Combined IMAGES Questionnaires FINAL v2 - Promundo

International Men and Gender Equality Survey (IMAGES)Survey QuestionnairesJanuary 2011This document includes the men’s and women’s questionnaires used to conduct the InternationalMen and Gender Equality Survey (IMAGES) as part of the Men and Gender Equality PolicyProject (MGEPP).The International Men and Gender Equality Survey (IMAGES) is a comprehensivehousehold questionnaire on men’s attitudes and practices – along with women’s opinions andreports of men’s practices – on a wide variety of topics related to gender equality. From 2009 to2010, household surveys were administered to more than 8,000 men and 3,500 women ages 18-59 in Brazil, Chile, Croatia, India, Mexico and Rwanda. Topics in the questionnaire include:gender-based violence; health and health-related practices; household division of labor; men’sparticipation in caregiving and as fathers; men’s and women’s attitudes about gender and genderrelatedpolicies; transactional sex; men’s reports of criminal behavior; and quality of life. Apreliminary report of survey finding was released by the MGEPP project partners in January2011 focusing on the initial, comparative analysis of results from the men’s questionnairesacross the six countries, with women’s reports on key variables.The initial multi-country comparative report of IMAGES findings is available for freedownload here: http://www.icrw.org/publications/evolving-menThe Men and Gender Equality Policy Project (MGEPP), led by the International Center forResearch on Women (ICRW) and Instituto Promundo, is a multi-year, multi-country effort tobuild the evidence base on how to change public institutions and policies to better foster genderequality and to raise awareness among policymakers and program planners of the need toinvolve men in health, development and gender equality issues. Project activities include:1. A multi-country policy research and analysis presented in the publication available forfree download here: http://www.icrw.org/publications/what-men-have-do-it;2. IMAGES;3. The “Men who Care” study consisting of in-depth qualitative life history interviews withmen in five countries; and4. Advocacy efforts and dissemination of the findings from these different components viavarious formats, including a documentary film.Participating countries in the project as of 2010 included Brazil, Chile, Croatia, India, Mexico,Rwanda and South Africa. The multiple research components of the project aim to providepolicymakers with evidence-based, practical strategies for engaging men in gender equality,particularly in the areas of sexual and reproductive health, gender-based violence, fatherhoodand maternal and child health, and men’s health needs.Researchers interested in applying the IMAGES survey in new locations should contact GaryBarker at Instituto Promundo (g.barker@promundo.org.br) and/or Ravi Verma(rverma@icrw.org) and Manuel Contreras (mcontreras@icrw.org) at ICRW.

Coordinated by:International Center for Research on WomenandInstituto PromundoINTERNATIONAL MEN AND GENDEREQUALITY SURVEY (IMAGES)MEN’S QUESTIONNAIREJanuary 2011

International Men and Gender Equality SurveyMen’s Questionnaire[Include interview #, location name, primary sampling unit #, and other identifying information]Informed consent:The purpose of this questionnaire is to ask men and women about their relationships, theirfamilies, their working life, their health, and their relationships with their children, if they havechildren. All the information in this questionnaire will remain confidential. No information suchas your name or address or any detail that would identify you will be used in any way. If at anytime you want to stop the interview, please let me know. If there is any question you do not wantto answer, feel free to tell me. The interview will last about 45 minutes. Do you agree toparticipate in the survey?SECTION ONE: Sociodemographic characteristics and employmentFirst, we want to ask you some questions about your age, your current employment status andconditions at work, and who you live with.QUESTIONS AND FILTERS1.1. How old are you?1.2. What is the highest standard or grade you havecompleted at school?1.3. Which ethnic group do you consider yourself?[Categories to be defined by country]⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ yearsCODING CATEGORIESNo schooling ...……………….………………...… 0Primary up to TD2/Grade4 ………..……………… 1Primary school complete …………….……..…...... 2Standard6/GRD8 up toSTD9/GRD 11 .…..………. 3Matric .……………...…………………….. …..…. 4Incomplete B degree/Diploma ..……………… .… 5Incomplete B degree/Diploma ..……...…… …..… 6Higher Degree more than 4 years ..…………...........…... 7White .……………..……….…………….………...1Mixed .………………….….….………….………. 2Black ………………………….………….………. 3Indian or Asiatic …………………....….….…........4Other (specific): ___________________________51.4. Do you belong to any religion? Yes …………..…………………………………… 1No………………………….………2 (skip to 1.6 )1.5. What is your religion?[Categories to be defined by country]Catholic……..………………………….………......1Protestant………………….…………….……….... 2Spiritualist………………………………...………. 3African Religions ...………………………………. 4Other (specific)____________________________ 5No answer………………………………………… 71.6. How many persons do live with you? ⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ (Total number)Only me……………………..………99 (skip to 1.8)1.7. Who lives with you? Partner/spouse …………………………….……… 1Your children…………..………….………….……2Children of your partners with another man….……3Parents ………………………………..……............4Other relatives (of yours or partner) ………...……..5Other unrelated children……………………..……..6Other unrelated adults ⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐_______________7

1.8. Who provides the main source of income in yourhome?1.9. After taxes, how much do you earn per month?[Categories to be defined by country]1.10. Do you or your family receive any form of financialsupport from the government on a monthly basis?1.11. How much (per month)?[Categories to be defined by country]Self…………………………..……………………..1Partner……………………………………….…..…2Parents……………………………………….…..…3Older relatives……………………………….……..4Pension…………………………………...….……..5Government support (welfare)………………..……6Other (specific)____________________________ 7Less than US 30……………………….…….……..1US 31-60…….……………………….…….………2US 61 – 100……………………….……......………3US 101 – 200.………………………….…..……….4US 201 – 500..………………………………...……5US 501 –1000…………………….…………….......6US 1001 – 2 000.……………………………….......7US 2 001 –3 000…………………………..…..……8US 3 000 or more…………………………………..9Yes …………..……………………………………1No………………………….…..…2 (skip to 1.12 )Less than US 30…………………………….……..1US 31-60…….…………………………….………2US 61 – 100……………………………….………3US 101 – 200.………………………..…..……….4US 201 – 500..…………………………..…...……5US 501 –1000……………………………….….....6US 1001 – 2 000.……………...…………….........7US 2 001 –3 000…………………………..…..….8US 3 000 or more……………………….……..…91.12. What is your employment status? Never worked……………..…….….1 (skip to 1.21 )Unemployed………………………..2 (skip to 1.21 )Formally employed………...…………………….. 3Informally employed…………………..………… 4Retired…………………………….....5 (skip to 2.1 )1.13. How many hours per week do you normally work,including overtime and paid work outside the home? ⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ hours per week1.14. If you normally work more hours than is a normalworking week outside the home (approx. 40 hours), whatis the main reason?I do it in order to maintain my and/or myfamily’s standard of living …………………….…..1It is necessary for my career ………………….……2My workplace demands that I do ………...…..……3Work plays a major role in my life ………….…….4Other (specific)____________________________ 51.15. Is your current boss male or female? Male………………………………………….…..…1Female…………………………………………..….2NA/Self-employed/don’t have a boss ……………..31.16. Have you ever had a female boss? Yes …………..………………………………..……1No………………………….………………….....…21.17. Would you mind if you had a female boss? Yes …………..………………………………..……1No………………...……….…………………..……2Now, I’d like to read a series of statements about your worksituation. Please tell me if these phrases apply to you:1.18. My work or employment situation is mostly stable1.19. I am frequently stressed or depressed because of nothaving enough work.1.20. I am frequently stressed or depressed because of nothaving enough income.Yes Partly NoDon’tKnow1 2 0 31 2 0 31 2 0 3

FILTER: ONLY UNEMPLOYED. IF NOT, SKIP TO 2.1Now, I’d like to read a series of statements aboutunemployment. Please tell me if these phrases apply to you:1.21. I sometimes feel ashamed to face my family because I amout of work.1.22. I spend most of my time out of work or looking for work1.23. I have considered leaving my family because I was out ofwork.1.24. I sometimes drink or stay away from home when I can’tfind workYes Partly NoDon’tKnow1 2 0 31 2 0 31 2 0 31 2 0 3SECTION TWO: Childhood ExperiencesThese next questions are about your childhood and your family when you were growing up. These questions willask you about your life when you were growing up and the relationship you had with your parents or the peoplewho cared for you then.2.1 Who took care of you when you were growing up? Mostly my mother or stepmother or femalerelative…………………….……………………..1Mostly my father or stepfather or malerelative...................................................................2Only mother………………………….…………..3Only father…………………………..…………...4Nearly equal……………………….……………..5Other (specific)___________________________62.2. What level of schooling did your biological mothercomplete?2.3. What level of schooling did your father complete?(By father, we mean the man you called your father whenyou were growing up, if you had one.)No schooling ………..……………….…………. 1Primary school incomplete …………………..… 2Primary school complete (STD 4) ………..….… 3High school incomplete ………………..……… 4High school complete …..……………………… 5Tertiary education up to 4 years …………….… 6Tertiary education more than 4 years …….……. 7Don’t know …………………………………..… 8No schooling ………..………………….………. 1Primary school incomplete …………………..… 2Primary school complete (STD 4) ……...……… 3High school incomplete ……..……………….… 4High school complete …..……………………… 5Tertiary education up to 4 years ………….….… 6Tertiary education more than 4 years ……..……. 7Don’t know …………………………………..… 82.4. Between the ages of 0-18 how many years did you livewith your biological father? How many years? ⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ years..…(skip to 2.6)I did not know him ……………………….….... 97He died before I was born.. .…. …………..……982.5. If you did not live with your biological father, werethere other important male figures in your life when youwere growing up?None …………………....…………1(skip to 2.13)My step father ………………………………..… 2My uncle …………………………………...……3My grandfather ………………..……… ………..4My brother …..………………………….……….5Family friend …………….………………………6Teacher, coach or religious leader …….……. ….7Other (specific)__________________________ 8I will now read some statements to you and I would like you to indicate what you think of them:FrequentlyHardlyNoSometimesNevereveranswer2.6. My father or another man who lived with1 2 3 4 5my mother treated my mother with respect.

