<br />

NEVER WANT TO PLAY OUTSIDE. HOW<br />

CAN I KEEP THEM ACTIVE AND FIT? -<br />

JUDY L.<br />

OH JUDY! This is one topic I can go on<br />

about for days! In warmer weather, set<br />

aside time for weekend family activities like<br />

biking, hiking, or visiting a farm. The more<br />

active you are with the kids, the better. Get<br />

out the sprinkler and slip ‘n slide! Set one<br />

hour after school to play outside; play hide<br />

and seek, or do anything active and playful.<br />

Think of how you grew up playing as a<br />

child. You weren’t looking at a screen all<br />

day, so WHAT were you doing? In colder<br />

weather, take the kids to the local roller<br />

rink or indoor ice rink. At home, you can<br />

have hoola hoop or jump rope contests,<br />

or try “foot” volleyball. You get the idea.<br />

Not only will your kids be more active and<br />

healthy, but their creativity will flourish the<br />

more they play and use their imaginations.<br />

Yes, some video games and cell phone<br />

games can challenge a child mentally, but<br />

to keep a well rounded healthy lifestyle, mix<br />

it up! v<br />

HAVE A HEALTH RELATED QUESTION?<br />

EMAIL: SARAH@BALANCEDBABE.COM<br />

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MEMOIRS OF A MODEL<br />

Garden Of Flavor<br />

My Guide To Juicing<br />

By: K Mraz<br />

These past 6 years I've had the<br />

pleasure of working side by side<br />

with various organic, vegan, and<br />

gluten-free companies, assisting them in<br />

their marketing, sales, and distribution<br />

to customers everywhere. I've traveled to<br />

tradeshows, selling shows, charity walks,<br />

food fairs, and festivals in over 25 cities in<br />

the U.S. and Canada. Beyond being a brand<br />

ambassador and spokesmodel for these<br />

companies, I’ve helped train, coordinate,<br />

book, and manage teams of people to help<br />

spread the word about new products and<br />

perform demos at places like whole foods.<br />

Some of my favorite brands I've helped<br />

build-up have grown so large, they're now<br />

hitting international distribution. The<br />

latest brand I'm representing is Garden of<br />

Flavor, a raw, organic, cold-pressed juice<br />

from Chagrin Falls, OH, near Cleveland.<br />

Not only do they make delicious juices like<br />

White Knight, Appleade, and Mean Greens,<br />

they also pack together juice cleanses that<br />

include six awesome varieties intended to be<br />

consumed in one day.<br />

The Benefits of Juicing?<br />

Juicing is the best way to get in all the nutrients<br />

from plant based food without needing<br />

to digest all that extra junk. Absorbing<br />

right into your body, Garden Of Flavor's raw<br />

cold-pressed juice helps relieve the body of<br />

its digestive duties, allowing enzymes in the<br />

juice to crunch through anything needlessly<br />

lingering around inside the body. Garden<br />

of Flavor juice not only gives your body and<br />

digestive system an important day of rest, it<br />

is also a safe way to cut back on meals, or the<br />

need to diet, cleanse or detox.<br />

Cleansing allows the body to naturally<br />

wash away toxins collecting in the lining<br />

of the digestive tract, while absorbing<br />

everything the body needs like protein<br />

(14 grams in a bottle of White Knight),<br />

probiotics (One billion live organisms in<br />

the Turmeric Tonic), and alkalizing greens<br />

(Mean Greens has 5 lbs of raw organic<br />

greens like Kale, Spinach, Cucumbers, and<br />

Celery). Preventative and proactive, the One<br />

Day Juice Cleanse from Garden of Flavor not<br />

only helps clear up any potentially built-up<br />

toxins, but going forward, helps jump-start<br />

the body, preparing it for whatever comes<br />

next.<br />

3 Reasons Why I Juice!<br />

First, I believe life isn’t anything unless<br />

you’re willing to live it. I am someone who<br />

enjoys my two glasses (or bottles) of wine,<br />

my steaks medium rare, and bacon on<br />

everything. If I do the crime, I do the time.<br />

Juicing is a perfect way to help balance out<br />

my body. Every time I indulge on sweets and<br />

savories, I make sure to juice and cleanse all<br />

