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5. The most loving and courageous thing we can do is to call homosexuality sin because God forgives and transforms. Ps. 119:128. James 5:19-20 I Co. 6:9-11 III.God established your roles as husband and wife from creation. A. The wife is to submit to her husband s leadership. 1. Male headship was God s design from the beginning. ICo. 11:8-9 I Ti. 2:11-13 2. The woman was made to be a helper to the man. v. 18 I Cor. 11:8-9 3. The man exercises dominion: naming the animals (and woman). v. 19-20,23 3:20 4. The creation account refutes the claims of evangelical feminism. Gal. 3:28 a. Male dominion did not evolve because of the man s superior size or strength b. Genderroles are not merely a cultural issue. c. Male headship is not the result of the fall. d. Male headship was God s design from the beginning. e. The New Testament proves that wives submission did not end with the cross Eph. 5:22-24 I Pet. 3:1-6 5. Women are not demeaned by submission. a. Headship does not imply superiority of personhood, but involves distinction in function according to God s design. b. Subordination does not make the woman inferior. I Co. 11:3 c. The servant s role is glorious. Mark 10:42-45 d. The submissive wife fulfills God s design in her life. 6. The fall has distorted the marriage roles. Gen. 3:16 I Pet. 3:1-2,7 a. Women tend to reverse the God-given roles and dominate their husbands. 4:7 b. Men tend to be domineering and insensitive in their leadership. B. The husband should love and honor his wife. v. 21-23 1. Why did God choose such an unusual method for creating the woman? v. 21-22 2. The husband should respect his wife because she is equally human, in the image of God. 1:27 I Co. 7:8-9 I Pe. 3:7 3. The husband ought to love and cherish his wife as part of himself. Eph. 5:25-30 a. His leadership is to be loving and sacrificial: Eph. 5:25-27 b. He is to care for his wife as part of his own body. v. 23 Eph. 5:28-30 IV. Concluding Applications. A. Marriage is a Divine institution: 1. The first marriage was not just a mating (like animals) but a covenant ceremony at which God gave away the bride. 2. Allsubsequent marriages are to follow the pattern of the first. 3. Every marriage involves 3 persons: Man, Woman, and God. 4. Allpeople are accountable to God for how they treat marriage. 5. Those who tamperwith marriage will be judged by God. Heb. 13:4 B. Marriage is meant by God to be a blessing for mankind. 1. Adam rejoices in the spouse God gives him. v. 23 Pr. 18:22 2. God stillbrings together Adams and Eves. 3. Rejoice in the spouse God has given you. v. 23 Pr. 5:18-19 4. The primary goal of marriage is to glorify God. C. Marriage is designed by God as a picture of our relationship to Him. 100
BiblicalFoundations: God s Directive for Marriage Genesis 2:24 I. Introduction. The Magna Charta of Marriage Mt. 19:5 Mk. 10:7 I Co. 6:16 Eph. 5:31 II. Leave: Your marriage creates a new family unit. A. Yourmarriage takes priority over any other human relationship. 1. Even the parent-child relationship is temporary and changing. 2. This truth is reflected in the wedding ceremony: the giving away of the bride. 3. Grown children should still honor theirparents. Ex. 20:12 Mark7:9-13 B. Failing to leave (or let go) is a violation of God s design. 1. Geographically: Is it wrong to live in proximity to family members? a. There are problems when married children live under their parents roof b. There are situations in which grown children should take care of their aged parents. Mark 7:9-13 I Tim. 5:8 2. Economically: Is it wrong for parents to help out their children? II Co. 12:14 a. Young people should not get married until they are ready to take on the responsibilities of marriage. Eph. 5:29 b. Sometimes money comes with strings attached. c. Undersome circumstances it can be appropriate for parents to help their children. 3. Emotionally: You can t go back to your mother. a. Some parents won t let go. b. The harm of a child-centered home. c. The best thing you can do for your kids is to invest in your own marriage III. Cleave: Your marriage is a lifelong covenant of companionship. A. Marriage is permanent: Until death do us part . 1. Marriage is a commitment (contract). a. The bond that unites a man & woman is not metaphysical, but covenantal. b. Remember your wedding vows. Ps. 15:4 2. The key to staying together is to eliminate the option of separation or divorce. 3. Marriage is not eternal. Mt. 22:30 B. Marriage is designed by God to be the most intimate of human relationships. 1. Your spouse is to be your best friend: companion and helper . 2:18 2. It takes time and effort to build intimacy: communication. a. Quantity and quality time. b. Learn to listen. Js. 1:19 Phil. 2:1-5 Pr. 20:5 c. Learn to express yourself lovingly and openly. Eph. 4:29 C. Violations of God s design. 1. Alow view of the marriage covenant going into the marriage. 2. Divorce. Mt. 19:3-9 Mal. 2:14-16 a. No fault divorce compounds the problem. b. Divorce is also widespread in the evangelical church. c. God allows protection for the innocent party when their spouse breaks the marriage covenant through adultery or abandonment. Mt. 5:32 19:9 I Co. 7:15-16 3. Separation: legal or otherwise. Mt. 19:6 I Co. 7:2-5 I Pet. 3:7 4. Lack of communication and love in marriage. Pr. 17:27-28 18:2 10:8 27:2 Ep.4:29 101
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