English - Balay Mindanaw

Part 2 - Four Datus: Stories of the Higaunon Lifepeace in the community. After having witnessed the varioustypes of conflicts, they suggested many ways in which conflictscan be avoided so that peace may reign in the community.All respondents said that there should be understandingand unity among all the people in the community. To avoidconflict, they need to respect each other, and practice the virtueof humility. According to the women in Sangalan, “We oughtto respect one another since all of us want peace.” The youthin Kalabugao also mentioned: “Those tasked to maintainpeace and order should not be the ones to start trouble.” Thisremark sprung from their observation that some CAFGUsdrink alcoholic beverages, especially during communityactivities like fiestas.Since some conflicts originate from misunderstandings,often aggravated through the spread of false rumors, womenin Sangalan commented: “The best thing to do if one hearsstories involving other persons or families is to keep it tohimself. It’s also better if we don’t listen to false rumors.”According to the datus’ wives in Kiudto, pangaliya (prayer)and pagsinabtanay (understanding) are ways to attain peace.The youth in Kalabugao also suggested that people shouldobey or follow the laws, and ordinances should be fullyimplemented.105