that away on a regular basis.<br />

Despite the fact breakfast is a very<br />

important meal that shouldn't be skipped,<br />

I have never been a big breakfast eater.<br />

Therefore, I drink a bottle of Garden of<br />

Flavor in the morning – usually the Goji<br />

Pineapple or the White Knight, and with<br />

added organic Chai, if I want caffeine.<br />

Another obvious reason I juice is because<br />

of my modeling career. When I first started<br />

modeling, I thought the best way to keep my<br />

figure was to eat as much as I wanted the<br />

day prior, and then avoid food altogether<br />

until after the show or photo shoot. I<br />

would eat a banana right before, and hope<br />

that I’d have the energy to keep modeling<br />

afterwards. Now I have a better solution. I<br />

grab three different Garden of Flavor juices,<br />

along with a Ziploc bag or two of ice, and<br />

drink them throughout the day. Not only am<br />

I absorbing all those amazing benefits, but<br />

it’s also helping me shed any toxins dragging<br />

me down by giving me a boost of energy that<br />

lasts all day long. So instead of stressing out<br />

my body, I feed it the purest type of food out<br />

there!<br />

Finally, when I’m working on film or<br />

video sets, it’s nice to have liquid portable<br />

food because I’m constantly on the go.<br />

There’s no time for resting, or even eating,<br />

so at least I know I’m getting the good stuff<br />

instead of running to the nearest fast food<br />

joint out of sheer desperation.<br />

Meeting Lisa<br />

When I first met Lisa, the owner of Garden<br />

Of Flavor, she was exactly the type of<br />

woman I thought she would be: kind, lively,<br />

and energetic. Her smile was bright and<br />

warm; she spoke enthusiastically about<br />

her wellness, her juices and RAW foods.<br />

We talked about super foods, pointing out<br />

favorite raw snacks the other should try, and<br />

I had a little back and forth Q & A with her<br />

about Garden of Flavor. Before I knew it,<br />

Lisa was off to her next destination leaving<br />

me with plenty of juice to keep me happy<br />

for the next week or so. Free juice is just<br />

another benefit of the job! v<br />

For more info about juicing, cleansing, and<br />

Garden Of Flavor, visit<br />

www.gardenofflavor.com<br />

www.facebook.com/gardenofflavor<br />

or feel free to share your own pics<br />

with #gardenofflavor


BrEakING<br />

BarrIErs<br />

OVeRcOMING OBSTAcLeS TO<br />

AchIeVe hAPPINeSS AND SUcceSS<br />

by: allison sima<br />

It is Bruce Lee who said, “Don't pray for an<br />

easy life; pray for the strength to endure a<br />

difficult one.”<br />

When I think about that quote, I can’t<br />

help but wonder, is that how you find true<br />

happiness?<br />

We all have dreams and we all have goals.<br />

To reach the destination we want, every road<br />

is different. Some are longer than others.<br />

Some are filled with potholes. Regardless,<br />

don’t compare your journey to others. We all<br />

have bumps in the road and you never know<br />

the challenges someone else is facing.<br />

There are plenty things that can stand between<br />

you and the ability to achieve a dream<br />

or goal. Some include fear, procrastination,<br />

not having patience, not being able to make<br />

decisions, or surrounding ourselves with<br />

negative people who discourage us. It could<br />

even be a lack of faith in yourself.<br />

When you allow an obstacle to stop you<br />

from reaching what you want in life, you are<br />

giving that obstacle power it shouldn’t have.<br />

The obstacles become excuses. Put aside<br />

your excuses.<br />

I have faced many obstacles in my career,<br />

and here are a few things I have learned.<br />

iT’s WhaT you love To Do<br />

Regardless of your goal, whether personal<br />

or professional, it is something that is near<br />

and dear to your heart. Incorporate what<br />

you love doing as much as you can in your<br />

life. The larger the percentage of time you<br />

can devote to what you love doing, the more<br />

happiness you will find, and alleviate stress<br />

in your life.<br />

