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InsideT H E M A G A Z I N E F O R N E W C A S T L E A N D B E Y O N DCHAPPAQUAw w w. i n s i d e c h a p p a q u a . c o mMay 200910On the CoverJoan Corwin,head of ChappaquaTransportation, Inc.Photo by Michelle HechtAdvertisers at a GlancePage 472736F E AT U R E S21 How Joan Corwin Does itRunning a bus company—imagine managing six different school schedules againstdaily traffic and weather reports—for any school district is never without challengesand controversy. But somehow its fearless, take no prisoners leaderkeeps getting our kids to and fro…with an across the board Safety First priorityintact at all times.By Jean Sheff27 Take Me Out to the Theatre…Breaking out of the suburban box, some plucky Chappaqua women enter thenever predictable but always interesting world of Theater Journalism.By Michall Jeffers30 A Plethora of Talented Children’s Books AuthorsCome meet five area professionals whose various works spark young imaginationsand instill a love for reading early on.By Sarah Ellen Berman36 Suna Senman-Lane’s Model for a Future Healthy WorldDiscover “Suna” and her dual mission toward helping teens realize theirpotential and guiding women on a voyage of self discovery.By Pamela Brown4 Letter to the Editor4 Just Between UsStrength and CourageIn and Around Town6 Gilda’s Club Lends a Hand10 Boy Scout Project: Mapping1,100 graves!12 Local Merchant Rescues our10K Run17 Community Lecture Seriesat First Congregational16 & 18 Special Events/Happenings• Hadassah's "Star of Hope"Awards• Second Shift Career SeminarFundraiser for RichmondServices• Chron’s & Colitis FoundationCommittee Fundraiser• Jill Goodman AwardRecipient• StoryWalk Comes to TownD E PA R T M E N T S40 Gotta Have ArtsTreat mom to a concert or danceperformance at any one of thesethree area gems.By Sarah Ellen Berman43 We Asked OurAdvertisersBraving the Bad Economy46 Lights, Camera!The Spotlight is on BarbaraKornreich, Vice President of theNCCTV Board and creator of thepopular Great Dogs of Chappaqua.By Michall Jeffers48 Rick’s Last LicksProfiling CourageBy Rick Reynolds40May 2009 Inside Chappaqua 1

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IN&AROUNDT O W NGilda’s Club:A Community for those Impacted by CancerBY PAMELA BROWNStepping through the red doors intothe inviting three-story clubhouse,men, women, and children impactedby cancer receive warmth, love, andsocial and emotional support as ifthey were at home. “Gilda’s Club isdesigned to be a home-like environmentwhere members can relax,learn, and connect with others,” saidDonna Fishman, CEO at Gilda’s ClubWestchester. It has an activity-filledchildren’s area, library with computeraccess, community room with fullkitchen, exercise room, and art room.“We like to say that everyone’s bloodpressure drops at least 20 points bycoming in and being greeted by oneof our staff or volunteers. Peoplemeet one another in everything froma support group to a yoga class to acooking class and they become fastfriends. Our members often buildthese friendships which then servethem for many years to come andthey are there for one anotherthrough the good and bad times.”Gilda’s Club Westchester, located at80 Maple Avenue in White Plains, isa leading cancer support communityfor people living with cancer,together with families and friends,who reside in Westchester,Rockland, and Fairfield County,Connecticut. It offers networkinggroups, lectures, workshops, andsocial events facilitated by mentalhealth professionals, nurses, andsocial workers.With three out of every four familiesaffected by cancer, Fishmanstresses the need for the welcomingpsycho-social environment whichGilda’s Club provides. “Our innovativeprogram is an essential complementto medical care. It’s not allsterile and minimalist. I’ve heardmembers say Gilda’s Club savedtheir lives; that they needed a placeto go where people understood6 Inside Chappaqua May 2009Melissa Camhy, of Chappaqua, hosted an information breakfast at the Gilda’s Club Westchesterclubhouse in White Plains on April 3rd. From left: Melissa Camhy; Susan Puder, Director of MajorGifts, of Chappaqua; Donna Fishman, CEO of Gilda's Club Westchester; Lori Cohen of Chappaqua;and Randi Childs of Chappaqua.what was happening to them. Oneof our members recently said, ‘I cancome here and wear my wig or takeit off. Nobody cares whether I wearit or not and I don’t have to explainanything.’ “Supporting KidsThe Clubhouse, sustained throughgrants, private donations, and corporatecontributions, is free and open toindividuals of all ages, including children5-18. It has over 2,000 membersand serves 500+ students through itsvarious outreach programs in schoolsand another several hundred throughits open-to-the-public events.Since children are often the mostunder-served in terms of emotionalsupport, Gilda’s Club Westchesterrecently launched the Kid Supportprogram, a curriculum-based, peerfocusedsupport group for ages 4-11.“The unknown is what is mostfrightening to children. It’s thereforeour responsibility to support andeducate children so they can learn tolive with cancer as part of life in ourworld today,” said Fishman. The programaddresses the psychologicaland social needs of children whohave cancer or have a family memberor friend living with cancer.“Through hands-on activities, games,and workshops, kids make friends,learn skills to help them face cancer,express their feelings, and bondthrough their shared experience.”According to Amy Mlodzianowski,Program Director at Gilda’s ClubWestchester, Kid Support adds avaluable dimension to the existingcomprehensive program.“It’s designed to help reduce thestress of parental or family cancerand helps strengthen the parentchildbond by enhancing familycommunication about cancer,” shesaid. The club also has a uniquebereavement group for children.Continued on page 8

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Melissa Napolitano(L-R): Dawn Dankner-Rosen of DDR Public Relations with Kendra Farn,WNBC-TV, Tony Aiello, WCBS-TV, Gilda’s Club Westchester volunteer,and Donna Fishman, CEO of Gilda’s Club Westchester“Support is vital to children faced with life-changingissues that stem from anxiety when cancer is in thefamily as well as the range of emotions experiencedwhen a family member or friend dies.”Created in 1993, Gilda’s Club was named after comedienneGilda Radner who died of ovarian cancer in 1989. “Ourmembers with different diagnoses help each other learn tolive with cancer, whatever the outcome,” said Fishman.Statistics show that between 8,000 and 10,000 people arediagnosed with cancer in this region annually. Gilda’s ClubWestchester was opened in 2001 by two Westchester cancersurvivors, Robin Posses-Markell and Susie Wang.“We’re here for all people within a family, working to providesupport for them as they’re part of a family with cancer.I think one of our greatest successes is working withfamilies where a parent has cancer and helping the wholefamily, and especially the kids, learn how to express theiremotions, know that they’re not the only family goingthrough these tough times, and helping them adjust totheir family’s new situation.”Gilda’s Club Westchester is a place where one can findencouragement, information, and fun. “Whether you havea cancer diagnosis or a loved one does, we all need helpin different ways, at different times, and anyone whocomes to Gilda’s Club can find someone who is goingthrough the same thing,” said Fishman. “No one shouldface cancer alone.”For more information, call (914) 644-8844 or visitwww.GildasClubWestchester.comNews fromthe American Cancer Society:2nd AnnualRelay For Lifeof ChappaquaStudents, neighbors, friends and family go aroundthe clock in their battle against cancer during theAmerican Cancer Society Relay For Life ofChappaqua at Horace Greeley High School. Teamswill gather at Horace Greeley High School Track foran overnight Relay against cancer from 7 p.m. onMay 30 until 7 a.m. on May 31.Relay For Life, the Society’s signature event, is a lifechangingexperience that helps participants celebratethe lives of those who have battled cancer,remember loved ones lost and to fight back against adisease that takes too much.Relay For Life includes a celebration of cancer survivors(anyone who has ever been diagnosed withcancer), who walk or wheelchair a lap around thetrack. A festive atmosphere always develops aroundthe track area at these events. As new friends aremade or time is spent with old ones, the Relay heatsup. An atmosphere of camaraderie is created withteam members entertaining each other: eating, playinggames, and, of course, walking for a great cause.Highlighting the evening is the Luminaria Ceremonyheld 9:30 p.m. to honor cancer survivors and toremember those who have lost the battle againstcancer. The luminarias line the track and are leftburning throughout the night to remind participantsof the incredible importance of their contributions.For information about how to form a team orbecome involved in Relay For Life of Chappaquaplease contact Event Chair Rose Schrott at:roschrott@aol.com or 914 471-2995.Please visit the Relay for Life of Chappaqua websiteat: www.relayforlife.org/chappaquanyExpanded Yogurt & Ice Cream Selections coming mid Maywww.GailPatricksCafe.com8 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

