the essential guide - Texas Council on Family Violence
the essential guide - Texas Council on Family Violence the essential guide - Texas Council on Family Violence
Table of ContentsIntroduction: History of
Introduction: History of
- Page 4 and 5: provide a unified statewide presenc
- Page 6 and 7: The Family Violence Prevention and
- Page 8 and 9: The chapters that follow will provi
- Page 10 and 11: Understanding the
- Page 12: Leaving an Abusive RelationshipTher
- Page 15 and 16: Helps Plan for Future Safety Helps
- Page 17 and 18: What is Active Listening?Active Lis
- Page 19 and 20: Focus on SafetySurvivors of family
- Page 21 and 22: Safety PlanningAs advocates, we nee
- Page 23 and 24: Would the informat
- Page 25 and 26: Victims who witness the</st
- Page 27 and 28: Temporary Ex Parte Protective Order
- Page 29 and 30: Here is an overview of some of <str
- Page 32 and 33: Family Law CasesFamily Law Cases ar
- Page 34 and 35: A common way abusers instill fear i
- Page 36 and 37: An Advocate’s Role…AssessExplor
- Page 38 and 39: Pregnant women not eligible for Med
- Page 40 and 41: Texas Advocacy Gui
- Page 42 and 43: GuardianshipIn some cases, an adult
- Page 44 and 45: Resources to AssessQuestions to Ask
- Page 46 and 47: VAWA protections (VAWA)VAWA require
- Page 48 and 49: These protections fall into a few d
- Page 50 and 51: housing and homeless issues in <str
Introducti<strong>on</strong>: History of <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> BatteredWomen’s MovementBy Debby TuckerThe battered women’s movement internati<strong>on</strong>ally is an outgrowth of prior movements that counteredalcoholism, sexism, child abuse, racism, classism and homophobia. Today, our advocacy for respect andfreedom from fear for all is directly tied to <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> histories and c<strong>on</strong>tinued development of <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>semovements. We learned from those who came before us. We c<strong>on</strong>tinue as a movement and asindividuals to create a world where violence is no l<strong>on</strong>ger used by individuals, groups, or nati<strong>on</strong>s.First Sanctuary in <str<strong>on</strong>g>Texas</str<strong>on</strong>g>The first venture we know of to open a sanctuary in <str<strong>on</strong>g>Texas</str<strong>on</strong>g> was in Belt<strong>on</strong> in 1875. The shelter wasestablished by Martha McWhirter as a refuge for battered women or those whose husbands spent cropm<strong>on</strong>ey <strong>on</strong> Saturday-night binges. Women lived a communal life in <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> shelter which c<strong>on</strong>tinued into <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>1890’s; and toge<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> residents became so prosperous <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>y d<strong>on</strong>ated m<strong>on</strong>ey to Belt<strong>on</strong> for civic causes.The Belt<strong>on</strong> shelter still stands riddled with bullet holes from a time an irate husband assembled avigilante group and tried to shoot shelter residents out of <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>ir refuge. It didn’t work. The women shotback.The c<strong>on</strong>temporary battered women’s movement in <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> United States was built <strong>on</strong> <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> efforts of those inEurope who had begun to recognize systematic use of violence against women and children andorganized to resp<strong>on</strong>d. The first modern shelter for battered women was founded in Chiswisk, England in1970 by Erin Pizzey. Her book Scream Quietly or <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> Neighbours will Hear published in 1974 gave rise to arenewed recogniti<strong>on</strong> of <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> needs of victims of domestic violence and <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>ir children. Del Martinpublished Battered Wives in 1976 as <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> culminati<strong>on</strong> of her leadership of a Task Force <strong>on</strong> BatteredWomen of <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> Nati<strong>on</strong>al Organizati<strong>on</strong> for Women. Those of us beginning to organize what became <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>Austin Center for Battered Women invited her to speak in Austin in 1977. By <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> time Erin Pizzey came to<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> United States <strong>on</strong> a book tour to four cities in1979, <strong>on</strong>e was Houst<strong>on</strong>, groups were developingshelters all across <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> U.S.Formati<strong>on</strong> of <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Texas</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Council</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>on</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Violence</strong>The <str<strong>on</strong>g>Texas</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Council</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>on</strong> <strong>Family</strong> <strong>Violence</strong> (TCFV) wasfortunate to begin its work very early as <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>movement to end violence against women moved into <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> United States. I hosted <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> first meeting forTCFV in April of 1978 as <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> Executive Director of <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> Austin Center for Battered Women, which latermerged with <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> Austin Rape Crisis Center and is now SafePlace.Representatives from nine <str<strong>on</strong>g>Texas</str<strong>on</strong>g> communities: Austin (Debby Tucker), Corpus Christi (Ca<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>rineChambers), Dallas (Jane White), Dent<strong>on</strong>, El Paso, Fort Worth (Lynn Bendslev), Houst<strong>on</strong> (Toby Myers), SanAnt<strong>on</strong>io (Ru<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> Lewin Winegarten) and Waco (Myrtle Taylor) resolved to form an organizati<strong>on</strong> that wouldTHE ESSENTIAL GUIDE: AN INTRODUCTION TO ADVOCATING FOR SURVIVORS OF FAMILY VIOLENCE3 | P a g e