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Why all <strong>the</strong> Lies?<br />
There are many ordinary people in our country<br />
that do not identify <strong>the</strong>mselves with <strong>the</strong> progressive/<br />
socialist faction, yet unknowingly are spokesmen for<br />
some of its important tenets. You see <strong>the</strong>m duped into<br />
supporting <strong>the</strong> global warming crowd, <strong>the</strong> radical<br />
environmentalists, animal rights activists, <strong>the</strong><br />
gay agenda, and any number of “social justice”<br />
movements. They may join <strong>the</strong> crusade against<br />
spanking, “hate speech”, cult indoctrination or<br />
any number of social issues that are none<br />
of <strong>the</strong>ir business.<br />
How do o<strong>the</strong>rwise ordinary<br />
people get caught up supporting<br />
some part of a movement to<br />
reengineer society? They<br />
have big compassionate<br />
hearts, and <strong>the</strong> social engineers have painted each of <strong>the</strong>se issues as a moral<br />
struggle. Who doesn’t want social justice (in <strong>the</strong> classical sense,) and to “save<br />
<strong>the</strong> planet,” and save <strong>the</strong> children from cruelty? Many people need a crusade,<br />
and <strong>the</strong> media, especially television, offer <strong>the</strong>m causes that make <strong>the</strong>m feel<br />
<strong>the</strong>y are part of <strong>the</strong> solution.<br />
The Fringe<br />
The uninformed who listens to <strong>the</strong> media would think that spanking is<br />
something done by <strong>the</strong> fringe, an angry and abusive minority. The media uses<br />
inflammatory rhetoric like “beat” instead of “spank” or “corporal punishment”<br />
instead of “physical discipline,” obscuring a line that is extremely clear to<br />
responsible parents.<br />
I read an anti-spanking article by a psychologist that said she did not<br />
believe in spanking, but she went on to confess that on occasion she got so<br />
angry with her children that she did scream at <strong>the</strong>m. She told of receiving a ten<br />
minute lecture in a grocery store from ano<strong>the</strong>r shopper rebuking her for angry,<br />
abusive language toward her children. She also confessed that on occasion<br />
her anger had caused her to slap her children in <strong>the</strong> face. She was ashamed of<br />
her behavior and was making a candid confession, but she went on to use her<br />
experience as an example of why parents should not adopt a policy of “hitting<br />
<strong>the</strong>ir children.” The occasional slips were bad enough; don’t institutionalize <strong>the</strong><br />
practice, she said.<br />
My advice to this professionally trained mo<strong>the</strong>r is, “Don’t hit your<br />
children; don’t even think about spanking; you need to receive counsel from<br />
a hillbilly mo<strong>the</strong>r with a sixth grade education before you have any more<br />
children; you are out of control.” But her confession points to <strong>the</strong> reason a<br />
small minority associate all spanking with hitting and violence, and why<br />
<strong>the</strong>y are categorically against it to <strong>the</strong> point of pushing for laws criminalizing<br />
parents who spank <strong>the</strong>ir kids. Indeed, knowing <strong>the</strong>ir own weakness and anger,<br />
<strong>the</strong>y transfer that violent nature to all parents. When you add to <strong>the</strong> equation<br />
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