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<strong>Parishioner</strong><br />

ST FRANCIS’ CHURCH<br />

ISSUE <strong>21</strong> SUMMER 2012<br />

Bumper year for RCIA<br />

by Sheila Connolly<br />

RCIA Co-ordinator<br />

Most parishioners will know that each year<br />

the parish runs RCIA (<strong>The</strong> Rite of Christian<br />

Initiation of Adults). This is the process by<br />

which adults are received into the Catholic Church and<br />

has been running in St. Francis for nearly 20 years. In<br />

that time around 140 people have become Catholics<br />

and many of these have gone on to become very<br />

actively involved the work of the parish.<br />

For the RCIA team it is always a great joy and<br />

privilege to journey with the catechumens (those not<br />

already baptised) and the candidates (those already<br />

baptised Christians). We are often touched and<br />

inspired by the stories of how people came to knock on<br />

the door that first evening and it is a constant<br />

reminder to us that the Holy Spirit continues to work<br />

with us and through us in building the kingdom of<br />

God.<br />

Angela Black and I have working with Canon John<br />

and Deacon Tom for some time on RCIA. Tom, as our<br />

resident liturgist, really comes into his own in the<br />

preparation of the various Rites which take place at<br />

the 10.30 Masses, especially during Lent and, of<br />

course, the great celebration of Easter. This year we<br />

were delighted to welcome Kathy Sexton and Fr.<br />

Bartholomew onto the team.<br />

Each September we begin the Period of Enquiry<br />

which is the formal start to the RCIA programme. In<br />

fact everyone has been ‘enquiring’ to a greater or<br />

lesser extent for some time and one of the things we<br />

do is to try and help the enquirers to discern how God<br />

has been working in their lives since they were born.<br />

Canon John invites anyone who is interested in finding out<br />

more about the Catholic Church to come to an introductory<br />

evening where we outline how the programme works, but at the<br />

same time are very careful to point out that this journey is God’s<br />

time, not ours, and there will be no pressure on people to ‘sign<br />

up’ to anything they are not comfortable with. We believe very<br />

strongly in the importance of the quality of the welcome that<br />

people receive. It can be very scary at the beginning and at each<br />

stage we assure people that it is all right to delay a decision.<br />

While most people continue, it is not usual for someone to leave,<br />

but many of these return a year or so later.<br />

This year we have had sixteen adults preparing to be<br />

received. This was a bit of a challenge for us, not least in fitting<br />

New Catholics and their sponsors after the Easter Vigil Mass....<br />

...and after the Easter Sunday 10.30 am Mass.<br />

everyone into the dining room in the presbytery. It is not the<br />

largest group we have ever had; some years ago we had twentytwo,<br />

but not all of them were prepared through RCIA, so this<br />

was the largest single group. It took longer for us to get to know<br />

everyone and for them to get to know each other. In the past<br />

Angela and I had always managed to remember everyone’s name<br />

by the end of the first evening. But, of course, as soon as people<br />

found something in common they became to form the<br />

relationships that are so important to the RCIA process.<br />

Unusually for us, we had three married couples in the group.<br />

We also had a large proportion of people with young children,<br />

so Kathy Sexton, as a Headteacher of a Catholic Primary school,<br />

was invaluable in supporting parents with resources to use with<br />

their children, especially during Advent and Lent.<br />

<strong>The</strong> catechumens and candidates are supported by<br />

their sponsors. <strong>The</strong> sponsor’s role is vital in this process.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y are the ‘special’ person for each individual, who is<br />

there to support, encourage, challenge and give<br />

Christian witness to the person they are sponsoring.<br />

During Lent the whole parish is praying for those who<br />

are about to become Catholics, but each of them also<br />

has a ‘prayer friend’. This is a parishioner who<br />

undertakes to pray especially for them during this time.<br />

For the first time the Sacraments of Baptism,<br />

Confirmation and First Holy Communion were<br />

administered both at the Easter Vigil and the 10.30<br />

Mass on Easter Sunday morning. We had in total 6<br />

Baptisms and 13 Confirmations and First Holy<br />

Communions. Malcolm and Chantelle Horton and their<br />

children Kiona and Kodi had been baptised in February<br />

as Chantelle was facing major surgery before Easter.<br />

With so many young families there has been a<br />

lovely bonus this year. Among the children of the RCIA<br />

group there have been 11 Baptisms, 4 Receptions into<br />

the Church and 5 First Holy Communions.<br />

Until next Easter our new Catholics are called<br />

‘Neophytes’, which means ‘newly planted’. We thank God<br />

for the gift of Amanda, Cary, Chantelle, Christine, David,<br />

Daniel, Emma, Gail, Hazel, Jenna, Malcolm, Mark, Luke ,<br />

Stacy and Yvonne, newly planted in our Catholic<br />

community.<br />

If you know of anyone who might be interested in<br />

finding out more about the Catholic Church contact the<br />

Parish Office or bring them along in September. Details<br />

will be in the parish newsletter.<br />

Malcolm, Chantelle, Kiona and Kodi Horton:<br />

‘We enjoyed our Tuesday evenings with our RCIA<br />

group and found each week useful, always walking away<br />

having learnt something new. It was also nice to have<br />

been given the opportunity to meet people within our<br />

parish prior to attending our first Mass. Our family has<br />

now been baptised and we are looking forward to our<br />

children’s 1st Holy Communion’<br />

Jenna Hunter:<br />

‘I found RCIA an enriching experience.’<br />

A relocated Catholic<br />

By <strong>The</strong> Reverend Paul Gibbons<br />

May I express my thanks to Canon John, to Deacon Tom. and to you for your<br />

kind welcome to St. Francis’ church and to the world wide Catholic faith?<br />

I have been in Maidstone since 1972 when I was appointed Vicar of the<br />

Church of S. Michael & All Angels on the Tonbridge Road by Archbishop Michael<br />

Ramsey. He it was who together with Pope Paul V1 in 1967 inaugurated the Anglican<br />

Roman Catholic International Commission in the quest for unity..<br />

I have long felt myself to be a ‘mislocated’ Catholic and when Pope Benedict<br />

offered a way forward without the need to deny my Anglican heritage and traditions,<br />

and as the Church of England decided to deny its Catholic heritage, I felt that I must<br />

follow my conscience and respond to the Holy Father’s initiative in establishing the<br />

Personal Ordinariate of Our Lady of Walsingham under the patronage of Blessed<br />

John Henry Newman on 15th January 2011. I was not included in the ‘ ‘first wave’ of<br />

those who sought to be accepted into full communion with the successor of S. Peter<br />

in 2011 as I had responsibilities to many who looked to me for pastoral care and I sought to bring them<br />

with me, in the event few have followed. It seems to be a general characteristic of Church of England<br />

Christians that they become very attached to the building in which they worship, many of which of<br />

course were built at a time when the English were Catholics, before the Continental Reformers had such<br />

an impact on our nation or the Tudor monarch was so desperate for a male heir at any price!<br />

Pope Benedict has been influenced by the writings of John Henry Newman, and as<br />

you know from the account by Alastair MacWilliam in No. 19 of <strong>Parishioner</strong>, Cardinal<br />

Newman was declared Blessed by the Holy Father at the Mass in Crofton Park,<br />

Birmingham in September 2010.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Apostolic Constitution, ‘Anglicanorum Coetibus’ is the means by which groups<br />

of Anglicans who petitioned the Pope to be received into full Catholic Communion are<br />

granted their request. <strong>The</strong> Catechism of the Catholic Church is the authoritative<br />

expression of the Catholic faith professed by members of the Ordinariate. So you and I<br />

believe the same Faith and by God’s grace put it into practise in our daily lives.<br />

As a celibate priest I have been accepted as a candidate for Holy Orders and attend<br />

the Allen Hall Seminary in Chelsea on a course of Formation for Catholic Priesthood, in<br />

the meantime I am attached to the church in Pembury on Sundays and in due course<br />

hope to set up a Maidstone Ordinariate centred on a chapel in Wateringbury.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Ordinariate is like a diocese in as much as we have an Ordinary ,who is my former Anglican<br />

Bishop, now a Monsignor, Keith Newton, just as your Ordinary is Archbishop Peter Smith of<br />

Southwark.<br />

Rev. Paul was ordained Deacon on Saturday, <strong>21</strong>st July, and in September he is due to be ordained<br />

priest. Please pray for him and ask God to bless his ministry in the Catholic Church.


ST FRANCIS’ CHURCH<br />

<strong>Parishioner</strong><br />

THE PARISH OF ST. FRANCIS’<br />

GROVE HOUSE, 126 WEEK STREET, MAIDSTONE , KENT ME14 1RH.<br />

TEL: (01622) 756<strong>21</strong>7 FAX: (01622) 690549<br />

E-mail: stfrancis_parish@yahoo.co.uk Web site: www.stfrancisparish.org.uk<br />

Parish Priest: Canon John S Clark MA.<br />

Assistant Priests: Fr. Bartlomiej Dudek, Fr. Soosai Manickam M.A<br />

Deacon: Rev’d Tom Coyle KSG Parish Sister: Sr. Kathleen Dalton<br />

E D I T O R I A L<br />

Welcome to the Summer 2012 edition of the<br />

<strong>Parishioner</strong> (number <strong>21</strong>) and thank you to all those<br />

who contributed to its content. We think readers will<br />

find something of interest for everyone, be it<br />

informative, entertaining or even controversial. For<br />

instance, Bishop John Hine reminds us about the<br />

importance of maintaining the traditional definition of<br />

marriage and the headmaster of St. Simon Stock<br />

School, Mr. Brendan Wall, wonders why some<br />

Catholic parents choose a state Grammar School for<br />

their children rather than a high achieving Catholic<br />

Secondary School. <strong>Parishioner</strong>s often speak to us<br />

about the articles in the <strong>Parishioner</strong>, mostly<br />

approving but sometimes not. We say to them ,<br />

“Write to us about it, a letter maybe, or a short article<br />

giving your opinion – it may appear in the next<br />

edition.”<br />

In this edition too, you will find an obituary to<br />

Canon John’s mother, Maisie, who died on July 24th.<br />

Fr. Bartholomiej gave the homily at her Requiem<br />

Mass and, with his permission, we have included it.<br />

May she rest in peace.<br />

Please keep all your contributions coming in for<br />

the next edition, planned for the New Year.<br />

You can email it as an MS Word document to:<br />

denisneale@blueyonder.co.uk or put it in an<br />

envelope and hand it in at the parish office<br />

addressed to the <strong>Parishioner</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Editors<br />