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IN&AROUNDT O W NA Boy Scout’sAmbitious ProjectBenefits TownBY PAMELA BROWNGray WilliamsMichael Martinez holds a mirror as he and another scout gather information.Thanks to the commitment andhard work of Michael Martinez,a boy scout with Chappaqua Troop1, the townspeople of New Castlewill have a much more productiveway to research family history. “Thisproject will allow people to go backand find their ancestors, and it willalso serve as an invaluable tool forthe town in order to preserve andfurther define the community’s history,”said Michael, 15, of NewCastle. To help him earn his EagleScout rank, this ambitious sophomore,who attends Horace GreeleyHigh, completed a comprehensiveinventory and map of 1,100 gravesin the graveyard surrounding theQuaker meetinghouse. He dedicatedtwo years and 331 hours to the project.“It required much more timeand effort than I anticipated, but Idid what I had to do,” said Michael.New Castle’s historical society hasan alphabetical list of the buriedindividuals that had been preparedin 1908, but it lacked the location ofeach in the graveyard. Realizing anupdate and map would make a10 Inside Chappaqua May 2009worthwhile Eagle Scout communityservice project, town historian GrayWilliams, approached Bill Flank,Scoutmaster of Chappaqua Troop 1.“Altogether, this proved to be aHerculean effort, far more extensivethan the usual Eagle project. ButMichael stuck to it unstintingly formany months and the result is avaluable and lasting contribution tothe New Castle community forwhich he and his fellow troop membersdeserve much recognition andpraise,” said Gray.Michael led the project and enlistedthe help of fellow troop members. “Ithought this project would be agood challenge for me and I’d beable to test out my organizationaland leadership abilities,” saidMichael, the troop’s senior instructor.Under his direction, the scoutsrecorded each gravestone and itsinscription and measured the rowsof monuments and their distancesfrom landmarks. “Gray Williams hasbeen my mentor throughout thisproject, and under his guidance, Ilearned how to properly inventoryand map a cemetery. I liked when Iwas in the field showing the scoutshow to record the information neededoff the stones and answeringtheir questions and guiding them,”he said. Campbell Engineering thenused the measurements to show thelocation of each row of gravesupon a topographical survey of theproperty.Gray praises Michael’s work ethic.“He really took charge. He workedwith me in dividing the graveyardinto readily identifiable sections, buthe himself worked out the systemof separating each section intorows,” said Gray. Michael alsodesigned an Access database thatcan be sorted alphabetically byname or by graveyard location. Tolook for a specific grave, a personcan search the database, locate thegrave on the map, and then find itin the yard. “In all these endeavors,Michael displayed outstanding qualitiesof leadership, perseverance,intelligence, and creativity. Beforethese resources were prepared, individualgraves could be located onlyContinued on page 12

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S P E C I A L E V E N T S / H A P E N I N G SHadassah’s “Star of Hope”Awards include Chappaqua’sSheila and Neil SiderowThe Westchester Region ofHadassah held its inauguralgala on March 21 atthe Ritz Carlton, WhitePlains, to raise funds forthe Hadassah MedicalOrganization (HMO) inJerusalem. More than 240guests gambled, dancedand honored members ofthe Westechester communitywho received theHadassah "Star of Hope"awards, including: Brenda Resnick Spano, Yorktown Heights, Sheila andNeil Siderow of Chappaqua, Sue and Abe Mizrahi, Mamaroneck, andJulie Domonkos and Daniel Leffell, New Rochelle.Chappaqua Mothers JoinTogether for a Common Cause(L-R) Sheila Spicehandler, Sheila and Neil Siderow, Phyllis and AllanHartstein, all of Chappaqua“Success Strategies for Women”Focus of FundraiserRichmond Community Services and Second Shift will beoffering an education forum and fundraiser for careerwomen. “Calling All Career Women: Get What You Needin Today’s Economic World” will be held on Tuesday, May19, from 6:30-9:30 p.m. at the headquarters of RichmondCommunity Services at 272 North Bedford Road inMount Kisco.Eugene Bucchini, Ph.D., professor of management andRichmond Board member and Ellen D. Durnin, Ph.D., Deanof Graduate Studies, Western Connecticut University planto offer women the tools they need to negotiate anythingin these tough economic times with their current andpotential service providers, employer or employees.Note: Second Shift will donate a third of the proceeds toRichmond Community Services toward a summer campscholarship for children and adults with significant physicaland intellectual disabilities supported by Richmond.For more information about the event or about either ofthese great organizations, go to www.secondshift.org andwww.richmondcommserv.orgDOUBLE VISION PHOTOGRAPHYPO BOX 502CHAPPAQUA, NY10514914.588.3975914.954.477040% GIFT CERTIFICATEIndividual and Family PortraitsEXPIRES JULY 1, 2009Co-chairs Hilary and Bruce Murray & Wendi and Ira SilvermanThe Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation of America annualCasino for the Cause fundraiser raised 60% more thanlast year…a significant feat in this economy thanks tothe efforts of its dedicated volunteers.The committee, formed by Chappaqua residents WendiSilverman, Hilary Murray and Jennifer Paley, grew toinclude other Chappaqua volunteers and those fromneighboring towns as well. Many were parents of childrenrecently diagnosed and others have been sufferingwith IBD for years.The theme of the event, held at the Ritz Carlton inWhite Plains, was courage—with a spotlight on the“Gallery of Courage,” a tribute to people who suffer withthese diseases. Four children from Chappaqua werehonored. The courage, tenacity and optimism of the parent’swere acknowledged as well“There was an immediate connection between us and astrong foundation of trust and understanding,” saidLauren Baker.Amy Murray had originally become involved when shetrained to run a half marathon in Miami while raisingfunds for CCFA in honor of her son.Jennifer Paley said “after my son was diagnosed at four, Ifelt as a mother of a child with a chronic illness, it wasup to me to build awareness and raise money forresearch. Over the past few years, I have met so manyother women in Chappaqua whose children were unfortunatelygoing through the same thing as mine. It isamazing the bond we have formed and that we foundeach other here in our little community.”CCFA’s mission is to cure and prevent Crohn’s diseaseand ulcerative colitis and to improve the quality of lifeof children and adults affected by these diseases. Thesediseases affect 1.4 million people in America and100,000 locally.16 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

IN&AROUNDT O W NConversing as a Community!Lectures Aim to Guide and HelpThrough Dialogue and Expert AdviceA community-based lecture thattouches on a topic you or a friend orneighbor might be struggling withcan be an unexpected lifeline topeople and places that can help.The First Congregational Church ofChappaqua is hoping its new lectureseries—“A Community inConversation”—might just offer thatkind of support in warm, invitingforums not far from home.Two compelling lectures in April andMay—one addressing the Gay,Lesbian, Bi-sexual &Transgenger(GLBTQ) community,the otheraddressing a myriadof issues surroundingaging—could be the start ofa continuing forumfor topics in the fall,noted Rev. TomLenhart, minister ofFirst CongregationalChurch.“The impetus forthis series reflects our sense of whowe are as a faith community committedto outreach and social justice,”said Rev. Lenhart. “We’re hoping toattract attendees from all faiths andtraditions, and also those who arenon practicing, and just transcendthose kind of boundaries.” The speakersat each lecture are experts drawnfrom the northern Westchester community,by and large.Rev. Lenhart will open the Apr. 29forum (7:30 p.m. at the ChappaquaLibrary) by introducing the panelistsand their life experiences. Theyinclude: Jase Schwartz, a 26 year old“queer transman” who grew up inChappaqua and who is currentlyworking with homeless youth inManhattan; Mark Bayer, the assistantprincipal at Horace GreeleyHigh School who works to raiseawareness to help make our schoolsand community safe for the GLBTQ“We looked for peoplewho could bringintelligent perspectiveand knowledge but whowould also be able torelate a topic to ourimmediate concerns.”Reverend Tom Lenhart,First Congregational Churchpopulation; Mike Kavey, a formerstudent co-president of the gaystraightalliance at Greeley, and nowan attorney at Lambda Legal, anational legal and advocacy organization;Joy Ladin, the first openlytranssexual professor at YeshivaUniversity, spurring debate withinthe Orthodox world; and SallySchwab, PhD, MSW, who is on theGLBT tast force at NYMC.“The gay/lesbian community faceunique challenges,” said Rev.Lenhart. “Suiciderates among gayteens are higherthan in the generalpopulation, forexample. Our goalis to help us allfind ways to reachout and connectwith one another.”On May 31, “Aging:Answers for Youand Your Parents”will move to theFirst Congrega -tional Church and will take place at4 p.m. The topic “touches everyonein the community,” said Lenhart,whether its those among us who areaging, or who have parents or grandparentswho are.Speakers include: Amy Paul, aChappaqua resident and executivedirector of CAPS, a non profit dedicatedto helping Westchester residentsover 50 remain and enjoy lifelonger in their own homes; BernardKrooks, Esq., Chappaqua residentand chair of the Elder Law section ofthe New York State Bar Association;Ruth Ahearn, associate director ofprograms and services, Alzheimer’sAssociation, Hudson Valley chapter;and Frances DiMase, a social workerfor senior services in Chappaqua.For more information, contactAngela or Chris, 238-4411 or e-mail:buzzzoff87@aol.com —Grace BennettIn The Loupe...Bold AndBeautiful;Your NewLook ForSpringWby Varda Singer & Ilene Davise can thankfully put away our winterwardrobes and look forward to thelight and breezy days of spring. 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Artisan touches such as floraldesigns are seen in rings and brooches.Heavily patterned clothing is big in 2009,accessorizing with standout yet simplepieces will complete your look.For our younger clientele celebrating theirbirthdays, Bat Mitzvahs, Sweet 16’s or anyother special occasions, ICD has a largeselection of gifts ranging from $35 to $100.We have “Wish Lists” available for thosewho desire specific items.In these times when most of us thinktwice before adding to our current jewelrywardrobe, it is important to invest inquality pieces that will last for many yearsto come. However, for those who wouldlike this springs look for less, we have anextensive line of fashion jewelry for under$500. ICD looks forward to making yourtransition into spring an easy one.ICD75 So. Greeley Ave.ChappaquaFor those in the loupe,Varda & IleneContemporary JewelryAdvertisementT I M E L E S S E L E G A N C E I N F I N E J E W E L R Y914-238-3646www.ICDjewelry.comMay 2009 Inside Chappaqua 17