2.7. My mother treated my father or anotherman who lived with her with respect1 2 3 4 5When you were a child or teenager, did your father or another man in the home:FrequentlyHardlyNoSometimesNevereveranswer2.8. Prepare food 1 2 3 4 52.9. Clean the house 1 2 3 4 52.10. Wash clothes 1 2 3 4 52.11. Clean the bathroom/toilet 1 2 3 4 52.12. Take care of you or your siblings 1 2 3 4 52.13. Who had the final word in your household aboutdecisions involving you and your brothers and sisters(their schooling, their activities)?Mother……………..….………………………… 1Father…………………………………………… 2Both equally…………………………………….. 3Others (specific)__________________________ 4Not Apply………………………….….………….5Who had the final word about decisions involving how your family spends money on:2.14. Food and clothing Mother……………………...…………………… 1Father…………………………………………… 2Both equally…………………………………….. 3Others (specific)__________________________ 4Not Apply……………………………..………….52.15. Large investments such as buying a car, or a house,or a household applianceMother…………..…………………………….… 1Father…………………………………………… 2Both equally…………………………………….. 3Others (specific)__________________________ 4Not Apply……………………………………..….5Now we have some questions about YOUR CHILDHOOD AND TEENAGE YEARS, specifically FROMTHE TIME YOU WERE BORN UNTIL YOU WERE 18 YEARS OLD.When you were a child or teenager, were you taught how to:2.16. Prepare food2.17. Clean the house2.18. Clean the bathroom/toilet2.19. Wash clothes2.20. Care for younger siblingsYes1No0NA991 0 991 0 991 0 991 0 991 0 99Now some statements will be read to you, and we would like to know how often each of the things describedin the statements happened to you. It may be that they Never happened, or that they Happened Sometimes,Happened Often or Happened Very Often. Please remember that everything your say is strictlyconfidential and will help us a lot in understanding the lives of men.Before I reached 18…..Never Sometimes Often2.21. I saw or heard my mother being beaten by herhusband or boyfriend2.22. Someone touched my buttocks or genitals or mademe touch them on the genitals when I did not want to2.23. I was insulted or humiliated by someone in myfamily in front of other people2.24. I was spanked or slapped by my parents or adultsin the home.VeryOftenDoesnotapply1 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 5

2.25. One or both of my parents were too drunk or highon drugs to take care of me2.26. I had sex with someone because I was threatened orfrightened or forced2.27. I was beaten or physically punished at school by ateacher2.28. I was threatened with physical punishment in myhome.1 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 5Your Experiences at School: Now we are going to ask a series of questions about your experiences withschool.2.29. Was your primary school? Single sex…….….……………………………… 1Coed.…………….……………………………… 2I’ve never studied..……………………………… 3Don’t answer ………………………...…………. 4We know some of those were difficult questions to answer. Thank you for doing so, your answers are reallyimportant. The next sets of questions are about you and your friends and school and neighbourhood whenyou were growing up and before you turned 18.Yes Partly No2.30. Was there bullying or teasing and harassment in school orneighbourhood in which you grew up?1 2 32.31. Were you yourself teased and harassed? 1 2 32.32. Did you tease and harass others? 1 2 3These next questions ask you about your experiences at school. Please indicate by responding to thecorresponding number if this Never happened to you, or it happened Sometimes, or Often or Very Often.Never Sometimes Often Very Often2.33. Girls were mostly treated with respect at myschool1 2 3 42.34. At school I was punished because I bullied otherkids using physical violence.1 2 3 42.35. My friends and I would touch girls or say sexualthings to them to tease them1 2 3 42.36. Me and my school friends were a group and wewould arrange to have sex with girls after school.1 2 3 42.37. Me and my school friends were a group and wewould fight with rival groups at school.1 2 3 42.38. Me and my school friends were a group and wewould rotate a girl amongst ourselves all having sex 1 2 3 4with her.2.39. I and my school friends were a group and we allbelonged to sport clubs, or sing in a choir.1 2 3 42.40. My friends and I used drugs at school 1 2 3 42.41. My school friends helped me overcomeproblems in my life or were supportive1 2 3 4SECTION THREE: Attitudes about relations between men and womenYou are doing very well, thank you for your enthusiasm on this questionnaire. We are progressing well. Thissection will ask you about your views regarding various issues in society. We are interested in your viewsregarding these statements. Please feel free any way you like -- there are no right or wrong answers.Statements3.1. When women work they are taking jobs awayfrom men3.2. When women get rights they are taking rightsaway from menStronglyagreeAgreeDisagreeStronglyDisagree1 2 3 4 5NA1 2 3 4 5

3.3. Rights for women mean that men lose out 1 2 3 4 53.4. When a woman is raped, she usually didsomething careless to put herself in that1 2 3 4 5situation3.5. In some rape cases women actually want it tohappen1 2 3 4 53.6. If a woman doesn’t physically fight back, you41 2 3can’t really say it was rape53.7. In any rape case one would have to question4whether the victim is promiscuous or has a bad 1 2 35reputationGender Equitable Men ScaleThe next set of questions will ask you about your views on relations between men and women. Please indicate ifyou totally agree, partially agree or disagree with the following statements.AttitudesTotallyAgreePartiallyagreeDisagree3.8. A woman’s most important role is to take care of her home andcook for her family. 51 2 33.9. Men need sex more than women do. 1 2 33.10. Men don’t talk about sex, you just do it. 1 2 33.11. There are times when a woman deserves to be beaten. 1 2 33.12. Changing diapers, giving kids a bath, and feeding the kids are the1 2 3mother’s responsibility.3.13. It is a woman’s responsibility to avoid getting pregnant. 1 2 33.14. A man should have the final word about decisions in his home. 1 2 33.15. Men are always ready to have sex. 1 2 33.16. A woman should tolerate violence in order to keep her familytogether.1 2 33.17. I would be outraged if my wife asked me to use a condom. 1 2 33.18. A man and a woman should decide together what type of 1 2 3contraceptive to use.3.19. I would never have a gay friend. 1 2 33.20. If someone insults me, I will defend my reputation, with force if I 1 2 3have to.3.21. To e a man, you need to be tough 1 2 33.22. Men should be embarrassed if they are unable to get an erectionduring sex.1 2 3To what extent do you agree ordisagree with the followingstatements?3.23. Gender equality, meaning that men andwomen are equal, has come far enoughalready3.24. Gender equality has already beenachieved for the most part3.25. Work to achieve gender equality todaybenefits mostly well-to-do peopleCompletelyagreePartlyagreePartlydisagreeCompletelydisagreeDon’tknow1 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 5In order to correct gender inequalities in education and the workplace, it has been suggested in some countries that afixed proportion or quota of university places and jobs as well as representation in government should be reservedfor women in areas where women are in the minority.3.26. Are you for or against such a quota system whichguarantees a fixed proportion of places for women ingovernment?3.27. Are you for or against such a quota system whichguarantees a fixed proportion of places for women tostudy in universities?For…………………………………………..……..1Against………………………………….....………2Don’t know………………………………..………3For…………………………………………..……..1Against………………………………..…...………2Don’t know……………………………..…………3

3.28. Are you for or against such a quota system whichguarantees a fixed proportion of places for women inexecutive positions?3.29. Are you for or against such laws that promoteequal salaries for men and women in the same position?For………………………………………..………..1Against………………………………….....………2Don’t know………………………………..………3For………………………………………..………..1Against……………………………………..………2Don’t know………………………………..………3SECTION FOUR: Sexual DiversityNow I am going to read a series of statements and I would like to know your opinionAttitudesTotally PartiallyAgree AgreeDisagree4.1. Being around homosexual men makes me uncomfortable 1 2 34.2. Homosexuality is natural and normal. 1 2 34.3. Homosexual men should not be allowed to work with children. 1 2 34.4. Homosexual men should not be allowed to adopt children. 1 2 34.5. Homosexual couples should be allowed to legally marry just likeheterosexual couples.1 2 34.6. I would be ashamed if I had a homosexual son. 1 2 3I would like to know you opinion about in which of the situations below it would be justified to use violenceagainst a homosexual man, WHO IS NOT A PERSONAL FRIEND.Cód.Situations Justified Not Justified Don’t know No answer4.7. When he keeps hitting on me 1 2 3 994.8. When he keeps staring at me 1 2 3 994.9. When he is romantically kissing anotherman in public1 2 3 994.10. When he acts in an effeminate way 1 2 3 99SECTION FIVE: Relations at home questionsThis section will ask you about your life now and relationship you have with various people in your home and inyour community.Family Decisions QuestionsThe next set of questions asks you about your current family.5.1. Do you have a regular or stable partner?By partner we mean boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse.5.2. How old is she/he?Yes…… …………………….……………….…… 1No… ………………..………….… 2 (skip to 5.39 )Don’t answer ………………………….…………. 3⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ year (s)5.3. Does your partner live with you? Yes…… …………………….……………….…… 1No..……… ……………….……… 2 (skip to 5.22 )Don’t answer ………………………….…………. 35.4. How long have you lived with this partner?⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ year (s) ⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ month (s)5.5. Do you and your partner have the same level ofeducation or do you have more schooling or does she (orhe) have more schooling?Same………………………………….……………1I am more educated………………….…………….2She is more educated…………………….………...35.6. What is the employment status of your partner? Never worked…………..………………….………1Unemployed looking for work………………..…..2Unemployed not looking for work.…………..……3Formal employed…………………………………..4Informal employed……………………..…………5Retired……………………………………….…….6Student…………………………………………….7

5.7. Do you and she (or he) both earn the same amountof money or does she (or he) have more money or youhave more money?Studying and working…………………………….8On maternity or other leave ………………………9No answer………………………………………10Same…………..………..…………………...……..1I earn more …………..……….………………..….2She/He earns more……..…………………..…..….3NA ………………………….…………………….4Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend money?YourselfWife orPartnerYourself/ wife/partnerjointlySomeoneelseYour andsomeoneelse jointly5.8. Food and clothing 1 2 3 4 5 995.9. Large investments such as buying acar, or a house, or a householdappliance1 2 3 4 5 995.10. Regarding spending time withfamily friends or relatives1 2 3 4 5 99NA5.11. Do you and your partner receive any outside helpfor tasks at home, including cleaning the house,preparing food and taking care of children?Help from our child/children.................……..…… 1Paid help (maid, nanny, etc.)…………….……….. 2Help from others (family, relatives)..…………….. 3No help………………..……...……………………4Don’t answer ………………………….…………. 5If you disregard the help you receive from others, how do you and your partner divide the following tasks:SharedPartnerI doUsuallyDoes notUsually me equally ordoeseverythingpartnerapplydone togethereverything5.12. Washing clothes 1 2 3 4 5 65.13. Repairing house 1 2 3 4 5 65.14. Buying food 1 2 3 4 5 65.15. Cleaning the house 1 2 3 4 5 65.16.Cleaning thebathroom/toilet1 2 3 4 5 65.17. Preparing food 1 2 3 4 5 65.18. Paying bills 1 2 3 4 5 65.19. What do you think of this division of tasks? She does a lot more…….………………………….1She does a little more…….………………………..2She does a same ………………………………….3I do a little……………….……………..………….4I do lot……………………………………………..55.20. Are you satisfied with this division? Very satisfied………………………………………1Fairly satisfied……………………….…………….2Unsatisfied…………………………………………3Don’t answer ………………………….…………. 45.21. Do you think your partner is satisfied? Very satisfied………………………………………1Fairly satisfied………………………….………….2Unsatisfied…………………………………………3Don’t answer ………………………….…………. 45.22. Have you personally or both of you sought help,e.g., family counseling, religious, family member, inorder to solve problems related to your relationship? Ifso, who took the initiative to get help?5.23. How would you characterize your relationshipwith your partner on the whole? Would you say it is/wasI did……………………….………………………..1My partner ………………….……………………..2Both of us………………………………………….3Have not used such help………….………………..4Very good.……………...…………………….........1Fairly good...…..…………………………………..2

