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Part 2 - Four Datus: Stories of the Higaunon LifeI tried hard to land on my feet. When I hit the water, I struggledto reach the river bank while still holding my torch.”That night, Amba Palasambag and his companions caught500 frogs.Buya, or arranged marriage, was a prevalent practiceamong the Higaunons in the past. In his teens, his parents andrelatives were already pressuring him to get a wife. But herefused because at that age, he was still averse to the idea ofbeing with a woman. “They were forcing me, but I really didnot want to marry.” Because of this, his relatives teased himby calling him sissy. The pressure from relatives apparentlyemanated from the tradition of bearing children to continuethe lineage. Amba Palasambag’s adamant refusal to getmarried created such a stir among his family, with some evengoing to the extent of threatening to commit suicide. It was hisAmba Palasambag with wife Inda and daughter Bae. Photo taken during theDumalongdong 2005 which Amba called for.21

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