iT’s noT abouT reWarDs<br />

There are necessities in life that we all need<br />

in order to live, and yes, that does include<br />

money. But if money and possessions<br />

ALONE are your goal, then you will forever<br />

be chasing happiness and left feeling empty<br />

inside. When you are able to live your dream<br />

or goal, that is the REAL reward. You feel<br />

content, complete, not stressed, and just<br />

happy. You don’t feel jealous or envious, and<br />

you don’t have to brag. And if you do have<br />

to brag, you are probably covering up for<br />

something you are still missing.<br />

Take aDvanTage oF every<br />

opporTuniTy<br />

If there is something that you love doing,<br />

do it. No matter how small it is, do it. If<br />

it doesn’t pay, do it. It’s not often you can<br />

achieve a dream or goal on the first shot you<br />

take. You have to work at it every chance you<br />

get. If you are waiting for “the big” opportunity<br />

because the small ones are underneath<br />

you, life will pass you by. The key is to take<br />

small opportunities and know how to plan<br />

to leverage them toward bigger ones. Think<br />

in terms of the long run and take it step by<br />

step.<br />

Take The reigns<br />

Life isn’t easy or fair, and that’s okay. It’s not<br />

supposed to be. Life is about what you make<br />

of it. The fastest way to failure is to allow<br />

others to make decisions for you, especially<br />

when your heart and mind don’t agree. You<br />

have to be willing to stand up, take charge<br />

and move forward, despite the advice you<br />

may receive. This may mean you have to be<br />

different, perhaps a “black sheep”, but as<br />

long as your intentions are in the right place,<br />

keeping going.<br />

“haTers” are a Dime a DoZen<br />

The world is full of critics and yes, “haters”<br />

are a dime a dozen! People will be quick to<br />

judge and perhaps put you down. Sometimes<br />

it is because they think they know<br />

better and sometimes it’s because they are<br />

negative and can’t be nice, in general. Some<br />

people will criticize you out of jealousy. Or,<br />

they may be a genuinely good person and<br />

are just having a bad day. When the people<br />

around you try to fill you with doubt, find<br />

the inspiration you need inside yourself to<br />

keep going.<br />

As for me, I have encountered more critics<br />

and “haters” than I care to mention, and<br />

enough to last me a lifetime. And, that’s<br />

okay. I’ve overcome it.<br />

That is why I have made it my mission<br />

in life and in my career to inspire those<br />

around me. I don’t ever want to be a person<br />

who prevented someone or hurt someone<br />

else’s chances of bettering his or her life<br />

because of something I said or did.<br />

Instead, I want the people I meet to become<br />

better as a result of their experiences<br />

with me. It is my mission to lift the people<br />

around me up, not to tear them down. It’s<br />

in everything I do and everything I write. v<br />

Follow allison sima on linKedin at<br />

WWW.linkedin.com/in/allisonsima.<br />

and What about You?<br />

arE You inspirEd?<br />

do You haVE a goaL or a drEaM?<br />

EVErYdaY takE onE stEp ForWard.<br />

thE JournEY starts noW.<br />

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a s k a n i t a<br />

Dear Anita,<br />

I have been married for 4 years but together with my significant other for 6 years. I<br />

would say my husband and I have an array of issues but, overall, what has really been<br />

a big issue for me is us not being kind and respectful to one another. I feel as though my<br />

husband can be the sweetest person for a couple of days and then he can be so angry<br />

and mean the next. It's like a different person and it makes me not want to be with him,<br />

sexually or physically. On his angry days, he says things that hit below the belt/hurtful<br />

things and we are arguing and bickering constantly which leads to him isolating himself<br />

from me and the kids. His excuse is that he doesn't want to argue. I have constantly<br />

told him how it makes me feel and he says he will change, but he goes back to the same<br />

