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II. Exposition of key texts. A. Matthew 5:21-26 B. James 1:19-20 C. James 4:1-2 D. Romans 12:17-21 E. Matthew 18:21-35 III. Data gathering/interpretation. A. What does this person want so badly that he is willing to kill to get it? Js. 4:1ff B. What does this person believe which in the moment makes him feel just in becoming angry and expressing his anger? C. Is physical abuse taking place? Is anyone in danger? IV. Homework for those who give in to anger. A. Confess unrighteous anger as murder. Mt. 5:21-26 B. Humble yourself. Abandon your rights . Phil. 2:3ff C. Make a plan for dealing with anger. Pr. 27:12 D. Keep an anger journal (see p. 173). E. Meditate upon and memorize key texts (listed above). F. Reading. 1. What to Do When Anger Gets the Upper Hand ,Jay Adams (pamphlet) 2. Anger: Escaping the Maze, David Powlison (booklet: CCEF/RFCL) 3. Angry at God: Bring Him Your Doubts and Questions, Robert D. Jones (booklet: CCEF/RFCL) 4. War of Words, Paul Tripp 5. Uprooting Anger, Robert D. Jones Anger and Stress Management God s Way, Wayne Mack 6. The Heart of Anger, Lou Priolo (primarily for angry kids) G. Audio 1. War of Words , Paul Tripp 2. Helping Angry Kids , Lou Priolo 3. Counseling Angry People , Wayne Mack 4. Who is a Murderer? Matt. 5:21-26", Jim Newheiser 5. Love Your Enemies. Romans 12:17-21", Jim Newheiser H. Workbook: Homework Manual for Biblical Living: Volume 1, Mack, Anger Homework 44
Who is a Murderer? Matt. 5:21-26 I. Introduction and review: Jesus lays down the Law. v. 21-48 A. Jesus corrects the abuses of the Law by the scribes and Pharisees. v. 20, 43 B. Jesus speaks with authority. 7:28-29 1. His authority surpasses that of the teachers of the Jews. Mark 1:22 2. He proclaims the true meaning of the Law of Moses. 3. His authority and teaching surpass that of Moses. John 1:17 a. Jesus is the authoritative expounder of God's will for God'speople. b. Is the Mosaic Law the supreme declaration of God'smoral law? C. He expands our understanding of the Law of God. (Lloyd-Jones) 1. The Law goes beyond the letter and also includes the Spirit. 2. The Law goes beyond actions and includes the heart. 15:19 I Sam. 16:7 Lk. 16:15 3. The Law is not merely negative, preventing sin; but is also positive, commanding virtues that promote righteousness. 4. The Law is not an end of itself but a means to know and glorify God. 5. The Law is not oppressive and constraining, but it is a blessing, bringing freedom to God's people. I Jn 5:3 Ps. 19:7-14 119:70-72 II. Are you a murderer? A. Murdergoes beyond the act. v. 21 1. The Pharisees were right to condemn the deed of murder. Gen. 9:6 a. Not all killing is murder, but only the unjust taking of human life. Gen. 4:8 b. The death penalty is imposed because murderers have attacked the image of God. 2. The Jews erred by limiting the sixth commandment to one outward act and its civil penalty. B. You can commit murder without shedding blood. v. 22 John 8:44 1. Mental murder: anger and hatred. I Jn. 3:15 Js. 4:2 Pr. 14:17 22:24 Ecc. 7:9 2. Verbal murder. 12:34 Lev. 20:9 Js. 3:1-12 3. Other kinds of murder. a. Physical harm. b. Economic or legal oppression. James 5:6 2:13 c. Racial prejudice. d. Even a look can kill. C. Such hate crimes deserve God's justice. 1. Jesus is not saying that the state isauthorized to punish words and thoughts. 2. God, who knows the heart, will bring justice: everlasting wrath. 12:36 Js. 2:13 3. Jesus believes in hell! 45
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