Farewell to Fr. Father Soosai<br />

<strong>The</strong> importance of maintaining the<br />

traditional definition of marriage<br />

Do you sometimes get the<br />

impression that, when you talk to<br />

people outside of your parish<br />

community about the current proposal to<br />

legalise same sex marriage, they get quite<br />

uncomfortable?<br />

Perhaps, because they may not be<br />

gifted with a faith to live by, they tend to<br />

consult their feelings about such issues.<br />

And their feelings about this particular<br />

issue of ‘gay marriage’ are confusing.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y approve of ‘equality’, although they<br />

might be ambivalent about ‘gay pride’<br />

campaigns. Often there is a very worthy<br />

desire in their hearts not to be seen as<br />

prejudiced against people who are<br />

‘different’ from themselves in any way.<br />

Providing the proposed legal arrangements<br />

do not require clergy to celebrate same sex<br />

marriage services in their churches, they<br />

cannot see what harm there can possibly be<br />

in allowing same sex couples to get married. Consequently<br />

they tend to go along with the general view in the media that<br />

those who oppose same sex marriage and wish to maintain the<br />

traditional definition of marriage are doing so out of a<br />

prejudice against a minority concealed under a wish to impose<br />

their religious views on the rest of society.<br />

It is difficult to persuade such people that the issue is not<br />

about the rights of the church as opposed to the rights of a<br />

disadvantaged minority, but rather the issue is about the good<br />

of our whole society. Our fundamental argument is that<br />

marriage benefits society, and that once you change the<br />

Archbishop Peter receives<br />

Freedom of the City of<br />

London<br />

One of the oldest surviving traditional ceremonies still in<br />

existence today is the granting of the Freedom of the<br />

City of London. It is believed that the first Freedom was<br />

presented in 1237. <strong>The</strong> ceremony takes place in the<br />

Chamberlain’s Court at Guildhall and it was there on<br />

Thursday, 31st May 2012, that Archbishop Peter was<br />

granted the Freedom of the City of London.<br />

During the ceremony the Archbishop promised to ‘be<br />

good and true to our Sovereign Lady Queen Elizabeth the<br />

Second’ before signing the Freeman’s Declaration Book.<br />

By Bishop John Hine<br />

definition of marriage, it is no longer what<br />

it was, and the benefit to society leaks<br />

away.<br />

At the very heart of marriage is the<br />

sexual complementarity of male and<br />

female. Not only our bodies are clearly<br />

created for sexual complementarity, but<br />

there is equally a relational<br />

complementarity between man and woman<br />

which, when it is respected and nourished,<br />

not only brings a rich stability to their<br />

home but also provides the proper context<br />

for children to be born and reared.<br />

Because my father was killed in the<br />

second world war, I was raised from an<br />

early age in a one parent family and,<br />

although children have a happy knack of<br />

just getting on with life as it is, you realise<br />

later on just how much you missed<br />

compared to your friends who were<br />

blessed with a mother and a father.<br />

Nowadays for all sorts of causes, there is a high proportion<br />

of one parent families, and mostly lone parents are heroic in<br />

their dedication to their off-spring. However for our<br />

Government to be supporting an arrangement which amounts<br />

to promoting fatherless (or motherless) families, and<br />

consequently intentionally depriving future children of their<br />

God-given right to a father and a mother is just about the most<br />

callous and senseless bits of proposed legislation imaginable.<br />

Surely the rights of children weigh more heavily than any<br />

possible rights of same-sex partners.<br />

Another step towards the<br />

Diaconate for Ian<br />

At the end of September Father Soosai<br />

Manickam will be ending his year’s sabbatical<br />

here at St. Francis’ to return to India. During his<br />

stay he has won all our hearts with his good<br />

humour, kindness and inspirational preaching.<br />

Many thanks, Father. May our prayers and<br />

good wishes go with you.<br />

Archbishop Peter with the two members of the<br />

Common Council, Catherine McGuiness and<br />

Stephen Haines, who proposed him for the<br />

Freedom of the City<br />

On Sunday, 13th May 2012, Bishop John offered Mass at St Francis’ Church,<br />

Maidstone, during which he conferred the Ministry of Reader on two men who are<br />

studying for the Permanent Diaconate: Ian Black, Maidstone parish, and Wayne<br />

Tuckell, Margate Parish. <strong>The</strong> conferral of this Ministry is one of the steps on the<br />

path to ordination. Bishop John presented each of them with a copy of the Bible.<br />

Going Home<br />

Before, I actually thought I was fine<br />

I went to His Church<br />

For the joining of hands or<br />

Standing around a font, or a coffin<br />

Before, I actually thought I was alive,<br />

Steeped in vanity, sensuality, pride,<br />

Defensive, opinionated, deluded, but I was ok,<br />

I laid in the dust, Satan’s prey<br />

<strong>The</strong>n He found me, loved me from eternity, pitied me<br />

Stretched His hand, spoke, and I was wounded forever<br />

He caressed my damaged soul and healed me<br />

He is the perfect teacher, father, brother, friend and love<br />

My God, my God, if all your children only knew You<br />

Tears escape each day, joy overflows<br />

If I wake in the night, He is there<br />

From the first break of dawn, He is there<br />

At my last breath He will hold me<br />

And whisper in His sweet, sweet voice<br />

We are going home<br />

Christine Mace 2010<br />

£50k to replace<br />

church roof!<br />

<strong>Parishioner</strong>s needed umbrellas as water poured into the church after a hole appeared in the<br />

roof one Sunday recently after a night of high winds and driving rain. Although the damage<br />

was soon repaired, the roofer found that the nails holding the tiles in place are badly<br />

corroded and must all be replaced. <strong>The</strong> parish has been given an estimate of around fifty<br />

thousand pounds to replace the whole roof. Parish funds are unable to cover such a sum of<br />

money so imaginative ideas are needed for ways to raise the cash. Canon John has<br />

suggested a scheme whereby tiles can be purchased for £5 each by parishioners to help<br />

towards the cost of the new roof – of course, there is no limit on how many tiles a<br />

parishioner can buy!<br />

Have you visited your parish web site?<br />

www.stfrancisparish.org.uk<br />

2


Parish Trip to Margate<br />

and the Turner Contemporary 12th May 2012<br />

<strong>The</strong> Turner Contemporary in Margate opened in<br />

the spring of 2011, and was designed by the<br />

architect David Chipperfield. Since its opening,<br />

it has received much critical acclaim and has exceeded<br />

visitor numbers beyond expectation.<br />

<strong>The</strong> gallery decided to wait until January 2012 until<br />

putting on its first major exhibition devoted to the<br />

works of JMW Turner (1775-1851) whose many works<br />

were inspired by the seascapes of Margate. When I<br />

realised that the exhibition closed in mid May, the<br />

decision was<br />

made that<br />

<strong>Parishioner</strong>s enjoy coffee at<br />

the Turner restaurant<br />

this would<br />

be our venue<br />

for the Parish<br />

Trip!<br />

T h e<br />

Exhibition,<br />

‘Turner and<br />

<strong>The</strong> Turner Contemporary<br />

the Elements’ looks at Turner as a painter of the<br />

elements, exploring the role that the four Classical<br />

elements of air, earth, fire and water played in his art, as well as his fascination for depicting the<br />

elements in fusion. I personally think of Turner as a ‘revolutionary’ painter in his day, in the way<br />

that I think of Beethoven as a ‘revolutionary’ musician and composer.<br />

FLAME 2012<br />

By Philip Coatsworth<br />

On Saturday 24th of March, a group of young people from the parish went<br />

to the Flame Congress at Wembley Arena in London. Flame was a National<br />

Youth event attended by thousands of young Catholics from all over the<br />

country.<br />

During the day we listened to many inspirational speakers, including<br />

Jason Gardener, an Olympic sprinter, and Barry and Margaret Mizen, whose<br />

son Jimmy was tragically killed in 2008. We enjoyed many musical and<br />

dance acts during the day, and it was clear that a lot of work had been put<br />

into their performances. Archbishop Vincent Nichols also attended the<br />

event, giving a speech as well as ending the day with Benediction.<br />

Following on from the success of this day, the group decided to meet<br />

more regularly, which has led to the formation of the Phoenix Youth Group.<br />

This is open to all young people aged 15 to 18, meeting on Fridays (for<br />

more information, see the Parish website).<br />

Parish Film Night<br />

success<br />

by Len Watson<br />

<strong>The</strong> Film Night on April <strong>21</strong>st was the most successful yet,<br />

with my audience coming from as far afield as<br />

Canterbury and Ashford. <strong>The</strong>y enjoyed the most<br />

entertaining film clips from the best of a nostalgic cinema age.<br />

Best of all, we raised £200 for the Heart of Kent Hospice. From<br />

all the feedback I had, everyone enjoyed what was essentially an<br />

evening of Romance, Melodrama, Comedy and Music. I’m<br />

always open to Film Requests so if you have a favourite film or<br />

performer you would like to see again, let me know for next year.<br />

One interesting feedback was confirmed by two ladies in my<br />

audience: That apparently Tyrone Power attended Mass with his<br />

wife (Linda Christian) in St Francis Church in the early 1950s. I<br />

checked this out and he was indeed making a film hereabouts at<br />

that time. So we have a little Hollywood glitter in our Parish!<br />

Many thanks to my audience – here’s to the next time!<br />

By Olga D’Silva<br />

<strong>The</strong> organising for the Parish Trip went well; a<br />

private room was booked for morning tea and<br />

coffee on arrival, overlooking the sea where Turner<br />

himself painted, an optional guided tour was in<br />

place, research on local eateries was going well. But<br />

then, you may recall, the weather in May was<br />

absolutely atrocious, and I became increasingly<br />

worried that with the deluge of rain we had been<br />

experiencing for so many weeks, the Parish Trip<br />

would become a ‘wash out’.<br />

Well, the morning of Saturday 12th May came,<br />

and a minor miracle happened. We had light blue<br />

skies and sunshine! This meant that parishioners<br />

not only enjoyed the Turner Contemporary, but also<br />

the beach and Margate old town. However, there<br />

was an unexpected ‘bonus’ in that there was an<br />

emergency launch of the lifeboat, and as we were<br />

preparing to leave on our coach, we were treated to<br />

a bird’s eye view of the lifeboat as it was towed out<br />

the water.<br />

So, what will await our next Parish trip in September 2012? At the moment, planning is top<br />

secret, but we would love you to join us. Details will be published in the newsletter soon, although<br />

