The Basics of Biblical Counseling - Biblicalcounselingonline.org
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<strong>The</strong> Use <strong>of</strong> Audio Resources in <strong>Counseling</strong><br />
by Jim Newheiser<br />
How <strong>of</strong>ten has acounselee begun a session by saying, I mreallysorry that I didn t read my homework<br />
assignment, Pastor. I really meant to, but didn thave time this week. You see, I mnot much <strong>of</strong> a reader.<br />
As our TV/video/internet generation becomes less and less literate, counselors will be hearing more <strong>of</strong> this<br />
excuse. Most pastors and counselors are avid readers and may tend to overestimate what others can handle.<br />
While there are certainly benefits to teaching a counselee to be self-disciplined and to appreciate great<br />
books, these may not be the fundamental issues to be addressed. In my counseling ministry, I have found<br />
audios such as CDs and mp3s to be very effective homework assignments.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Benefits <strong>of</strong> Using Audio Resources:<br />
1. Audios Get Used. I have found a much higher percentage <strong>of</strong> listening assignments get done, as<br />
opposed to reading assignments. Many counselees who do not have the discipline to sit down and read<br />
abook (or even a pamphlet) are quite happy to listen to a CD. Here in Southern California most people<br />
spend a large percentage <strong>of</strong> their time on the road. Few drive without some sort <strong>of</strong> audio playing. Once<br />
aCD gets into their car, I have found that some counselees will listen to the same message again and<br />
again. Others, such as homemakers and those who do manual labor, are able to listen while they work.<br />
Better to hear the Word proclaimed, than listening to three more hours <strong>of</strong> Rush Limbaugh!<br />
2. Audios Benefit People with Particular Learning Styles. When homeschooling our children, we<br />
noticed that each <strong>of</strong> our sons had adifferent way <strong>of</strong> understanding material. One was able to retain what<br />
he read while another best remembered what he had heard. Many <strong>of</strong> your counselees will be auditory<br />
learners.<br />
3. Audios Save Time in <strong>Counseling</strong> Sessions. <strong>Biblical</strong> counseling involves the same kind <strong>of</strong> instruction<br />
from the Word as preaching. Your limited time with the counselee can be used more effectively if on his<br />
own time he can listen to an mp3 containing your best instruction in a particular area. <strong>The</strong>n the session<br />
can be spent applying what he has heard to his particular situation and answering questions he may have.<br />
How to Get Started Using Audios:<br />
1. Build a Library <strong>of</strong> Audios Which Deal with the Most Common <strong>Counseling</strong> Problems. In my<br />
counseling box Icarry approximately 100 CDs onvarious topics and texts. Most <strong>of</strong> the audios are<br />
from my preaching ministry in our local church. A benefit <strong>of</strong> using your own CDs is that you are<br />
thoroughly familiar with their content. Also, you addressthe issue in the sermoninmuchthe same way<br />
that you would inaprivate counseling session. If you haven tpreached on some commoncounseling<br />
subjects, this may help motivate you to address issues that would benefit many members in your<br />
congregation I found that preaching through the Sermon on the Mount was tremendously beneficial for<br />
building up my library<strong>of</strong> counseling audios. Of course, it is also <strong>of</strong> great benefit to collect sermonsfrom<br />
eminently gifted preachers and counselors to deal with particular subjects. <strong>The</strong> internet has made this<br />
very possible, and many times popular speakers will do conferences on the material found in their books<br />
and then post the audio on the web for free. <strong>The</strong> IBCD website has many counseling messages that you<br />
can download for free.<br />
2. Prepare Homework Assignments to Go Along with the Audio. It is not enoughmerely to get a<br />
counselee to listen to an mp3. Homework must be given so that the counselor can ensure that the<br />
purpose for the achievement has been achieved. I usually pass out study outlines along with the CD. In<br />
addition I am working at preparing a printed list <strong>of</strong> questions to go with each audio. At a minimum, the<br />
Tape Listening Assignment Questionnaire could be given from Wayne Mack s A Homework Manual<br />
for <strong>Biblical</strong> <strong>Counseling</strong> (volume 1, page 173).<br />
Conclusion: While audios are not a substitute for face-to-face counseling or being under the ministry <strong>of</strong> the<br />
Word, they can be a tremendous supplement. Before you give up on counselees who don tdo their reading<br />
assignments, try giving them some CDs to see if the Lord might use this means to apply His powerful and<br />
sufficient Word to their needs.<br />
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