…Not good….…………………………………..........3Fairly bad.....…..………….………………………..4Bad………...…..………….………………………..5What things do you do together with your partner that you most enjoy? Please rank these activities from 1 to5 with 5 being greatly enjoy and 1 being not enjoy.Being notenjoyBeinggreatlyenjoy5.24. Caring for or spending timewith children 1 2 3 4 5 99NA5.25. Traveling5.26. Going to cultural events(theatre, movies, music, dancing)5.27. Participating insports/recreation5.28. Talking5.29. Having meals together5.30. Working together5.31. Having sexual relations5.32. Watching TV together5.33. Cooking together1 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 995.34. What is your current marital or civil status? Female partner or girlfriend (but we don’t live together)….............……………………………………………....1Male partner (but we don’t live together)………………2Legally married or in civil union with a woman withwhom I live….........…………………………………….3Cohabitate with a female partner (but not legallymarried) …………….........…..……………..…….…... 4Civil union with a male partner with whom Ilive…………….. .….…….........................................….5Cohabitate with a male partner but not in a legal union…………………………………..…………………….. 6I have no regular or stable partner …………….…….7Other (specific)________________________________8Now I’m going to ask you about your relationship with your main or stable partner. I am going to read somestatements and would like to answer if these apply to you and when. they happened.5.35. When was the last time you talked to yourpartner about problems you are facing in your life?Within this week……..………….…..……….………..1One to two weeks………………………………...…...22-4 weeks ago……………….…………………….......3More than 4 weeks ago but less than 6 months……….4Longer ago or never………..……………………...….5No answer…………………………………………….6

5.36. When was the last time that your partner cameto explain her (or his) problems to you?Within this week……..………….…..……….………..1One to two weeks………………………………...…...22-4 weeks ago……………….…………………….......3More than 4 weeks ago but less than 6 months……….4Longer ago or never………..……………………...….5No answer…………………………………………….6Sexual behaviorsThe next questions are about your sexual relationships. Please remember that everything you say will be kept secretand your name will not appear anywhere on the questionnaire.Thank you very much for being so open in answering those questions. We know it can be hard thinkingabout these things and answering questions like this, but it is very important for us to learn more about menand that is why we are asking them. We are now close to the end of the questionnaire.5.37. Would you describe your sexual relationshipwith your main partner as5.38. Would you describe the frequency of sexualrelations with your main partner as5.39. How often have you used condoms when havingsex in the past year?5.41. Including stable partners and occasionalpartners, how many partners have you had sex with inthe last year?5.42. Of these, how many were partners with whomyou had sex just on one occasion?5.43. Excluding your present relationship, how manywomen have you married/cohabited with?5.44. Excluding your present relationship, how manymen have you married/cohabited with?Very satisfying……………………………………….1Satisfying…………………………………………….2More or less satisfying……………………………….3Somewhat unsatisfying………………………………4Very unsatisfying……………………………………5Very satisfying……………………………………….1Satisfying…………………………………………….2More or less satisfying……………………………….3Somewhat unsatisfying………………………………4Very unsatisfying……………………………………5I don’t use them……………...……….….……. ……..1Always use a condom……………..…..……………....2Mostly use a condom……………...………...………..3Occasionally use a condom…………….……….…….4⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ NUMBER⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ NUMBER⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ NUMBER⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ NUMBER5.39. The last time you had sex, who was it with? Wife / Husband / main partner……………...…..….…1Other partner……………………………….…….…...2Someone I went with once…………………………....3Friend……………………………………….…...……4Ex-partner…………………………………………..…5Sex worker or someone I paid to have sex with me…..6I never had sex...……………………………………...7Other (specific)_______________________________8

SECTION SIX: PoliciesThis section will ask you about your knowledge about some policies.6.1. Is there a law in your country that guaranteesfathers time off when their child is born, also known aspaternity leave?6.2. If yes, how long is the leave?Interviewer: after response, skip to 6.46.3. Do you think paternity leave should be guaranteedby law?6.4. Is there a law in your country that guaranteesmothers time off when their child is born, also known asmaternity leave?6.5. If yes, how long is the leave?Interviewer: after response, skip to 6.76.6. Do you think maternity leave should be guaranteedby law?6.7. Do you feel that divorce or separation laws in yourcountry favor the man or the woman?6.8. Do you feel that men and women have equalchances to get custody of the child (ren) in a divorceproceeding?Yes ……………………………….………...…….... 1No ……………………………………. 2 (skip to 6.3)Don’t know ……………………………3 (skip to 6.3)Less than a week …………………….…………..… 1One-two weeks ……………………….…………….23-4 weeks ………………………….……….……….31-2 months …………………………….……... ……43-4 months …………………………….……… …...54-5 months …………………………….…………... 6More than 5 months ………………………..……….7Yes ………………………………………….............1No ………………………………………….……….2Don’t know …………………………………............3Yes …………………………….…………...…….... 1No ……………………………………. 2 (skip to 6.6)Don’t know ……………………………3 (skip to 6.6)Less than a week ………………….……………….. 1One-two weeks …………………….…………….….23-4 weeks ………………………….……….…….….31-2 months …………………………….……... ….…43-4 months …………………………………… .…....54-5 months …………………………………….….... 6More than 5 months ………………………….….…..7Yes ………………………………………..................1No ………………………….…………………….….2Don’t know ……………………..……………...........3Man ………………………………….….…………...1Woman ………………………………….…………..2Neither, both are treated equally ………….………...3Don’t know ………………………………….……...4Man ……………………………………….................1Woman ……………………………………….……..2Neither, both are treated equally …………................3Don’t know ………………………………….………46.9. Is shared custody common in your community? Yes …………………………………………..............1No ………………………………………………..….2Don’t know ……………………..……………...........36.10. Do you feel child support laws (meaning laws thatoblige fathers to provide income for their biologicalchildren even if they are not living with those children)in your country are?Fair to both men and women ………..………............1Unfair to men …………………………..….…...........2Unfair to women …………………………..………...3Don’t know …………………………………….…...46.11. Are there laws in your country regarding theestablishment of paternity? (Establishment of paternitymeans when a man registers the child or legal registersthe child as being his.)Yes ………………..…………..………………..........1No …………………………………....2 (skip to 6.14)Don’t know …………………………..3 (skip to 6.14)6.12. What does the law or laws entail? Required DNA test ……………..……………...........1Official registration as father of child …….……….. 2Child support requirement …………………….……3Don’t know …………………………………………46.13. What do you think about these law(s) regardingpaternity establishment?6.14. Are there any laws in your country about violenceagainst women?They are fair to both men and women ……….……..1Unfair to women ………………………...…….….…2Unfair to men ……………………………………..…3No opinion …………………………………..………4Yes………..……………………………..….….........1No……………..……………………..2 (skip to 6.20)I don’t know...……………...........…98 (skip to 6.20)No answer…..………………………99 (skip to 6.20)

games outside home with your children?7.31. How often do you help them with theirhomework?7.32. How often do you cook or fix food for yourchildren?7.33. How often do you wash clothes for yourchildren?1 2 3 41 2 3 41 2 3 4FILTER: HAVE BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN under the age of 18 NOT LIVING WITH YOU. IF NOT, SKIPTO 8.17.34. How many days per week do you see the biological Less than one day………………………...…………..1child who is not living with you?1 to 3 days…………………………………..………..24 to 5 days…………………………………..………..37.35. Do you provide financial support for yourbiological children who do not live with you?6 to 7 days………………………..……..……………4No………………………………………………..……0Occasionally……………………………….....………1Frequently……………………………..……………..2Pay most expenses…………………….........………..3SECTION EIGHT: Relationships and ViolenceThe interview is going very well so far and we’re very nearly finished. The next questions ask about things which happened inyour relationships, with any female partner you have ever had or your wife if you have been married.FILTER: HAS EVER HAD FEMALE PARTNER. IF NOT, SKIP TO 9.1INTERVIEWER: If the respondent says ONCE or MORE THAN 1 TIME to questions 8.1 – 8.5, PLEASEALSO ask him if the behavior happened in the last year (last column).Cod.How many times… Never OnceMorethan 1timeMARKHERE IFTHISHAPPENEDIN THELASTYEAR8.1. Have you ever had slapped a partner or thrown something ather that could hurt her?1 0 2 3 (YES)8.2. Have you ever had pushed or shoved a partner? 1 0 2 3 (YES)8.3. Have you ever had hit a partner with a fist or with somethingelse that could hurt her?1 0 2 3 (YES)8.4. Have you ever had kicked, dragged, beaten, choked orburned a partner?1 0 2 3 (YES)8.5. Have you ever had threatened to use or actually used a gun,knife or other weapon against a partner?1 0 2 3 (YES)8.6. Do you have a male friend who uses physicalviolence against his female partner or wife?8.7. Would you be capable of questioning/challenginghis behavior?8.8. What would you do if you saw a male friend useviolence against a woman?Yes………………..……………………………….........1No……………..………………………………………..2No answer…..…………………………………………99Yes, I would……..……………………….……….........1Yes, I have already in fact………………….…………..2No……………..………………………………………..3No answer…..…………………………………………99Intervene during the episode…………………..………..1Speak to him after the episode………………………….2Avoid/shun the stranger guy……………………………3Call the police…………………………………………..4Do nothing, it is their problem……………………….…5Mobilize the neighbors…………………………………6