the ‘tales of the unexpected’ remain unknown, of course.<br />

NEWS IN PICTURES<br />

<strong>The</strong> Friendship Group enjoy regular<br />

Line dancing sessions in the parish<br />

hall. Judging by the ‘bunny ears’ this<br />

picture was taken around Easter time.<br />

<strong>The</strong> winners of the Quiz Evening on<br />

May 12th look delighted with their<br />

prize cup (they also received bottles<br />

of wine!) A good time was had by all.<br />

Jackie Effie and her band of helpers<br />

at the Summer Fair on Saturday 23rd<br />

June in the parish hall. Around £600<br />

was made for church funds. Well<br />

done everyone!<br />

In June 2012, John Turner was<br />

joined by parishioners and friends<br />

to celebrate his 65th birthday party<br />

in the parish hall. It was a lovely<br />

occasion but we don’t know how<br />

John was working his ‘miracles’.<br />

Firstly, the weather was fabulous,<br />

secondly John looked 10 years<br />

younger, and thirdly, John<br />

was surrounded by a group of lovely<br />

ladies for his official birthday<br />

photo call. Congratulations, John!<br />

<strong>The</strong> Angry Sea<br />

O sea, why does the wind<br />

make you so angry<br />

As it whips up your waves?<br />

It roars like a lion, it blasts<br />

like a missile,<br />

Twisting and turning your<br />

water.<br />

Your gale smashes the boats<br />

on the rocks,<br />

You moan and wail.<br />

<strong>The</strong> sea is powerless, you’re<br />

the invisible power.<br />

Jacob Seager, age 10<br />

If I were not a Catholic, and were<br />

looking for the true Church in the<br />

world today, I would look for the one<br />

Church which did not get along well<br />

with the world; in other words, I<br />

would look for the Church which the<br />

world hates. My reason for doing this<br />

would be, that if Christ is in any one<br />

of the churches of the world today, He<br />

must still be hated as He was when<br />

He was on earth in the flesh. If you<br />

would find Christ today, then find the<br />

Church that does not get along with<br />

the world. Look for the Church that is<br />

hated by the world, as Christ was<br />

hated by the world. Look for the<br />

Church which is accused of being<br />

behind the times, as Our Lord was<br />

accused of being ignorant and never<br />

having learned. Look for the Church<br />

which men sneer at as socially<br />

inferior, as they sneered at Our Lord<br />

because He came from Nazareth.<br />

Look for the Church which is accused<br />

of having a devil, as Our Lord was<br />

accused of being possessed by<br />

Beelzebub, the Prince of Devils. Look<br />

for the Church which the world rejects<br />

because it claims it is infallible, as<br />

Pilate rejected Christ because he<br />

called Himself the Truth. Look for the<br />

Church which amid the confusion of<br />

conflicting opinions, its members love<br />

as they love Christ, and respect its<br />

voice as the very voice of its Founder,<br />

and the suspicion will grow, that if the<br />

Church is unpopular with the spirit of<br />

the world, then it is unworldly, and if<br />

it is unworldly, it is other-worldly.<br />

Since it is other-worldly, it is infinitely<br />

loved and infinitely hated as was<br />

Christ Himself. <strong>The</strong> Catholic Church is<br />

the only Church existing today which<br />

goes back to the time of Christ.<br />

History is so very clear on this point, it<br />

is curious how many miss its<br />

obviousness...<br />

Bishop Fulton Sheen.<br />

12<br />

Questions<br />

Fr Bartlomiej<br />

1. Which part of Poland are you from?<br />

I come from the southeast of Poland, from<br />

a village called Domaradz (You may<br />

Google it).<br />

2. Do you come from a large family?<br />

My immediate family are my parents, Anna and<br />

Adam, and my three brothers. I am the second<br />

brother. I have a reasonably large extended<br />

family.<br />

3. When did you know you were called to the<br />

priesthood?<br />

It’s difficult to define the particular<br />

moment when I realised I was called to be<br />

a priest. It was more of a process and<br />

happened between November 2001 and<br />

April 2002.<br />

4. What were you first impressions of our parish<br />

when you arrived?<br />

I was surprised by the organisation of the<br />

parish and by the number of people<br />

responsible for parish work. I’ve never<br />

seen a parish office working like it does<br />

here. <strong>The</strong> second surprise was the general<br />

organisation of the liturgy: the sanctuary<br />

in the church and the number of people<br />

responsible for the preparation of the<br />

Mass. Also I have to include Canon John in<br />

my first impression of the parish. His work<br />

ethic and positive attitude to the people<br />

and myself impressed me and made me<br />

feel welcome and I consider myself lucky<br />

to be working with such a good parish<br />

priest.<br />

I was disappointed by a few things; why<br />

so few people receive the Sacrament of<br />

Reconciliation and why so many people in<br />

our parish miss Sunday Mass. <strong>The</strong>se were<br />

always important to me and I treat this<br />

situation as a kind of mission and<br />

challenge of my ministry here.<br />

5. How do you see your future?<br />

I just want to be a good man and a good<br />

priest whatever the circumstances are.<br />

<strong>The</strong> rest I put in God’s and the Church’s<br />

hands.<br />

6. If you were marooned on a desert island,<br />

apart from the Bible, what book and luxury item<br />

would you like to have with you?<br />

It depends for how long? I would take a<br />

handbook of survival, a knife and<br />

matches. <strong>The</strong> rest, I think, God would<br />

provide.<br />

7. What kind of music do you enjoy?<br />

I’ve been always listening to the music<br />

that I could play on my own so I don’t like<br />

electronic music and heavy metal<br />

because they annoy me. For the last few<br />

years I’ve been listening to Gospel and<br />

smooth jazz. I like <strong>The</strong> Beatles, U2 and a<br />

couple of Polish bands. Generally, I like<br />

rock.<br />

8.Do you have any hobbies in your spare time?<br />

I have very little spare time! I have quite a<br />

lot of hobbies. <strong>The</strong> first one is sport. I<br />

usually play football but I like basketball,<br />

table tennis, cycling and hiking. I trained<br />

in traditional karate for five years but have<br />

had to give it up due to lack of time. My<br />

other interests are playing music,<br />

watching good films (very rarely) and a<br />

new hobby I discovered here is travelling<br />

and visiting famous places.<br />

9. What is your most favourite meal?<br />

Large thin pork chops in crispy breadcrumbs,<br />

well-fried chips and carrot salad made out of<br />

raw carrot.<br />

10. Is there any famous person you’d like to<br />

meet?<br />

When John Paul II lived I wanted to meet him. I<br />

like to meet famous people but this happens<br />

very rarely but I don’t think that there is anybody<br />

I particularly want to meet.<br />

11. Who is your favourite Saint – and why?<br />

<strong>The</strong> first one is Our Lady. She’s the patron of my<br />

home parish and I have prayed to her since I<br />

remember. At the very top of the modern saints<br />

is John Paul II. I am bewitched by his style of life,<br />

thinking, looking at God, the world and people. I<br />

admire his simple and natural faith and the way<br />

he shared it with us. He was a really charismatic<br />

man. <strong>The</strong> second one is Josemaría Escrivá.<br />

Thanks to him I understand a lot more what the<br />

way to the sanctity means in practice. And the<br />

third one is Stefan Wincenty Frelichowski, the<br />

patron of Polish scouts, priest and martyr. While<br />

he was in seminary he wrote a diary and he is<br />

famous especially for this dairy. He helped me a<br />

lot when I was a seminarian.<br />

12. Finally, if you could have one wish granted,<br />

what would it be?<br />

To get to heaven. However, I know that it<br />

doesn’t depend on wishing but desiring.<br />

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Rt. Rev. John Jukes OFM Conv<br />

Auxliary Bishop<br />

of Southwark<br />

1923-2011<br />

Bishop John Jukes was<br />

ordained priest in 1952<br />

and was appointed<br />

Auxiliary Bishop of Southwark<br />

and Titular Bishop of<br />

Strathearn by Pope John Paul<br />

II in 1979. He was ordained in<br />

St George’s Cathedral<br />

Southwark by Archbishop<br />

Michael Bowen on 30th<br />

January 1980 and given<br />

pastoral responsibility for Kent,<br />

his main interests being<br />

education and Catholic social<br />

teaching in the world of work.<br />

Bishop John retired in<br />

1998. However, in 2002, when<br />

Bishop Mario Conti of<br />

Aberdeen asked him to<br />

become parish priest of<br />

Huntley, Banff and Portsoy, he<br />

accepted. That same year,<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>21</strong>st July 2012 marks the 25th<br />

anniversary of my sister, Maria,<br />

passing away. Maria was born in<br />

Wandsworth on 29th April 1950 to my<br />

parents Rita and Eric Emerson. <strong>The</strong> family<br />

moved to Surbiton, Surrey when Maria was<br />

quite young and Max the family Alsatian dog<br />

was never far from her side. I never knew<br />

Max but I’m told he would have done<br />

anything to defend Maria. When she was 10,<br />

and I was just a few weeks old, the family<br />

relocated to Oadby, Leicestershire, where my<br />

father was working with English Electric as a<br />

mechanical and electrical engineer. Maria’s<br />

secondary education was at Evington Hall<br />

Convent, which she left in 1966 with a clutch<br />

of eleven GCE’s.<br />

<strong>The</strong> family moved to Maidstone then<br />

and Maria did not return to school, partly for<br />

that reason and also because she suffered a<br />

breakdown. Shortly after we had settled in<br />

Maidstone, she started as a classroom<br />

assistant at the Convent of the Sacred Heart<br />

with Sister Mary Paul in the kindergarten,<br />

which got her back on track. She loved the<br />

children and they loved her too, as was<br />

borne out by the many presents she received<br />

at the end of term.<br />

In 1970 she started working in the Civil<br />

Service as a Clerical Officer at Maidstone<br />

County Court. She stayed in the court service<br />

being promoted to Executive Officer and she<br />

worked in Maidstone and Canterbury, as well<br />

as attending the once a week court in<br />

Cranbrook. Back at Maidstone County Court<br />

fellow bishops and over 70<br />

priests joined him at Aylesford<br />

Priory in Kent to celebrate his<br />

golden jubilee of the<br />

priesthood. Three years later,<br />

to celebrate his 25 years as a<br />

bishop, he went to Rome, with<br />

Bishop Howard Tripp, with<br />

whom he had been ordained<br />

Bishop. <strong>The</strong>y were present at<br />

Pope John Paul II’s last<br />

audience.<br />

In recent years, as his<br />

physical health declined, he<br />

retired again, this time from<br />

parish ministry. He died on the<br />

morning 22nd November 2011,<br />

aged 88 years, in the 65th year<br />

of religious life, the 59th year of<br />

his priesthood, having been a<br />

Bishop for 31 years.<br />

May he rest in peace<br />

Maria Francesca Emerson<br />

1950 – 1987<br />

by Margaret Emerson<br />

she was promoted to Acting Chief Clerk, the<br />

post she held until ill health meant she had<br />

to take long term sick leave. Maria was<br />

diagnosed with ovarian cancer in mid 1986<br />

but despite two operations and<br />

chemotherapy, she was never able to return<br />

to work and the cancer continued<br />

unchecked. She passed away quietly at<br />

home on the <strong>21</strong>st July 1987, aged just 37<br />

years.<br />

Maria was a great artist, loved<br />

needlework and ballet and even indulged in<br />

ice skating. In her last few years she had a<br />

pony and an old horse, as she loved all<br />

creatures and certainly acquired for a family<br />

a few unwanted cats, to add to the Emerson<br />

household. She did not mind what people<br />

thought and her boss remarked after she<br />

passed away, that she wore jeans to work,<br />

and was bit of a rebel in that respect, but her<br />

hard work and dedication more than made<br />

up for that. On court attendance days she<br />

wore something more conventional, so you<br />

could always tell when they were.<br />

To those who knew her she is forever a<br />

young fit woman but had she lived she would<br />

have retired by now, and as her only sister, I<br />

wonder what she would have done in the<br />

intervening years. I know that she was both<br />

a great sister and a great friend, who is<br />

constantly remembered. This is a tribute to<br />

her life for her 25th anniversary and as it<br />

says on her headstone, she is ‘In the Arms of<br />

the Good Shepherd’.<br />

Rest in peace Maria.<br />

Thine be the glory, risen, conquering Son.<br />

Endless is the victory Thou o’er death has won.<br />

OBITUARIES<br />

Mary Francis (Maisie) Clark<br />

1918 - 2012<br />

Fr Bartlomiej Dudek’s Homily at Maisie’s Requiem Mass, 24th July 2012<br />

In human nature there is an instinctive<br />

desire to live. Sometimes it’s deafened by<br />

pain, suffering or unhappiness but then it<br />

becomes a desire for eternal life. (Fr. Jerzy<br />

Cholewinski)<br />

Dear family and friends of Maisie,<br />

Bishop John and reverend clergy.<br />

We are gathered today to be<br />

together for the last time with a mum,<br />

grandmother, great-grandmother, a good<br />

friend but primarily, a woman of great faith<br />

who shared and passed on that faith to<br />

many of us. And even though our emotions<br />

tell us from a human point of view that it’s<br />

time to say good bye, we are here not only to cry – we are<br />

here to celebrate the life which we have in God.<br />

Looking at the Liturgy of the Word we can read there a<br />

great message of hope and confidence in God. <strong>The</strong> author of<br />

the Book of Wisdom tells us: <strong>The</strong> souls of the righteous are in<br />

