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500 CORNELL ALU M N I N E W S<br />

tion to sit down comfortably and smoke<br />

after 18 holes of golf with you should<br />

have done that. We have been great<br />

chums, especially since the barrier of<br />

childhood was thrown down when you<br />

were ab<strong>out</strong> fifteen—each year we have<br />

been closer together, until now it is man<br />

to man. Of course, I do not fill the place<br />

that one of your own age does, but perhaps<br />

something more, for I can help you<br />

over some rough places since I am a bit<br />

older, and have in no way lost touch with<br />

y<strong>out</strong>h's vision, enthusiasms, and ambitions.<br />

The joy of accomplishing real things is<br />

just as keen as when I was your age.<br />

Obviously I shall grow old physically, but<br />

there need never come a time when I cannot<br />

appreciate the experiences which you<br />

will be having and, I hope, remain your<br />

chum always.<br />

So much by way of introduction, always<br />

inevitable as you know from my technical<br />

articles, but perhaps not so long.<br />

First of all, let me say that I feel a son<br />

is entitled to his father's positive views,<br />

not that these are to be thrust upon him,<br />

for each man has to decide his own life<br />

principles and work <strong>out</strong> his own practice.<br />

What I have to say is said as man to man<br />

and to give you the best I can on some<br />

problems.<br />

Of course you have heard the hackneyed<br />

advice, "Beware of wine and women."<br />

That always seems to invite research;<br />

therefore, I do not thrust that thesis upon<br />

you. You know your mother's and my<br />

high standards. You have been singularly<br />

clean-minded here at home and at preparatory<br />

school. You have had, happily,<br />

a large group both of boy and girl friends<br />

here, and that is as it should be. You will<br />

undoubtedly find social opportunity for<br />

making further friendships. It has always<br />

seemed to me that association with good<br />

women is one of the most valuable things<br />

in life. I can count to-<strong>day</strong> many women<br />

as well as men friends. Whether you find<br />

girl friends during your course or not,<br />

the surest safeguard against putting a<br />

blot on your life is in the circle of friends<br />

you gain among your fellow students.<br />

I hope you will have a genuine attitude<br />

of friendship for all men you meet, not<br />

that spirit occasionally present in the unspoken<br />

thought, "I wonder if I am friendly<br />

with this fellow, whether it will spoil my<br />

chances for making —."<br />

Ripen the friendships that are worth<br />

while, those that reveal mutual regard and<br />

mutual ideals that are high. Real friendships<br />

are not mere convenient alliances,<br />

but are made by real and unselfish devotion.<br />

Be your own self and you will find<br />

happy social ties among your classmates.<br />

Doubtless you will play cards at college;<br />

a good many men find this a source of<br />

diversion. As to gambling, I should<br />

greatly prefer that you do not play for<br />

stakes. It usually serves merely to<br />

strengthen the tendency to take needless<br />

risks and long chances as contrasted with<br />

sound responsible decisions backed up by<br />

thorough, conscientious work so necessary<br />

to real accomplishment. It tends to<br />

undermine a man's sense of economic<br />

values, to degrade sport with commercialism,<br />

to foster cheating, arid with many<br />

men it insidiously undermines their moral<br />

standards.<br />

In decision with reference to this and<br />

other use of your time you might well<br />

keep in mind the real purpose for which<br />

you are at Yale and exercise a discriminating<br />

judgment of values. You cannot of<br />

course realize the length of this period of<br />

middle age in which I now find myself. I<br />

do, and I can assure you, son, it is a long<br />

time and that the most complete and<br />

thorough preparation for it will enable<br />

you to be of the highest service in life<br />

and give you greater happiness. I would<br />

not be true to myself if I did not, therefore,<br />

urge you to strive for academic honor.<br />

Too many undergraduates to-<strong>day</strong>, as in<br />

my <strong>day</strong>, are content with superficial<br />

knowledge and a passing grade. Four<br />

years' training in mental laziness is poor<br />

preparation for life which requires the<br />

keenest mental powers.<br />

Your mother and I both ask and expect<br />

you to apply yourself to your courses, but<br />

that need not limit you in attainment in<br />

other lines, so long ^as you maintain the<br />

proper balance. We desire you, so long as<br />

you are in college, to be fully a part of it.<br />

I would, therefore, urge you also to strive<br />

for physical supremacy as well as intellectual.<br />

If you fail to make a team, the<br />

endeavor, until you are dropped from the<br />

squad, is well worth while; and if you do<br />

succeed—well, I can still give the Yale<br />

cheer lustily!<br />

Last of all, there is something other than<br />

scholarship, than athletics, than mere<br />

friendships and happy, carefree existence<br />

in college. Some one has said that the<br />

only full and final object of all endeavor<br />

upon earth is the development of the<br />

human soul. That seems more true to me<br />

every <strong>day</strong>. One cannot afford to brush<br />

lightly aside all thoughts of religion and<br />

live a life of expediency from <strong>day</strong> to <strong>day</strong>.<br />