behavior. The crazy part is after going through all these instances he wonders why I'm<br />

not intimate and don't want to be close to him. It makes me feel like he doesn't love me<br />

and doesn't care how I feel; this has been going on for some time and I really want to<br />

go to counseling. But because we have been once before, which didn't help, he feels we<br />

shouldn't go. I really don't know what to do now because now I think I could care less<br />

if we don't make it. He is not physically abusive but I feel like him being mean is really<br />

detrimental and has really pushed me away. I really don't know what to do.<br />

-SB<br />

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helPing PeoPle with their loVe<br />

life and Writing. With my advice<br />

Column, “asK anita, ”i get to<br />

Combine the two! as a dating<br />

& relationshiP eXPert, i’m on a<br />

mission to ProVe that haPPy and<br />

satisFying relationshiPs are<br />

possible. i’m a licensed marriage<br />

& Family theraPist and hold a<br />

master’s in marital & Family<br />

theraPy From the uniVersity oF<br />

san diego. i founded relationship<br />

reality 312, inc., and i Work With<br />

Clients both internationally<br />

and in my ChiCago downtown<br />

office. any Questions you have<br />

about dating, relationshiPs<br />

and marriage, Please email me<br />

direCtly at<br />

anita@relationshipreality312.com.<br />

i looK Forward to hearing From<br />

you!<br />

Dear SB,<br />

I’m sorry that you have to go through this<br />

in your marriage. Not knowing if you’re<br />

going to get your “sweet” husband or the<br />

“angry” one can take its toll on anyone,<br />

and sounds like it already has for you.<br />

You are right to want to stop this<br />

behavior. With his mean and below the<br />

belt comments, your husband is showing<br />

contempt toward you. This contemptuous<br />

behavior must absolutely stop because it<br />

is one of the best predictors of divorce,<br />

meaning that most couples end up<br />

divorcing when this behavior exists in<br />

a marriage. Contempt does many of<br />

the things you’ve mentioned above:<br />

pushes a partner away, erodes positive<br />

feelings, leads to fights or isolation, and<br />

blocks desire for physical and emotional<br />

intimacy. It is toxic for the both of you.<br />

You’ve told him how his behavior makes<br />

you feel and he claims he’ll change, but<br />

he doesn’t. Your husband needs to see his<br />

own responsibility in your marriage and<br />

must be willing to do something about<br />

it, otherwise your marriage won’t get<br />

any better. Insight alone isn’t enough to<br />

change behaviors. It sounds like he can’t<br />

change on his own, and needs to seek<br />

professional help. It’s understandable<br />

that your husband doesn’t want to go<br />

to counseling again, but one experience<br />

shouldn’t make him feel that it won’t ever<br />

work. Sometimes it takes a few therapists<br />

to find a good fit. Ask if he would be<br />

willing to research a few with you, and<br />

“shop around” for a therapist suitable for<br />

the both of you.<br />

If he’s still not willing to go, consider<br />

going by yourself. You can still help your<br />

marriage by seeing a therapist alone. A<br />

professional can help you work on it by<br />

focusing on things such as boundaries and<br />

your part in the interactions with your<br />

husband. Maybe you’re doing something<br />

and you’re not even aware of its impact on<br />

him. One frequent thing I work on with<br />

my clients is how they bring things up to<br />

their partner. The start of a conversation<br />

is so powerful that it actually indicates<br />

how the rest of the interaction will go. I<br />

want to be clear that I am not saying you<br />

are the cause of your husband’s angry<br />

moods, but, that in a relationship, people<br />

directly and indirectly influence each<br />

other. And with the help of an expert, at<br />

least you’ll be able to say that you have<br />

tried all you could.<br />

There’s a reason why women initiate twothirds<br />

of divorces in the United States.<br />

When a wife emotionally disconnects from<br />

her husband, it’s much more difficult to<br />