8.9. What would you do if you saw violence beingcarried out by a stranger (man) against a woman?8.10. Have you ever talked to your son or a boy youcare for in the home or outside the home aboutviolence against women?Intervene during the episode…………………..………..1Speak to your friend after the episode………………….2Avoid/shun your friend…………………………………3Call the police…………………………………………..4Do nothing, it is their problem……………………….…5Mobilize the neighbors…………………………………6Yes……………………………………….........….........1No……………..…..……………………….........……..2NA …………………………………………….………3No answer…..…………..……………………..………99SECTION NINE: Health and Quality of LifeWe are nearing the end and doing very well. Please remember that we appreciate and value your information.Having said that, I want to remind you that whatever you share with us today will be kept confidential and will onlybe used for the purpose of research.The next sets of questions are about different aspects of your health.9.1. When was the last time you sought out healthservices at a clinic or hospital for yourself, including atraditional healer?9.2. The last time you sought healthcare services, whatwas the principal reason that led you to seek medicalattention?9.3. Have you ever had a prostate exam if over 40 yearsold?In the last three months ……………………………..0Within the last year ...…….…………………………1Within the last two years ..………….………............2Within the last 5 years………………………............3More than 5 years ago ....……………………………4Never .………………....…………………………….5Medical Check-up …………………………………..1Exam, diagnosis or treatment for an STD …………..2To accompany my primary partner to an appointment(including pre-natal) ..………………………………3To get the result of an HIV/Aids test ..……….……..4To get HIV/Aids treatment…………………..……...5Health Certificate ……………………………….…..6Sexual Dysfunction…………………………..….…..7Acne or other skin problems …………………….….8Dental treatment ....…………………………............9To get information about sex, family planning orSTDs ...................................................….................10Related to coronary illness or other chronic illness 11Other (specific)____________________________12No answer………………………………………….99Yes …………………………………………..……...1No.…………………………………………………..240 years old or under....……………………………..39.4. Have you ever been tested for HIV? Last 12 months……………………….……………...12-5 years ago………………………………………...2More than 5 years ago……………………………….3Never tested……………….……….…4 (skip to 9.6 )9.5. Did you take or go back for the result? Yes…………………………………….……….........1No………………………………………..…………..09.6. Has a partner of yours ever had an abortion? Yes…………………………………….……….........1No………………………….………...0(skip to 9.10 )I don’t know………………..……….98(skip to 9.10 )9.7. Have you ever participated in a decision to abort apartner’s pregnancy?9.8. Did you provide financial support for the abortion?(If more than once, ask about the last time thishappened.)Yes………………..………………..………….........1No……………..………..…..….....…...2 (skip to 9.9)I don’t know………….……………....98 (skip to 9.9)No answer…..………...………..….…99 (skip to 9.9)Yes………………..………...………………….........1No……………..……………………………………..2No answer…..………………….......………………99

9.9. Did you accompany the partner for the abortion?(If more than once, ask about the last time thishappened.)Yes………………..………...………………….........1No……………..……………………………………..2No answer…..…………………...…………………99We would like you to answer other questions about health and well-being9.10. I am happy with my body9.11. I feel that my life is of no useto anyone9.12. I have a lot to be proud of onthe wholeCompletelyagreePartlyagreePartlyagree anddisagreePartlydisagreeCompletelydisagree1 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 51 2 3 4 59.13. I have a good sex life 1 2 3 4 59.14. I feel inferior sometimes whenI am together with friends1 2 3 4 59.15. When you feel sad, disappointed or frustrated,do you seek help from others? If yes, whom?No……………………………………………….….…1Partner/girlfriend…………………………………..….2Relatives…………………………….……………..….3Professional counseling……………………………...4Family Meetings………………………………….…..5Teacher/Social Worker…………………………….…6Doctor………………………………………………...7Priest/Religious Leader…………………………….…8Female friends…………………………………….….9Male friends……………………………………....…10Traditional Healer……………………………….…..11No answer………………………………………..….99In the last month, how often did you experience the following?Never Seldom Sometimes Often9.16. Stress 1 2 3 49.17. Depression 1 2 3 49.18. Suicidal thoughts 1 2 3 49.19. Weight gain or loss 1 2 3 49.20. Indigestion/stomach problems 1 2 3 49.21. Headache 1 2 3 49.22. Loss of sexual desire 1 2 3 49.23. A health problem related to work or aninjury at work.1 2 3 49.24. Have you suffered any permanent disability orhealth problem as a result of an accident, injury orviolence?9.25. Do you believe that there should be specifichealth facilities for men or specific times/days formale health services?9.26. Do you feel that the health services available toyou are friendly towards men?Yes, as a result of injury………………………………1Yes, as a result of violence……………………………2Yes, as a result of traffic other accident………………3Yes, as a result of illness.………….….……………....4No..………………….………………………...............5No answer......………………………………….……99Yes.…………..……………………………...………...1No..……………….…………………………...............2Don’t know..........………………………………..……3No answer......………………………………..………99Yes.………….…..………………………...………...1No..…………………..……………………...............2Don’t know..........………….…………………..……3No answer......………………….…………..……….99

THIS NEXT SECTION WILL EITHER BE FILLED IN ON PAPER BY THERESPONDENT OR WILL BE REGISTERED ON THE HAND-HELD COMPUTER BYTHE RESPONDENTWe have now got some questions that ask about things you may have done in your life. In answering the questionswe want you to think back across your whole life, including when you were a child or teenager. You might findthese more difficult to answer but we really hope you will feel free to answer them openly. The research is veryimportant in trying to understand the lives of men. When you answer the questions please remember that everythingyou say is being kept secret, and we are not even collecting information on your name. When we write a report fromthe research what you tell us will be put together with information from 1500 other men so no one will ever knowwhat you say.SECTION TEN: Final QuestionsThese next questions ask about things you may have done over the course of your whole life from your childhood upto the present day. The questions ask you how often you have done a range of different things:Never Once 2-3 times More often10.1. Have you ever robbed someone?10.2. Have you ever been involved in a fightwith a knife, gun or other weapon?10.3. Have you ever participated in a gang?0 1 2 30 1 2 30 1 2 310.4. Do you own a firearm? Yes, a licensed one……………………………………1Yes, an unlicensed one………………………………..2Yes, both a licensed and unlicenses one……………...3No…………………………………………………….410.5. Have you ever been arrested? Yes……………………………………………….........1No……………………………………...2 (skip to 10.7)10.6. How many times have you been arrested? ⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ Number10.7. Have you ever been sent to prison? Yes……………………………………………….…....1No……………………………………………………..210.8. How often do you have a drink containing Monthly or less……………………........................................1alcohol?2-4 times a month………..…………………………………..22-3 times a week…………..………………………………...34 + times a week……………..……………………………....410.9. How often do you have 5 or more drinks on oneoccasion?10.10. How many times have you used marijuana inthe last 12 months? Would you say it was once, twiceor three or more times?Never ..…………………..…….……………………0Less than monthly …..................................................1Monthly ..….….…………..........................................2Weekly ..………..…………………………………...3Daily or almost daily ..…………….…......................4Never ………….…………………………………….0Once ……………….………………………..............1Twice ………………...……………………..............2Three or more times...……………………………….3

Have you experienced any of the following forms of violence outside the home in the last 3 months?Cod. Types of Violence Yes No Don’t remember10.11. Been punched or hit 1 0 9810.12. Been threatened with a knife or other weapon(excluding firearms)1 0 9810.13. Been threatened with a gun 1 0 9810.14. Other (specific)________________________________________1 0 98RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHER MAN QUESTION:These questions ask you about your sexual experiences with other man.10.15. Have you ever had sex or done somethingsexual with another man because you wanted to?By sex we mean:Anal sex: where a man sticks his penis in a man’sanusOral sex is when a man sticks his penis in a man’smouth.Mutual masturbation OR TOUCHING EACHOTHER’S PENISES10.16. How old were you when you first had sexualintercourse with a man?10.17. What sex attracts you sexually? I am sexuallyattracted to10.18. If you are primarily attracted to men, and youdon’t live with a male partner, would you prefer tolive with your current or another male partner if itwere acceptable?Yes……………..…………………………………........1No……………..………….……...…....2 (skip to 10.17)No answer…..…………………..……99 (skip to 10.17)⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ yearsMen……………………………………………………..1Women……………………………..….2 (skip to 10.19)Both………………………………………………...…..3No answer……………………………………..………99Yes…………..………………………………….…........1No…………..…………………………………………..2I live with or have lived with a male partner………..….3No answer..……………………………………………99SEXUAL EXPERIENCES QUESTION:These questions ask you about your sexual experiences with any girl/woman irrespective of your relationshipwith her/them.10.19. How many times have you had sex with awoman or girl when she didn’t consent to sex or afteryou forced her?10.20. How many times have you had sex with awoman or girl when she was too drunk to say whethershe wanted it or not?10.21. Did you ever force a girlfriend or your wife intohaving sex with you?Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99

10.22. Was ever there a time when you forced an exgirlfriendor ex-wife into having sex?10.23. Did you ever force a woman who was NOT yourwife or girlfriend at the time to have sex with you?10.24. How many times have you and other men hadsex with a woman at the same time when she didn’tconsent to sex or you forced her?10.25. How many times have you and other men hadsex with a woman at the same time when she was toodrunk to stop you?10.26. Have you ever done anything sexual with a boyor man when he didn’t consent or you forced him?10.27. Have you ever done anything sexual with a boyor man when you put your penis in his mouth or anuswhen he didn’t consent or you forced him?10.28. How many different women/girls have you forcedinto sex?Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99Never………………………..………….…..…………..1Once in the last 12 months……………………………..2More than 1 time in the last 12 months...…….………...3One time, over 12 months ago………….………..……4More than one time, over 12 months ago………………5No answer……………………………………………99Never……………………………………………...……11…………………………………..…………………….22 – 3…………………….................................................34 – 5…………………….................................................46 – 10…………………………………………………...511+……………………………………………………...6No answer……………………………………………....7TRANSACTIONAL SEX QUESTIONS.Can give more than one response:10.29. What do you think about an adult woman working asa sex worker or prostitute?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 2 3I think it violates her rights 1 2 3I think it is her own choice 1 2 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 2 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 2 3It’s a job like any other 1 2 3