Pilates…It’s all we do, so why not visit the experts atseewebsiteforspecials“The only studio inthe area to offerexercises on allequipment designedby Joeseph Pilates—even the guillotine.”Mindful MovesPilates Centera Power Pilates Teacher Training Center293 Lexington Avenue • Mount Kisco(914) 244-0199Privates, Semi-privates, and Group(mat, tower, and ball) classes available.Owner, selected as one of the county’s best(Westchester Magazine, January 2005),is a Sr. Teacher Trainer for Power Pilates Inc. (NYC),and a presenter for the 2009 International PMA Conference.All instructors fully certified.Check us out at www.mindfulmoves.com.S P E C I A L E V E N T S / H A P E N I N G SJill Goodman Award RecipientHonored by Rotary ClubHorace Greeley High School Senior Sarah Mallerreceived the Rotary Cub of Chappaqua Jill GoodmanAward at a recent weekly lunch meeting. Maller wasselected among a group of student finalists to receivethe award. The competition was based on Maller’s communityservice and her written essay.Giving of the Jill Goodman Award has been a longstandingtradition of the Chappaqua Rotary Club. It was abouttwenty years ago High School Senior Jill Goodmanreceived the first award. Unfortunately Goodman passedaway but her name and honorable contributions ofcommunity service lives on through Chappaqua Rotary.The Rotary Club is an international organization thatencourages and fosters the ideal of service above self.Weekly Rotary Club programs, like this one held inChappaqua, help to keep club members informed andinvolved in local, statewide and national Rotarian goodwillprojects.The Rotary Club of Chappaqua meets every Monday at12:15 p.m. at Crabtree’s Kittle House Restaurant and Innlocated in Chappaqua, New York. The Rotary Club is anon-profit organization.StoryWalk is Coming to Town(L-R): New Castle Recreation Supervisor Aaron Podhurst, ChappaquaLibrary Director Pamela Thornton, Second Story Book Shop SalesAssociate Linda Gordon, and New Castle Assistant RecreationSuperintendent Wayne Bass are preparing for the StoryWalk Program,which encourages literacy and exercise.New Castle Recreation and Parks, in partnership withthe Chappaqua Library and the Second Story Book Shoppresents StoryWalk, an exciting initiative that combinesa children's story with a popular walking route.Between May 1 and June 26, pages from Corduroy, by DonFreeman will be posted along The Story Walk route,which starts at Chappaqua Library heading north onGreeley Ave. through the business district and returningsouth on Greeley Ave. to Town Hall. Merchants in downtownChappaqua have volunteered to supply space intheir windows for this activity.“StoryWalk helps build children's interest in readingwhile encouraging healthy outdoor activity for bothadults and children,” said Assistant RecreationSuperintendent Wayne Bass.18 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

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Chappaqua’s not the Wild West, butit sure is a frontier for Joan Corwin,the cowboy hat wearing owner ofChappaqua Transportation, Inc., thebus company that services theChappaqua School District.And like the women who settled theWest, Corwin has the grit, goodsand heart of gold that makes successpossible. She’s also had her fairshare of challenges, and, as if shewere staring down a hungry bear,she’s met her fears and tamedthem. It might not have been easy,but she sure makes it look like it’sbeen worth her while.The DriveJoan Corwin:Chappaqua’s Mighty Mother HenARTICLE BY JEAN SHEFFPHOTO BY MICHELLE HECHTJoan Corwin and granddaughter Rebecca review the bus schedule which manages trips to over 65different schools. Rebecca is the fourth generation to work at the Chappaqua TransportationCompany.With blunt honesty, Corwin says hervery first day as a school bus driverwas traumatic. It happened back inthe 60’s when she showed up forwork at Northern WestchesterBOCES. “They handed me the keysto a station wagon and a list ofstops. That was the extent of thetraining,” she says. Corwin, a motherof five who took the responsibilityof driving other children veryseriously, was clearly rattled. Hernew boss offered what he thoughtwas reassurance, “You’ve got kids;you’ll be fine.”Corwin was more than fine. Whatshe was about to find out was notonly could she drive, she had drive.The job started Corwin on a path ofwhat was to become her life’s work—protecting the health and safety ofothers. Her previous employment, inthe billing department at Reader’sDigest, where a little bell rang forbreak or lunchtime, was boring comparedto this new ride.Seeing the need for training, Corwinset to work implementing a 20-hourschool bus driver course that wasdeemed the “most sophisticated” inthe state of New York by the StateEducation Department. This coursebecame the foundation for the currentstate mandated 30-hour courseall New York school bus drivers arerequired to take. By the mid-60’s,she had become TransportationSupervisor for NorthernWestchester BOCES.She didn’t stop there. Next, Corwinjoined her in-laws, who had purchasedthe old K & P Bus Line, tomanage operations of what theyrenamed the ChappaquaTransportation, Inc. She also madetime to become a member of severalhighly regarded industry-relatedassociations and the ChappaquaVolunteer Ambulance Corps as anemergency medical technician,where she has since served as 1stand 2nd Lieutenant, Captain andChairman of the Board. Oh, and shewas also raising five children—alone.More ChallengesShe recalls the day her husband leftthe family. Corwin was standing inthe bus company driveway with herfather-in-law, who she affectionatelycalled Papa Bear. Turning to him forsupport, she wondered aloud whatshe was going to do. Papa Bear, who,along with his wife, had alwaysbeen extremely supportive ofCorwin, had the answer. “I’m makingyou president of the company,”he told her. Stunned, she told himshe didn’t know how to be president.And, having read this far, youprobably know what she did; yes,she took the job and ran with it.That wasn’t to be the last challengeCorwin embraced. She enrolled inWestchester Community Collegewhere she took classes for four yearsduring afternoon work breaks andsummers to graduate with an associatedegree in nursing. She has servedas a volunteer registered nurse forthe New Castle Senior Citizens andas a registered nurse at NorthernWestchester Hospital. She also developed“Chappaquips,” a newsletter forher bus drivers, which has wonnational recognition. She takes pridein having founded Mother Hen’sHelpers, a company whose mission itis to help working parents by providingtransportation for children beforeand after school hours.Corwin’s awards and recognitions arenumerous, but most people don’tknow about all the work she’s donebehind the scenes. In many ways,Corwin is the community’s FlorenceNightingale. She has taken in severalhigh school students who neededhomes, made soup and chili for theMay 2009 Inside Chappaqua 21

Police and Highway Department duringblizzards and storms, bussedstranded railroad commuters in the70’s when downtown Chappaquaused to flood, and has volunteeredtransportation for a number oforganizations in need. And, there areother good deeds about which no onewill ever know. “That’s just the way Iam. I get a lot of satisfaction out ofhelping people,” she offers whenpressed to expand on why she getsinvolved. She’s put her efforts intothe political arena as well by workinghard for the passage of legislationbanning hand-held cell phones whiledriving a motor vehicle. At therequest of Governor Pataki, she spokeduring the bill signing ceremony inNew York City in 2001.Too Bold?Beginning with 27 buses, Corwinruns an operation which expandedto 125, and then sprouted to a fleetof 200 after winning the bid to runthe Bedford Central School Districttransportation two years ago. Sheemploys 135 people at theChappaqua headquarters andanother 80 in the Bedford garage.The company also handles transportationneeds such as athleticcharters for the Pleasantville andBriarcliff Districts and the John F.Kennedy School in Somers. Somepeople might refer to Corwin as atough cookie. When asked directly ifshe was as tough as nails, shesmiled wide, leaned in a little closerand whispered, “I’m tougher.”She says she’s never been afraid tospeak her mind. She proudly sharesthat The New York Times referred toher as a woman with strong opinions.When Corwin was a thirdgraderin Somers playing outside atrecess, she was hit by a car.Thankfully, she wasn’t seriouslyinjured. Yet, her teacher punishedher claiming she was “too bold.” Tothis day, unsure of what too bold is,Corwin muses that it’s just the wayshe’s always been.Superintendent of Schools for theChappaqua School District, Dr.David Fleishman, says Corwin is awonderful leader. “She cares andunderstands the importance oftransportation, plus she’s a goodcommunicator and problem solver.”What’s more, she always gives goodadvice. “When the weather’s bad, Ispeak to Joan at 4 or 5 a.m. She’svery clear in the morning and sheknows every street in this town. Ican rely on her to give the bestinput,” he says. Most of all,Fleishman says, Corwin is a goodemployer who is “always fair andcares about doing the right thing.”Chappaqua School District AssistantSupervisor for Business, John Chow,thinks very highly of Corwin. “She’svery committed and has the children’sbest interests at heart,” hesays. She’s very connected to thecommunity and if there is ever anaccident or other condition that willimpact bus service, she is right ontop of it. When asked if Corwin wastough, Chow says, “Business istough, Joan is always kind and considerateand extremely reasonable, Ienjoy working with her.”Employees and ParentsCorwin says she’s always thought ofherself as a mother before she’s a busdriver. ”When I’m behind the wheel ofa bus, every child I pick up is mine,”she says. She respects her employeesand says she sees them as family. “Itell every woman who I hire; if yourMagnifique!Elegance IIPROPRIETOR:Babette FaottoIN BUSINESS SINCE: 1999PRODUCTS/SERVICES:“Babette,” as all her customersknow this bubbly, gracious French shopkeeper,beams with pride when she describes her high end qualityconsignment shop with its completely friendlyatmosphere. Elegance II features couture, designerclothing, shoes and accessories, including the DeborahPangle Collection, stunning, artistic 18K gold jewelrypieces, any of which can make the perfect Mother's Dayor graduation gift.STRENGTHS: The sheer variety. At any given time, a customercan find designer pieces by Chanel, Hermes, LouisVuitton, Valentino, Bottega Venetta, Go Yord, Gucci, YSL,Fendi, Dolce Gobana, Jimmy Choo, Chloe and more! Hershop, says Babette, is also teeming “with an exquisiteselection of designer handbags, featured in the NewYork Times.”SPECIAL PLANS: Babette offers personalized closet consultationsby appointment. “We always welcome newconsigners!” she says. So come check out Elegance, oui?Elegance II by Babettein ChappaquaHigh end quality“pre-owned” designeritems at a fractionof the cost!You can find:ChanelGucciPradaVuittonHermes, etc.When discretion is requiredpickup is available.Personalized closetconsultations by appointment.Call Marcie at (914) 715-925875 S. Greeley AvenueChappaqua, New York(914) 238-3341Tuesday-Saturday 11am-4pm22 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