get her to reinvest in the marriage. You<br />

seem set on this hopeless path when you<br />

say you could care less if your marriage<br />

doesn’t make it. If he won’t go with you,<br />

give solo counseling a try. And if you<br />

still don’t see positive changes, you may<br />

have to give your husband an ultimatum<br />

– either he goes with you to marriage<br />

counseling or divorce will become an<br />

option for you. That may show him that<br />

these problems are serious and that you<br />

need to be taken seriously. The status<br />

quo will only lead to more physical and<br />

emotional disconnection.<br />

Dear Anita,<br />

What should I do about men who only want late-night booty calls?<br />

-Leslie<br />

Dear Leslie,<br />

Ignore them. Unless you only want booty, and not a relationship.<br />

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Supper with Sylvia<br />

By: Sylvia Perez<br />

Hi there, I know I may look familiar.<br />

You may recognize me from my<br />

more than 20 years on TV as a<br />

ABC7news anchor and health reporter,<br />

where I covered a great deal of stories and<br />

was probably front and center on many of<br />

your TV screens. What you may not know<br />

about me, however, is that I love Chicago<br />

and trying out new restaurants, which is why I<br />

was asked to contribute with this column.<br />

I started an informal restaurant review<br />

called, Supper with Sylvia, that I post on my<br />

website [SylviaPerez.com] because everyone is<br />

always asking me what place to try next. Now,<br />

I'm excited to share it with you. And because<br />

summer is almost over, and Chicagoans love<br />

to take advantage of the outdoors, I've been<br />

trying out different outdoor dining experiences<br />

and rooftop bars. Here are a few I think<br />

you can still be able to enjoy:<br />

Picollo Sogno. The name means "little<br />

dream." It's rustic Italian food with an outdoor<br />

patio like no other. Can you say Enchanted<br />

Forest? That's what it reminds me of.<br />

My husband and I celebrate our anniversary<br />

here every year. The food is delicious. Expect<br />

nothing less from highly regarded chef Tony<br />

Priolo. Highlights include any of the homemade<br />

pastas and the branzino, a sea bass,<br />

presented to you first, then whisked away to<br />

be filleted in kitchen. Oh and try the balsamic<br />

vinegar, bottled for the restaurant and imported<br />

from Italy. It's so good you may want<br />

to drink it straight from the bottle. Overall,<br />

delicious food, a great outdoor garden setting,<br />

and you are poised to have one of the most<br />

enjoyable and romantic alfresco dinners ever.<br />

Chicago Cut. I'm a bigger fan of this highend<br />

steakhouse in the warmer months when<br />

I can sit outside. It's so popular that sitting<br />

in doors means screaming to hear each other<br />

talk and practically sitting on your neighbors<br />

lap. The food is always good here, with steak,<br />

of course, being the showcase. But the view<br />

overlooking the city and Chicago River on a<br />

gorgeous warm night is wonderful. The wine<br />

menu is definitely on the pricy side so prepare<br />

to dole out the cash. You will rarely find me<br />

sitting inside, but if you try Chicago Cut and<br />

sit outside by the river, I'll be the one with a<br />

smile on her face enjoying the end-of- summer<br />

breeze and a nice light Rosé<br />

Next, my quest to find the perfect rooftop<br />

bar! I've been trying to hit one of these places<br />

twice a month. Here's what I've learned:<br />

When it comes to outdoor bars, you are paying<br />

for the view, signature cocktails and the<br />

social scene. The food is an also-ran in some<br />

cases.<br />

Godfrey Hotel IO. Really nice setting with<br />

a beautiful city backdrop, right inside the<br />

Godfrey Hotel. Of all the rooftops I've tried,<br />

this one seems to offer the biggest food and<br />

beverage options. I thought the food was<br />

really good, especially the sliders and truffle<br />

fries. There were a variety of cocktails to<br />

choose from. When the sun went down, we<br />

were surrounded by sparkling city lights. The<br />

staff was a little odd, almost appearing snobby<br />

