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Working with Battered Women: a Handbook for ... - Hot Peach Pages

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FOR YOUR PROTECTION1. Write down important phone numbers andkeep them where they can be easily foundand taken <strong>with</strong> you.2. Prepare neighbours in case you have tosend your children to them.3. Ask a neighbour to call the police whenshe hears violence erupt.4. Get the phone number of the shelter inyour area, and keep it in your wallet.5. Keep enough money <strong>for</strong> taxi fare, so youcan leave quickly.FOR YOUR CHILDREN1. Explain the situation to them.2. Tell them what to do when violenceerupts:a) to go to a neighbour.b) to call the police.Learn the signs of approaching violence -GET OUT BEFORE IT STARTSPREPARE YOURSELF1. Review the following checklist.2. Collect the items on the checklist that youpossess.3. Rent your own safety deposit box in abank far from your house OR find anothersecure place <strong>for</strong> your papers. (Especiallynot in your home.)IF/WHEN YOU LEAVE(WHEN IT IS NOT AN EMERGENCY)Put in a safe place: Birth certificates: yours and yourchildren's. Marriage contract. Passports or immigration papers. Insurance policies, yours and yourchildren's. Jewellery; receipts of items bought by youor received by contract or will. School report cards. Diplomas. Any possession of great sentimental valueto you.Keep in your purse: Credit cards and cash on hand. Driver's license. Health and immunization books. Social insurance cards. Medicare cards, hospital cards. Bank books. Membership cards in your names. Keys to the house. Keys to the safety deposit boxes, yoursand your family's.Pack (ahead of time and keep in secureplace): Clothing <strong>for</strong> you and the children that canbe easily carried. Medications and prescriptions. A favourite toy <strong>for</strong> each child.31LEAVING1. Go to the nearest shelter or hotel.2. Meet <strong>with</strong> a lawyer, legal aid or private.Bring all your papers <strong>with</strong> you (originals,not photocopies.)If you must leave the originals, as thelawyer <strong>for</strong> photocopies.3. Obtain unemployment insurance if youmust stop working.Go to the UIC office in your area.Bring your termination papers and socialinsurance card <strong>with</strong> you.4. Obtain welfare if needed.Fill out <strong>for</strong>ms at your district office.Bring a letter from your lawyer about yourpredicament.Bring photocopies of birth certificates,social insurance cards, your own or jointbank account books.5. In<strong>for</strong>m the school office of your children'sabsence and get their report cards.Tell the school NOT to give out your oldor new address.6. DO NOT tell anyone where you are.SAFETYPLAN

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