10.30. What do you think about a young woman under age18 working as a sex worker or prostitute?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 2 3I think it violates her rights 1 2 3I think it is her own choice 1 2 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 2 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 2 3It’s a job like any other 1 2 310.31. What do you think about an adult man working as asex worker or prostitute?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 2 3I think it violates his rights 1 2 3I think it is his own choice 1 2 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 2 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 2 3It’s a job like any other 1 2 310.32. What do you think about a young man under age 18working as a sex worker or prostitute?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 2 3I think it violates his rights 1 2 3I think it is his own choice 1 2 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 2 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 2 3It’s a job like any other 1 2 310.33. What do you think about men who purchase sex? Yes No No answerI think it is a natural thing for men to do 1 2 3I think it is morally wrong. 1 2 3I think it is OK as long as he is not married or in a relationshipwith someone.1 2 3I think it is something that most men do at least once in theirlifetime.1 2 3I think it is something that only sick men do. 1 2 3I think that sex is a service that can be bought like any otherservice.1 2 310.34. Do you think it should be against the law topurchase sex from a sex worker or prostitute?10.35. Do you think it should be against the law to workas a sex worker or prostitute?Yes…………………..….………………...………….1No,……………………..….………………………….2No, unless the girl or woman is under 18……...…….3No answer……... ………………………………..….4Yes…………………..….………………...………….1No,……………………..….………………………….2No, unless the girl or woman is under 18……...…….3No answer……... ………………………………..….4

Please think about the main partners or steady girlfriends you have had. Do you think any of them becomeinvolved with you because they expected you to do, or because you did do any of the following:Yes No No answer10.36. Provided her with food, clothes, cell phone ortransportation1 0 9910.37. Paid her school fees or residence fees 1 0 9910.38. Provided her with somewhere to stay 1 0 9910.39. Gave her cosmetics or money for beauty products 1 0 9910.40. Gave items for her children or family 1 0 9910.41. Gave her cash or money to pay her bills 1 0 9910.42. Provided her anything else that she could not afford byherself1 0 9910.43. Did handyman work for her or fixed her car 1 0 99Please think now about any women or girl you had sex with more than once but who you didn’t consider to be your maingirlfriend or partner at the time. Do you think any of them may have ever become involved with you because they expectedyou to do, or because you did do any of the following:Yes No No answer10.44. Provided her with food, clothes, cell phone ortransportation1 0 9910.45. Paid her school fees or residence fees 1 0 9910.46. Provided her with somewhere to stay 1 0 9910.47. Gave her cosmetics or money for beauty products 1 0 9910.48. Gave items for her children or family 1 0 9910.49. Gave her cash or money to pay her bills 1 0 9910.50. Provided her anything else that she could not afford byherself1 0 9910.51. Did handyman work for her or fixed her car 1 0 99Finally, please think about women or girl you may have had sex with just once. Have you ever had sex with a woman justas a once off because you gave her or she expected that you would give her:Yes No No answer10.52. Food, clothes, or cosmetics 1 0 9910.53. A lift, a ticket, or money for transport 1 0 9910.54. A place to sleep for the night 1 0 9910.55. Cash or money to cover expenses 1 0 9910.56. Anything else that she could not afford by herself 1 0 9910.57. Did handyman work for her or fixed her car 1 0 9910.58. Have you ever had sex with a prostitute or sexworker? [Use appropriate local terms]10.59. Have you ever had sex with a prostitute or sexworker you know or suspected was under 18 years ofage?10.60. Have you ever had sex with a prostitute or sexworker you think was forced or sold into prostitution?Yes, with a female sex worker or prostitute...………….1Yes, with a male sex worker or prostitute….…………..2Yes, with a transvestite (travesty in Brazil, hijra inIndia)…………………………..……………………….3No……………..………………………………….0(End)No answer…..…………………………………………99Yes………………..……………………………….........1No……………..………………………………………..0No answer…..…………………………………………99Yes………………..……………………………….........1No……………..………………………………………..0No answer…..…………………………………………99

10.61. If you knew that a prostitute or sex worker wasforced or sold into prostitution, what would you do?Call police………………………………………………1Escort her to police……………………………………..2Avoid having sex……………………………………….3No answer…..…………………………………………99We have come to the end of the survey. We appreciate the time you have spent answering thesequestions. Your response and those of approximately 1500 other men will give us anunderstanding of men’s roles in society today, information that could be useful for drivingchanges in policies. It is important to emphasize that the laws in our country make it a crime touse physical violence against women, or to have sex with someone under age 18, and to force awoman to have sex with you.If there are any of these issues discussed that you would like more information, such as where togo for health services in your community, we have prepared a list of such services. [Handbrochure with list of relevant services in the community.]THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME.

Coordinated by:International Center for Research on WomenandInstituto PromundoINTERNATIONAL MEN AND GENDEREQUALITY SURVEY (IMAGES)WOMEN’S QUESTIONNAIREJanuary 2011

International Men and Gender Equality SurveyWomen’s Questionnaire[Include interview #, location name, primary sampling unit #, and other identifying information]Informed consent:The purpose of this questionnaire is to ask men and women about their relationships, theirfamilies, their working life, their health, and their relationships with their children, if they havechildren. All the information in this questionnaire will remain confidential. No information suchas your name or address or any detail that would identify you will be used in any way. If at anytime you want to stop the interview, please let me know. If there is any question you do not wantto answer, feel free to tell me. The interview will last about 30 minutes. Do you agree toparticipate in the survey?SECTION ONE: Sociodemographic characteristics and employmentFirst, we want to ask you some questions about your age, your current employment status andconditions at work, and who you live with.1.1. How old are you?1.2. What is the highest standard or grade you havecompleted at school?1.3. Which ethnic group do you consider yourself?[Categories to be defined by country]⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ yearsNo schooling………………………………………0Primary up to TD2/Grade4 ……………………….1Primary school complete …………….……………2Standard6/GRD8 up toSTD9/GRD 11…..…….…..3Matric…………………………………….. …..…..4Incomplete B degree/Diploma..……………… .….5Incomplete B degree/Diploma..……...…… …..….6Higher Degree more than 4 years…………............…….7White……………..……….…………….…….…...1Mixed.………………….….….………….………..2Black………………………….………….………..3Indian or Asiatic…………………....….….…........4Other (specific): ___________________________51.4. Do you belong to any religion? Yes …………..……………………………………1No………………………….………2 (skip to 1.6 )1.5. What is your religion[Categories to be defined by country]Catholic……..………………………….……….…1Protestant………………….…………….………....2Spiritualist………………………………...……….3African Religions………………………………….4Other (specific)____________________________5Don’t answer………………………………………71.6. Who provides the source of income in your home? Self…………………………..………………….…1Partner………………………………………..……2Your parent………………………………….….…3Partner’s parents……………………………..……4Older relatives……………………………….….…5Pension……………………………………….……6Government support (welfare)………………..…...7Other (specific)____________________________81.7. After taxes, how much do you earn per month ?[Categories to be defined by country]Less than US 30…………………………….……..1US 31-60…….…………………………….………2US 61 – 100………………………….…….………3US 101 – 200.…………………………..………….4US 201 – 500..………………………………..……5US 501 –1000…………………….………….….....6US 1001 – 2 000.………………………………......7US 2 001 –3 000…………………………..……….8US 3 000 or more……………………….…………9

1.8. Do you or your family receive any form of financialsupport from the government per month?1.9. How much?[Categories to be defined by country]Yes …………..……………………………………1No…………………………….……2 (skip to 1.10 )Less than US 30…………………………….……..1US 31-60…….…………………………….………2US 61 – 100………………………….…….………3US 101 – 200.…………………………..………….4US 201 – 500..………………………………..……5US 501 –1000………………………………..….....6US 1001 – 2 000.……………...……………….......7US 2 001 –3 000…………………………..……….8US 3 000 or more……………………….…………91.10. What is your employment status? Never worked……………..……..…1 (skip to 1.12)Unemployed, looking for work….…2 (skip to 1.12)Unemployed, not looking for work...3 (skip to 1.12)Formally employed………...………………….…..4Informally employed…………………..……….…5Just study…………………………..6 (skip to 1.12)Studying and working……………………………..7Retired…………………………….8 (skip to 1.12)Don’t answer………………………………………91.11. How many hours per week do YOU normally work,including overtime and paid work outside the home?⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ hours per week1.12. How many persons live with you?⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ (Total number)Only me………………………...…99(Skip to 1.14)1.13. Who lives with you? Only with your stable partner....………………...…1Only with your children………..…….……..…..…2With your stable partner and your children….…....3With the partner’s children….…………………....4With your parents……………………………….....5With the partner’s parents ………..…………….....6With other relatives……………………………..…7With other unrelated adults……………………..…81.14. What is your current marital or civil status? Female partner or girlfriend (but we don’t livetogether) …....…………………………………......1Male partner (but we don’t live together)…………2Legally married or in civil union with a woman withwhom I live….........……………………………….3Cohabitate with a female partner (but not legallymarried) …………….........…..………..……..…... 4Civil union with a male partner with whom Ilive……….. .….……..........................................….5Cohabitate with a male partner but not in a legalunion ……………………..…………………..….. 6I have no regular or stable partner ..…7(skip to 2.1)1.15. How old is your partner?1.16. Do you and your partner have the same level ofeducation or do you have more schooling or does she (orhe) have more schooling?1.17. Do you and he (or she) both earn the same amount ofmoney or does he (or she) have more money or you havemore money?Other (specific)____________________________8⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ year (s)Same………………………………….……………1I am more educated………………….…………….2She is more educated……………...…….………...3Same…………..………..…………………...……..1I earn more …………..……….………………..….2She/He earns more……..…………………..…..….3NA ………………………….…………………….4

