Perversion the Social Relation
Perversion the Social Relation Perversion the Social Relation
70 Octave Mannoniment. It may be understood as a simple disavowal of reality (although itmust also be distinguished from scotomization). Laplanche and Pontalishave accordingly translated Verleugnung as déni de la réalité [disavowalof reality] in their (unpublished) Vocabulaire de la Psychanalyse, whichthey are writing under Daniel Lagache's direction. 3 This is, to be sure,the first meaning of the term; what is initially disavowed is the refutation,imposed by reality, of a belief. But the phenomenon is more complicated,as we have already seen, for the reality that is observed doesnot remain without effect. The fetishist has disavowed the experiencethat proves to him that women do not have a phallus, but he does notcultivate the belief that they have one; he cultivates a fetish because theydo not have one. Not only is the experience not eradicated, it is ineradicable.It leaves an indelible mark on the fetishist, one he bears forever.What is eradicated is the memory of the experience.We shall see that Freud's 1927 paper is far from elucidating the problemof fetishism, although it is generally only cited in discussions of thatperversion. In fact, the paper examines a precondition for elucidatingthis problem, by showing how a belief can be abandoned and preservedat the same time. The obstacles that we run into if we go down the paththat Freud thus points out—they probably explain why no one has takenit after him—are of a rather special kind, as the reader will discover soonenough: one finds oneself torn between an impression of extreme banalityand a powerful feeling of strangeness. The matter that requiresexplanation also seems to be plain as day. This was Freud's own experiencein 1938; his paper begins with the words, "I find myself for amoment in the interesting position of not knowing whether what I haveto say should be regarded as something long familiar and obvious or assomething entirely new and puzzling." 4 This impression is rooted in thevery nature of the subject: we have to do here, at any rate, with phenomenawe encounter at every turn, in daily life as well as in our psychoanalyses.In analysis, they take a —indeed, virtually stereotypical—form: the patient, ill at ease in some cases and quite relaxed in others,employs the phrase, "I know well, but all the same " Of course, thefetishist does not use a phrase of this sort to describe his perversion:he knows well that women do not have a phallus, yet he cannot add a"but all the same," since his "but all the same" is his fetish. The neuroticspends her life saying "but all the same," yet she cannot, any more than
"I Know Well, but All the Same ..." 71the fetishist, declare that women have one after all; she spends her lifestating this in other ways. However, like everyone else, by virtue of asort of displacement, she utilizes the mechanism of Verleugnung in connectionwith other beliefs, as if the Verleugnung of the maternal phallusfurnished the paradigm for all other disavowals of reality and was at theorigin of all other beliefs that manage to survive their refutation by experience.Thus fetishism obliges us to consider, in a "puzzling" form, aclass of phenomena that can easily escape our attention when they weara familiar, everyday aspect.As everyone knows, Freud once had a patient who was told by afortune-teller that his brother-in-law would die of shellfish poisoningthat summer. After the summer had passed, the patient said to Freud, insum, "I know well that my brother-in-law hasn't died, but, all the same,that prediction was wonderful." 5 Freud was amazed by this comment,but he was preoccupied by a very different problem at the time and didnot pause over the form of belief that his patient's statement implied.Something on the order of belief had to have subsisted, with the fortuneteller'shelp, in order to be recognizable, despite its transformation, inthis feeling of satisfaction, which was patently absurd. Yet it is neithermore nor less absurd than the construction of a fetish, although it is aphenomenon of a very different order.We are so used to hearing the phrase "I know well, but all the same"that it does not always seem as surprising to us as it does here. In a certainsense, indeed, it is constitutive of the analytic situation. It mightbe said that, before the invention of psychoanalysis, psychology had focusedexclusively on the "I know well," while striving to banish the "butall the same." Since St. Paul, at least, people had been quite familiar witha certain duplicity, a vague préfiguration of the splitting of the ego; butall they could see in it was a scandalous violation of their unitary, moralisticconceptions of the self. Even those psychoanalysts who (a bit like St.Paul) held that it was necessary to strike up an alliance with the healthyhalf of the subject never imagined that, by privileging the "I know well,"they would, once and for all, gain the upper hand over the "but all thesame," since that is no longer possible once the analytic situation hasbeen established. Evidently, the sole reason for the "but all the same"is the "I know well." For example, the sole reason for the existence ofthe fetish is that the fetishist knows that women have no phallus. Pre-
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70 Octave Mannoniment. It may be understood as a simple disavowal of reality (although itmust also be distinguished from scotomization). Laplanche and Pontalishave accordingly translated Verleugnung as déni de la réalité [disavowalof reality] in <strong>the</strong>ir (unpublished) Vocabulaire de la Psychanalyse, which<strong>the</strong>y are writing under Daniel Lagache's direction. 3 This is, to be sure,<strong>the</strong> first meaning of <strong>the</strong> term; what is initially disavowed is <strong>the</strong> refutation,imposed by reality, of a belief. But <strong>the</strong> phenomenon is more complicated,as we have already seen, for <strong>the</strong> reality that is observed doesnot remain without effect. The fetishist has disavowed <strong>the</strong> experiencethat proves to him that women do not have a phallus, but he does notcultivate <strong>the</strong> belief that <strong>the</strong>y have one; he cultivates a fetish because <strong>the</strong>ydo not have one. Not only is <strong>the</strong> experience not eradicated, it is ineradicable.It leaves an indelible mark on <strong>the</strong> fetishist, one he bears forever.What is eradicated is <strong>the</strong> memory of <strong>the</strong> experience.We shall see that Freud's 1927 paper is far from elucidating <strong>the</strong> problemof fetishism, although it is generally only cited in discussions of thatperversion. In fact, <strong>the</strong> paper examines a precondition for elucidatingthis problem, by showing how a belief can be abandoned and preservedat <strong>the</strong> same time. The obstacles that we run into if we go down <strong>the</strong> paththat Freud thus points out—<strong>the</strong>y probably explain why no one has takenit after him—are of a ra<strong>the</strong>r special kind, as <strong>the</strong> reader will discover soonenough: one finds oneself torn between an impression of extreme banalityand a powerful feeling of strangeness. The matter that requiresexplanation also seems to be plain as day. This was Freud's own experiencein 1938; his paper begins with <strong>the</strong> words, "I find myself for amoment in <strong>the</strong> interesting position of not knowing whe<strong>the</strong>r what I haveto say should be regarded as something long familiar and obvious or assomething entirely new and puzzling." 4 This impression is rooted in <strong>the</strong>very nature of <strong>the</strong> subject: we have to do here, at any rate, with phenomenawe encounter at every turn, in daily life as well as in our psychoanalyses.In analysis, <strong>the</strong>y take a —indeed, virtually stereotypical—form: <strong>the</strong> patient, ill at ease in some cases and quite relaxed in o<strong>the</strong>rs,employs <strong>the</strong> phrase, "I know well, but all <strong>the</strong> same " Of course, <strong>the</strong>fetishist does not use a phrase of this sort to describe his perversion:he knows well that women do not have a phallus, yet he cannot add a"but all <strong>the</strong> same," since his "but all <strong>the</strong> same" is his fetish. The neuroticspends her life saying "but all <strong>the</strong> same," yet she cannot, any more than