the hands of God, no torment shall ever touch them (Ws 3:1).<br />

Through baptism, faith and righteous life we are in the hands<br />

of God. And although life is sometimes difficult, and full of<br />

pain we’ve got an answer in God’s Wisdom: If they<br />

experienced punishment as men see it, their hope was rich<br />

with immortality (Ws 3:4).<br />

In the psalm we hear of God’s love and mercifulness.<br />

Sometimes we may have a feeling that, as the psalmist said,<br />

our life is ethereal or fragile like grass or like the flower of the<br />

field (Ps 102:15). However, God knows of what we are made<br />

(Ps 102:14), and He does not treat us according to our sins nor<br />

repay us according to our faults (Ps 102:10). Everything is<br />

because of Jesus our Saviour and Redeemer. It is he who in<br />

coming on earth made us his brothers and sisters and children<br />

Kevin James Henderson Bell<br />

1930 - 2012<br />

By his daughter Sue Henderson Bell<br />

Dad was the youngest of 3 children,<br />

Paddy 4 years older and Shelagh 2<br />

years older. <strong>The</strong>y were a military<br />

family. His father was a Sergeant in the Army<br />

and was stationed at Woolwich where Dad<br />

mainly grew up.<br />

Dad went to the Duke of York Military<br />

School at Dover aged 7 joining his brother<br />

Paddy. He made best of his time there and was<br />

in Worsley House making life long friends,<br />

which he kept in touch with. He often talked<br />

about life at the school which was quite austere.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y were taught by Grenadier Guards. He learnt to play the<br />

flute and drum. He joined the Old Boy’s Association becoming<br />

Chairman which he was very proud of and loved attending the<br />

meetings in Chelsea and going to Founders Day at the School.<br />

<strong>The</strong> beginning of a wonderful life at the Royal BL<br />

Village.<br />

After leaving school he joined the National Service and<br />

travelled the world. Dad caught TB in his early 20’s, which left<br />

him with one lung, but he always said it was the making of<br />

him. He saw the positive side of his illness and when he was<br />

sent to Preston Hall for treatment, it was the start of a new life<br />

for him. If he had not had contracted TB he would not have met<br />

my mother who also had TB, married and raised a family.<br />

During his time in hospital a bond was developed between the<br />

patients which lasted all their lives. <strong>The</strong> majority settled in the<br />

village, working in the Hospital or the Legion.<br />

After Dad regained his health he became an orderly<br />

before deciding to study as a nurse working through the ranks<br />

to Nursing Officer at Preston Hall. He specialised in psychiatry<br />

and chest complaints. I have many memories as a child of dad<br />

studying, which was difficult with 3 children. While nursing a<br />

Br i d g e t<br />

Considine was<br />

born in 1918<br />

in Moyrhee, Co.<br />

Claire. Like so many<br />

other Irish girls of that<br />

time, she left home in<br />

her early teens and<br />

crossed the Irish Sea to England in 1939,<br />

where Bridget began a long and dedicated<br />

career as a nurse, training mostly in Surrey.<br />

She also spent a few years in the United States of America and<br />

was extremely interested in her profession, qualifying both as<br />

a psychiatric and general nurse.<br />

Bridget enjoyed the many responsibilities of Oakwood<br />

management, especially at Preston Hall, where she spent<br />

Bridget Considine<br />

1918 - 2012<br />

in the eyes of God. How wonderful is the<br />

miracle of the resurrection: we know that<br />

our fate is to die on earth but we are<br />

assured that we are created to live with<br />

God forever. That’s why Jesus told his<br />

disciples: I am going now to prepare a<br />

place for you, and after I have gone and<br />

prepared you a place, I shall return to take<br />

you with me; so that where I am you may<br />

be too (Jn 14:2-3). And it doesn’t really<br />

matter that, like St John said, what we are<br />

to be in the future has not yet been<br />

revealed because all we know is, that when<br />

it is revealed we shall be like him because<br />

we shall see him as he really is (1 Jn 3:2).<br />

In the words of a famous singer: Death is as a life lived<br />

(Edyta Geppert). Looking at the few last months and<br />

especially days of Maisie’s life, when she was slowly passing<br />

away, all of us may wish for ourselves such a peaceful and<br />

quiet death. And through the prism of her happy death we<br />

may look on her long life one not without sadness and<br />

difficulties but peaceful and happy and greatly loved. That’s<br />

why we are full of hope that now she’s sharing the promise of<br />

the resurrection.<br />

Finally, I would like to share this last reflection with you.<br />

<strong>The</strong> last couple of months when it was extremely difficult for<br />

Maisie to say anything, she had her own language of<br />

communication: she was smiling. Very often it was like<br />

sunshine piercing the clouds of heaven.<br />

Maisie, we know that you are passing on, but like the<br />

Roman poet said: non omnis moriar – you do not all die<br />

(Horace). Your faith and smile is something you are leaving us.<br />

Amen.<br />

Bishop they became friends and the Bishop<br />

arranged for him to study in the Library at<br />

Allington Castle. He loved his career and he<br />

excelled at it and he was very respected by his<br />

colleagues.<br />

Dad lived life to the full and was always<br />

involved in Village life. When Dad retired he<br />

became the Booking Clerk for the Community<br />

Hall which he loved and he also joined the Capel<br />

Morris Club committee enjoying the banter of<br />

Club life. Dad was also very proud to be a<br />

Legion member, he was on the Service<br />

Committee and he enjoyed attending the Parades where he<br />

would wear all his medals<br />

Dad started the over 55’s Short Mat Bowling Group,<br />

spelling was never a strong point of his and he sent out 300<br />

letters inviting people to join the Bowels Club. He was a life<br />

long member and he was still playing every Tuesday afternoon.<br />

He loved the laughter and friendship of the Bowlers. He loved<br />

Aylesara enjoying the meetings, day trips and holidays.<br />

Dad loved the simple things in life, his garden especially<br />

the roses and wildlife and his beloved green car, which<br />

customs had called “<strong>The</strong> Pea” because he and his friends were<br />

always going on daytrips to France they thought they were<br />

smugglers. Dad would often pop into Sainsburys and once he<br />

was asked if he was a Store Detective because he was always<br />

in there talking to the staff.<br />

Dad made a lot of life long friends, he loved chatting to<br />

people and he had a good sense of humour seeing the funny<br />

side of most situations. He was a great planner even asking<br />

some years back Phil to be the Standard Bearer at his funeral.<br />

Dad was a very proud, kind and sincere man. He will be<br />

deeply missed by his family and everyone who knew him.<br />

many years as Matron, retiring in 1980 after<br />

a long and dedicated service.<br />

Bridget also had a great passion for St.<br />

Francis’ Church where she was always found<br />

lending a hand after Sunday Mass, helping<br />

with pouring the coffees. Some of you may<br />

recall her on the Tombola stall at the Mini<br />

Market Fairs.<br />

Bridget spent her retirement living in<br />

Vinters Park, Maidstone. She was a regular<br />

Mass goer at St. Francis’ and lived a quiet<br />

and peaceful life. She was a generous and<br />

kind hearted woman and will be missed by all who knew her.<br />

Bridget Considine’s funeral took place on Friday 2nd<br />

March 2012. Her family would like to thank everyone for their<br />

kindness, messages of sympathy and attendance at the service.


TwoGoldenWeddings<br />

Two couples from our parish recently celebrated 50 years of marriage, Len & Viv Watson and Peter & Margaret Ruddy.<br />

Both couples renewed their wedding vows in St Francis’ Church where they were married fifty years ago.<br />

Len and Vivienne Watson<br />

January 20th 1962-2012<br />

By their friend Mary Brittain (nee Dominey)<br />

Many congratulations to<br />

you both, lovely to be<br />

included in the<br />

celebrations, the renewal of your<br />

wedding vows on Sunday 15th<br />

January in St. Francis’ Church, with<br />

drinks and refreshments in the Parish<br />

Hall after Mass and also the lovely<br />

meal the following Sunday, 22nd<br />

January, at the Hilton Hotel.<br />

I first met Len around 1957 at<br />

St. Francis’ Youth Club, which met<br />

in the Church Hall. <strong>The</strong> Club was for<br />

the older teens and the twenties of<br />

the parish. Len was brought to the<br />

Viv & Len with their children and grandchildren after renewal of their vows Just married!<br />

Youth Club by Aubrey Twynham,<br />

had marked out Len as the one for her at quite a reception in<br />

Vivienne’s eldest brother, (at this time Vivienne young age. Later Vivienne joined the Youth the Parish Hall. I was invited because, a the time,<br />

was too young to join!). Pat, Aubrey’s brother Club, so you could say a bit of courting went on I was the girlfriend of Viv’s brother, Aubrey,<br />

also came to the Club, so Len knew the in the Parish Hall. Len and Viv became boyfriend Len’s Best Man. I feel very privileged to have<br />

Twynham family very well.<br />

and girlfriend - the rest is history<br />

known Vivienne and Len at the beginning of<br />

At first Len thought of Vivienne as only his <strong>The</strong>ir wedding took place in St. Francis’ their romance and to have been included in their<br />

best friend’s young sister, although I think Viv Church on January 20th 1962, followed by a Golden Wedding celebrations.<br />

Just married!<br />

Peter and Margaret Ruddy<br />

January 20th 1962-2012<br />

Peter and Margaret Ruddy<br />

were married on Saturday<br />

2nd of June 1962 at St.<br />

Francis’ Church, Maidstone, on, as<br />

they recall, “ a cloudy, dry but very<br />

windy day’. <strong>The</strong> wedding was<br />

conducted by the late Canon Joseph<br />

Simmons. After the nuptials,<br />

around 85 guests attended a<br />

reception at the Tovil Club, near<br />

Maidstone. Margaret and Peter’s<br />

honeymoon was spent in<br />

Bournemouth.<br />

On 16th June this year,<br />

Margaret and Peter celebrated their<br />

fiftieth Wedding Anniversary with<br />

other couples at a Mass in<br />

Celebration of the Sacrament of<br />

Marriage at St. George’s Cathedral,<br />

Southwark.<br />

How Bad are Bananas?<br />

Part of an article by Ruth Jarman for Christian Ecology (contributed by Joanna Frazer)<br />

We all want to live in a way that is kind to the world but<br />

are you sometimes confused about the best way to do<br />

that? I bought the book How Bad are Bananas? <strong>The</strong><br />

Carbon Footprint of Everything by Mike Berners-Lee for my husband<br />

recently and we have been fascinated by the book’s entertaining<br />

prose and surprising conclusions.<br />

Firstly, how bad are bananas? I must say, although we consume<br />

a lot of them in our household, I have always done so with a slightly<br />

guilty conscience despite their Fairtrade label. <strong>The</strong>y are hardly local<br />

produce! Mike Berners-Lee, however, thinks that, at only 80g CO2 e<br />

(carbon dioxide equivalent - a measure of how climate damaging<br />

something is) per banana, they are brilliant! <strong>The</strong> reasons are several.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y are grown in natural sunlight, are transported by ship (which is<br />

about 1 per cent as bad as by plane) and they are grown prepackaged!<br />

And of course they are also highly nutritious, with any<br />

over-ripe fruit in our household ending its days in a cake and never<br />

in the compost.<br />

Whereas a banana’s footprint is pretty-much the same year<br />

round, this is not so for seasonal fruit. An apple varies from 10g CO2<br />

e for one grown locally in autumn/winter to 150g CO2 e shipped and<br />

stored. More, but still a low-carbon food. A punnet of strawberries,<br />

however, produces 150g CO2 e grown in season, but rises to more<br />

than 10 times that if bought out-of-season, whether flown in or<br />

Peter and Margaret, with Bishop Paul Hendricks, after the ceremony<br />

grown locally in a hothouse. <strong>The</strong> answer? Make the most of seasonal<br />

