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herlife | homeHeapin’ Helpin’ of Hospitality:by chandra blackwellCreatinga GreatGuest Roomthe difference is all in the details. The things you choose mostly dependon how much you enjoy having overnight guests—and how longyou want them to stay.It usually starts with a futon. The simple, no-frills means of providingovernight accommodations for visiting friends is both affordableand functional (it’s a sofa and a bed!). Once upon a time, itspresence in your living room was your fledgling foray into AdultLiving. From there, maybe you moved to a Jennifer Convertible(mine was red), and then to the next level of adulthood: a spare roomthat served to give your sleepover guests the privacy of a closed doorwhile also serving as your home office/weight room/craft room. Thenone day, it happened—you moved from Adulthood Lite into full-on,grown-up mode as evidenced by one key accoutrement in your life: afully dedicated guest room.But there are guest rooms and then there are guest rooms, andThe Basics (For the One-Night Host)Aside from a bed, there are a few basic items that will make sureyour guests feel comfortable in your home. You may choose to havetowels set aside specifically for guests, or provide their bath timeprovisions from your own stock. But at any rate, towels that are cleanand do not double as sandpaper should suffice. Have an ample stockof bathroom basics. There’s nothing worse than running out of toiletpaper—except for running out of someone else’s toilet paper. Makesure your guests have plenty, as well as a handy supply of otherstaples such as tissues, cotton swabs, etc. Chances that a guest willforget his or her toothbrush are slim—but there is still a chance so itcouldn’t hurt to keep a spare handy (it’s a great use for the “freebies”you get from the dentist). In the rare event of a forgotten toothbrush,you’ll be the hero. And while it’s true that almost everyone these dayssleeps with a smartphone on the nightstand, it’s still a good idea tohave an alarm clock in the room in case the phone battery doesn’tmake it through the night. And some guests do prefer more “oldschool” methods of making sure they get up on time (but you haveour permission to draw the line at providing a live rooster).The Three-Star (For the Three-Night Host)If you still consider guests enjoyable after the first day and wantto up the ante a little, you can include (in addition to the amenitieslisted above) some nice, homey touches that invite them to linger fora couple more days. Consider leaving a small carafe filled daily withfresh water (add cucumber or lemon slices for an added spa-like56 HERLIFEMAGAZINE.COM
Since airplane travel doesn’t providemuch in the way of sustenancethese days, it’s a nice idea to havesome snacks awaiting the arrival ofyour visitors. A simple cheese andfruit tray, or a plate of fresh-bakedcookies, will instantly make themglad they came.touch) on the nightstand. Gone are the times when people traveled bywagon for days on end and arrived weary, dusty and starving. Sinceairplane travel doesn’t provide much in the way of sustenance thesedays, it’s a nice idea to have some snacks awaiting the arrival ofyour visitors. A simple cheese and fruit tray, or a plate of fresh-bakedcookies, will instantly make them glad they came. As valiantly as ahost may strive to make a guest feel at home, it’s harder to convincea guest’s psyche that it’s at home, and psyches tend to cause insomnia.In that event, supplying a variety of magazines is always nice,if only because it keeps sleepless guests entertained sufficiently toavoid waking you up at 2:00 a.m. to play Crazy Eights.Puttin’ on the Ritz (For the Stay-Awhile Host)If you so love having houseguests that people affectionatelycall you “Five-Star,” you’ve got luxury linens, fluffy pillows and cozyatmosphere down pat. But here are a few additional ideas to keepyour guests coming back. Though humankind has bravely soldieredthrough the last decade’s crackdown on carry-on liquids, even the mostseasoned traveler surely harbors occasional fantasies about arrivingat a magical place where all grooming needs are anticipated. You canmake those dreams come true by assembling a basket of bathing andhand washing supplies that will keep your guests feeling clean, happyand loved. Nothing says “I’m glad you’re here” like loungewear. A cozyrobe awaiting your guest’s arrival is the ultimate in VIP treatment—thatis, unless you’re willing to throw in a massage and a pedicure. Take yourwelcome snacks to the next level by equipping your guest room witha fridge full of goodies for a midnight snackstravaganza (drinks, fruits,sandwiches and bon bons) without the exorbitant fees of a hotel fridge.Although your guests will probably sleep like babies in the comfort ofyour luxurious accommodations, it never hurts to ensure a peacefulnight with the soothing sounds of a rainforest, babbling brook or rollingsea using a white noise machine. Throw in a sleep mask and bedtimetea/hot chocolate service, and your houseguests may turn into roommates.Lastly, don’t forget a comment card because how else will youimprove your service?Happy Hosting! ■HERLIFEMAGAZINE.COM 57
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herlife | homeHeapin’ Helpin’ of Hospitality:by chandra blackwellCreatinga GreatGuest Roomthe difference is all in the details. The things you choose mostly dependon how much you enjoy having overnight guests—and how longyou want them to stay.It usually starts with a futon. The simple, no-frills means of providingovernight accommodations for visiting friends is both affordableand functional (it’s a sofa and a bed!). Once upon a time, itspresence in your living room was your fledgling foray into AdultLiving. From there, maybe you moved to a Jennifer Convertible(mine was red), and then to the next level of adulthood: a spare roomthat served to give your sleepover guests the privacy of a closed doorwhile also serving as your home office/weight room/craft room. Thenone day, it happened—you moved from Adulthood Lite into full-on,grown-up mode as evidenced by one key accoutrement in your life: afully dedicated guest room.But there are guest rooms and then there are guest rooms, andThe Basics (For the One-Night Host)Aside from a bed, there are a few basic items that will make sureyour guests feel comfortable in your home. You may choose to havetowels set aside specifically for guests, or provide their bath timeprovisions from your own stock. But at any rate, towels that are cleanand do not double as sandpaper should suffice. Have an ample stockof bathroom basics. There’s nothing worse than running out of toiletpaper—except for running out of someone else’s toilet paper. Makesure your guests have plenty, as well as a handy supply of otherstaples such as tissues, cotton swabs, etc. Chances that a guest willforget his or her toothbrush are slim—but there is still a chance so itcouldn’t hurt to keep a spare handy (it’s a great use for the “freebies”you get from the dentist). In the rare event of a forgotten toothbrush,you’ll be the hero. And while it’s true that almost everyone these dayssleeps with a smartphone on the nightstand, it’s still a good idea tohave an alarm clock in the room in case the phone battery doesn’tmake it through the night. And some guests do prefer more “oldschool” methods of making sure they get up on time (but you haveour permission to draw the line at providing a live rooster).The Three-Star (For the Three-Night Host)If you still consider guests enjoyable after the first day and wantto up the ante a little, you can include (in addition to the amenitieslisted above) some nice, homey touches that invite them to linger fora couple more days. Consider leaving a small carafe filled daily withfresh water (add cucumber or lemon slices for an added spa-like56 <strong>HER</strong><strong>LIFE</strong>MAGAZINE.COM