1.18. What is your partner’s employment status? Never worked……………...…....….1(skip to 1.22 )Unemployed, looking for work….…2 (skip to 1.22)Unemployed, not looking for work…3(skip to 1.22)Formally employed………...……….……………..4Informally employed……………….…..…………5Student…………………………………………….6Studying and working……………………………..7Retired…………………………...….8(skip to 2.1)FILTER: ONLY IF MALE PARTNER. IF NOT, SKIP TO 2.1Now, I’d like to read a series of statements about your partner’s work situation.phrases apply to him:Please tell me if theseYes Partly NoDon’tKnow1.19. Your partner’s work or employment situation is mostlystable 1 2 0 31.20. Your partner is frequently stressed or depressed becauseof not having enough work.1.21. Your partner is frequently stressed or depressed becauseof not having enough income.FILTER: ONLY UNEMPLOYED. IF NOT, SKIP TO 2.1Now, I’d like to read a series of statements aboutunemployment. Please tell me if these phrases apply to yourpartner:1.22. Your partner spends most of his time out of work orlooking for work1.23. Your partner sometimes drinks or stays away from homewhen he can’t find work1 2 0 31 2 0 3Yes Partly NoDon’tKnow1 2 0 31 2 0 3SECTION TWO: Attitudes about relations between men and womenYou are doing very well, thank you for your enthusiasm on this questionnaire. We are progressing well.This section will ask you about your views regarding various issues in society. We are interested in your viewsregarding these statements. Please feel free any way you like -- there are no right or wrong answers.StatementsStronglyagreeAgreeDisagreeStronglyDisagree2.1. When women work they are taking jobs awayfrom men1 2 3 4 52.2. When women get rights they are taking rightsaway from men1 2 3 4 52.3. Rights for women mean that men lose out 1 2 3 4 52.4. When a woman is raped, she usually didsomething careless to put herself in thatsituation1 2 3 4 52.5. In some rape cases women actually want it tohappen2.6. If a woman doesn’t physically fight back, youcan’t really say it was rape2.7. In any rape case one would have to questionwhether the victim is promiscuous or has a badreputation1 2 3 4 51 2 31 2 3Gender Equitable Men ScaleThe next set of questions will ask you about your views on relations between men and women. Please indicate ifyou totally agree, partially agree or disagree with the following statements.44NA55

SECTION THREE: Sexual DiversityNow I am going to read a series of statements and I would like to know your opinionAttitudesTotally PartiallyAgree AgreeDisagree3.1. Being around homosexual men makes me uncomfortable 1 2 33.2. Homosexuality is natural and normal. 1 2 33.3. Homosexual men should not be allowed to work with children. 1 2 33.4. Homosexual men should not be allowed to adopt children. 1 2 33.5. Homosexual couples should be allowed to legally marry just likeheterosexual couples.1 2 33.6. I would be ashamed if I had a homosexual son. 1 2 3SECTION FOUR: Relations at home questionsThis section will ask you about your life now and relationship you have with various people athome and in community.Family Decisions QuestionsThe next set of questions asks you about your current family. If your response to the question is parents orrelatives, this should be taken as someone else.4.1. Does your partner live with you? Yes…… …………………….……………….…… 1No..……… ……………….………. 2 (skip to 4.28)I do not have a partner……………...3 (skip to 4.30)Don’t answer ………………………….…………. 4Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend money?YourselfPartneror WifeYourself/ partnerjointly/wifeSomeone elseYourandsomeoneelsejointly4.2. Food and clothing 1 2 3 4 5 994.3. Large investments such as buying acar, or a house, or a householdappliance1 2 3 4 5 994.4. Regarding spending time withfamily friends or relatives1 2 3 4 5 99NA4.5. Do you receive any outside help for tasks at home,including cleaning the house, preparing food and takingcare of children?Help from our child/children................…………… 1Paid help (maid, nanny, etc.)…………….…….….. 2Help from others (family, relatives)..………….….. 3No help………………..……...…………………..…4Don’t answer ………………………….…………... 5If you disregard the help you receive from others, how do you divide the following tasks:SharedI doeverythingUsuallymeequally ordonetogetherUsuallypartnerPartnerdoeseverythingDoes notapply4.6. Washing clothes 1 2 3 4 5 64.7. Repairing house 1 2 3 4 5 64.8. Buying food 1 2 3 4 5 64.9. Cleaning the house 1 2 3 4 5 64.10. Cleaning thebathroom/toilet1 2 3 4 5 6

4.11. Preparing food 1 2 3 4 5 64.12. Paying bills 1 2 3 4 5 64.13. What do you think of this division of tasks? He does a lot more…………………..….………….1He does a little more…………………….…..……..2He does a same ……………………………..…….3I do a little more……………………..…………….4I do lot more...……………………………………..54.14. Are you satisfied with this division? Very satisfied………………………………………1Fairly satisfied……………………….…………….2Unsatisfied…………………………………………3Don’t answer ………………………….…………. 44.15. Do you think your partner is satisfied? Very satisfied………………………………………1Fairly satisfied………………………….………….2Unsatisfied…………………………………………3Don’t answer ………………………….…………. 4What things do you do together with your partner that you most enjoy? Please rank these activities from 1 to 5with 5 being greatly enjoy and 1 being not enjoy.Do notenjoyGreatlyenjoy4.16. Caring for or spending timewith children 1 2 3 4 5 99Notapply4.17. Traveling4.18. Going to cultural events(theatre, movies, music, dancing)4.19. Participating insports/recreation4.20. Talking4.21. Having meals together4.22. Working together4.23. Having sexual relations4.24. Watching TV together4.25. Cooking together1 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 994.26. Have you personally or both of you sought help,e.g., family counseling, religious, family member, inorder to solve problems related to cohabitation? If so,who took the initiative to get help?4.27. How would you characterize your cohabitationwith your partner on the whole? Would you say itis/wasI did……………………………………………..…...…..1My partner ………………………………………...…....2Both of us…………………………………………...…...3Have not used such help………………………………...4Excellent………………………………………………...1Very good.………..……………………………..............2Fairly good...…..………………………………………...3Not good….……………………………………..............4Fairly bad.....…..………………………………………...5Bad………...…..…………………………………..…….6Women’s Relationships with boyfriends, husband or female partnerNow I’m going to ask you about your relationship partner. Please read the following statements and circle theappropriate answer for you.

4.28. When was the last time your partner and youtalked about problems you are facing in your life?4.29. When was the last time that you approachedyour partner to discuss your problems with him?Within this week……..………….…..……….…..….…..1One to two weeks……………………………….……....22-4 weeks ago……………….………………………......3More than 4 weeks ago but less than 6 months……..…..4Longer ago or never………..……………………….…...5Don’t know……………………………………….……..6Don’t answer……………………………………….……7Within this week……..………….…..……….…..….…..1One to two weeks………………………………..……...22-4 weeks ago……………….…………………….….....3More than 4 weeks ago but less than 6 months……...….4Longer ago or never………..………………………..….5Don’t know………………………………………….…..6Don’t answer……………………………………………7Sexual behaviorsThe next questions are about your sexual relationships. Please remember that everything you say will be kept secretand your name will not appear anywhere on the questionnaire.Thank you very much for being so open in answering those questions. We know it can be hard thinking aboutthese things and answering questions like this, but it is very important for us to learn more about men and thatis why we are asking them. We are now close to the end of the questionnaire.4.30. The last time you had sex, who was it with? Wife / Husband / main partner…………….......…..….…1Other partner……………………………….……….…...2Someone I went with once……………………………....3Friend……………………………………….…...………4Ex-partner……………………………………...……..…5Sex worker or someone I paid to have sex with me….....6I never had sex...………………………………………...7Other (specific)________________________________84.31. How often have you used condoms when havingsex in the past year?4.32. Including stable partners and occasionalpartners, how many partners have you had sex with inthe last year?4.33. Of these, how many were partners with whomyou had sex just on one occasion?4.34. Excluding your present relationship, how manywomen have you married/cohabited with?I have a female partner..……...……….….……. …...…..1I don’t use them……………...……….….……. …...…..2Always use a condom……………..…..………..…….....3Mostly use a condom……………...………...…………..4Occasionally use a condom……………………….…….5⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ NUMBER⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ NUMBER⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ NUMBER4.35. Excluding your present relationship, how manymen have you married/cohabited with?4.36. Would you describe your sexual relationshipwith your main partner as4.37. Would you describe the frequency of sexualrelations with your main partner as⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ NUMBERVery satisfying…………………….…………………….1Satisfying…………………………….………………….2More or less satisfying………………….……………….3Somewhat unsatisfying…………………….……………4Very unsatisfying…………………………….…………5Very satisfying………………………………….……….1Satisfying………………………………………….…….2More or less satisfying……………………………….….3Somewhat unsatisfying………………………………….4Very unsatisfying……………………………………..…5

SECTION FIVE: PoliciesThis section will ask you about your knowledge about some policies.5.1. Is there a law in your country that guaranteesfathers time off when their child is born, also known aspaternity leave?5.2. If yes, how long is the leave?Interviewer: after response, skip to 5.45.3. Do you think paternity leave should be guaranteedby law?5.4. Is there a law in your country that guaranteesmothers time off when their child is born, also known asmaternity leave?5.5. If yes, how long is the leave?Interviewer: after response, skip to 5.75.6. Do you think maternity leave should be guaranteedby law?5.7. Do you feel that divorce or separation laws in yourcountry favor the man or the woman?5.8. Do you feel that men and women have equalchances to get custody of the child (ren) in a divorceproceeding?Yes ………………………………....………...…….... 1No …………………………………..…. 2 (skip to 5.3)Don’t know ………………………….…3 (skip to 5.3)Less than a week …………………….……..……..… 1One-two weeks ……………………….……..……….23-4 weeks ………………………….………...……….31-2 months …………………………….……….. ……43-4 months …………………………….……….. .…...54-5 months …………………………….………..…... 6More than 5 months ………………………..……..….7Yes ………………………………..………….............1No …………………………………...……….……….2Don’t know …………………………..………............3Yes …………..………………….…………...…….... 1No ……………..………………………. 2 (skip to 5.6)Don’t know …….………………………3 (skip to 5.6)Less than a week ……..…………….……………….. 1One-two weeks ………..…………….…………….….23-4 weeks ……………….………….……….…….….31-2 months ………………..…………….……... ….…43-4 months ………………..…………………… .…....54-5 months ………………..…………………….….... 6More than 5 months ……….………………….….…..7Yes ……………………..…………………..................1No ………………………..….…………………….….2Don’t know ………………..……..……………...........3Man …………………………….…….….…………...1Woman ………………………….……….…………...2Neither, both are treated equally ..………….………...3Don’t know ………………………..………….……...4Man …………………………….………….................1Woman ………………………….…………….……..2Neither, both are treated equally .…………................3Don’t know …………………….…………….………45.9. Is shared custody common in your community? Yes …………………………………….….…..............1No ………………………………………..………..….2Don’t know ……………………..………..……...........35.10. Do you feel child support laws (meaning laws thatoblige fathers to provide income for their biologicalchildren even if they are not living with those children)in your country are?5.11. Are there laws in your country regarding theestablishment of paternity? (Establishment of paternitymeans when a man registers the child or legal registersthe child as being his.)Fair to both men and women ………..……..…............1Unfair to men …………………………..…..…...........2Unfair to women …………………………...………...3Don’t know …………………………………..….…...4Yes ………………..…………..……….………..........1No …………………………………......2 (skip to 5.14)Don’t know …………………………...3 (skip to 5.14)5.12. What does the law or laws entail? Required DNA test ……………..…………..…...........1Official registration as father of child …….…..…….. 2Child support requirement ……………………...……3Don’t know ……………………………………..……45.13. What do you think about these law(s) regardingpaternity establishment?5.14. Are there any laws in your country about violenceagainst women?They are fair to both men and women …..…….……..1Unfair to women ………………………....…….….…2Unfair to men …………………………….………..…3No opinion ………………………………..…..………4Yes………..………………………...……..….….........1No……………..…………………….....2 (skip to 5.20)I don’t know...………………..........…98 (skip to 5.20)No answer…..………………..………99 (skip to 5.20)