child is sick, you belong with them. Idon’t care if I have to do your runmyself,” says Corwin. The respect isreturned as many employees call herMa and her most senior employeehas been with the firm for 30 years.Working with the parents and theLocal PTA is another area whichCorwin enjoys. “Parents are stressedthese days,” she says. More than onedistressed parent has been offered aCorwin hug. A Chappaqua motherand PTA District Committee Chair ofBus Safety, Randi Childs, saysCorwin is an incredible woman.Each year the PTA hosts a Bus DriverAppreciation Day breakfast at SevenBridges Middle School. “Joan respectsher employees. When she speaks atthe breakfast she can get very emotionaland it’s genuine,” says Childs.She finds Corwin pleasant and saysif there’s anything tough about heryou’d have to say it was “tough love.”Not only does Corwin consider heremployees family, she actually hasfamily as employees. Every one ofher five children works at the company,as do some spouses and evengrandchildren.Rules and RegulationsRunning a bus company has numerouschallenges. Extensive rules andregulations make it paperworkheavy. Drivers are required to take apre-hire road test, get fingerprinted,as well as undergo a physical performanceand drug test. She also hasto work with the Teamsters Local456 negotiating contracts. And thenthere are compliances—Departmentof Transportation Inspector TomStoliker visits ChappaquaTransportation at least once a week.He inspects six buses each time.Corwin is also concerned about environmentalissues and uses ultra-lowsulfur diesel fuel and has used oilproperly taken away. “We have a batteryof safety systems in place,” saysCorwin. And then, there is licensingand day-to-day operations.For all the rigors, there’s also thelight side. A number of interestingitems have found their way into thelost and found. “A live goldfish wasonce left on the bus,” says Corwin.And then there’s the expected collectionof clothes, iPods, cell phonesand musical instruments. “I’vedelivered several instruments doorto-doorif I knew there was a schoolconcert that night,” says Corwin.Each day there’s something different,and sometimes really different.One of the biggest challengesCorwin has faced was the storm ofMay 2007. Power lines, telephonepoles and trees fell blocking manyroads just as school buses hadstarted to bring home elementaryschool children. Some buses wereeven caught between live wires.Corwin and her crew rallied to theemergency and not a single child ordriver was injured. By the end of theday, everyone was safe and sound,just the way Corwin likes it.The desktop image on Joan Corwin’scomputer is a breathtaking viewfrom the deck of her home on BlockIsland. Although she’s far from retiring,she enjoys the time she gets tospend at her island oasis. “SometimesI just go out on my front deck, lookout at the view and say the Lord’sPrayer,” says Corwin, a woman whoknows she’s very blessed.JEAN SHEFF is an editor, writer, and aChappaqua resident whose daughter isa junior at Horace Greeley High School.The Cosmetic BoutiqueMake-up Lines Include:Laura Mercier, Eve Pearl, Kanebo(Bobbi Brown coming soon)18 South Greeley AvenueChappaqua, New York914-861-2552www.thecosmeticboutique.netMother’s DayGift CertificatesAvailableSkincare Lines Include:Mario Badesco, Jurlique, Molton Brown,Fekkai Hair and Keihl’sServices Include:Facials, Makeovers, Birthday Parites, Girl’s Night Out, Bar/Bat Mitzvah Makeovers,Wedding Makeovers and Prom MakeoversLimited Space for Prom Makeovers — Appointment NeededCall to Reserve AppointmentMay 2009 Inside Chappaqua 23

Mornings are busy forChappaqua Transportation.Consider the average morningschedule of 77 bus runs and 12van runs to get students toschool.School Vehicles Pick UpSchool arrivalHorace Greeley 15 buses, 1 van6:37-6:50 a.m. 7:09- 7:30 a.m.Bell Middle School 15 buses, 1van 7:09-7:28 a.m. 7:15- 7:39a.m.Seven Bridges Middle 14 buses,3 vans 7–7:30 a.m. 7:17–7:40a.m.Grafflin 11 buses, 2 vans 8:35-8:45 a.m. 8:50-9:07 a.m.Roaring Brook 11 buses, 3 vans8:36-8:47 a.m. 8:52- 9:02 a.m.Westorchard 11 buses, 2 vans8:29-8:50a.m 8:51-9:06 a.m.Source: Chappaqua Central SchoolDistrict Bus Schedule, courtesy ofChappaqua Transportation.Better Bus SafetyHeads up parents, there’s much you can do to make riding the bus asafer experience for your children. Take these suggestions culled fromJoan Corwin and the Chappaqua PTA Bus Safety Committee to heart.1. Do Not pass a stopped school bus. Including approaching from thefront or the rear as well as divided highways and school grounds. Fines,points on your license and jail time may apply.2. Get to the bus stop early. Waiting buses increase the chance that carsmay attempt to pass and disrupt the timing of bus service.3. Encourage children to wear seat belts. This includes middle and highschool students.4. Children should wear their backpack correctly. Tell children to putthe backpack on both shoulders so hands are free. If there is a waist clipsecure it, but not on the child, as they can be trapped if the bus catchesthe pack in the door and the bus moves.5. Remove or secure dangling straps, key chains or loose clothing.Anything that hangs from the child or backpack can get caught in closingbus doors, stairs or banisters.6. Don’t bend down. Tell children never to bend down to pick up somethingthey drop as they get on or off the bus. They are out of view to thedriver. Wait for the bus to leave or secure the attention of the driver toensure the bus is not moving while the child retrieves the item.Contact your elementary school bus safety committee for further informationand to review a video discussing bus safety.Providing 27 yrs. of Fun, Friends, & Fitness to NY Kids!RegisterNow ForWinter& SpringSessionsSummerClasses &CampsSchoolBreakCampsTwo Byram Brook Place, Off Rt. 22, Armonk, NY 10504Tel. 914.219.5045 • armonklaser.comNon-competitive Gymnastics for kids 3-12yrs, Open Play Time,Gym & Music: 12mos-3yrs, Mommy & Me Gym: 9mos-3yrs,Gymwear for Kids, Playgroups, Super Soccer Stars, Holiday Camps,Jodi’s To Go, Music for Aardvarks, and theBest Birthday Parties Ever!25 Hubbels Dr. Mt. Kisco 914.244.8811 www.jodisgym.com24 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

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Theater LadiesBY MICHALL JEFFERSThere are lots of different kinds ofcourage. For many of us, steppingoutside our comfort zone takesguts. For me, it meant putting asidemy basically introverted nature,channeling my inner Viking, becominga guy. The Nerd Queen had toask out other women.I’m a card carrying professionaltheater critic. This means I go intoNYC a lot to cover shows, sometimesup to eight performances a week. Iloathe taking the train; my belovedhusband OD’d on theater long ago;and I can’t drive in the City. Since Inormally get two first class ticketsto each performance, and I welcomethe companionship of other intelligentand culturally aware women,the solution seemed obvious. Idecided to seek out ladies inChappaqua (and beyond) who wantto drive me to the theater, and payfor gas, parking, and tolls. Inexchange, they get the opportunityto see a show that hasn’t yet beenpre-judged, and might turn out tobe a hit or a total dog.Some accepted my personal invitation,others answered the notice I’dposted on a bulletin board. A fewwere referred by friends, or justheard through the grapevine. But allmade the decision that taking in anew show with a slightly rabid andoff-beat theater nut would be anadventure worth experiencing.Let me introduce you to theseremarkable women.Everyone asks me “what’s the bestthing you’ve seen?” It’s more fun totalk about the worst. Del and I nearlyfell off our seats laughing at aone man show about GeorgeGershwin. The actor/pianist wasboth supremely egotistical anduntalented. When he began“Rhapsody in Blue,” I could havesworn he was playing with his feet;it was that bad. Del and I were doubledover, with our hands over ourmouths trying not to shriek withTheater Ladies on the town fantasy date. L to R: Del Brownlee, Jamie Comstock, Michall Jeffers,Grace Chui, Stacy Levey, Michelle Hechtlaughter. When the woman behindus intoned “such a talent!” tearsbegan to stream down our cheeks.Of course, there was no intermission.Having been a Broadway star herself,Del Brownlee is savvy aboutprofessional theater. Westchesterparents know her best as the vocalcoach whose high school studentsalways get the best roles in theirmusical productions. To me, she’sthe world’s greatest story teller.Born in Paris to the acclaimedAustralian baritone John Brownleeand his aristocratic Italian wife, Delhad an extraordinary childhood. TheMetropolitan Opera was a secondhome; in Hollywood, she was givena ride in a limo by Orson Welles andRita Hayworth; she spent her teenyears in the Dakota, surrounded bycelebrities. She is my Scheherazade.She’s the first one I asked, andthank goodness, she’s still with me.Always quick to take advantage ofan opportunity, Henrietta Lepskygot wind of my offer and calledimmediately. She has more daring,energy, and spunk than people halfher age. As a New Castle resident,she lived close to her job as DeputyDirector of Nursing at ValhallaMedical Center. She was in chargeof 350 people, all of whom seemedto find it necessary to contact herwhenever we were at the theater. Iswear, I thought she was always onMay 2009 Inside Chappaqua 27Michelle Hecht