at times [not sure why]. But, our waitress<br />

finally warmed up after a little while.<br />

Streeterville Social. This one is<br />

billed as Chicago's largest rooftop bar. Its<br />

9,000 square feet are located at the new<br />

Loews Chicago Hotel located in Streeterville.<br />

This terrace is separated into two bar<br />

areas. Again, limited menu but our favorites<br />

were the kimchi chicken wings and the<br />

bucket o' fries. Not healthy, but fun finger<br />

picking food with the girls. There's even a<br />

grassy lawn for games. It's pretty over the<br />

top, but very relaxing because it's so large and<br />

does not feel crowded.<br />

J Parker. We had a girlfriend’s birthday<br />

party here and it was standing room only. Fortunately,<br />

we had a beautiful sectional reserved<br />

just for us. The view is spectacular, overlooking<br />

Lincoln Park and Lake Michigan. Once<br />

again, a limited menu, but a big selection of<br />

signature cocktails, wine, liquor and beer. J<br />

Parker is where the young and hip hang out,<br />

which I am not and if you're not, I still think<br />

it's definitely worth going at least once. Service<br />

was good and the workers were friendly.<br />

Trump. Finally, you can't do a rooftop roundup<br />

without mentioning the Trump! No matter<br />

your political affiliation, this by far is the most<br />

beautiful view of Lake Michigan, the Chicago<br />

River, bar none – all while surrounded by city<br />

high rises. The problem is it’s way over priced<br />

and the service can definitely be on the snooty<br />

side. I leave this up to you but if you go, you<br />

will be left in a wonderful awe. v<br />

If I’ve missed any spots on this list<br />

worth recommending, let me know<br />

fast… because as the saying goes,<br />

"Winter is Coming."<br />

Connect with @ SylviaPerez.com<br />

or on Twitter @SylviaPerezProd<br />

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m a k e u p<br />

TIPS ON<br />

APPLYING<br />

LIPSTICK<br />

By: Ania Szymanska<br />

A<br />

beauty tip I've always sworn by is to<br />

pick your best feature and play it up.<br />

For example, if you are often complemented<br />

on your lips (consider yourself lucky),<br />

it's time to accentuate them. Here are<br />

tips on how to correctly apply lipstick.<br />

DON’T PLAY UP BOTH THE EYES AND<br />

MOUTH<br />

Women who wear heavy eye makeup and<br />

dark lipstick can look clownish . If you want<br />

to wear red lipstick, keep the rest of your<br />

makeup light. However, if you are playing<br />

up the eyes, keep your mouth light with<br />

nude gloss or light lip color that doesn't<br />

stand out. To obtain nude lips - a great look<br />

with smoky eyes - cover lips with either<br />

concealer or foundation before applying the<br />

gloss. This renders practically colorless lips.<br />

HOW TO PLUMP-UP LIPS<br />

You don't have to get lips fillers to attain the<br />

“bee stung” look. For plumper lips, apply liner<br />

just outside your natural lip line, then<br />

dab a bit of gloss in the middle of your bottom<br />

lip and smack lips together.<br />

CHOOSING THE RIGHT SHADE<br />

You may like how a lipstick color looks on<br />

your friend, but it may not necessarily look<br />

as good on you. Makeup artist Bobby Brown<br />

swears the best lipstick is 1- 2 shades darker<br />

than your natural lip color. Also, orange or<br />

brown shades, including corals, don’t look<br />

good on everyone as these shades make teeth<br />

appear more yellow.<br />

THE BEST WAY TO APPLY LIPSTICK<br />

Is there only one [best] way to apply lipstick?<br />

Actually, there are no rules for applying<br />

lipstick! Some women use special lipstick<br />

brushes, while others opt to use their<br />

finger when applying lip color. However,<br />

most women actually apply right from<br />

the tube. Choose what's right for you, and<br />

as long as the color blends well on the lips,<br />

you're good.<br />

USING LIP LINER AS A BASE<br />

Lipstick will stay on longer if you first fill in<br />

lips with a lip liner. If you're using a light<br />

shade of lipstick, try a nude liner and then<br />

slick your lipstick on top. Lip gloss is infamous<br />

for wearing off fast, but if you fill in<br />

