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Goodar ka La'l (A Jewel Among Rags) - the Annual of Urdu Studies

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VAALIDA AFZAAL ALI • 421Hasan Raza: Ammajaan, does lunch go out wrapped in this tableclo<strong>the</strong>very day?Ameerunnisa: No, she leaves a white towel, a bowl and a plate.Hasan Raza: She didn’t leave all that with you today?Ameerunnisa: No, she did, but Maqbool sent for <strong>the</strong> dahi bare in <strong>the</strong>bowl, and <strong>the</strong> plate went to Phopho’s for sevaiyan which Maqbool took toher friend along with rotis wrapped in <strong>the</strong> white towel.Hasan Raza: (with some irritation) Ammajaan, it’s degrading thatfood be sent to someone’s house in this fashion.Ameerunnisa; Well, it’s your doing, isn’t it? Does she have to work?We’re poor and whatever <strong>the</strong>re is in <strong>the</strong> house we eat. Taking food overto someone else’s house is difficult.Hasan Raza: She’s not asking for pulao or korma for someone else’shouse. All she’s asking for is cleanliness. She’s bought some copper utensilsfor herself but those are never where <strong>the</strong>y should be and you end upsending her food in such a disgraceful manner.Ameerunnisa: Well, we had a guest in <strong>the</strong> house. Should <strong>the</strong> girl havetaken her food in <strong>the</strong> unpolished utensils? What’s this mine and yoursbusiness—whoever needs something should be able to use it.Hasan Raza: I agree, but don’t place <strong>the</strong> blame for all this on SuraiyaJabeen’s studying. If you had asked me I would have given you ano<strong>the</strong>rtowel and plate.Hasan Raza brought her a white towel, a plate and a bowl. Placing<strong>the</strong> rotis on <strong>the</strong> plate with <strong>the</strong> bowl <strong>of</strong> salan on top, Ghasiti wrapped everythingin <strong>the</strong> towel and carried it to Suraiya Jabeen.*Lightning and rain are my taleSome <strong>of</strong> it truths about my tears, some mydistressLife’s experiences attest to <strong>the</strong> fact that <strong>the</strong>re is no country or nationwhere marriage deserves to be called marriage in <strong>the</strong> true sense <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong>word. For example, even a husband and wife who share something as rareand precious as harmony and love, eventually become tangled in differentkinds <strong>of</strong> anxiety and distress and are forced to reminisce longingly about<strong>the</strong> peaceful, carefree lives <strong>the</strong>y once enjoyed before marriage. But marriagesin Hindustan, especially <strong>the</strong> marriages <strong>of</strong> Hindustani Muslims, arenot really marriages, <strong>the</strong>y are ruination. In some households <strong>the</strong> concept

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