call. It was with her I first saw oneof my favorite musicals, “JerseyBoys.” We’ve also seen some realbombs, particularly a totally incomprehensiblesurreal Japanese play.We’ve grown really close over theyears; when Henrietta finally marriedher longtime love Al, after bothlegal and medical battles, I criedtears of pure joy. Together, they havebecome the darlings of the cruiseindustry, roaming the world together.When she’s home, my chum Mrs.Cuttler is up for any kind of play.When I met Grace Chui at NCCTV, Iimmediately knew she’d be a greataddition to the fold. A former bankmanager from Hong Kong, she’s ahuman calculator, and can figure outthe 20% tip of any restaurant checkin seconds. She adds so much to mytheater going and my life with herunique perspective. She’s an experton all things Asian, and when wesaw the Korean “Jump,” she translatedthe sayings on the prosceniumand explained elements of the production.Her favorite plays recentlywere “Shrek” and “A Man For AllSeasons;” we both thought “PassingStrange” was over-hyped. Grace isbrilliant, and both deeply spiritualand hilariously honest. When askedpoint blank, she informed me thatduring the time we’ve spent together,she’s learned a lot of worthwhilethings but “nothing about cooking…a lot about shopping.” We’ve run redlights because we’re so engrossed inconversation.Marie Lou Ortiz is a woman ofmany talents. She recently put herdesign degree to excellent use bysuperbly decorating her newChappaqua home in subtle colonialshades like James River. This year,she happily returned to her cherishedprofession, teaching SpecialEd. Like Grace, she’s also a giftedartist. Luckily, she still finds time tosee shows with me. An expert inSpanish language and Hispanic culture,she made the sensationalmusical “In the Heights” even betterby explaining the customs, idioms,and humor involved. She’s invariablyup for something new; she saysshe likes best our hot chocolateruns to Dean and DeLuca, andlearning to always tell the parkinglot attendant we’ll return in “anhour and a half,” so the car doesn’tget buried in the back. One guyactually followed us onto the sidewalkto make sure we didn’t go intothe theater next door (we had towalk around the block). You neverknow whom you’ll run into at thetheater, and one evening Marie Lousat next to the beautifully coiffedBarbara Walters.Stacy Levey has been my neighborfor years, but in true Chappaquafashion, we only met recently. She’sone of the gentlest, sweetest peopleI’ve ever met, all the more notablebecause she’s also an absolutelycrack associate real estate brokerwith Sotheby’s. She’s top rankedbecause she just knows everythingabout selling houses. She’s open toall kinds of theater, and brings anhonest, down to earth Midwesternattitude to our discussions. Likemost of my Ladies, she’s an incrediblecook; an unforeseen perk wasgetting to spend the most deliciousThanksgiving of my life with herfamily, all of whom are gorgeousand great fun.Speaking of Sotheby’s, if you watchone of their fabulous auctions on28 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

TV, you’ll see Jamie Comstock onthe phone, furiously fielding bids.She’s my sure-fire musical girl, andyou haven’t lived until you’ve heardher daughter belt out “GoodMorning Baltimore.” Along with“Hairspray,” she loved “Wicked” and“How to Succeed.” We walked out of“Crybaby,” which we both thoughtwas gross. We’ve been to Sardi’stogether, and Jamie appreciates theshow biz atmosphere as much as Ido. We’ve been theater pals sinceshe jumped on board in the 90’s.Fran Nigrello is the most chic personI know. She can’t stand musicals,and is a unique companionbecause she actually prefers heavydrama. A tough as nails internationalbusiness woman, she also has agolden heart. When she and herphysician husband first heard of the9/11 tragedy, they were among thefirst on the scene to aid and organize.If it weren’t for Fran, I probablywouldn’t ever have eaten Koreanfood, learned that the Galapagosaren’t all they’re crack up to be,heard about the health care systemshe helped set up in Dubai, andfound out you really don’t have toagree to take a salary lower thanthe one you’ve been promised.When I grow up, I want to be Fran.Michelle Hecht is my esteemed photographer,my confident, and myalmost sister. Before I finished my“will you go with me” sentence, shesaid “yeah, I’m in,” and high timesabound when we’re together. She’ssmart, open minded, hip, and incidentally,her zucchini bread is to die for.This is a very fluid group. Peoplemove away; have health problems,changes in schedules, family obligations.There’s always room for someonenew. If you think you have whatit takes to be a Chappaqua TheaterLady, you are welcome if you meetthe rather strict requirements.You have to be able to drive in NYC,and pay gas, tolls, and parking.You have to be flexible with time.Everyone has a lot on her plate, butDark of the Moon time slots won’tcut it (“I can only go on February29th, or if the Mets win the Pennant.”)You must be reliable. This is my work.No divas, please. We’re all reasonablycalm and easy going.A sense of adventure, a swing withit attitude, is mandatory. You neverknow what’s going to happen, orwhom you may meet. You’ll seesome great theater, but you’ll seesome crappy stuff, too. It comeswith the territory.Most importantly, you have to beready to make a new friend. Thesebold, interesting women havebecome so dear to me. We’ve beenthrough weddings, divorces, births,deaths, and bar mitzvahs together.Strong opinions are always welcome,and sometimes we disagree;but mostly, we laugh a lot. I startedout seeking driving companions,and ended up knowing some of thesmartest, funniest, kindest womenin town. These are my TheaterLadies, and I can’t wait for our nextshow.MICHALL JEFFERS is a member of DramaDesk, Outer Critics Circle, AmericanTheatre Critics Association, DanceCritics Association, and the InternationalAssociation of Theatre Critics. Her websiteis michalljeffers.com; she can bereached at michalljeffers@optonline.net.575 MAIN STREETARMONK, NY 10504273-7337May 2009 Inside Chappaqua 29

A Plethora ofChildren’s Books AuthorsChappaqua is home to very accomplished book authors—and we caught up with a few of themBY SARAH ELLEN BERMANChris DeeMost homeowners in the Town of New Castle have been attracted to the area by thegood schools and authors Barbara Dee, Matthew & Mara Van Fleet, Jean Van Leeuwen,Jean Craighead George and are no exception. They have come here not only to provide theiroffspring with quality education, but to also become active participants in community life.Just as Vanessa Williams shared her insight recently with the cast and crew of Into TheWoods at Greeley, these authors share their passion for reading and writing at the libraryand in the schools. No J.D. Salingers are they.“Solving” Barbara Dee: An Authentic Voicein Sync with TweensBarbara Dee found her niche inthe literary world when her childrengravitated toward youngadult books. She, “started to seethat there was a real need for books for kids who hadoutgrown the children’s section but weren’t ready forthe real hardcore young adult stuff.” Her target audienceis tweens and young teens.Dee is adamant about the importance of keeping hervoice in synch with the way kids communicate today.She listens intently whenever kids are speaking. “I thinkit’s so important to get that right. It’s probably the mostimportant thing to get right when you’re writing for thisage.” When she speaks at the Young Writers Conference,she stresses the importance of having an authenticvoice. Dee related that her kids, Lizzy, Josh and Alex are“a huge help with my manuscripts.” They are very critical,funny, and eager to provide examples of tweenspeak.The success of her first novel, just another day in myinsanely real life, is proof that her voice rings true withher audience. just is set in an upscale suburban neighborhoodnamed Emerson. Her second book, Solving Zoe,was released this spring and her third book tentativelytitled, Francesca Earthquake will follow in 2010. She is currentlyworking on her fourth novel which explores amother-daughter relationship.Dee is certain that she chose the right community forherself and her family. “Parents in this town are veryfocused on literacy so not only does it make for a greateducational atmosphere, but it also makes it a very welcomingplace for a writer to be working, especially awriter who’s writing for kids.”Matthew Van Fleet Books Offer SubtleTeaching ToolsMatthew Van Fleet is theauthor and illustrator ofeight animal themed booksfor the preschool set. Hissixth book entitled Dog hasbeen #1 on the New YorkTimes Bestseller List and hassold over 300,000 copies.Matt’s books feature livelyportraits of “pettable” animalswhich appeal to childrenof all ages. One featureof his books which Mattprides himself on is durability.He has engineered a unique, indestructible systemfor revealing surprises and making animals move.Youngsters can pull and tug to their hearts’ content.30 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