berries now, and when the season is over enjoy apples, pears and<br />

bananas until next summer.<br />

How Bad are Bananas? gives tomatoes a grilling. Ordinary<br />

cheap and cheerful tomatoes bought now are really low-carbon<br />

(400g CO2 e per kg), but out-of-season, organic tomatoes<br />

hothoused in the UK can be as bad as 50 kg CO2 e per kg. Again,<br />

the answer is to relish our local, seasonal tomatoes now! Our family<br />

have got into the habit of simply not buying fresh tomatoes out of<br />

summertime, preferring chutneys and coleslaw.<br />

God has given us a bounteous Earth to enjoy while serving Him.<br />

Each of us can enjoy all the food and drink and their amazing<br />

support systems that we need. But when we over-consume, as in<br />

indulging in climate damaging imported food, we harm and can even<br />

destroy the Earth upon which we depend.<br />

And for those spotty bananas:<br />

Low-Fat Chocolate Banana Cake<br />

Whisk 1 egg with 75ml oil and 2 bananas. Add 50g oats, 40g melted<br />

chocolate, 150g flour, 1 tsp cinnamon, ? tsp baking soda, ? tsp<br />

bicarbonate of soda, 1 tsp vanilla, 125g sugar and a bit of milk until<br />

it’s cake-mix consistency. Put into greased cake tin and decorate with<br />

a sliced third banana.<br />

Bake at 180 º C for 40 mins.<br />

R.I.P<br />

Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old<br />

friend Common Sense, who has been with us for<br />

many years. No one knows for sure how old he was<br />

since his birth records were long ago lost in<br />

bureaucratic red tape. He will be remembered as<br />

having cultivated such valuable lessons as:<br />

• Knowing when to come in out of the rain<br />

• Why the early bird gets the worm<br />

• Life is not always fair<br />

• And maybe it was my fault.<br />

Common Sense lived by simple, sound<br />

financial policies (do not spend more than you can<br />

earn) and reliable strategies (adults, not children, are<br />

in charge).<br />

His health began to deteriorate rapidly when<br />

well intentioned but overbearing regulations were set<br />

in place. Reports of a 6-year-old boy charged with<br />

sexual harassment for kissing a classmate, teens<br />

suspended from school for using mouthwash after<br />

lunch and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly<br />

student, only worsened his condition.<br />

Common Sense lost ground when parents<br />

attacked teachers for doing the job that they<br />

themselves had failed to do in disciplining their<br />

unruly children. It declined even further when schools<br />

were required to get parental consent to administer<br />

sun lotion or an aspirin to a student but could not<br />

inform parents when a student became pregnant and<br />

wanted to have an abortion.<br />

Common Sense lost the will to live as the<br />

churches became businesses and criminals received<br />

better treatment than their victims did.<br />

Common Sense took a beating when you<br />

could not defend yourself from a burglar in your own<br />

home and the burglar could sue you for assault.<br />

Common Sense finally gave up the will to live<br />

after a woman failed to realise that a steaming cup<br />

of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap in a<br />

cafe and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.<br />

Common Sense was preceded in death by his<br />

parents, Truth and Trust, by his wife, Discretion, by<br />

his daughter, Responsibility, and by his son, Reason.<br />

His four stepbrothers survive him, I Know My<br />

Rights, I Want It Now, Someone Else Is To Blame and<br />

I am a Victim.<br />

Not many attended his funeral because so few<br />

realised he was gone.<br />

A single man decided life would be more<br />

fun if he had a pet. So he went to the pet<br />

shop and told the owner that he wanted<br />

to buy an unusual pet. After some<br />

discussion, he finally bought a centipede<br />

which came in a little white box to use<br />

for his house. He took the box back<br />

home and found a good location for it.<br />

He decided he would start off by taking<br />

his new pet to church with him. So he<br />

asked the centipede in the box, “Would<br />

you like to go to church with me today,<br />

to pray and worship the Lord?” But there<br />

was no answer from his new pet. This<br />

bothered him a bit, but he waited a few<br />

minutes and then asked him again, “How<br />

about going to church with me to<br />

receive blessings.” But again, there was<br />

no answer from his new friend and pet.<br />

So he waited a few minutes more,<br />

thinking about the situation. He decided<br />

to ask him one more time; this time<br />

putting his face up against the<br />

centipede’s house and shouting, “Hey, in<br />

there! Would you like to go to church<br />

with me. We will have a good time!” A<br />

little voice came out of the box: “ OK,<br />

OK, I heard you the first time! I’m<br />

putting on my shoes.”<br />

<strong>The</strong> Dew Association Report<br />

<strong>The</strong> Dew Association thanks parishioners for their generosity in supporting those in Africa,<br />

India and the Philippines whose circumstances are less fortunate than our own. Also,<br />

thanks to St. Francis’ Choir for its contribution and those people who give through their<br />

monthly Bank Direct Debit system. Contributions have again increased in the last year,<br />

details of which are set out below. Also, thanks to Canon John for allocating the collection<br />

dates.<br />

Payments from February 1978 to February 2011 £98,295.00<br />

Project Payments for 2011/11<br />

Mar 11 India, Children’s Education Mission, (Lucy Guest) £610.00<br />

April 11 Philippines, Leper Colony, (Bro. Bantilan) £715.00<br />

May 11 Philippines, Orphan Children, (Sr. Nicanora) £750.00<br />

June 11 India, Mumbai, Help the Sick and Homeless, (Sr. Christobel) £610.00<br />

July 11 Zimbabwe, (Fr. Tim Peacock) £666.00<br />

Aug 11 Mozambique, Nampula, Irmas Carmelites, (Sr. Anton) £575.00<br />

Sept 11 Zambia, Orphan Children, Kiltegan Missions, (Fr. Martin Mulholland) £673.00<br />

Oct 11 Ghana, <strong>The</strong> New Neville Preparatory School Trust, (Neville Maggs) £673.00<br />

Nov 11 Nigeria, Sisters of the Holy Rosary, (Sr. Josephine) £703.00<br />

Dec 11 Eritrea, Comboni Fathers, (Fr. Paul Felix) £635.00<br />

Jan 12 Ghana, Children’s Education, (Fr. Peter Adu) £638.00<br />

Feb 12 Ghana, Mentally Handicapped Children, (Rev.Joe Bennett) £653.00<br />

Total £7,901.00<br />

Grand Total £106,196.00<br />

5


Blessed Pierre Toussaint<br />

Words and Ilustration by Charlotte Cassidy, Artist<br />

Blessed Pierre Toussaint was born a black slave on June 27th<br />

1766 on a sugar plantation owned by wealthy Jean Berard<br />

and his wife, in the French colony of St. Dominique (now<br />

known as Haiti). Years earlier, Pierre’s enslaved parents had been<br />

transported from Africa to Haiti and were devout Catholics. <strong>The</strong>y<br />

taught their children to always love God throughout their lives.<br />

As a young boy Pierre was educated by the Berard children’s<br />

tutors. He was also spared the gruelling manual work in the<br />

plantation fields with the other slaves and instead given lighter tasks<br />

as a domestic slave in the Berard mansion.<br />

In 1787, when the Haitian people began a rebellion against<br />

slavery, Jean Berard, concerned for his family’s safety amid the<br />

increasing unrest, decided to send his children to relatives in France<br />

and his wife to America. Pierre, now aged twenty-one, accompanied<br />

Madame Berard on the voyage to New York along with his younger<br />

sister, Rosalie, and three other slaves loyal to the Berards.<br />

In a letter to Madame Bernard her husband directed that Pierre,<br />

although still a slave, should have a profession in New York City.<br />

Pierre was then apprenticed to a renowned hairdresser. While<br />

learning his profession Pierre also attended Mass each morning at<br />

the parish church of St. Peter’s on Barclay Street, New York, where<br />

he would spend some time praying before the Blessed Sacrament.<br />

Eventually, Pierre became one of New York’s leading hair<br />

stylists to rich socialite women and he was making a great deal of<br />

money. His piety, integrity and gentle disposition led his clientele to<br />

confide their problems to his and to seek his advice. Often, he would<br />

give them spiritual guidance and console them with the beatitudes<br />

and the wisdom of Jesus. He would also encourage them to pray and<br />

trust in the Divine Providence of God.<br />

Pierre would never disclose to anyone the confidences his<br />

clients told him. When people would try to prise from him some<br />

scandalous gossip about society women, Pierre would reply,<br />

“Toussaint dresses hair, he’s no news journal.”<br />

Pierre became engaged to a young local, slave girl named Juliette. He purchased her freedom<br />

and also the freedom of his sister, Rosalie.<br />

At the same time of Pierre’s engagement, Madame Berard received a letter from Haiti<br />

containing devastating news. Her husband, John, had died unexpectedly from pleurisy at the family<br />

mansion in Haiti. In the intensifying slave rebellion the sugar plantation had been completely<br />

destroyed. Madame Berard also learned that she had lost the entire fortune her husband had invested<br />

over the years for her provision. Now widowed and facing a future of extreme poverty in New York<br />

City, she became deeply depressed.<br />

Saddened by the news of his master’s death and concerned for Madame Berard, Pierre<br />

immediately postponed his wedding to Juliette. Although he now had enough personal wealth to<br />

have purchased his own freedom from slavery, he decided to voluntarily remain a slave to care for<br />

Madame Berard. He did not want her burdened by daily domestic decisions and took complete<br />

charge of running Madame Berard’s household. He bought weekly groceries and paid all the<br />

household expenses.<br />

To preserve Madame Berard’s high social status in New York’s wealthy circles, Pierre<br />

organised and paid for lavish parties for her. He also dressed as her butler and served her affluent<br />

guests. When his sister, Rosalie, disapproved, asking Pierre how he could financially support<br />

Madame Berard while still her slave Pierre replied, I’ve never felt enslaved by her. She’s a lonely<br />

woman who needs compassion.”<br />

Although he became extremely wealthy from hair dressing, Pierre unfortunately suffered<br />

immense discrimination in his life. He was not allowed to ride in a carriage or dine in most New<br />

York restaurants and he was once barred by an usher fron entering a church because of his race.<br />

Pierre endured all this appalling bigotry with great dignity. Some years later Madame Berard<br />

remarried and Pierre continued to financially support her throughout her marriage. In the Spring of<br />

1807 she was diagnosed with tuberculosis and confined to bed. Three months later, a few hours<br />

before she died, Madame Berard finally gave Pierre his freedom. Pierre thanked God for giving her<br />

the courage to free him and that he was able to prevent her from ever<br />

knowing the deprivation of poverty.<br />

Free at last from slavery at the age of forty-one, Pierre married his<br />

long time fiancée Juliette. He now wanted to share his wealth with the<br />

poor people of New York and embarked on many charitable works.<br />

Pierre and his wife opened their home to care for orphaned children<br />

and as a guesthouse for destitute people and priests visiting the city.<br />

Pierre provided food and shelter for New York’s poor people of every<br />

nationality. He opened a school to educate and teach African-American<br />

boys a trade. He gave financial assistance to the Oblate Sisters of<br />

Providence. He ran a credit bureau from his home and helped refugees<br />

find employment. Pierre also raised funds to restore a large Catholic<br />

church in New York, now known as St. Patrick’s Old Cathedral. When<br />

an epidemic of yellow fever spread throughout the city, Pierre, without<br />

regard to the risk to his own health, personally attended to many sick<br />

and dying impoverished people of New York.<br />

When friends complained to Pierre, saying that he always put<br />

other people before himself as though he was still a slave, he answered,<br />

“ I’ve never felt a slave to any man or woman. I am a servant of<br />

Almighty God who made us all. When one of his children is in need,<br />

I am glad to be His slave!”<br />

Pierre was loved by the poor people of New York and called a<br />

saint in his lifetime. Although Pierre and his wife had no children of<br />

their own, when his sister Rosalie died, the couple adopted Rosalie’s<br />

infant daughter, Euphemia. Sadly, she would also die at the age of<br />

fourteen from tuberculosis.<br />

Even in his advanced years, Pierre continued his profession of<br />

hairdresser so that he could continue to help the poor people of New<br />

York. When a friend urged him to retire and enjoy his wealth, Pierre<br />

replied, “I have enough money for myself, but if I stop working I won’t<br />

have enough for others.”<br />

For forty-six years Pierre had regularly attended morning Mass at<br />

St. Peter’s church on Barclay Street, the same church where Mother<br />

Elizabeth Seaton worshipped. Later canonised for her charitable work caring for the poor, Pierre<br />

gave substantial financial assistance to Mother Seaton and her Sisters, helping to establish one of<br />

the first orphanages in New York. Pierre’s wife, Juliette, died in 1851 and two years later, at the age<br />

of eighty-seven, Pierre died on June 30th 1853. His last words were, “God is with me.” When asked<br />

by a priest if he wanted anything he responded, “No, nothing on earth.”<br />

Hundreds of mourners, rich and poor of every race, attended his funeral in St. Peter’s Church.<br />

