The Meme Machine
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126 THE MEME MACHINE<br />
effort in producing them. From this simple unfairness follows a world of sexual<br />
difference.<br />
For men, the most obvious strategy for passing on the most genes is simply to<br />
mate as often as you can with whomever you can. A common and effective<br />
method is to have one long-term partner whom you protect as well as you can<br />
from other men and whose children you care for, while trying to impregnate as<br />
many other women as you can, ideally without getting caught.<br />
Women will pass on the most genes if they can raise a few high-quality<br />
children with sufficient resources and care to bring them up. This might mean:<br />
(a) mating with a high quality male (i.e. one with good genes), and (b) finding a<br />
male who will provide a lot of parental care. <strong>The</strong>se may not always be the same<br />
man.<br />
One consequence of this disparity is that females need to be far more choosy<br />
about whom they mate with. <strong>The</strong>y do not want to get lumbered with being<br />
pregnant by a lazy, ugly, feeble or unhealthy man who will provide poor genes<br />
and no care and support for them or their infants. This could explain why<br />
women provincially hold back from sex, and more often have to be persuaded or<br />
bought presents. Men do not need to be so choosy. If they can impregnate<br />
almost any female it will be worth the small effort because they will not be left<br />
holding the baby. This can explain why men are normally much more keen to<br />
find sex than women are, and a woman who wants sex can usually find it<br />
without too much trouble – and indeed can get paid for it.<br />
Many people seem to hate the idea that their own sexuality comes down to<br />
such a crude calculation, but the evidence is piling up against the early<br />
anthropologists’ idea that sexual behaviour is completely different in each<br />
culture. More thorough research now shows that men and women conform to<br />
what one would expect based on the principle of higher female parental<br />
investment. Men are keener to have sex and are especially turned on by the idea<br />
(or the actuality) of sex with many different partners, while women are more<br />
choosy and prefer one reliable partner. Prostitution throughout the centuries has<br />
been almost exclusively a service rendered by females and paid for by males.<br />
But what about female beauty? Although a man may not lose much by<br />
mating with almost any woman, his genes will fare best if he can impregnate a<br />
young, healthy and fertile woman. Evolutionary psychologist David Buss found<br />
that in every one of thirty-seven cultures, males preferred younger mates and<br />
females preferred older ones (Buss 1994). This desire for youth and fertility<br />
may explain one of sociobiology’s oft-derided findings that men prefer women<br />
with a low waist-to-hip ratio (Singh 1993). Cultures vary in the preferred