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THOUGHT PROVOKING<br />

The<br />

perfect<br />

manager<br />

“What’s the point of getting a degree<br />

if you’re just going <strong>to</strong> sit at home<br />

after marriage?” This is a common<br />

point of view in our society<br />

<strong>and</strong> some people even feel that girls who<br />

don’t intend <strong>to</strong> work after marriage should<br />

not take up precious seats in colleges <strong>and</strong><br />

universities.<br />

However, the question is, is a degree<br />

only about getting a job? Doesn’t education<br />

nurture <strong>and</strong> develop a person’s thought<br />

processes <strong>and</strong> personality? And doesn’t a<br />

housewife or home maker as she is correctly<br />

called now need the benefit of education as<br />

much, or perhaps even more than a career<br />

person?<br />

The management of a home is in many<br />

ways similar <strong>to</strong> the management of an<br />

organisation. The only difference is that in<br />

an organisation, people have well defined<br />

job descriptions <strong>and</strong> are responsible for<br />

performing their own specific tasks: a home<br />

maker has multiple responsibilities, no specific<br />

job description <strong>and</strong> worst of all, doesn’t<br />

even get the acknowledgement she deserves.<br />

Just take a look at the skills a homemaker<br />

employs during the course of a day.<br />

Time management<br />

Who can manage time as perfectly as housewives?<br />

In the morning, they have <strong>to</strong> wakeup<br />

before the rest of the family, arrange breakfast,<br />

wake up the children <strong>and</strong> help them<br />

get ready for school, pack their lunchboxes<br />

<strong>and</strong> make sure they don’t keep the school<br />

van waiting then they get their husb<strong>and</strong>’s<br />

44<br />

breakfast organized <strong>and</strong> see him off. During<br />

the course of the day they have <strong>to</strong> juggle<br />

outdoor chores with all the cooking, cleaning<br />

<strong>and</strong> other responsibilities of running<br />

a house, keeping everything running like<br />

clockwork.<br />

Supervision<br />

“My wife doesn’t have <strong>to</strong> do anything,<br />

she’s got a bunch of servants,” says many a<br />

husb<strong>and</strong>, derisively. He forgets that even the<br />

best of servants need supervision which is<br />

a momen<strong>to</strong>us task in itself. No matter who<br />

cooks the food, washes the dishes, cleans<br />

the house <strong>and</strong> does the laundry, it is the<br />

wife’s responsibility <strong>to</strong> see that everything is<br />

done well <strong>and</strong> on time.<br />

Management<br />

Anyone who manages a team of workers<br />

can appreciate the skills required <strong>to</strong> keep a<br />

number of individuals happy <strong>and</strong> productive.<br />

Managing a team of servants is no<br />

different <strong>and</strong> only a home maker knows<br />

how difficult it is <strong>to</strong> soothe an irate cook,<br />

discipline a lazy maid <strong>and</strong> settle an ongoing<br />

feud between the gardener <strong>and</strong> the chowkidar.<br />

Training<br />

Taking raw talent <strong>and</strong> developing it in<strong>to</strong> a<br />

skilled resource is a rare skill <strong>and</strong> pays rich<br />

dividends in the corporate world. Home<br />

makers, however, hardly get any acknowledgment<br />

for teaching raw recruits <strong>to</strong> cook,<br />

clean <strong>and</strong> perform all kinds of house hold<br />

chores <strong>to</strong> perfection. Nor do they have the<br />

advantage of binding contracts, so the maid<br />

they have spent so much time <strong>and</strong> effort on<br />

training will leave their employment as soon<br />

as she finds a better job.<br />

Finance manager<br />

A home maker may not be earning the<br />

bread but she knows how <strong>to</strong> slice it so that<br />

it lasts as long as possible. When it comes <strong>to</strong><br />

managing money, it’s often the stay-at-home<br />

wife who has a better grasp of the realities<br />

of finance than her banker husb<strong>and</strong>. She<br />

budgets, she saves, she hunts down the best<br />

deals. Research proves that, while women<br />

are stereotyped as being shopaholics, it’s<br />

mainly the men who blow huge amounts<br />

on big ticket items while women save for a<br />

rainy day<br />

Multi-tasking<br />

Homemakers have tremendous ability <strong>to</strong><br />

multitask <strong>and</strong> efficiently juggle several<br />

chores at the same time. In the morning,<br />

while cooking breakfast for the family she<br />

is also helping the children get ready for<br />

school. In the meantime, she is also looking<br />

after her husb<strong>and</strong> who has <strong>to</strong> leave for the<br />

office. In the afternoon, while cooking, she<br />

is also helping her child with homework;<br />

while ironing she’s watching TV or catching<br />

up on phone calls.<br />

Any one who feels that a stay-at-home<br />

wife <strong>and</strong> mother has an easy life should take<br />

a week off from work <strong>and</strong> try it themselves.<br />

They will soon realize their mistake.<br />

MEMON ALAM APRIL 2011

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