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“A unique and effective style -a great mediator”Please notenew Address!Meet the Tax Section’s2010 Incoming President!JONATHON M. MORRISONPracticing Tax and Estate Planning, Tax Controversy,Business, Real Estate, and Non-Profit LawYoungman Ericsson & Low, LLP1981 N. Broadway, Suite 300 • Walnut Creek, CA 94596925.930.6000jmorrison@youngman.com • www.youngman.comand Mediation CenterCandice StoddardRon MullinWillows Office Park p 1355 Willow Way, Suite 110Concord, California 94520Telephone (925) 798-3413 p Facsimile (925) 798-3118Email ronald@mullinlaw.comand his equity, and was spared having totestify against his fellow church member.Mrs. E’s children, not really parties tothe litigation, joined their mother andher stepchildren in the mediation. Theyfigured out what was needed to maintainher standard of living and forged an agreementthat created the necessary streamof income from the “family” business toprovide for her. There were no hard feelingsbetween the family groups. In fact,the mediation gave them an opportunityto reinforce their continuing, positiverelationship after the death of Mr. E.Mr. O and the beneficiaries agreed thathe could remain as trustee, but that hehad to proceed with the assistance of hisattorney and an accountant, and reportto the beneficiaries.The demands of a court appearance, letalone a trial, can be confusing and overwhelmingfor someone suffering the frailtiesof advanced age. Whether it is poor hearing,limited vision, general physical frailty, orsimply the need to maintain a medicationschedule, the reasons formal legal proceedingsare best avoided in favor of mediationare generally not only present, but oftencompelling when a senior is a party.A well-handled mediation can providea comfort level for all participants. It willnot likely have an all or nothing result.There will not be the vindication of a winsuch as at trial. The result is more likelyto be one that truly works for the parties,especially the elderly parties. In additionto what is tangible, the senior will havebeen spared the risks and stresses ofcourt proceedings, without foregoingthe benefits of a thorough exploration ofthe issues and possible solutions. As abonus, the elderly party may even comeaway with some of the dignity and selfrespectafforded by the process, benefitsthat can otherwise be so elusive. u— Arlene Segal is thepresident of CCCBA’s ElderLaw Section. Her litigationand mediation practicefocuses on real property issues,trust/estate disputes, andfinancial abuse of elders.12 November 2009

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