lips first with liner, the gloss has something<br />

to stick and adhere to.<br />

LINING YOUR LIPS: BEFORE OR AFTER?<br />

Some women prefer to use liner before applying<br />

lipstick, but I find lips actually look<br />

more natural when lining them after first<br />

applying lipstick. Also, never use a dark liner<br />

with light lipstick as that can come<br />

across as tacky and thin out the appearance<br />

of lips. And watch out for dark lipsticks,<br />

which thin out lips even more. One important<br />

thing to keep in mind is the older you<br />

are, the "creamier" your lips should look.<br />

As we age, lips naturally tend to thin out so<br />

try to avoid matte lipsticks whenever possible<br />

and go for a creamy, shinier, lip color instead.<br />

HOW TO PROPERLY TEST LIPSTICK IN A<br />

STORE<br />

It's just plain unhygienic to test lipstick at<br />

the store. To avoid testing on your lips, swipe<br />

the color onto your fingerprints instead<br />

for a closer comparison to your natural lip<br />

tone, and a much more accurate option than<br />

testing color on the back of your hand. It’s<br />

also courteous to wipe off the end of the lipstick<br />

before you put it back for another person<br />

to try.<br />

DON’T THROW OUT A BROKEN OR BAD<br />

SHADE OF LIPSTICK<br />

Most beauty editors know you can create a<br />

great lip color by blending lipsticks you don't<br />

like. You can also color-in lips with a darker<br />

liner before applying a lipstick that's too<br />

bright.<br />

In addition, if your lipstick breaks off, simply<br />

take off the broken portion with a tissue<br />

and carefully wave a lit matchstick under it<br />

until it’s melted. Then, pour it back into the<br />

lipstick base, swivel it down and put in the<br />

fridge, uncovered, for 30 minutes.<br />

TRICKS TO KEEP LIPSTICK OFF YOUR<br />

TEETH<br />

After applying lipstick, take your index finger<br />

and pop it in your mouth, then pull it<br />

out. The<br />

excess lipstick will come off on your finger<br />

rather than your teeth. Also, to prevent your<br />

lipstick from coming off when drinking, discreetly<br />

lick your lips before taking a sip. It<br />

works!<br />

LIPSTICK AS A BLUSH<br />

To use lipstick as a blush, dab a few dots on<br />

the apples of your cheeks and blend well. It<br />

helps to moisturize skin before so the lipstick<br />

blends better. But remember: never<br />

use a blush as a lipstick!<br />

CAMOUFLAGE YELLOW TEETH<br />

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try lipstick with a bluish undertone. According<br />

to various Lazarus NYC makeup artists,<br />

shades that work well to reduce yellowness<br />

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A word that strikes so many different meanings<br />

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the list is infinite. When we hear the word<br />

wealth, to each one of us, it has its own<br />

meaning. It is an impossible word to measure<br />

due to its complexity because the word<br />

holds something different for each one of us.<br />

Many times, wealth is mistaken for the gain<br />

of money or material items. In my experience,<br />

money is not the highest achievement<br />

of a day of work, but the experience learned<br />

from it. Life is not a material trajectory, but<br />

instead, should be a recollection of memories<br />

traced through time, space and experience.<br />

To achieve lasting memories, create your<br />

own story and remember that wealth is what<br />

you make of it. Choose to surround yourself<br />

with those you love the most, follow your<br />

dreams, and fight hard to achieve your goals.<br />

Look around and discover the small things in<br />

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makes you “wealthy”. Stop taking for granted<br />

the little things in life that seem meaningless,<br />

as those are the most priceless experiences of<br />

all. Make your life a story that can be prized<br />

for your biggest achievements and greatness,<br />

not for how much money you have. Start<br />

living your life like it’s your last day on earth,<br />

and try to make every moment count. And<br />

don’t forget…Leave a legacy behind by always<br />

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