While on the surfacehis books are sheerentertainment, they arealso subtle tools forteaching kids about themagic of words.Chasing a mouse,cradling cats are all in aday’s work for Matt.These antics wererequired to obtain justthe right photos forMatt’s new book, Cat.According to Matt these activities were, “actually fun.”Many exotic breeds were photographed on location atthe Westchester Cat Show, the Animal Kingdom U.S.A.pet shop in Brewster, and in individual homes inChappaqua. The book includes shots of: Tasha; DianeLevine’s mutt, Mimi; Elizabeth Brody’s Blue TabbyPersian, and Gizmo; Linda Degelsmith’s mixed breed.Matt is currently working on a book about farm animals atMuscoot Farm. Maneuvering large animals for a photoshoot is challenging. “The farmer shows us how to handleall the animals which is kind of fun. It’s tough moving themaround. You really have to push a cow to get it to move.”When not scouting out animals or arranging photos inphotoshop for his books, Matt draws cartoons for thismagazine and creates logos and business cards throughhis company, Dragonfly Designs. He also volunteers at thegreenhouse at Grafflin and hands out salad from the gardenat Bell. He enjoys doing presentations at the YoungWriters Workshop and Career Day. At bookstores he addsa drawing to his autograph and revels in seeing kids playingwith his books. A lady at Grafflin told him that hernephew sleeps with the dog book. Although Matt foundthis endearing he exhorted, “Buy the kid a dog!”Mara Van Fleet Creates a “Fun and Spunky”PrincessMatt and his wifeMara do not collaborateon their work,but they do share atable at the annualCelebrate Children’sBook Day atSunnyside and contributeto the auctiondinner for theirchurch. Mara doesthe décor and Mattdesigns the invitationsand programs.Last, but not least,they are the proudparents of Alex and Ryan.Mara’s most recent corporate position was that of ArtDirector for Children’s Books at Reader’s Digest. In thisRyan Van FleetPATAGONIAPRANAOAKLEYMAUI JIMARCTERYXLOLËSALOMONVASQUEMOUNTAIN HARDWARETIMBUK2CHACOSIMPLEBIRKENSTOCKSANUKClothing and gear to take you thereACADIA ON MAIN is an outdoor and lifestyle retailstore with a fresh, eco-conscious perspective.Shop our store for fun and functional clothing,footwear and gear that can take you whereveryou want to go…whether it's the beach, thetown, the trails or anywhere off the beaten path.115 East Main Sreet Mount Kisco New York 10549(914) 666-6800Mon-Sat: 10 am to 6 pm Sun: 12 pm to 4 pmwww.acadiaonmain.comMay 2009 Inside Chappaqua 31

capacity she was responsible for creating ideas for booksand implementing them. She did layouts for the artwork and then assigned the work to an artist. Mara alsoworked extensively with licensed products.The inspiration for one book came from a place close tohome. “I was walking by Penny Auntie one day and sawthey had these sequins all over; princessy sequins. I saidthere’s something there.” Paper sequins adorn the coverof The Littlest Princess by Allia Zobel-Nolan.The persona of the princess in Mara’s own upcomingbook was inspired by a conversation at the Digest. “Asalesperson in our division said, ‘How come everyprincess has to be soprim and proper, whycan’t we create a funand spunky princess?”This idea morphed intoThe Very Mixed-UpPrincess.Mara’s backburnerproject is a preschoolmemory keeper. She isdesigning a repositoryfor the artwork broughthome by preschoolers.It may also include acraft activity such ashandprints. And ofcourse, “I’ll work in astorybook!”Bruce GavrilJean Van Leeuwen: A Passion for History andChildhood AdventuresCountless kids have grownup with the tales of Amandaand Oliver Pig by Jean VanLeeuwen. As they reach fora book on a shelf in a youngadult section they are likelyto encounter, Cabin on TroubleCreek. When they develop aninterest in the history oftheir native land, Hannah ofFairfield is a likely choice.When one enters the homeof this author, one takes astep back in time. A Star of Bethlehem antique quilthangs above the fireplace and antique toys are displayedin a row on the mantelpiece. Van Leeuwen’s passion forhistory is reflected in her home’s décor. Her historical fiction,the genre of which she is particularly enamored, isinformed by, “Places I’ve visited where I felt the historyspeaking to me.” A visit to Plymouth, Massachusetts andthe Mayflower inspired her book, Across the Wide Dark Sea.Van Leeuwen’s family is “thinly disguised” in her work.The characters of Amanda and Oliver Pig resemble herchildren, David and Lizzie. The young adult novel DearMom, You’re Ruining My Life, is based on Lizzie’s 6th gradeyear at Grafflin and Benjy and the Power of Zingies, isMaria BrionesM.D.P.C.Internal Medicine & Weight LossBoard Certified in Internal Medicine344 Main St. Suite # 103Mount Kisco, NY 10549Telephone: (914) 241-6249Fax (914) 241-6253www.brionesweightloss.comEMAIL: mbriones@brionesweightloss.comOffice Hours By Appointment32 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

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will include instructions onmaking lean-tos, clay pots,and acorn pancakes as wellas information on animaltracks and bird calls.Ever attuned to changingtimes, George is writing abook called, Here Comes ThatDarn Squirrel, a frequentincantation by Tocca. In thisadventure a boy becomes sointerested in a squirrel’sbehavior, “that he’s not playingvideo games anymore.He’s going off in the woodsto find out where they burythe nuts and why.”When George appeared at Teatown, she was accompaniedby one of the resident owls. The owl shared some ofthe same mannerisms as the one depicted in There’s anOwl in the Shower. She has also lectured at the HudsonValley Writers’ Center in Sleepy Hollow.Once installed here, new homeowners will discover aplethora of children’s authors who are eager to sharetheir love of literature with the literati of the youngerset. Keep your eyes peeled for author appearances andadd a new dimension to reading.SARAH ELLEN BERMAN can also be found discussing books at theSecond Story Book Shop.ACADEMIC TUTORINGMathematicsChemistryPhysicsGrades 6 to 12SAT/PSAT/ACT PrepMulti Subject SessionsExtensive Glowing ReferencesALLAN SCHNEIDERTEACHING STUDENTS TO TEACH THEMSELVES914 - 962 - 3043www.allanschneidertutoring.comallans@cloud9.netONE OF NORTHERN WESTCHESTER’SOLDEST REAL ESTATE FIRMSCALL FOR A FREE MARKET ANALYSIS• RESIDENTIAL • COMMERCIAL • RENTAL• CONDOMINIUMS • RELOCATION • LANDVera & Bob Bruno - OwnersPersonal Service is our Specialty(914) 238-475583 So. Greeley AvenueChappaqua, New York 10514Visit our web site at“Chappaquahomes.us”MULTIPLE LISTING SERVICEMLSINTERNET34 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

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Creating a Better WorldBY PAMELA BROWNSuna Senman-Lane is an idealist,philosopher, and inspirationalmentor, helping people, especiallyteens, discover the essence of theirbeing, nurture their harmoniousrelationships with others, and createan exemplary world. “As a teen,I was concerned about problemsaround the world and the sufferingpeople were experiencing from war,famine, and disease. I hoped tochange the dynamics of disrespectthat lead to violence and neglect.Decades later, I have my own teensand observe a world far differentthan what I hoped for at their age,”said Suna. Her 15-year-old twinsattend Horace Greeley High School.After working as a clinical socialworker with challenging mentalhealth patients in some of NewYork’s troubled areas, Suna focusedher skills on healthy human development.In 1996, she created adevelopmental program at localschools, including Play Care at theFirst Congregational Church inChappaqua, and in 2004, she foundedthe World Foundation forOriginal Human Development(WFOHD), a not-for-profit educationalprogram. Through WFOHD,Suna offers youths and adults theopportunity to visualize and createa healthy future world.“We felt respect was a core element,and looking at the world, there wasa lot of gender-based disrespectcausing great suffering in the worldacross cultures and throughout history,”said Suna. She presentsGender Respect Seminars fourtimes a year, offering new perspectivesto stimulate discussions andself-discovery. “We focus on a keycommon element—being a uniqueindividual who wants to express theself to the fullest and harmonizewith others.” The women’s seminarscomprise three series: breaking thefeminine down to basic core units;layers of a person’s being and differentroles played; and how womenexperience themselves in relationshipto men. “The seminars are liketaking a miniature piece of life and36 Inside Chappaqua May 2009Teens for the Future pose with Suna (clockwise from left to right; standing: Maddie Metcalf (9thgrade), Zayla Lane (9th grade), Joe Kress (8th grade), Peter Unrein (8th grade), Emily Judson (9th),Carol Farha (9th), Suna Senman-Lane (seated) and Connor Dowd (8th).finding something meaningful toyou, where you are at this moment,that you can apply to the rest ofyour life,” Suna explained. There areGender Respect Seminars for menand women together, too.To encourage healthy living, on thefirst Wednesday of every month,September through June, from9:30a.m.-11:30a.m., Suna hosts freemonthly teas at her home. Open tomen and women, it’s devoted toconnecting with one’s individualthoughts and feelings and to be partof the community. “It’s an openforum, like a lab in living in thefeminine/yin space. I present a topicsimply to have a beginning point,”said Suna. “They’re a practice inbeing and consciously living in themoment. A few days ago, I noticedmyself in a very unbalanced state,of chasing my infinite To-Do list. Inoticed my virtues diminishing.Compassion got lost in giving directionsand orders,” she said.“Joyfulness, appreciation, and lovegot lost in the guilt of not havinggotten more done. These teasremind me to smell the roses and‘be,’ live a life worth living. I find theteas to be magical in how they bringpeople together.”Suna’s new book, “Being: A Process”offers a scientific and spiritualapproach to living a balanced life.“The most important thing for awoman is to know herself and beherself. I also feel a woman’s identitycan be smothered behind someoneelse’s need and can get soextreme she doesn’t even know thatshe doesn’t know herself,” saidSuna. “Each person’s experience isreal. It’s the interpretations that differ.I elaborate on this in my book.This perspective is the basis of myattitude toward being a mother anddrove me to develop the programsunder WFOHD, especially The YouthProject (TYP) which Teens for theFuture (TFTF) is a pilot project of.”In 2007, Suna founded Teens for theFuture, a youth-based organizationencouraging young people to envisiontheir future and make theworld a better place. “Teens consciouslybuild their future centeredon respecting self and others. Theteens created a mission to discoverneeds that most people are unawareof and become part of the solution.Continued on page 38Pilar Martinez

