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InVitro fertilization. The process was not inexpensive. A surrogacy may run from $10,000 to<br />

$30,000 (Andrews, 1999:103). Fertility doctors charge between $6,000 to $14,000 a cycle for in<br />

vitro fertilization and it takes an average of three cycles before conceiving (Spar, 2006:53).<br />

Adoption Becomes Controversial (Gandossy, 2007: Johnson, 2010).<br />

A study done in 1993 indicated that <strong>the</strong>re were 3-8 million lesbian or gay parents, raising 6-<br />

14 million children in <strong>the</strong> United States. While most were children from a former heterosexual<br />

relationship or marriage, a growing number were opting to become parents through<br />

commercial reproductive services or adoption (GA,1996:232).<br />

A March 2007 study reported that 65,000 adopted children were being raised in <strong>the</strong> United<br />

States by same-sex parents and an estimated 14,100 foster children were living with one or<br />

more gay or lesbian foster parents. States differ in <strong>the</strong>ir laws for single gays and lesbians and<br />

same-sex couples who seek to adopt. Florida is <strong>the</strong> only state that bans gay adoption by both<br />

singles and couples but it does allow gays to become foster parents. Arkansas, Utah and<br />

Virginia prohibit singles or unmarried couples from adopting a child. By 2010 California,<br />

Connecticut, Illinois, Massachusetts, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York and <strong>the</strong> District of<br />

Columbia had laws permitting gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgendered (GLBT) single, joint or<br />

second parent adoptions. Colorado permits same-sex couple adoptions while also allowing<br />

grandparents and o<strong>the</strong>r people who are raising a child to adopt.<br />

Many states do not have specific laws covering gay adoptions or foster parenting. Gay<br />

individuals have an easier time adopting than do couples. Twenty o<strong>the</strong>r states permit single<br />

GLBT adoptions but are unclear in regard to joint adoptions. In <strong>the</strong>se states gay couples<br />

wishing to adopt or foster a child are at <strong>the</strong> mercy of judges and adoption agencies. The Evan<br />

B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, a non-profit organization that studies adoption and foster<br />

care, claims that about 60 percent of adoption agencies accept applications from gays and<br />

lesbians, but <strong>the</strong>y often are confronted with prejudice during <strong>the</strong> process.<br />

Rob Calhoun and his partner, Clay Calhoun, have two adopted children, a 4 year-old<br />

daughter and an 18 month old son. Calhoun said, “We’re not moms, we’re not heterosexual.<br />

We’re not biological parents…But we’re totally equal and just as loving as female parents, as<br />

straight parents, and biological parents. Love makes a family, not biology or gender” (Gandossy,<br />

2007).<br />

<strong>Over</strong> <strong>the</strong> <strong>Rainbow</strong>: The Gay Battle for Social Reorganization of America. 2010<br />

Dr. M. L. Coppock<br />

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