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Aspirant Path in Diaconal Formation87Human Dimension189. In his post-Synodal Apostolic Exhortation Pastores DaboVobis, Pope John Paul II quoted Proposition 21 of the 1990Extraordinary Synod of Bishops: “The whole work of priestly formationwould be deprived of its necessary foundation if it lacked a suitablehuman formation.” 10 In a similar way, the same may be saidabout the human dimension of diaconal formation. The goal of a“suitable human dimension” is to help the deacon develop “hishuman personality in such a way that it becomes a bridge and notan obstacle for others in their meeting with Jesus Christ.” 11190. The aspirant path in formation is also a time for a marriedaspirant and his wife to assess the quality of their relationship andconsider the ramifications of his possible ordination to the diaconatefor their married life. For the single aspirant, it is a time to discernhis capacity and receptivity for celibacy.Spiritual Dimension191. The aspirant path of formation must create an environmentin which the individual is encouraged to grow in his personal relationshipwith Christ and in his commitment to the Church and itsmission in the world. The goal of spiritual formation is “putting onthe mind of Christ,” thereby establishing and nurturing attitudes,habits, and practices that provide a foundation for the developmentof an authentic and ongoing spiritual life.Goal ofhuman dimensionA family perspectiveGoal ofspiritual dimension192. Although the fact that the wife of the married aspirant is notseeking ordination is clearly understood, nevertheless, their marriageand family are involved in the discernment of his diaconalvocation. The aspirant and his wife need to realistically assess howher own life, Church service, and family are affected and respected.The enrichment and deepening of the reciprocal and sacrificial lovebetween husband and wife constitutes perhaps the most meaningfulway the wife of the aspirant is involved in the discernment of herhusband’s vocation. 12193. The aspirant formation community plays a significant role inspiritual formation. The aspirant path should include the following:Content ofspiritual dimension