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They begin their process byresearching the causes and challengesof an issue, and then create ashort term project bringing somesolution to the problem,” said Suna.TFTF has collected school suppliesfor one thousand children in Darfur,held an essay contest allowing teensto voice their concerns for theircommunities, and sponsored ayoung nurse on a medical missionto serve 6,000 orphans in Uganda.Last year, TFTF held a tri-stateAwareness Day at the ChappaquaLibrary and spearheaded a collaborationof schools to provide supportto Ugandan orphans.TFTF put Hithia Shibuya’s life in perspective.“It allows teens in Americato have a broader mindset to what isgoing on in the world and allowsthem an opportunity to make a differencefor other teens around theworld who don’t have the resourceswe have here,” said Hithia, 22, ofTarrytown. “Through my involvementwith youth programs and serviceprojects in different countries,I’ve seen the contrasting differencesof my world to other people and Isee how much I’ve been given in mylife. TFTF allows teenagers to seewhat’s happening around the worldand brings them to a point wherethey want to help others.”Hithia views Suna as a mentor tothe hope for a better future.“Nothing is impossible. Suna has avery optimistic viewpoint towardmaking a change in the world andlives her life according to the principlesof WFOHD. Her outlook on lifeis one of tranquility and peacefulness,”said Hithia. “I believe peopleare limited by the pessimism theysee in the world and therefore arelimited in trying to do something tomake a difference. Suna goes abovethat pessimism and keeps going.”Suna’s background has influencedher life’s work. Born to a Swedishmother and Turkish father, Sunawas raised throughout the UnitedStates and was a competitive gymnastas a teen. “It taught me toovercome many fears and gobeyond my concept of self. I alsotraveled around Europe in my lateteens getting exposure to many cultures,”she said. Suna earned a B.A.in French with minors in Germanand political science from WestVirginia University and holdsdegrees in biology, math, andSwedish from the Gymnasiet inSweden. In addition, she earned aMaster’s Degree in religious educationand social work.Overall, Suna’s goal is to provide thenext generation with better opportunitiesto create a world that pleasesthem. “Young people want tomake a difference in the world. Ibelieve in giving each person thespace to be the unique individual heor she wants to be and that personwill contribute to creating a harmonioussociety and beauty in theworld.”For more information on Suna’s projects,visit www.WFOHD.org or emailtheyouthproject@aol.com, or to get onthe notification list for the monthlyteas, email Genderrespect@aol.com. Forsnail mail: WFOHD, P.O. Box 7,Chappaqua, NY 10514; Phone:(914)414-6186. “Being: A Process” isavailable now at AuthorHouse.comand local bookstores.Vineyard Vines • PoloNorthface • QuicksilverTimberland • Adidas • NikeMerrell • Jansport • SauconyRainbow • Teva • BirkenstockVolcom • Reef • PumaNew Balance • Tommy BahamaSpyder • Crocs • MinnetonkaFrye • Ripa • Hunter • Fit-FlopsGeox • Undee-BandzChristopher Blue Stretch Jeans for WOMEN!Campwww.squiresny.comSaturday, May 2: Teens for the Future—The YouthProject sponsored by World Foundation for OriginalHuman Development is hosting its 2nd annualAwareness Day in Chappaqua. It’s a great time tomeet and greet young people who are making a differencein the world. You can learn about their projectsand innovative solutions to the world’s problems.Eat great food at Don Emillio’s Restaurant, 57-59 KingStreet, Chappaqua. There’s lots going on. Hear livemusic, make and buy crafts, and try winning thegrand prize of two Bruce Springsteen concert tickets!For more info, visit www.teensforthefuture.com orwww.wfohd.orgVoted BestHolisticPharmacy in2005, byWestchester Mag.Healthy ChoicePharmacyYour local Full Service Pharmacyfor all your Prescription needs(914) 238-1700(located next to Starbucks)Voted BestAlternativeHolistic DrugStorein 2002, byWestchester Mag.38 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

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G O T T A H A V E A R T SEntertainment, locallyMusic Halls & Performing Arts CentersWe take a look at three close to home.BY SARAH ELLEN BERMANPatrons enjoying the ambiance at the Performing Arts Center at Purchase College.Come to the cabaret. And theater,dance, and movies.Reasonably priced, geographicallydesirable, venues for entertainmentabound in Westchester. ThePerforming Arts Center at PurchaseCollege, the Paramount Center forthe Arts in Peekskill, and TarrytownMusic Hall provide great entertainmentfor families as well as a spiritedway to fete a hardworking mom.The Performing Arts Center atPurchase College offers a widerange of programming includingfilm, theater, music, and dance.According to Executive DirectorWilly Hausman, “The philosophyhere at least since 1990, has beenthat the Performing Arts Centershould try to reach out and find theabsolute best people in the world tocome here.” This tenet is evident inthe season’s line-up.In May, the Paul Taylor DanceCompany will return to thePerforming Arts Center. This companyis, “So friendly, accessible, entertaining,and so well danced. PaulTaylor is one of our finest.” SylviaMcNair will star in an afternoon ofcabaret in May. Originally an operasinger, McNair, “Has made the transitionto cabaret and she does theclassics of the American song book.She’s amazing artistically and personally.”McNair has successfully triumphedover breast cancer.The Performing Arts Center presentstwo series which delve into the creativeprocess. In Harlan Jacobson’sTalk Cinema series, the audience isamong the first to see notable filmsbefore general release. After thescreening, discussions are led byprominent critics and filmmakers.In another series which debutedthis fall, Isaiah Sheffer of SymphonySpace and NPR renown, moderatesConversations on Creativity, Craft &Career. Ballet dancer and choreographer,Jacques d’Amboise, is slated toshare his insight in March.The Performing Arts Center benefitsfrom its proximity to the excellentarts education programs offered atSUNY Purchase. The annual SpringDance Concert features the worldfamous, Dance Corps of theConservatory of Dance at Purchase.Rise, a piece by Doug Varone, a luminaryin the field of modern dance,will be included in this spring’s concert.Varone, an alumnus of theConservatory, will return to teachRise to students in the Dance Corps.The Paramount Center for the Artsin Peekskill is a trip down memorylane. It first opened its doors in1930. Executive Director JonYanofsky related that, “During theDepression people were looking forescapes from what was happeningon the street and in their lives andso it was a time in our national historywhen people went to themovies almost weekly. It was aboom time for movie theaters likethe Paramount.” Today theParamount shows independent, foreign,documentary, and classicfilms.Entertainment at the Paramount isenhanced by its unique setting. “Theexperience of coming to a renovated,historic theater of architecturaldistinction and grandeur is an expe-Interior of the Paramount Center for the ArtsGeorge Thompson40 Inside Chappaqua May 2009

ience in and of itself. Our theateralso boasts really absolutely beautifuland warm acoustics.”In the eighties, live events wereadded to the roster at theParamount. This season’s entertainersrun the gamut from singers tocomedians. In April, the SmothersBrothers will deliver their timelesslines during their 50th anniversarytour. The B-52s will rock the housein May. The NPR humorist andauthor, David Sedaris will appear inApril. Sedaris will regale the audiencewith tales of growing up. Hisspecial brand of satire is particularlyengaging and enjoyable in a livesetting.The Paramount also specializes infun fare for kids. In April, “a reallyamazing theater company,” willpresent Mufaro’s Beautiful Daughters,an African retelling of Cinderella.Retumba, a multi-ethnic group willbring their unique blend of Afro-Caribbean music and dance to thestage in May.Smallest in size but not of might.That’s the Tarrytown Music Hall.Executive DirectorBjorn Olsson isquick to note thatthe size of thisvenue is one of itsgreatest assets. At800 seats, it is farmore intimatethan a concertarena. “The coolthing about it isthat you wouldnever or veryrarely get thechance to seesomeone likeKenny Loggins ina theater.”Olsson knows his audiences welland has designed his programmingaccordingly. He first gets to knowhis patrons when they come as childrento see the school age productions.“When their voices break andthey become teenagers, they disappearfrom us for a couple of years.As soon as they get their own kids,that’s when we see them comeback. Here you can go to a greatshow and be home before midnightFacade of the Tarrytown Music Halland you don’t have to pay $25 forparking!” The extensive list of entertainersfor adults includes KennyLoggins, Herb Alpert and the band,Orleans.The resident company of Tarrytownis none other than the RandomFarms Theater Company. This yearthey presented Annie. Tarrytowndonates the use of their space andconsiders the company a, “Veryimportant part of the theater.” This50 th AnniversaryCelebration!New World SymphonyDebussy, Ravel, Wagner, and Dvorák Featuring harpist EmilyMitchellas soloist World Premiere of MichaelShapiro’s fourminutethrillerRollerCoasterSunday,May17,2009at3pmHoraceGreeleyHighSchoolAuditoriumwww.chappaquaorchestra.orgArt byExhibiting March - July10 Marble AvenuePleasantville, NY 10570914.953.1763 website: www.sitkiart.comMay 2009 Inside Chappaqua 41