The development of the highest character<br />

is not by the formulation of a mere "gentleman's<br />

code" of conduct, but by belief<br />

in and a living, vivid exemplification of<br />

the life and teachings of Jesus of Nazareth.<br />

A declared position in respect to religion is<br />

of the highest importance and it will give<br />

your mother and me grent joy if you find it<br />

in your heart to make your position known.<br />

Religion is not in the same realm as the<br />

facts of natural science, but is largely a<br />

matter of faith, and whether we concede it<br />

or not, faith enters into every part of our<br />

life. Your service to your fellow students,<br />

to Yale, and to your country will be highest<br />

if you have striven for spiritual development<br />

and have shared the Christian concern<br />

for human suffering so wide-spread<br />

in these recent years. If you forget all<br />

else I have written, remember that I hold<br />

sound character above every thing else,<br />

for with<strong>out</strong> its development the equipment<br />

of your college course is useless.<br />

I would not write at such length if I did<br />

not realize how close together we really<br />

are and whatever the successes or the<br />

failures that may come to you, do not<br />

forget the unbounded faith I have in you<br />

always.<br />

Love,<br />

DAD.<br />

VISITING PROFESSORS<br />

In addition to members of the regular<br />

staff of instruction the following visiting<br />

professors have participated in the work<br />

of instruction in the Summer Session:<br />

Alfred A. Abrams '91, chief of the Division<br />

of Visual Instruction, State Education Department,<br />

Albany; Jose" B. Alemany, instructor<br />

in Spanish, Syracuse; James F.<br />

Baldwin, professor of history, Vassar;<br />

Arthur E. R. Boak, professor of ancient<br />

history, <strong>University</strong> of Michigan; Samuel<br />

T. Bratten, associate professor of geology<br />

and geography, <strong>University</strong> of Missouri;<br />

Louise Courtois, instructor in French,<br />

<strong>University</strong> of Oklahoma; G. Watts Cunningham,<br />

Ph.D. Ό8, professor of philosophy,<br />

<strong>University</strong> of Texas; Henry G. Doyle,<br />

professor of Romance languages, George<br />

Washington <strong>University</strong>; Edgar S. Furniss,<br />

assistant professor of political economy,<br />

Yale; Karl W. Gehrkens, professor of<br />

school music, Oberlin Conservatory of<br />

Music; Jean M. Gelas, instructor in<br />

physical education, Hamilton; Hubert<br />

J. C. Grierson, professor of rhetoric and<br />

English literature, Edinburgh; Vincent<br />

L. Guilloton, associate, professor of French,<br />

Syracuse; Frederick S. Henry, head of the<br />

department of modern languages, Tome<br />

School; Emily Hickman Όi, professor of<br />

history, Wells; Fred G. Hoffherr, instructor<br />

in French, Columbia; Clyde F.<br />

Jeffords, Ph.D. '04, chairman of the department<br />

of Latin, Newton High School,<br />

Queens, New York; Ernest R. Kroeger,<br />

director of the Kroeger School of Music,<br />

St. Louis; Rene Lama, professor of<br />

French, Lycee of Beauvais, France;<br />

Victor E. Monnett '22, associate professor<br />

of geology, <strong>University</strong> of Oklahoma; Ulysses<br />

G. Weatherly, Ph.D. '94, professor of<br />

economics and sociology, Indiana; Frank<br />

E. Williams, assistant professor of geography<br />

and industry, Wharton School,<br />

<strong>University</strong> of Pennsylvania; Arthur D.<br />

Wright, assistant professor of education,<br />

Dartm<strong>out</strong>h; Karl A. Zellar, A.M. Ίo,<br />

Principal of the Niles, Ohio, High School.<br />

Summer School of Agriculture: Charles<br />

Beaman, State Normal School, Brockport,<br />

N. Y.; John L. Buys, <strong>University</strong> of Akron;<br />

Katherine Cook, specialist in rural education,<br />

Bureau of Education, Washington,<br />

D. C. Clarence G. Cooper, superintendent<br />

of schools, Baltimore County, Md. Agnes<br />

Houston Craig, supervisor of home economics,<br />

Springfield, Mass.; John D. Detweiler,<br />

professor of biology, Western <strong>University</strong>,<br />

London, Ont.; Richard T. Ely,<br />

professor of land economics, <strong>University</strong> of<br />

Wisconsin; A. R. Gilliland, professor of<br />

educational psychology, Lafayette; Agnes<br />

Hanna, formerly of the <strong>University</strong> of Chicago;<br />

William F. Lusk, professor of agriculture,<br />

Mississippi Agricultural College;<br />

Jacob S. Orleans, Institute of Educational<br />

Research, Columbia.<br />

HOWARD-TURNBULL<br />

Miss Clara Howard '14, who was<br />

formerly assistant alumni representative<br />

of the <strong>University</strong>, was quietly married at<br />

the home of her aunt and uncle, Mr. and<br />

Mrs. David F. Hoy, in Ithaca, on June<br />

29, to Thomas Turnbull, III, Ί8. The<br />

attendants were the sister of the bride,<br />

Frances Howard '26, and the brother of<br />

the groom, Gordon Turnbull. Mr. and<br />

Mrs. Turnbull are at home at in Jones<br />

Street, Woodlawn, Pennsylvania.<br />

PUBLICITY activities of the Finger Lakes<br />

Association have served to bring to the attention<br />

of the public the slogan, "Ithaca,<br />

the Home of C >πr ," <strong>University</strong>."<br />

THE UNIVERSITY has this summer purchased<br />

an additional forty-five acres of<br />

land at the northwest corner of the former<br />

game farm, in the town of Dryden, which<br />

it is understood, will be added to the farms.

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