About these laws, do you think that? Agree Partly agree Disagree5.15. They make it too easy for a woman to bring aviolence charge against a man.1 2 35.16. They are too harsh. 1 2 35.17. They are not harsh enough. 1 2 35.18. They do not provide enough protection for thevictim of violence.5.19. They expose the woman to even morestigmatization and pain.5.20. Are there laws/policies in your country that protectpeople who are gay or homosexual from discrimination?1 2 31 2 3Yes ………………………..…….….….……………. 1No ……………………….…..……..... 2 (skip to 5.22 )Do not Know …………………..... …..3 (skip to 5.22 )5.21. What do you think of these laws/ polices? Support……………..………..…….…….……..……. 1Against.. ……………………..…….……….…….…. 2No opinion …………………..…….……………….. 35.22. Are there laws/policies in your country thatguarantee civil union or marriage between same-sex orgay or lesbian couples?Yes ……………………..……………………………. 1No ……………………………….….... ..2 (skip to 6.1)Do not Know ……………..………...… 3 ( skip to 6.1)5.23. What do you think of these laws/ polices? Support………………….…………...……..….….…. 1Against . ………………….…………….…………… 2No opinion ……………….…...……………..….….. 3Needed …………………….….………………..…….4SECTION SIX: Parenting and women’s relationships with their childrenThese questions are about yourself and the children you may have had or adopted, or children who may live with youeven if they are not legally or biologically yours. We want to know how your relationship with them is. Please feelfree and remember that the information you share with us will be kept secret from anyone not concerned here and willonly be used for research purposes.6.1. Do you have any BIOLOGICAL child/children? Yes …………………………………………….…….1I am pregnant with my first child.…..…2 (skip to 6.8)No...………….…………….…….……3 (skip to 6.40)6.2. How many biological children?6.3. Do any of your biological child/children live INYOUR HOUSEHOLD?6.4. How many children altogether (biological and other)live with you IN YOUR HOUSEHOLD?6.5. Does your current partner are the biological fatherof your BIOLOGICAL child (ren) who living with you?6.6. How many days per week does the father of thechildren see them?INTERVIEWER: If the woman has more than one expartner,ask about the father of the youngest child⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ Biological ChildrenYes, all………………...……...…………………...…1Yes, not all……………………...………………..…..2None……..……………….………….....3(skip to 6.8)⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ ChildrenIf no children live in household, skip to 7.1My current partner is a female.........…..1(skip to 6.17)Yes, all………………......…………...…2(skip to 6.8)Yes, not all………………...……………………..…..3None……..………………………...............................4I was a single mother...………...……….…………....1He is dead ……………………………….…………...2He never sees the children …...……...…….………...31 to 3 days…………………………………………....44 to 5 days…………………………………………....56 to 7 days………………………..………………..…66.7. Does him provide financial support? No……………………………………………….……0Occasionally………………………………..……...…1Frequently…………………………………………....2Pay most expenses………………………...………....36.8. If you have children together, did your partneraccompany you to a prenatal visit during the last or thepresent pregnancy?I did not have prenatal care ……..……………...…... 1Yes, he went with me to every visit ……………..…..2Yes, to some visits ………………………..…. …......3

Interviewer: if the woman is pregnant with her firstchild, skip to 7.1 AFTER she answers this question6.9. Where was your partner during the birth of yourlast child?6.10. If he was not physically present during the birth ofyour child, of these why not?INTERVIEWER: READ ALL OPTIONS AND MARKALL THAT APPLYNo, not to any visit ……………….…………............ 4We don’t have children together...…………………...5He was in the delivery room……..........1(skip to 6.11)He was in the waiting room or elsewhere in thehospital or clinic………….………………..…………2He was at home………………………………………3He was at work ………………………. ……….….....4He was traveling or living outside the city ….........…5Others (specific)____________________________15He did not want to be present …... ………….…...… 1I did not want him present ………………...………...2My family did not want him present ……………..….3He had to work ………………………. ……….….....4He was traveling or living outside the city ….........…5He wanted to go but was not permitted entry to thedelivery room …………………………………..…....6We thought that he would not be allowed to bepresent………………………………………………..He knew he could go but did not want to ...................7He was scared …………………….……………..….8It’s not common in my community for men to do that………………………………………...……..............9Others (specific)____________________________156.11. Was it you or your partner who wanted to have achild the last time you had a child or adopted one?6.12. Did your partner take leave the last time you had achild, and if so how many days?Mostly me……………...………………………..…...1Mostly my partner…………………………………....2Both equally……………………………………….....3Not planned…………………………………………..4He took______days of paid leave….….1(skip to 6.14)He took ___ days of unpaid leave…….2 (skip to 6.14)He took no leave …………………...……………..…3He was not employed at the time….....4 (skip to 6.14)He took vacation………………...……5 (skip to 6.14)Other (specific)_____________________________56.13. Why did he not take leave? Work not permit…………………………………..….1Did not want to…………………………………….…2Could not afford…………………………………..….3Other (specific)_____________________________46.14. Did you take Maternity Leave? Yes……………..……………………………..…… ..1No..………..………..….………....…..2 (skip to 6.17)6.15. If so, How much? I took______days of paid leave ………………...…...1I took ___ days of unpaid leave ..............................…2Other (specific)____________________________36.16. If you had leave, when you were at home with thechild, were you mainly?6.17. If your partner was involved early on, would yousay that his time at home with the child led to bettercontact or relationship with the child later?Do the following circumstances apply to your everyday life in your home?6.18. I spend too little time with our childrenon account of my job6.19. I would work less if it meant thatI could spend more time with my childrenAlone ……………………………………………...…1Together with your partner ………………...……..…2Together with a nanny or other care giver………..….3Others (specific)_____________________________4Yes ………………………………...…………...........1No …………………………………………………....2Don’t know ………………………………….............3YesNoDon’tKnowNot applicable1 0 2 991 0 2 99

FILTER: ONLY IF MALE PARTNER. IF NOT, SKIP TO 7.1Do the following circumstances apply to your everyday life in your home?6.20. My partner spends too little time withour children on account of his job6.21. Overall , my partner has the main responsibilityfor providing for the family6.22. My partner spends more time thanI do organizing practical tasks in the family and household6.23. My partner’s role in caring for my children is mostlyas a helper.YesNoDon’tKnowNot applicable1 0 2 991 0 2 991 0 2 991 0 2 99The next questions will ask you about the relative amount of time you spend with your children doingdifferent things with or for them.Disregarding the help you and/or your partner may get from others, how do/did you and your partnerdistribute the following tasks related to the care of children?AlwaysmeUsuallymeEqually ordone togetherUsuallypartnerAlwayspartner6.24. Daily care of child 1 2 3 4 5 996.25. Staying at home witha child when he/she is sick6.26. Collecting child fromschool/day care centre6.27. Driving or takingthe child to leisure-time activities1 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 991 2 3 4 5 99FILTER: HAVE CHILDREN BETWEEN 0 TO 4 YEARS OLD. IF NOT, SKIP TO 6.32If you have children between 0-4 living with you, how often doesyour partner do any of the following with you or for yourchildren?6.28. How often does your partner play with your children athome?6.29. How often does your partner cook or fix food for yourchildren?6.30. How often does your partner change diapers or any clothesof your children?RarelyorNeverNow &againSeveralTimes aWeekEveryDay1 2 3 41 2 3 41 2 3 46.31. How often does your partner bathe your children? 1 2 3 4FILTER: HAVE CHILDREN BETWEEN 5 TO 13 YEARS OLD. IF NOT, SKIP TO 6.38If you have children between the ages of 5-13 living with you, howoften does your partner do any of the following with you or foryour children?6.32. How often does your partner play with your children athome?6.33. How often does your partner talk about personal matterswith your children?6.34. How often does your partner do physical exercise or playgames outside home with your children?6.35. How often does your partner help them with theirhomework?6.36. How often does your partner cook or fix food for yourchildren?RarelyorNeverNow &againSeveralTimes aWeekNAEveryDay1 2 3 41 23 41 2 3 41 2 3 41 2 3 46.37. How often does your partner wash clothes for your 1 2 3 4

children?6.38. Who in your family usually has the final sayregarding the health of women at home?6.39. Who in your family usually has the final sayregarding the health of children at home?Yourself …………………….………………….…… 1Husband/Partner ……………………………………. 2Yourself/Husband/partner jointly …...…………...… 3Someone else …………………………....…………. 4Your and someone else jointly ……….……. ……….5Other………………………………………………….6Yourself …………………….………………….…… 1Husband/Partner ……………………………………. 2Yourself/Husband/partner jointly ……...………...… 3Someone else …………………………….…………. 4Your and someone else jointly ……….……. ……….5Other………………………………………………….66.40. Does your current partner have any BIOLOGICALchild/children that DO NOT live in your household?I don’t have a partner………….………1(skip to 6.43)Yes……………………………...………….....…… ..2No…………..……………………..….3 (skip to 6.43)6.41. How many days per week does him see the child? Less than one day……………………….…………....11 to 3 days………………………………………..…..24 to 5 days…………………………………………....36 to 7 days…………………………..……………..…4Don’t know…………………………………………..56.42. Does he provide financial support? No……………………………………………..…..….0Occasionally………………………………..……...…1Frequently……………………………...………….....2Pay most expenses………………………..………….3Don’t know…………………………………………..5FILTER: HAVE BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN UNDER THE AGE 18 THAT’S NOT YOUR CURRENTPARTNER. IF NOT SKIP TO 7.16.43. How many days per week do you see the biological Less than one day………………………...…………..1child who is not living with you?1 to 3 days…………………………………..………..24 to 5 days…………………………………..………..36.44. Do you provide financial support for yourbiological children who do not live with you?6.45. Does your partner provide financial support foryour biological children who do not live with you?6 to 7 days………………………..……..……………4No………………………………………………..……0Occasionally……………………………….....………1Frequently……………………………..……………..2Pay most expenses…………………….........………..3No………………………………………………..……0Occasionally……………………………….....………1Frequently……………………………..……………..2Pay most expenses…………………….........………..3SECTION SEVEN: Relationships and ViolenceThe interview is going very well so far and we’re very nearly finished. The next questions ask about things which happened inyour relationships, with any male partner you have ever had or your husband if you have been married.FILTER: HAS EVER HAD MALE PARTNER. IF NOT, SKIP TO 8.1INTERVIEWER: If the respondent says ONCE or MORE THAN 1 TIME to questions 7.1 – 7.5, PLEASEALSO ask him if the behavior happened in the last year (last column).Cod.How many times… Never OnceMorethan 1timeMARKHERE IFTHISHAPPENEDIN THELASTYEAR7.1. Has any male partner ever slapped YOU or thrown1 0 2 3 (YES)something at you that could hurt you?7.2. Has a male partner ever pushed or shoved YOU? 1 0 2 3 (YES)