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W E A S K E D O U R A D V E R T I S E R SBraving the Bad EconomyHow Some New Businesses are Finding Their WayDavid NeffAfew enterprising entrepreneurshave opened their doors in spiteof the tough economic times. Inkeeping with our theme, we askedthem how they found the strengthand courage, and what they’re doingto keep it!Via Vanti owner, Carla Gambescia, with one ofher signature Pizzettes.Discover ItalyVia Vanti! The name itself makesyou smile. Loosely translated itmeans “the road ahead,” which iswhere upbeat owner andChappaqua resident CarlaGambescia has set her sights. Thenew Italian café, wine bar and geleteriaby the Mount Kisco train stationopened in the fall of 2008.Putting intelligent joy and passionin every detail, Carla aspires toawaken the “inner Italian” in us all.This restaurant is her self-proclaimedcalling, and inspiring andmaking visitors happy is her goal.Getting to know customers, communityand establishing relationshipsand loyalty is how she plans todrive her business.Che cosa vuole? (What would youlike?) Open for breakfast, lunch anddinner Via Vanti will help take yourmind off economic woes by providinga change of taste andscenery. Start your day fullsteam ahead with a frothycappuccino and breakfasttreat of polenta topped with adrizzle of honey and slicedalmonds. Surrounded byVenetian décor, you’ll betransported to Italia. Alongwith amazing assortment ofItalian pizzette such as the“Carla” (fresh mozzarella,zesty baby arugula, confettigrape tomatoes and a touchof mint pesto), and the sublimegelati and sorbeti flavors,a full wine and dinner menuwill inspire you to try somethingwonderfully new and “discovermore about Italy’s rich cultural heritage.”Carla will be there as yourtour guide.The restaurant hosts “Universita LaDolce Vita” classes such as “ItalianWines for Beginners,” “La PrimaveraToscana” (Tuscan Summer) and“Italian for the Ragazzi.” (children),plus events such as one recentlyhosted for Carnavale.Buon Viaggio! (Have a nice trip!)Via Vante: 2 Kirby Plaza in MountKisco. 666-6400 or online atviavanti.comFusion Cuisine& Karaoke Now Too!At the lovely and modern SpoonAsian Fusion, which opened lastyear in Chappaqua, Manager DavidChan says business is building. AGrand Opening party in Marchbrought in a phenomenal crowd tosample the wide range of delectableAsian dishes. How are they makingit happen? “We’re going back to oldschool,”says Chan, “visiting tables,talking to the clientele, making surethey’re happy and treating themlike VIPs.”They are also venturing into nighttimeentertainment with the debutThe talented chefs of Spoonof a Karaoke DJ every Thursdaybeginning May 7, 9 pm-closing, andplans for jazz musicians as well.Rather than focus on the troubledeconomy, Spoon is concentrating onthe things that can be controlled:building a foundation, makingadjustments to service, and generallymaking the business run well.Spoon Asian Fusion: 415 KingStreet in Chappaqua. 238-1988 oronline at spoonasianfusion.comHigh End CosmeticsFor Beauty Pick-me-upsFifth Avenue has come toChappaqua! February brought welcomenewcomer The CosmeticBoutique. The niche idea is this:high-end cosmetics, right here. Notrip to the mall, no train ride, justyour favorite brands under one roof.Virtually the only upscale cosmeticboutique in upper Westchester, TheCosmetic Boutique represents top ofthe line brands such as Bobbi Brown,Mario Badescu, Kiehls, Jurlique,Frederic Fekkai, and Eve Pearl.Friendly, talented and helpful ownerSusan Keane and make up artistMelanie Zak help you find what yourskin has been asking for so you canlook your best. In tough times, Susanand Melanie agree, “we need to feelDouble Vision PhotographyMay 2009 Inside Chappaqua 43

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L I G H T S , C A M E R A !Barbara on BoardBY MICHALL JEFFERSdon’t feel I do anything“Ithat warrants aSpotlight. I’m just a behindthe scenes idea person.” Thisattitude is exactly whatmakes Barbara Kornreich sovaluable a member of theNCCTV team. As VicePresident of the Board,Barbara is far more interestedin the future of the stationthan she is in claimingany credit for herself.But this statuesque blondehas always risen to theoccasion when it comes togrowing as a person, andventuring outside her comfortzone. When she wasappointed to the NCCTVBoard, she reluctantlyagreed to serve. Convincedshe didn’t have the technical knowledge that was necessary,she made up her mind to learn all she could; today,she’s happy to help others put their projects together. Toovercome a case of crippling stage fright, she accepted thechallenge of speaking before a large group to advance theNCCTV cause.Like so many women in Chappaqua, Barbara made thedifficult decision to leave the high stress life of buildinga career so that she could concentrate full time on raisingher children. Daughter Caroline attends Skidmore,while son Adam will soon be leaving Greeley for college,too. Those of us associated with NCCTV saw firsthandthe comfortable , gracious home Barbara and her husbandTom shared with us when they threw a party towelcome station manager Carrie Krams. Fingers arecrossed that we will be treated to another Kornreichsoiree this summer.When asked if she missed the adrenaline rush of being ahigh powered litigation attorney, Barbara grew thoughtful.“I never really stopped working; I’ve just focused myenergies in a different direction. It’s important to me tostay mentally stimulated. Everything changes. Peoplemature and go in new directions; no one should be judgmentalabout someone else’s life decision.” Her manyfriends in town, who are of every stripe and persuasion,will readily attest that she lives what she believes.Never one to let her mind go rusty, Barbara and anotherex-attorney started and ran a successful grant writingand research company for non-profit organizations. She46 Inside Chappaqua May 2009Michelle HechtBarbara Kornreich and Piper, one of the Great Dogs of Chappaquaexercises her law trainingdiscipline for the Board, tooShe’s noted for having a coolhead, and skillfully thinkingthrough difficult issues. Itwas she who recognized theneed to map out anoverview of shows at theStation. Always practical,she notes “we’re looking forwardto featuring more newprograms; we need to bepart of the computer age ofshorter, more eye catchingclips. Attention spans arenot what they used to be.”Creativity is at the core ofher being, too. She is a seriouspainter who has an artstudio above her garage;even when her schedule isimpossibly hectic, shereserves one day a week to study in the City.Music is equally important to her soul, as is evidencedby her love of guitar playing. As in everything she does,Barbara has thrown herself whole heartedly into becomingproficient, and the results are impressive.It’s worth noting that even though she insists she’s “notan exercise person”, she’s not content to just practicePilates; she’s also going for her teaching certificate, soshe can pass on what she’s learned.Many know her best for her cable projects Great Dogs ofChappaqua,1 &2. She invites everyone to be part of thethird program in the series. Send photos or videos toflatcoat96@aol.com, and like Barbara’s beloved Kimba, towhom her earlier short film was dedicated, and her currentpooch Piper, your dog can be a star, too.For everyone who feels “I don’t deserve a Spotlight”,Barbara Kornreich is an inspiration. She is a strongbeliever in reaching out to the community to be part ofour cable access station, and feels “I’m always impressedwith the caliber of people who volunteer in this town.The possibilities are endless; It’s a very exciting time forNCCTV.” And you’ll meet some really terrific people, too.MICHALL JEFFERS and her husband John Warner have lived inChappaqua since Governor Hyde got dressed. Michall’s printedcultural journalism is read throughout the country. While shetapes her eponymous cable TV show at Sardi’s, she considersNCCTV her home station. She can be reached at michalljeffers@optonline.net

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R I C K ’ SLast LicksProfiling CourageBY RICK REYNOLDSIllustration by Rick ReynoldsDon’t you hate it when you’ve hadchronic pain so you go to theclinic, and just before you see thedoctor, the pain goes away, yet youknow the moment you arrive homeyou’ll be in agony again, so you fakethe pain you previously felt, thinkingyou’re doing it convincingly, exceptyour doctor knows you’re fakingbecause all physicians are taught inmed school to profile patientsfeigning pain simply by listening tothe tone of your voice, catching yourshifty eye movements, and observingyour overly gesticulating hands—soyou step up the histrionics to thepoint where even you aren’tbelieving it anymore, until you bothagree you’ll take two aspirin and goto bed? I do too. But, I’m avoiding thetopic at hand.This is the “Strength and Courage”issue. Strength and Courage are alittle like the Supreme Court viewon pornography: no one seems toagree on what it is, yet one knows itwhen one sees it. Most agree theselfless warrior jumping on the live48 Inside Chappaqua May 2009hand grenade to save his/hercomrades constitutes great strengthand courage—even though few of uswould actually consider doing it.With the American cowboys andIndians, who was courageousfighting whom? It always dependswhich side you’re on and whetheryou’re on the side of history. Andcourage (as well as history) isdescribed by the living. Thedeceased rarely get the chance toexpress an opinion.Rosa Parks—in refusing to give upher seat on the bus to a whiteman—stands out as both strong andcourageous. My mother had to burymy 1-year old brother, who died ofspinal meningitis, and thencontinue on taking care of twosmall children. She must have hadboth strength and courage inspades. As we approach Mother’sDay, I often think about that.I’ve never had courage or strengthin the Samurai sense. The code ofhonor back in medieval Japan wouldseem silly today. However, in thechivalrous sense, I have summonedstrength and courage at criticaltimes. Once, when I was courting mycurrent wife, I lay down in a deepManhattan puddle so that she notget her shoes soiled—as she steppedfrom the street, to my back, to thecurb. Though not terribly smart ofme—there were more nasty bugs inthat puddle than flies on a picnicribroast—she did marry me!And speaking of marriage, on theradio today I listened to a ragingdebate on whether marriage oughtto be between a man and a woman.It seems like a false argument tome. If the problem is the word,“marriage,” we should probably dropthe term altogether, and refer to alllegally joined couples as “civilunions.” That way, instead of being“married” to one another, we couldbe “civil” to one another. Andwouldn’t that be an improvement ina country where 1 out of every 3babies, both biological and adopted,has parents heading for divorce?Again, I digress.It may just be that strength andcourage are accessible to all of us. Itwould be enough for men to face upto it when they’ve been brutish andhurtful—and to have the strengthand courage to admit fault to theirloved ones. And for women, it wouldbe sufficient if they had the strengthand courage to see that men are notsimply messier, smellier versions ofthemselves—but rather analtogether different species.Celebrating our differences may bethe most courageous thing of all.Chappaqua alumnus and long-timeresident, humorist RICK REYNOLDSdivides his time among book, blog(www.my-pnl.blogspot.com,)magazine column, and marketingcommunications assignments. Heresides in southern New Hampshirewith his wife, daughter and two dogs.

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