In his eulogy, the officiating pastor praised Pierre’s kindness, love of God and zeal for his faith,<br />

reminding the mourners, “Many present would feel they had lost one who always had wise counsel<br />

for the rich, words of encouragement for the poor and all would be grateful for having known him.”<br />

Pierre was buried in a cemetery in lower Manhattan. For almost a century after his death<br />

Pierre’s grave remained abandoned and forgotten, until 1941 when a young Catholic priest,<br />

regarding this a great injustice to the memory of a former slave and generous benefactor, discovered<br />

his abandoned grave by chance. Pierre’s body was then transferred in October 1995 from the<br />

cemetery in lower Manhattan and interred in St. Patrick’s Cathedral on Fifth Avenue, New York.<br />

Shortly afterwards in 1995, during an apostolic visit to St. Patrick’s Cathedral, Blessed Pope<br />

John Paul II gave, with esteem, this profoundly poignant tribute to Pierre Toussaint. “Beneath the<br />

high altar of this Cathedral, there is buried the Servant of God, Pierre Toussaint, a married man and<br />

at one time a slave from Haiti. What is so extraordinary about this man? He radiated a most serene<br />

and joyful faith, nourished daily by the Eucharist and visits to the Blessed Sacrament. In the face of<br />

constant, painful discrimination he understood, as few have understood, the meaning of the words,<br />

“Father, forgive them; they do not know what they are doing.”<br />

Blessed Pope John Paul II beatified Pierre Toussaint on March 22nd 1998. Many faithful<br />

worldwide continue to urge the Vatican for the imminent canonisation of Blessed Pierre Toussaint,<br />

who many consider confounded the world by his kindness and generosity in voluntarily remaining<br />

a slave to care for and financially support the widow who had enslaved him.<br />

Well done, girls!<br />

By Peter Hipkiss, teacher and team manager<br />

OOn Saturday 19th May the St Francis’ Catholic<br />

Primary School girls’ football team finally took their<br />

place in the long-awaited National Schools Football<br />

Finals run by the English Schools Football Association. This<br />

moment was the final stop on a long journey that had seen<br />

them conquer all the teams in their path.<br />

Back in October, the girls won the Maidstone district 7-aside<br />

under 11s school football tournament for the third year<br />

running. This then lead them on to the Kent finals in Dover.<br />

Once again they emerged victorious, this time without<br />

conceding a single goal in the whole tournament, and in doing<br />

so booked their place in the London and Southern Counties<br />

tournament at Greenwich. Taking part in this round was a step<br />

further than their previous attempts and the girls were<br />

incredibly excited yet harboured apprehensions about the step<br />

up in the standard of opposition they would face. Yet it turned<br />

out that, despite a shaky start in the competition, the girls had<br />

no need to be fearful as they finally got into their stride in the<br />

group stage and eventually ran out 2-0 winners in extra time in<br />

the final against Lambourne Primary School from Essex. This<br />

amazing run of results, with the girls only losing one game in<br />

all competitions, led them to take their place representing<br />

London and the South East in the National Finals at Watford<br />

Academy.<br />

St Francis’ School supporters –parents, staff and friends –<br />

filled a whole coach to enthusiastically support and cheer the<br />

girls onduring the Watford tournament and it paid dividends as<br />

St Francis’ Girls’ Football Team 2011-2012<br />

the girls put in some rousing team performances with captain<br />

Freya Bailes rattling the wood work in one match and scoring<br />

with an audacious Beckhamesque goal from well inside her<br />

own half in another. However, it was not all plain sailing for<br />

the girls as the standard of opposition was incredibly high, as<br />

would be expected at a National Final. At the end of a very<br />

difficult round of group matches, in which the girls were once<br />

again undefeated, the St Francis girls managed to progress into<br />

the semi-finals.<br />

<strong>The</strong> semi-finals saw the girls play some of their best<br />

football with some resolute defending and fluid attacking<br />

play. Eventually, they emerged 2-0 victors against Orchard<br />

Junior School from Southampton who had previously been<br />

unbeaten all season.<br />

In the final the girls played against Broadstone Middle<br />

School from Poole in Dorset, who they had previously drawn<br />

with in a hard-fought 0-0 draw in the first round of the group<br />

games. However, it was not to provide the icing on the cake<br />

for the girls as Broadstone eventually halted the St Francis’<br />

winning run to claim victory. This did not spoil the day for the<br />

girls, however, as the magnitude of their achievement and the<br />

unerring support of the school buoyed their spirits and they<br />

took great satisfaction in being able to claim that they were<br />

now one of the top two under 11 girls’ football teams in the<br />

country.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Earth is degenerating these days.<br />

Bribery and corruption abound, children no<br />

longer mind their parents, every man<br />

wants to write a book and it is evident that<br />

the end of the world is fast approaching.<br />

- Assyrian Tablet c.2,800 BC<br />

6


Why choose St. Simon Stock Catholic School<br />

rather than a State Grammar School?<br />

Ibelieve that the Catholic community in Maidstone and<br />

Malling needs and desires a true Catholic<br />

Comprehensive School which aims to develop the<br />

potential ability of all students from Oxbridge level to those<br />

with Additional Educational Needs.To become a Catholic<br />

High School is not an option. However, with a number of<br />

Catholic parents choosing to select Grammar School places<br />

rather than support their Catholic Comprehensive School<br />

in the past few years, I have concerns that the true<br />

Comprehensiveness is being diluted.<br />

Academic Success<br />

In 2009, the School had two students who gained<br />

Oxbridge places. Since I arrived in 2010, four students have<br />

gained Oxbridge places in Maths, Physics [2] and Biology.<br />

Several students have gained places at the Russell Group of<br />

Universities e.g. the Universities of Warwick, Manchester,<br />

Bristol, and good universities such as East Anglia, etc.<br />

<strong>The</strong>se students could have gained places at State Grammar<br />

Schools; others weren’t to the standard of a Grammar<br />

School place and have been nurtured at the Catholic<br />

School towards the leading Universities.<br />

Some of those Catholic parents selecting Grammar<br />

Schools for their child are ignoring excellent examination<br />

results. In 2009, St. Simon Stock Catholic School achieved<br />

better results than three of the Grammar Schools at<br />

Advanced Level. In the mid-2000s, the School was<br />

achieving 59%-62% of students gaining 5+ ‘good’<br />

G.C.S.E. grades. Since 2009, the results have read 71%,<br />

86%, 84% which is an increase of more than 20% in 3<br />

years. <strong>The</strong> recent Government Raiseonline document<br />

shows the School to be very good-outstanding on a<br />

number of academic areas including the English<br />

Baccalaureate. If your child is academically able, they<br />

should and do succeed in attaining the grades for the<br />

highest Universities open to them. As the former Head of<br />

the highest achieving non selective School in Wiltshire, our<br />

2011 G.C.S.E. results at St. Simon Stock would have placed<br />

us 2nd in the Wiltshire non-selective League tables. As the<br />

highest achieving non-selective School in Wiltshire only<br />

one student gained an Oxbridge place compared to the 6<br />

places offered to St. Simon Stock between 2009-12. One<br />

of our Staff recently was awarded Teacher of the Year by<br />

the Kent Messenger awards.<br />

Sporting Achievements<br />

This year we have two students who have represented<br />

England at under-20 level for athletics and women’s<br />

football respectively. Our equestrian team beat leading<br />

Independent Schools and Schools with equestrian centres<br />

at Hickstead during the year with Katie McParland of Year<br />

Brendan J. Wall Headteacher<br />

10 winning many competitions. <strong>The</strong> Year 8 team won the<br />

Regional Final of a national football competition before<br />

losing in the semi-finals [a victory would have meant<br />

playing at Wembley Stadium]. Representative honours for<br />

sports at local and County level are common amongst the<br />

best students. Our P.E. Staff were voted ‘Maidstone P.E.<br />

Department of the Year’ for 2010 and 2011. If you are<br />

able, you can reach the highest level in your sport by<br />

attending our School.<br />

Pastoral Care<br />

Government and Diocesan Inspectors have praised the<br />

pastoral care of the School as outstanding. We were<br />

selected as one of only 2 secondary schools in Kent to be<br />

Lead Behaviour schools supporting other schools with their<br />

behaviour and only one of 20 schools nationally. In 2007,<br />

the OFSTED team had concerns about the welfare of the<br />

vulnerable pupil in the School but in the 2010 inspection<br />

OFSTED felt the improvement was outstanding. We see<br />

ourselves as fulfilling the Christian message of the Good<br />

Shepherd in the care given to students. Recently I was a<br />

member of our School party trip to Austria and Germany<br />

and the behaviour of our students was excellent. Our<br />

children are known and loved by us. <strong>The</strong>y are not simply an<br />

academic child to gain qualifications. Our aim is to develop<br />

the whole person and many students including 6th form<br />

students can testify to the support shown to them.<br />

Facilities<br />

Since 2010, we have received £450,000 from the Diocese<br />

to improve the roofs and windows of the site and another<br />

£200,000 from Kent L.A. for roofs. <strong>The</strong> health and safety<br />

of the School has been much improved. <strong>The</strong> Sports Hall<br />

and the 6th form facilities are impressive. In September<br />

2012, the Governors have agreed to an ambitious two year<br />

programme that will provide<br />

• A new entrance and reception area for parents and<br />

visitors;<br />

• A new student entrance;<br />

• An auditorium for the main Hall which includes a lecture<br />

theatre facility;<br />

• New Food Technology rooms;<br />

• New area for Music;<br />

• Improved study facilities for the 6th form.<br />

Spiritual Life<br />

What does it profit a man to gain 5+ ‘good’ G.C.S.E.s/3 A<br />

levels and lose his soul?<br />

We offer a Catholic Christian education which views<br />

the whole person as a unique child of God. We try to<br />

provide opportunities for Christian growth which non-faith<br />

State Grammar Schools do not provide-where are the<br />

explicitly Christian assemblies, the prayers during the<br />

school day, the retreats, the voluntary Friday mass, the<br />

catering which ensures fish is served on Friday to meet the<br />

Church’s recommendation, the celebration of the Eucharist<br />

with 1,000 other students? At St. Simon Stock Catholic<br />

School, they have opportunities to seek the face of Christ<br />

and meet him in prayer and learn religious education as<br />

agreed by the Catholic Church. <strong>The</strong> usual claim is that we<br />

can teach them the faith at home. In more than 30 years<br />

of Catholic education, very few are able to meet the<br />

content of a Catholic School where 10% of the curriculum<br />

is devoted to religious education [with spiritual<br />

development as part of other lessons and as part of the<br />

extra-curricular on offer]. This term our pupils have had<br />

retreats, represented the School at Southwark Diocesan<br />

Youth events and links with Catholic Schools belonging to<br />

the Carmelite and De La Salle religious orders.<br />

<strong>The</strong> key aspect of catholic education is the journey<br />

from pre-school playgroup to leaving School at 18 years as<br />

an educated Catholic student ready to share our Christian<br />

beliefs and values and be able to combat atheistic,<br />

humanistic and agnostic views in University life. Parents<br />

who decide not to send their child to the Catholic School<br />

weaken the all age vision of Catholic education offered by<br />

the Church. It can lead to a spiral of reducing the<br />

comprehensive nature of our schools.<br />

In short, St. Simon Stock Catholic School was a good<br />

school with outstanding features on my appointment in<br />

September 2010 following a successful OFSTED inspection<br />

and remains so as we move towards becoming an<br />

outstanding Catholic School. We have different things to<br />

offer compared to the Grammar Schools but we need all of<br />

our Catholic parents with children of all abilities to support<br />

our Catholic School. <strong>The</strong> success of St. Simon Stock as a<br />

beacon amongst the apartheid of Grammar and High<br />

Schools has occurred because the highest ability have<br />

helped those of lesser ability to succeed who in turn have<br />

taught the more able about aspects of academic life such<br />

as resilience, overcoming obstacles to learning, developing<br />

at a different rate. Those of middle ability when they<br />

started the School have matured and grown to become<br />

top set students as they progressed through the School.<br />

I am genuinely astonished that Catholic parents choose<br />

to go to the Grammar Schools at a time when St. Simon<br />

Stock Catholic School has the best academic results in its<br />

history; outstanding pastoral care for individuals; an<br />

outstanding opportunity for Catholic Christian spirituality<br />

and improving facilities. Above all, our students are happy<br />

and successful.<br />

Born in Chesterfield, Derbyshire to Irish parents [Father came from Waterford, Mother from Mayo] Brendan Wall is the eldest of three boys [one brother lives in<br />

Dublin and the other brother in Spain]. Married, Brendan has three grown-up children-the eldest girl is a lawyer in the City of London, the boy works with a Church<br />

of England parish in London and the youngest girl is studying <strong>The</strong>ology at King’s College, London.<br />

Educated at De La Salle in Sheffield and Kintbury in Berkshire, at aged 13 years he left home and trained to become a De La Salle Brother taking temporary<br />

promises until he left the Brothers in his mid-20s. Following a degree in Religious Studies in 1980, Brendan joined the teaching staff at a De La Salle school and two<br />

years later became Head of R.E. at an independent school for girls in Reading. T wo years later, he became the Head of R.E. at one of the largest Catholic<br />

C omprehensive schools in Kirkby, a poor area outside Liverpool, for five years. In 1989 Brendan became Deputy Head [for 10 years] and later Head [for 10 years] of<br />

the highest achieving non-selective school in Wiltshire. During his time as Head, he became interim Director of Clifton Catholic Schools and Colleges; Chair of Wiltshire<br />

Headteachers Secondary and Special Schools; gained six ‘outstanding’ grades for Leadership and Management by Catholic and State inspectors between 2001-2010;<br />

became a National Leader for Education.<br />

Archbishop comes to St Francis’ School<br />

On Wednesday, 2nd May 2012, Archbishop Peter visited St Francis Primary<br />

School, Maidstone, to bless the new<br />

extension to the school buildings.<br />

Archbishop Peter with Mr David Bray<br />

(Headteacher), Mrs Angela Black<br />

(Chair of Governors) and Canon John<br />

Clark (Vice Chair)<br />

<strong>The</strong> Archbishop chatting to some of the children<br />

<strong>The</strong> Catenian Association was founded<br />

in Manchester in 1908. It is a<br />

brotherhood of over 10,000<br />

practising Catholic men. <strong>The</strong> Catholic faith<br />

and the family are the bedrocks of the<br />

Association. <strong>The</strong>re are Catenian Circles in<br />

Africa, Australia, Ireland, India and the UK.<br />

Maidstone Circle was founded in 1948.<br />

A core aim is to advance the interests of<br />

young Catholics and assist them in their<br />

choice or pursuit of their career. <strong>The</strong> Catenian<br />

Bursary Fund helps young Catholics between<br />

16 and 25 to take part in a community-based<br />

project at home or abroad, which has a clear<br />

benefit for others as well as widening the life<br />

experience of the participant.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Catenian Association gives an<br />

opportunity to:<br />

• Meet socially with other Catholic men<br />

with similar values<br />

• Become part of a close, yet<br />

international, community offering lifelong<br />

support and friendship to members and their<br />

families<br />

• Enjoy interesting and varied social<br />

events for families<br />

• Provide collective support for the<br />

church and clergy<br />

• Receive spiritual and practical<br />

support in times of difficulty<br />

Maidstone Circle has 35 members and<br />

meets monthly. It has a wide range of social<br />

events for Brothers and families. <strong>Parishioner</strong>s<br />

of Catholic Churches in Maidstone, Bearsted<br />

and West Malling are most welcome to come<br />

along to our events. <strong>The</strong>re is no obligation to<br />

join the association.<br />

<strong>The</strong> St. Francis Church web site<br />

www.stfrancisparish.org.uk has all the<br />

information about the Catenians and who to<br />

contact about the Bursary Fund, our social<br />

events and joining the Catenians.<br />

7


Forty one days after leaving Canterbury I am in<br />

Switzerland and walking with Jan, the Dutchman,<br />

towards Orbe. It is a lovely walk towards the<br />

Alps.<br />

<strong>The</strong> first hotel experiences in<br />

Switzerland were bad. In Sainte-Croix<br />

my bedroom was noisy and the window<br />

was broken, and now in Orbe the<br />

customer relations left much to be<br />

desired. Both places were of course<br />

quite expensive.<br />

Near Rances we saw a lady<br />

waving from the other side of a field.<br />

When we realized that she was waving<br />

to us we came to a halt. She crossed<br />

the field towards us and invited us to<br />

join her and her husband for coffee and<br />

chocolates. She had noticed our<br />

backpacks which reminded her of the<br />

marvellous experience she had walking<br />

to Santiago de Compostella a few years<br />

ago. Jan and I were able to relate our<br />

stories of that pilgrimage.<br />

<strong>The</strong> route skirts Lausanne, then<br />

onto Villeneuve and St. Maurice, where<br />

we stayed in the Abbey and met a Swiss<br />

journalist called Phillipe. He was<br />

stunned to here about our bad<br />

experiences and was apologetic. I think<br />

he thought we were two grumpy old<br />

men. Over the next few days we met up with Phillipe<br />

and he promised us a mention in the article for his<br />

newspaper ‘24 heures’.<br />

On through Martigny and Orsieres to Bourg-Saint-<br />

Pierre. <strong>The</strong> route was a challenging steady climb with<br />

narrow pathways and steep cliffs compensated by<br />

dramatic scenery. It was a very difficult climb in very<br />

hot weather to the summit of the Great St. Bernard Pass<br />

(8114 feet), where there was still some snow.<br />

We stayed in the Hospice founded by St. Bernard<br />

of Aosta in 1050. It has never closed and today still<br />

offers hospitality to travellers. It is now run by priests<br />

active in the surrounding community plus lay<br />

volunteers. We were able to attend Mass and the<br />

monastic offices on Saturday and Sunday and rest our<br />

stiff legs. Tomorrow the descent into Italy.<br />

It was hot in the morning walking down on stony<br />

paths through the Italian Alps, then nice and cool in a<br />

wood to Gignod. We were given a very warm and<br />

friendly pilgrim welcome by Pierre, the proprietor of the<br />

Hotel Belle Vue.<br />

<strong>The</strong> hot weather continued as we descended to<br />

Aosta the regional capital. Next day I decided to leave<br />

at 6am to avoid the heat. Jan would catch up later. Ten<br />

minutes after leaving it rained heavily and I got drowned<br />

walking to Nus.<br />

Next Pont Saint-Martin and onto Ivrea. <strong>The</strong><br />

Cathedral here has the tomb of Blessed Thaddeus<br />

McCarthy who left Ireland for Rome in the 14th<br />

century. Did he make it?<br />

I was now very worried about the stitching tearing<br />

in the straps of my backpack. Through Alice Castello,<br />

Santhia and Vercelli to Robbio, I had been asking shoe<br />

repairers, to no avail, if they would mend it for me.<br />

In Mortara the cobbler was not interested in doing<br />

a repair. I passed an upholstery shop which was<br />

closed. <strong>The</strong>re was a long notice on the door which I<br />

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My path to Rome<br />

(Part 2)<br />

by Patrick Horgan<br />

Pilgrims’ end, St Peter”s, Rome - Patrick is second from left.<br />

could not translate. I was becoming desperate. If my<br />

backpack gave way I was sunk. I had not seen an<br />

outdoor equipment shop anywhere on the route.<br />

I went into a church and lit a candle and said a<br />

prayer near a statue of a smiling Padre Pio. Later I went<br />

back to the upholstery shop which was open. Two men<br />

were talking amidst chairs, materials and tools in a very<br />

untidy shop. I explained the problem and the men<br />

discussed in Italian, then one left. Marco, the<br />

upholsterer, examined the backpack and tried to<br />

manoeuvre it into a suitable position for stitching. <strong>The</strong><br />

size of the bag made this very difficult. He sat me down<br />

and gave me a bottle of iced water to drink.<br />

While Marco was working I noticed pictures of the<br />

smiling Padre Pio on most of the walls in the shop.<br />

Marco worked for an hour, experimenting how he could<br />

carry out a repair. He eventually succeeded in repairing<br />

the bag. What a relief! We spoke through a translation<br />

on his computer. He would take no money for his work,<br />

and spoke of altruism and my journey. A miracle?<br />

After Mortara came Garlasco, Pavia and Santa<br />

Christina, where we received a wonderful reception.<br />

<strong>The</strong> parish offers hospitality to pilgrims and has an<br />

active youth club. We attended Mass, had dinner then<br />

sat talking to the Priest and parishioners.<br />

Next day to Orio Litta and prepare to cross the<br />

River Po by boat. Danilo the ferryman is based on the<br />

other side of the river and must be telephoned to bring<br />

his little boat over.<br />

On the morning of the 25th July (my wife<br />

Dorothy’s birthday) Danilo was late and arrived in a very<br />

dilapidated boat that just about took Jan, a young Italian<br />

couple and myself. He told us that the motor had been<br />

stolen from his usual boat.<br />

When we reached the other side Danilo offered us<br />

drinks, and showed us the records he kept of who had<br />

crossed, their countries of origin, etc. He was an expert<br />

on the history of Via Francigena. That night we stayed<br />

Aleksandra Firlej<br />

Kacper Krzykowski<br />

Olaf Ryznar<br />

Igor Zo<br />

Mia Mudge Walker<br />

Samuel Rogers<br />

Ella Protizane<br />

1st Communion in<br />

India<br />

Jenet Benny<br />

Deliz Dony<br />

Derik Dony<br />

Sabe Santhosh<br />

1st Communion In<br />

Poland<br />

Pawel Kosowski<br />

Wiktoria Rudzki<br />

Mateusz Sidor<br />

In Poland at Easter<br />

Reece Eldergill<br />

<strong>The</strong> Lord bless you and keep you; the<br />

Lord make His face shine upon you<br />

and be gracious unto you; the Lord<br />

lift His countenance upon you and<br />

give you peace.<br />

Numbers 6:22-27<br />

Easter People 2012<br />

Emma and Cary Bitz and their<br />

children Charlotte and William<br />

Hazel and Luke Anderson and<br />

their children Rachel, Lucy and<br />

Alex<br />

Jenna Hunter<br />

Stacy Rright<br />

Gail Eldergill and her son Reece<br />

Yvonne Menschig<br />

Mark Reeves<br />

David Ellis<br />

Christine Butler<br />

Amanda Jayne Evans<br />

Daniel Jeaves<br />

in the Basilica Sanctuario Convento St. Maria di<br />

Campagna in Piacenza.<br />

In Medesano at the excellent Oratoria Don Bosco I<br />

was able to use a washing machine for the first time<br />

since leaving home. I hasten to say that I<br />

had been washing my clothes by hand each<br />

night.!<br />

We were now walking through the<br />

territory of Parma through the beautiful<br />

Apennine mountains. Near Berceto we were<br />

sitting outside a hostel after a days walk,<br />

when we saw a man approaching slowly.<br />

When he reached us I asked if he had<br />

blisters. He showed us his feet, and I was<br />

reminded of mine two months earlier. I went<br />

to my room to get some of the treatments<br />

that I had used. It could be days before we<br />

reached a pharmacy. Meanwhile, Jan<br />

proceeded to adjust his backpack so that the<br />

weight was more evenly distributed. We<br />

later found that the man was called Albano<br />

and from Northern Italy. We nicknamed him<br />

‘Mr. Blister’, which he liked. A couple of<br />

days later we would meet two young Italians<br />

Emiliano and Stefano, who we would also<br />

walk with to Rome.<br />

Resting outside the Cathedral in the<br />

lovely town of Lucca where Puccini was<br />

born, I was pleasantly surprised to hear a<br />

cellist playing ‘Danny Boy’.<br />

We were now staying in the same accommodation<br />

as the Italians we had met. Albano would produce wine<br />

each night after dinner as a thank you to Jan and I. Jan<br />

did not drink wine!<br />

It was now early August and the further south we<br />

walked the higher the temperature. Through beautiful<br />

Tuscany to San Gimignano with its towers,<br />

Monteriggioni and getting lost in woods before Siena.<br />

That lovely city was crowded with tourists and very hot.<br />

<strong>The</strong> next stages took us through San Quirico d’Orcia,<br />

Acquapendente and to Montefiascone on the<br />

celebration of the Assumption of Our Lady. <strong>The</strong> town<br />

was open until 2am., and fireworks could be heard from<br />

the surrounding villages.<br />

Viterbo is the capital of its province and a medieval<br />

town. <strong>The</strong>n Sutri, La Storta and ROME.<br />

All along the Via Francigena I had been having my<br />

‘Pilgrim Passport’ stamped in order to qualify for the<br />

‘Testimonium’, which is a certificate of authentication,<br />

on production in St. Peters. Near the museum I was<br />

directed to the Sacristy and taken to the office of Don<br />

Bruno Vercese who issues the Testimonium.<br />

About twenty walking pilgrims(excluding the<br />

thousands queuing outside) arrived on 18 August 2011<br />

and Don Bruno took us on a private tour down the steps<br />

to the Clementine Chapel, where behind the altar there<br />

is a slab of red stone concealing the bones of St. Peter.<br />

We then prayed. and read a short passage from the<br />

bible. It was a great privilege.<br />

It is said that a pilgrimage is a metaphor for life.<br />

All the events, good and bad, the trials and the joys,<br />

condensed on this occasion into three months.<br />

Physically it took a while to recover. Mentally a little<br />

longer to process everything that had happened. On the<br />

walk I prayed for family, friends and parishioners.<br />

I would like to thank Dorothy for her forbearance<br />

and encouragement.<br />

CHANGE OF NAME.<br />

Re: the article in the last <strong>Parishioner</strong> about<br />

Michael Voris and RealCatholicTV.<br />

<strong>The</strong> name of Michael’s TV station has been<br />

changed to ChurchMilitant.TV (Google it)<br />

As he says, “New name on the dogtag, same<br />

battleplan for the salvation of souls.”<br />

Marriages 2011<br />

December<br />

William Grace & Lucy F J Coward<br />

James P Leach Sheehan & Katie E Jones<br />

2012<br />

February<br />

Tom R Woodhams & Laura T O’Kane<br />

April<br />

Vincent J D Ludden & Barbara A<br />

McGrath<br />

Jerzy Wardecki & Matgorzata Wardecka<br />

Simon I Waigo & Helene D Adesida<br />

May<br />

Kalunder Singh Bahia & Helen C Difford<br />

June<br />

Adam L Hornett & Danielle C Jones<br />

July<br />

Tomasz Olik & Marta M Kmiec<br />

Baptisms 2011<br />

July<br />

Sebastian Elliot<br />

Carson Edmans<br />

Matilda Grace Bicker<br />

Mia Zaykowska<br />

Maria Frances Harris<br />

Omelemo Chibanda<br />

Abigail Lisa Collins<br />

Jude Peter Lee<br />

Lucie Margaret Aney<br />

Henry Steven Payne<br />

August<br />

Michael James<br />

Oluwatayo<br />

Ojemuyiwa<br />

Skye Bradley Bersoza<br />

Lucas<br />

Liam Mateer<br />

Eden Iris Gilbert<br />

Cordelia Evelyn de<br />

Mouilpied Thompson<br />

Daniel Matthew Paul<br />

Pearson<br />

Matilda Meskone<br />

Jude Henry March<br />

Matilda Oatherine<br />

O’Shea<br />

Aston Joseph<br />

Castellani<br />

Danicah Mae<br />

Justiniano<br />

Ben Maurice Bayjou<br />

September<br />

Aurelia Lili<br />

Majewska-Aliaj<br />

Grace Maisie Emmott<br />

Alana Sophia Chell<br />

Kacper<br />

Przewiezlikowski<br />

Oliver George Mark<br />

Meston<br />

Matthew Joseph<br />

Cripps<br />

Xavi Anthony Nuez<br />

Rhaine Yzabelle Pinili<br />

Julia Stasiak<br />

October<br />

Lea Charlie<br />

Szembrowicz<br />

Oliver Samuel John<br />

Osborn<br />

Rukshaan Salvendira<br />

Shreayaa Salvendira<br />

Francis Imameti<br />

Bassey<br />

Reuben Peter Howard<br />

Finley Antony Howard<br />

Gabriel Piotr Kuklinski<br />

Anaya Faith Peiris<br />

Maya Natalia<br />

Chrzanowska<br />

November<br />

Darryl Junior<br />

Nguessue<br />

Kava Maria Aba Sosin<br />

Samuel James Balzan<br />

Wiktor Eukasiewicz<br />

Michelle Matylda<br />

Biecaszewska<br />

Vanessa Maria<br />

Leszczynska<br />

Samuel Peter Jack<br />

Rogers<br />

Joseph Matthew<br />

Samuel Rogers<br />

Fraser Samuel Rogers<br />

Jack Anthony Graham<br />

Hoey<br />

Leon Marian<br />

Dzikowski<br />

Filip Orszulak<br />

Zachary Gilham<br />

Olivia Narza-Wegrzyn<br />

December<br />

Reece Eldergill<br />

Madison EldergillJmia<br />

Eldergill<br />

Cameron James<br />

Martin<br />

George Benjamin<br />

Phillips<br />

Jakub Bucko<br />

Ethan Szydlik<br />

Oliver Seaton<br />

Mcdowell<br />

Jakub Narza<br />

Kevina Oniscenko<br />

daniel onyshchenka<br />

Filip Michal Makala<br />

Eryk Wiejaczka<br />

2012<br />

January<br />

Isabel Grace<br />

Kennardmalvina<br />

Regina Ozog<br />

Alan Glowa<br />

Julian Karnas<br />

Laura Boluza<br />

Julia Ozdoba<br />

February<br />

Chantelle Horton<br />

Malcolm John Horton<br />

Kiona Grabriella<br />

Horton<br />

Kodi Horton<br />

Braiden Damian<br />

McGuinness<br />

Alex Ladniak<br />

Jessica Grazyna Jones<br />

March<br />

Adam Oskar<br />

Szatkowski<br />

Julia Natasza<br />

Tejkowska<br />

Alexander Adam<br />

Gmach<br />

James Raner Miranda<br />

Louis Kacper<br />

Ostrowski<br />

Louis Joseph Slavik-<br />

Smith<br />

Samuel Peter Scott<br />

Anthony Widden<br />

Oliver Dritan Pullumbi<br />

Kaleb Nicholas<br />

Pannett<br />

Freya Fosher<br />

Emilia Louise Hawker<br />

April<br />

Max Robinson<br />

Robert Wila<br />

Luke Daniel Anderson<br />

Gail Teresa Eldergill<br />

Stacy Joy Wright<br />

Emma Caroline Bitz<br />

Cary Dale Bitz<br />

Jenna Gail Hunter<br />

Alex James Anderson<br />

Michalina Natalia<br />

Kubiak<br />

William Peter Muller<br />

Benjamin George<br />

Bronislaw Ward<br />

Adife Deborah<br />

Kathleen<br />

Jacob Michael<br />

Landman<br />

Amora Leah Knowles<br />

Abigail Barcik<br />

Wojciech Oiwier<br />

Ferfecki<br />

Maya Ewa Ignaczak<br />

May<br />

Philip Albin Sitarz<br />

5th may 2012<br />

isabella syldatk<br />

Zosia Syldatk<br />

Lamal Aeksander<br />

Khawaja<br />

Luca Stefan Gabriel<br />

Winek<br />

Finley Reiss Stapley<br />

Alex Eukasz<br />

Tomaszewski<br />

Elena Maria Warchol<br />

Julita Emma Warchol<br />

Joseph James<br />

Nicholson<br />

Gabriela Gomes de<br />

Albuquerque<br />

Leandro Gomes Silva<br />

Ashlyn Rachel Joseph<br />

June<br />

Oliwia Jasinska<br />

Freddie Joseph<br />

Connelly<br />

Austin Timoth Price<br />

Jack Jonathan Carkin<br />

Zokra<br />

Poppy Angelia Tolson<br />

Olivia Mary Fuller<br />

Harry Piotr Podolski<br />

Oscar Piotr Podolski<br />

Eliza joy Podolska<br />

Connor Shaun<br />

Chapman<br />

Deaths 2011<br />

July<br />

Helen Kitney<br />

Derek Harry Clinton<br />

Carrie Down<br />

August<br />

Trevor Brian Adams<br />

<strong>The</strong>adora Yousden<br />

October<br />

John Finn<br />

Henry James<br />

Tom Egan<br />

Josephine Newman<br />

December<br />

Archie Eoin Morris<br />

Eileen Beeney<br />

Barbara Power<br />

David Hughes<br />

2012<br />

January<br />

Ian Michael Wigston<br />

Joseph Kane<br />

Olive Mabel Nicol<br />

Carole Ann Mcauley<br />

Maria Murichie Miller<br />

Alfons Szwarc<br />

February<br />

Harriett Stanley<br />

Juliette Baynton<br />

Bridget Considine<br />

Patrick Malone<br />

Mario Smitti<br />

Gaetano Lembo<br />

March<br />

Iris Margarette<br />

Sullivan<br />

Christina Hyatt<br />

Krzysztof Wrona<br />

April<br />

Gordon Kitney<br />

Bernard Kelk<br />

Thomas de la Rue<br />

John Ascott<br />

Stephen Harris<br />

May<br />

Nellie Minchella<br />

Kevin Henderson Bell<br />

Sheila Johnston<br />

June<br />

John Mcardle<br />

John (Sean) Harkin<br />

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