7.3. Has a male partner ever hit YOU with a fist or withsomething else that could hurt you?7.4. Has a male partner ever kicked, dragged, beaten, choked orburned YOU?7.5. Has a male partner ever threatened to use or actually used agun, knife or other weapon against YOU?1 0 2 3 (YES)1 0 2 3 (YES)1 0 2 3 (YES)SECTION EIGHT: Health and Quality of LifeWe are about halfway done now and doing very well. Please remember that we appreciate and value yourinformation. Having said that, I want to remind you that whatever you share with us today will be kept confidentialand will only be used for the purpose of research.The next sets of questions are about different aspects of you and your partner’s health.8.1. When was the last time you sought out healthservices at a clinic or hospital for your, including atraditional healer?8.2. The last time you sought healthcare services, whatwas the principal reason that led you to seek medicalattention?8.3. Have you ever been tested for HIV that you knowof?8.4. Has your partner ever been tested for HIV that youknow of?In the last three months ……...………………………..0Within the last year ...…….……………………………1Within the last two years ..…………….………............2Within the last 5 years…………………………............3More than 5 years ago ....……………...………………4Never .………………....………………...…………….5Medical Check-up ………………………...…………..1Exam, diagnosis or treatment for an STD …..………..2To accompany my primary partner to an appointment(including pre-natal) ..…………………………………3To get the result of an HIV/Aids test ..………………..4To get HIV/Aids treatment………………….………...5Health Certificate ……………………………………..6Sexual Dysfunction……………………………..……..7Acne or other skin problems ………………………….8Dental treatment ....……………………………...........9To get information about sex, family planning or STDs...................................................…...............................10Gynecological exam/pap smear……………...…….....11Breast exam /check for breast cancer orMammogram……………………................................12Do not remember……………………………………..13Other (specific)______________________________14No answer…………………………………………….99Yes, last 12 months…………………….……………...1Yes, 2-5 years ago…………...………………………...2Yes, more than 5 years ago…...……………………….3Never tested………………………….………………...4Yes, last 12 months…………………….……………...1Yes, 2-5 years ago…………………...………………...2Yes, more than 5 years ago…………...……………….3Never tested…………….…………….…4 (skip to 8.6 )I don’t have partner…………………......5 (skip to 8.6 )8.5. Did your partner take or go back for the result? Yes……………………………………………….........1No…………………….………………………………..08.6. Have you ever had an abortion? Yes, before 18………………………………………….1Yes, after 18………………………...…………………2No………………………………………3( skip to 8.10)8.7. Did your male partner ever participate in adecision you took to terminate a pregnancy?8.8. Did your male partner provide financial supportfor the abortion? (If more than once, ask about the lasttime this happened.)Yes………………..……………………..………..........1No……………..…………………..……..………….....2I don’t know………..……...……………………........98No answer…..……………………...........................…99Yes………………….………...………………….........1No……………..…………………………………...…..0answer…..……………………..…...…………………99

8.9. Did your male partner accompany you in theabortion?(If more than once, ask about the last time thishappened.)8.10. When feeling sad, disappointed or frustrated doYOU seek help from others? If yes, whom?8.11. Have you suffered any permanent disability orhealth problem as a result of an accident, injury orviolence?Yes………………..………...…………………….........1No……………..……………………...………………..0No answer…..…………………...……………………99No…………………...…………………………………1Partner/girlfriend……..…….………………………….2Relatives………………..….……….………………….3Professional counseling……………...………………...4Family Meetings……….......…………………………..5Teacher/Social Worker……………..…….……………6Doctor……………...…………………………………..7Priest/Religious Leader………...……………..…….…8Female friends…………………...…………………….9Male friends…………………………..…………....…10Traditional Healer……………………...……………..11No answer………………………...……………….….99Yes, as a result of injury………………….……………1Yes, as a result of violence………………….…………2Yes, as a result of traffic other accident……….………3Yes, as a result of illness.………….….……………....4No..………………….……………………...................5No answer......……………………………….…….…99THIS NEXT SECTION WILL EITHER BE FILLED IN ON PAPER BY THERESPONDENT OR WILL BE REGISTERED ON THE HAND-HELD COMPUTER BYTHE RESPONDENTWe have now got some questions that ask about things you may have done in your life. In answering the questionswe want you to think back across your whole life, including when you were a child or teenager. You might findthese more difficult to answer but we really hope you will feel free to answer them openly. The research is veryimportant in trying to understand the lives of men. When you answer the questions please remember that everythingyou say is being kept secret, and we are not even collecting information on your name. When we write a report fromthe research what you tell us will be put together with information from 1500 other men so no one will ever knowwhat you say.SECTION NINE: Final QuestionsThese next questions ask about things you may have done over the course of your whole life from your childhood upto the present day. The questions ask you how often you have done a range of different things:9.1. How often do you have a drink containingalcohol?9.2. How often do you have 5 or more drinks on oneoccasion?9.3. How many times have you used marijuana in thelast 12 months? Would you say it was once, twice orthree or more times?I do not drink alcohol………………...................1( skip to 9.3)Monthly or less………………………........................................22-4 times a month…………..…………………………………..32-3 times a week……………..………………………………...44 + times a week……………….……………………………....5Never ..……………………..…….……………………………0Less than monthly …..................................................................1Monthly ..….….…………..........................................................2Weekly ..………..……………………………………………...3Daily or almost daily ..……………….…...................................4Never ………….……………………………………………….0Once ………………………….………………………..............1Twice ………………...………………………………..............2Three or more times...………………………………………….3TRANSACTIONAL SEX QUESTIONS.Can give more than one response:

9.4. Have you ever refused to have sex with your malepartner?9.5. The last time this happened, what was hisreaction?I never had sex with a man………..........…1(Skip to 9.6)Never………………………………………2(Skip to 9.6)Once………………….…………………………….……3More than one time….…………………………………..4Often ………………….………….……………………..5No answer…..………….………………………………98Accepted what I wanted…………..………………….….1Shouted at me …………………….…………………….2Beat me…………………………….……………………3Withheld material goods from me….…………………...4Other (specific)________________________________5Have you experienced any of the following forms of violence outside the home in the last 3 months?Cod. Types of Violence Yes No Don’t remember9.6. Been punched or hit 1 0 989.7. Been threatened with a knife or other weapon(excluding firearms)1 0 989.8. Been threatened with a gun 1 0 989.9. Other (specific)_____________________________________________1 0 98RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHER WOMAN QUESTION:These questions ask you about your sexual experiences with other woman.9.10. Have you ever had sex or done something sexualwith another woman because you wanted to?9.11. How old were you when you first had sexualintercourse with a woman?9.12. What sex attracts you sexually? I am sexuallyattracted to9.13. If you are primarily attracted to women, and youdon’t live with a female partner, would you prefer tolive with your current or another female partner if itwere acceptable?Yes……..………..…………………………………........1No………..……..…………...……...…....2 (skip to 9.12)No answer..…..……………….…..……99 (skip to 9.12)⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐⎯⎯⏐⏐ yearsMen……….…………………..…………..1(skip to 9.14)Women…….…………………………………………….2Both………..………………………………………...…..3No answer….…………………………………..………99Yes…………..………………………………….…........1No…………..…………………………………………..2I live with or have lived with a female partner………...3No answer..……………………………………………99TRANSACTIONAL SEX QUESTIONS.Can give more than one response:9.14. What do you think about an adult woman working as asex worker or prostitute?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 2 3I think it violates her rights 1 2 3I think it is her own choice 1 2 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 2 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 2 3It’s a job like any other 1 2 39.15. What do you think about a young woman under age 18working as a sex worker or prostitute?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 2 3I think it violates her rights 1 2 3I think it is her own choice 1 2 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 2 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 2 3It’s a job like any other 1 2 3

9.16. What do you think about an adult man working as asex worker or prostitute?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 2 3I think it violates her rights 1 2 3I think it is her own choice 1 2 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 2 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 2 3It’s a job like any other 1 2 39.17. What do you think about a young man under age 18working as a sex worker or prostitute?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 2 3I think it violates her rights 1 2 3I think it is her own choice 1 2 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 2 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 2 3It’s a job like any other 1 2 3Does you ever have sex with a a male partner for one of the following reason:Yes No No answer9.18. Provided you with food, clothes, cell phone or transportation 1 0 999.19. Paid you school fees or residence fees 1 0 999.20. Provided you with somewhere to stay 1 0 999.21. Gave you cosmetics or money for beauty products 1 0 999.22. Gave items for you children or family 1 0 999.23. Gave you cash or money to pay your bills 1 0 999.24. Provided you anything else that you could not afford by yourself 1 0 999.25. Did handyman work for you or fixed you car 1 0 999.26. What do you think about men who have sex with a sexworker or a prostitute above 18 years old?Yes No No answerI think it is wrong morally 1 0 3I think men who do it are sick 1 0 3I think it is wrong but there is nothing that can be done about it 1 0 3I see nothing wrong with it 1 0 3We have come to the end of the survey. We appreciate the time you have spent answering thesequestions. Your response and those of approximately 500 other women and 1500 men will giveus an understanding of men’s roles in society today, information that could be useful for drivingchanges in policies. It is important to emphasize that the laws in our country make it a crime touse physical violence against women, or to have sex with someone under age 18, and to force awoman to have sex with you.If there are any of these issues discussed that you would like more information, such as where togo for health services in your community, we have prepared a list of such services. [Handbrochure with list of relevant services in the community.]THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME.