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TRUTH & REASON
be all of you.
SUNDAY, MAY 17, 2015 ...NOT IN THISDAY STYLE? THEN YOU’RE NOT IN STYLE
Kehinde Bankole
OMOTU BISSONG
LINDA OSIFO
MARCY DOLAPO ONI
Michelle Dede
Desperate!

OLUSUPO SHASORE
FEMI ADENIYI-WILLIAMS
OLANIKE
DE SOUZA
OLUWOLE ROTIMI, EVELYN REWANE-FABYAM, MRS. REWANE
OLU FALOMO
MODELE SHONIBARE
& SUPO SHONIBARE
SAM AMUKA
YINKA SAMUEL & KEHINDE DINA
BAMBO ADESANYA
KEHINDE SMITH
YEMI ADEOLA
MODUPE SAGOE
YEJIDE AYENI
GROOM’s FATHER, ALABA SHONIBARE; BRIDE’s MOTHER, ATEMA AKINDELE;
GROOM’s MOTHER, OLUWA KEMI SHONIBARE & BRIDE’s FATHER, BODE AKINDELE
SENA ANTHONY &
DAISY DANJUMA
BISOLA
GIWA-OSAGIE
BODE RHODES-VIVOUR
MODUPE OGUNTADE
BISMARK REWANE
The new couple,
MOJISOLA & SIMI SHONIBARE
STEPHEN & TAIWO
KOLA BALOGUN
MOJISOLA & SIMI BECOME ONE
By Alexander Oviazee
Recently the Akindele family (parents of the bride) and
the Shonibare family (parents of the groom) came
together to celebrate the wedding engagement of
their children Mojisola Akindele and Simi Shonibare.
The event took place at the Landmark Events centre
and Lagos came to a standstill on that day when all
roads led to the venue of the event.
Both families are large so it came as no surrpise that
the hall was filled to the brim with the creme de la
creme of society. Both families left no stone unturned
to ensure the engagement of their children was an
evening beffiting of kings and queens. There was
a colourful array of exquisite fabrics displayed not
to mention the jaw-dropping decor of the venue
and the tastful dishes served. It was a delight for the
guests who shared the wonderful experience with
the newly wedded couple and their families. All
together, it was a beautiful event for both celebrants,
the hosts as well as family and friends that graced
the occassion.
photographed By Mubo Peters
SIMI SHONIBARE
MOJISOLA AKINDELE
EBISAN REWANE
SOJI ADEBOWALE & TAYO AYENI
AYONA TRIMNELL
JOHN ABEBE
LADUN SIJUWADE
DERIN DISU & FOLAKE
ST. MATHEW DANIEL

STYLE & DESIGN
THISDAY Style
Vol. 20, No. 7327 Sunday, May 17, 2015
THISDAY Style
Vol. 20, No. 7327 Sunday, May 17, 2015
STYLE & DESIGN
Everyone’s Wearing…
Shift Dresses
BY Konye Chelsea Nwabogor
It’s always tempting to try the latest most elaborate trends, but sometimes you
just want to slip on a dress and head out the door--without sacrificing style, of
course. If you’re interested in a fashionable, easy-to-execute option, get ready
to rejoice because we’ve found the perfect piece: the Shift Dress.
To achieve
a simple, yet
fashionable and sweet
aura, compliment your cleanstraight-cut
dress with minimal
accessories, and combine the
outfit with sandals and a
tiny clutch.
To enhance
the glamorous look of
the dress, choose a neutral
coloured dress but complement
the look with some fun or
sparkling accessories. Added to
this, elegant high heels and a
clutch are all you need to
complete the look.
10 Ways to get Happy
BY Edirin Okumagba
Practice kindness
Do something nice for someone else, whether it’s
someone you know or a stranger. It can be spur of the
moment or planned out. You can do the good deed
anonymously or help the beneficiary directly.
Get spiritual
There’s plenty of research showing that people who
participate in church, synagogue, mosque or other
preferred spiritual community are happier. Even reading
spiritual literature can be helpful. Not religious? There are
also ethical societies and movements that get people
thinking beyond themselves.
Keep a gratitude journal
People who keep a weekly gratitude journal actually
do more exercise, have fewer physical problems and
feel more optimistic about the coming week and life in
general. according to gratitude researcher Davis.
Buy experiences, not stuff
A vacation with loved ones or buying tickets to a
show or concert will make you happier than buying
another gadget. Those gifts help you feel closer to others.
Instead of buying the jersey of your favorite football
player, for example, buy a pair of tickets to a game, which
will allow you to spend time with a friend or a loved one.
Buy stuff that creates experiences
So you still want to buy something? How about gear
that allows you to have experiences in your areas of
interest, such as games or music? Experiential products
such as sporting equipment or musical instruments
are a special class of material items that allow you an
opportunity to engage with people you care about.
Even board games count, since you can play them with a
friend.
Stop hanging out on
social media so much
People who spend more time on Facebook and other
social media report lower self-esteem, less connection
to others, fewer positive emotions and even more
homesickness . Social media also evokes upward social
comparison, often leaving us feeling worse about
ourselves,.
Stop checking your email
SUIT UP!
People who check their email or phones all the time
are more stressed than people who check do so less
often. We know it’s hard to do. People find it difficult to
resist the temptation, and yet resisting this temptation
reduces their stress.
Focus on time, not money
Although people typically focus on money, focusing
on time often helps people realize that time is a precious
resource. That knowledge helps them be more deliberate
in how they spend it. This leads people to spend their
time in ways that are more fulfilling and that make them
happier, like connecting with the people in their lives.
Lose yourself in your activities
Do you remember the time you “lost” yourself
because you were having so much fun playing tennis,
football, sailing, learning a new musical instrument,
woodworking or baking mince-pie? Increase the number
of opportunities to “lose” yourself in a new or old activity
that occupies your brain and body.
Embrace failure
People who succeed often fail many times before
they succeed. Success requires acquiring experiences
and learning lessons. Very often, the best way, and
sometimes the only way, to acquire that experience and
learn those lessons is through failure: trying things one
way, realizing what doesn’t work and then making the
appropriate changes.
BY Karen Eloke Young
toke makinwa
bolanle olukanni
The good thing
about straight mini
dress is that the cut works
for all women, as long as it is
combined with the correct shoes
and accessories. Remember that the
length of the dress has to end up at
or above the knee to enhance a
more flattering silhouette.
ezinne akudo
Bright Okpocha
Basket Mouth
Uti Nwachukwu
Mike Ezuronye
Praiz
Ebuka Obi-Uchendu
Seeing a beautifully designed suit on a good-looking man elevates
my spirit, gives me that tingle in places I would rather not discuss and
helps me identify a man to whom details matter. My kind of man. It is
nonsensical to think that what a man wears doesn’t really matter and
he can wear whatever he wants and get away with it. Most men don’t
take clothing as seriously as women do and I find this a very dangerous
thing. It is important for both sexes to understand that whether
we like it or not, clothes speak volumes and we generally make
decisions based on people’s appearances. Although clothes do not
essentially make the man; but when he is made, his clothes greatly
improve his appearance and sense of worth. Here’s to these dashing
fellas rocking their blazers/suits in the different ways they know how!
Ay Makun

Lifestyle
Your Personal Wealth
with Ononuju Irukwu
Reactions to Married Finances & Should
you declare all your assets?
Last week, we looked at the topics Should
You Declare All Your Assets To Your Spouse
and some thoughts on Managing Married
Finances.
I would like to share some of the
responses I received on the articles so we have a
robust perspective on the issues
My dear Ononuju,
I have been following your column on Personal Wealth
and I must say your insights into Married Finances are
interesting to say the least. When I remember a past
article about a wife who earns more than her husband
and how to cope, I felt that they were speaking to me
personally. Ladies my advice from the perspective of
hindsight is as follows.
When you as a woman earns a lot of money NEVER
NEVER EVER let your husband know how much exactly
you have made. If it is N200,000.00 tell him you only
made N20,000= or less! The day he realises you have
made big bucks is the day he begins to abdicate his
responsibilities.
Invest your money wisely on physical assets. Property
especially. Buy in the name of your children or in your
maiden name that way he cannot claim it for his own
in case you suddenly die before him. Many women
have died suddenly and their husbands have either sat
on their property to the detriment of their children or
disposed of the said properties to take a new wife and
not pay school fees.
Even if you earn big bucks make sure you continue to
ask for your entitlements, housekeeping and payment of
school fees. Also payment of domestic staff salaries. If you
have a sincere husband and he is experiencing a shortfall
and he tells you, you can then make a contribution to
either the school fees or domestics salaries, however let
him know that it is a temporary arrangement.
As a mother I took over school uniforms, books and
lunch and that has been my contribution. Sometimes I
have had to pay fees but other times, it was a joint effort
though lately, it has been two thirds: one third. I leave
you to imagine where the ratio falls.
The situation differs from household to household. On
Hajia and Kunle, maybe all Kunle does is pay rent. We
don’t know the full story.
Have a blessed week.
Mama Ola
My Dear Ononuju,
I read with interest your column in THISDAY STYLE
today and decided that it is because it’s April Fool’s Day
that the joke is on women. I observe that in your tips for
the Groom you are silent on”sharing income with your
Bride”.
You bravely include it as a tip to the Bride. Hello? So
many women suffer through marriages totally unaware
of the streams of income their husband has (or doesn’t
as the case may be). Worse still, some men die and a
big chunk of their assets, insurance policy proceeds,
entitlements, landed property and other worldly goods
are lost because these were a secret from the spouse in
their lifetime. So, what was all the sweat about?
Conversely, many women live in blissful ignorance
of the family’s financial liabilities. Women are a very
intelligent gender, almost intellectually superior to men
and even more financially savvy than many men. Yes we
may wish to submit to our husbands, but it is a two-way
street.
I am recommending quarterly AGMs in every marriage
to review goals and achievements and ensure the
marriage, children and homestead is on track. You must
address directly the duty of FINANCIAL INCLUSION in
marriage; the onus is on both parties to be transparent
and accountable to each other. All other planning is
futile if this bridge remains uncrossed.
Apart from which the article was very interesting and
covered many salient points. Keep up the good work.
Regards
Mabel
Good afternoon,
My name is Angela, I’m 30yrs old, engaged. My fiance
is 35, a banker. I’m in between corporate jobs at the
moment. I currently own a small hairdressing salon to
keep me busy and improve my cashflow. I just read your
page in last sunday’s ThisDay Style and I must say you
One thing is clear from
the comments: one rule
cannot apply to all as each
relationship is different. You
must learn about your spouse
and determine what you want
from the relationship and
what platforms will help you
achieve that.
are very correct. Your article really touched home and I
really had to send you this email.
First of all, in your first paragraph, talking about roles,
I daresay most men these days don’t want to accept
the financial aspects of their roles. Here is why I said so
(please, please, please correct me if I’m wrong or share
your opinion where you disagree). My fiancé believes we
should split the costs of rent and furnishing right down
the middle, 50-50. I was so shocked! All I kept thinking
was, did he plan to live with his parents forever if I never
came along? I thought the ideal thing was for a man to
get an apartment and prepare it to bring in a wife, and
of course, unofficially the woman makes the place more
comfortable.
Something else that worries me is his belief about
weddings. My guy wants a proper full blown affair.
Funny enough, I want a quiet gig, maximum 50 guests
but he insists and has asked if my parents would make
any financial contribution. I prefer to focus on the home,
making it as comfortable as we can afford without
breaking the bank while we have sizeable savings to
start us off with a good financial plan. Any contribution
would be a windfall, and it would automatically go
towards savings!!
I told him, if he is demanding so much financial
contribution from me, then he should wait till I get a
very good paid job, but he insists that me tending to my
small business is good because it would give me time for
him and kids, when they come.
I’m just totally confused, please help me out. What
do you think about all this? Am I wrong to have these
opinions? What advice to you have for me.
Angela
One thing is clear from the comments: one rule
cannot apply to all as each relationship is different.
You must learn about your spouse and determine
what you want from the relationship and what
platforms will help you achieve that.
Determine where you want to be. Know your
spouse as best as you can and ensure your values,
thoughts, aspirations and career goals are well spelt
out to avoid ambiguity and disappointment. Insist on
a plan that you both have drawn up and the specific
roles each person will play barring any unexpected
events. It is better to have a plan to guide you, than
to be blown away by every whimsical and foolhardy
trend
Remember, you are the driver in the vehicle that’s
is your financial future and no amount of fasting,
praying or witchcraft will give you an enduring legacy
if you do not prepare, work hard and remain focused.
Please send an email to ononujui@yahoo.com with your comments
or contributions or follow me on twitter @ononujui
Have a great week.
Ononuju Irukwu is the Managing Director, Chapel Hill Denham
Management Limited and the Chief promoter of the Women’s
Investment Fund, Nigeria’s first gender mutual fund. She is
passionate about increasing financial literacy and investment
participation levels of women and youths in Nigeria.

STYLE & DESIGN
THISDAY Style
Vol. 20, No. 7327 Sunday, May 17, 2015
Fashion Mistakes That Make You Look Older
BY Edirin Okumagba
You’ve ditched the outdated jeans, but there are several
other ways your wardrobe might not be doing you any
favours. Here are a few things to look out for.
Fashion is about Trends and Dates
There’s nothing wrong with you wanting to keep up
with current trends. But when it comes to incorporating
trendy pieces into your wardrobe, you should look for
a classic style that includes some part of the trend: Try
soft floral prints on a silk sleeveless blouse, embrace
coloured denim in dark shades such as hunter green
and burgundy or muted pastels instead of loud hues.
You’re Hiding Out
If you’re trying to cover your hips, arms or stomach
underneath a shapeless blazer, you’re actually making
yourself look bigger. A well-cut jacket that nips in at
the waist and is shorter in length showcases the most
flattering parts of your figure and creates a smooth line
down your torso.
Your Skirt Length Is Moving
Lower and Lower
Just because your age is increasing doesn’t mean
your hemline has to as well. A skirt that grazes close
to your ankles may hide slightly saggy knees, but it
also tends to make women look wider and frumpier.
You should find the most flattering skirt length for
your shape, look in the mirror and note the slimmest
part of the area around your knee—right above,
Revamp
Your Style with
Box Bags
right below or in the middle, and that’s where your
hemline should be. If you want more coverage, try a
fitting midiskirt, which comes to the middle of your
calf. This is a tricky length.
Your Glasses Are Too Geek Chic
Dark, thick frames underscore wrinkles and undereye
shadows. Delicate plastic frames that have a bit
of sparkle or jewel embellishment will reflect light.
Another approach? Experiment with neon colours—
on the inside of glasses’ arms—which has the same
brightening effect. One more thing: Most women try
to camouflage bags under their eyes or wrinkles on
their face with bigger frames, but the older you get,
the smaller and more delicate your frames should be.
BY Edirin Okumagba
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COVER
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OMOTU BISSONG
Michelle Dede
As Tari Gambadia
(Susan Mayer)
Tari Gambadia, divorced mother
of 12 year old Aisha Gambadia,
competes for the attention of
a hunky new plumber who has
moved across the street.
The Desperate Housewives Africa
series is quite a feat. How does it feel
to be a part of such a phenomenon?
The week we began filming felt surreal
initially, especially as I was going to be
playing a character from a TV series that I
was a huge fan of. I distinctly remember
rushing home like a crazy person in time
to see what Bree, Susan, Gabrielle, Lynette
and Edie were getting up to. It’s been a
baptism of fire and an unforgettable and
exciting journey for me as I’ve learnt so
much. Hats off to the actors around the
world and especially Nollywood, now I
understand how hard they work.
For someone who was never an
actress prior to acting in Desperate
Housewives Africa, what was your
initial reaction when you knew you
made it past the obviously very
competitive auditions, and what
part of you did you tap into for the
emotions of the character of Tari
Gambadia?
When I got the call that offered me
the role, it honestly came as a complete
shock! I was so happy, and then suddenly
I thought, “What have I gotten myself
into? I’m not a trained actor!” I asked her
if they were sure they wanted to give
me the part. I guess the fear set in at
that point, with the realisation that I
would have to portray another
person unlike when I’m
presenting and can be
myself. Tari Gambadia is
the complete opposite
of my personality. I’m
outspoken and very
expressive, I certainly
don’t think I would
ever ask my 12-year-old
daughter for relationship
advice. Playing a mother was
also quite challenge as I don’t
have children yet, nor have I ever been
married, but I realised while filming that
in order to do justice to the character I
had to behave like a slightly ditsy adult/
child who is awkward when it comes to
romance and life in general. So I found
the emotions by remembering what
my friends and I were like as teenagers.
The only thing I’d say Tari and I have in
common is her inquisitive nature, which
came naturally to me.
From TV presenter and MC to
actress, where do you see yourself in
ten years?
I’ve realised that when we make
plans on this journey called life, there are
always unexpected detours. Years ago I
thought I’d be a fashion designer living
in Paris, New York or Milan, and then life
happened and I ended up in Lagos as
a TV presenter for Big Brother Nigeria
instead. I then said in an interview two
years ago, when asked if I would consider
acting, that I enjoyed talking into a
microphone directly, to a camera far too
much to ever act, as it would be difficult
pretending to be anyone other than
myself. Again life happened
and I spent four months
pretending to be Tari
Gambadia. Who knows
what will happen ten
years from now. I have
dreams and goals I
want to achieve, but
life will undoubtedly
happen again and I
could either be making
an acceptance speech for
winning an Oscar award, or I
could be the next Simon Cowell, creating
and ‘executive producing’ TV shows and
formats.
teri hatcher
(susan mayer)
If you could magically play another
TV character for one day, who would
that be?
Fantastic question! One of the
characters in the TV series ‘Heros’, Olivia
Pope in ‘Scandal’, definitely a marvel
character in the ‘The Avengers’, ‘X-Men’
characters like Storm, Mystique or even
Domino from the comics. Zoe Saldana’s
character in ‘Colombiana’, Taraji P Henson’s
character Cookie Lyons in ‘Empire’ or
even Charlize Theron’s character Aileen in
‘Monster’ , the list is endless. I’m sure you
are thinking it may have been a mistake
asking me this question, as I have a vivid
imagination and could list at least twenty
more characters.
Michelle Dede
Kehinde Bankole
As Kiki Obi
(Gabrielle Solis)
LINDA OSIFO
Kiki Obi, married to handsome and
successful Chuka Obi wants to eat
her cake and still have it.
Kehinde BanKOle
MARCY DOLAPO ONI
How did the role of Kiki Obi come
to you?
I was asked to come in for an
audition to read three different parts
including Kiki! The reading went
smoothly but it took a while for a
decision to be reached as they kept
trying and switching everyone’s parts to
be sure of the perfect pick. I had a bit of
fun trying out some characters I never
thought I’d have enjoyed so much and in
the end, I got a call back to play Kiki.
Eva lOngoria
(Gabrielle Solis)
In partnership with theWalt Disney Company, and powered by
Airtel, Snapp, Oral B and Ariel, EbonyLife TV has produced Desperate
Housewives Africa, based on the multiple award-winning ABC Television
drama series. Behind the smokescreen of an elitist and picture perfect
Nigerian neighbourhood, at the ficticious Hibiscus Lane, reside six
women whose lives are anything but tranquil.
The series is the first international drama format ever to be made in
Africa. Like its maiden version, the series is full of twists and turns not
to mention intrigues that would hold its audience spellbound. Assistant
Editor KONYE CHELSEA NWABOGOR, takes a walk down Hibiscus Lane
and gets to know the housewives on TV’s most talked-about show.
What the first shoot like?
It was very interesting because the
ladies were all so unique and different!
Getting to meet, understand and enjoy
everyone’s personality was basically
what Season 1 was all about. They are
all absolutely amazing actors. Nothing
beats a superb working relationship.
What is your favourite moment from
this first season?
Chuka, my character”s husband,
humming happily to some native tune
as he waits for Kiki to show him some
affection. That bit was hilarious!! And so
many other sweet moments.
Considering you are playing the role
of extremely vain Kiki Obi, there
must be a lot of pressure to look
good on the show. Do you have a
workout regime?
To play a role to perfection, looking
the part is top priority. Oh, there was
a lot of pressure but the wardrobe
designer, studied our bodies and
characters well enough to portray us in
the best possible and most flattering
light from all angles of shooting.
They did a great job keeping up with
demands and I looked fabulous in all
that was supplied. We would fit and fit
clothes until we were satisfied.
I don’t have a serious workout routine
though but I regularly do sit ups and
squats.

COVER
THISDAY Style
Vol. 20, No. 7327 Sunday, May 17, 2015
COVER
Nini Wacera
AS Ese De sOuza
(Bree Van de Kamp)
Ese De Souza is the neighborhood’s saucebox,
whose outwardly perfection shields the major
dysfunction and desperation in her
life.
A lot of people are very
impressed with your translation
of the original character Bree
Van De Camp. How easy was
this for you?
Not easy. Bree’s role is an
intimidating one in itself; now add
that to the larger than life magic that
Marcia Cross did in the original series
then you can only get the picture of what
I mean. I tried to take away everything that Marcia
Cross is, and look at the character of Bree in Africa.
I was twisted into knots with her. She is a parody.
I am still recovering from her. She is emotionally
handicapped and needy, she is brittle and maternal,
dominating and delicate as porcelain. Playing her as
Ese was one of my favourite roles.
What are some of the similarities and
differences between you and the character?
I’m not brittle, or maternal or religious. I have
similar likes. I love to cook, spic and span is my way as
well. I have the same adventurous spirit that we see in
Ese as the season continues. I am a lot softer than she
is though, I bruise easily and Ese never really allows
herself to fall apart. She is a perfectionist and so am I
when it comes to my work and relationships. Ese had
a traumatic childhood, which is completely opposite
to what mine was. Her reliance on social order
marcia cross
(bree VAn de KAMp)
and morality can be quite irritating as I am more
into complete self-expression and the freedom to
experience life ... that means, mistakes will be made
and one needs to be able to let go.
How long have you been a thespian?
You should ask how long have I not been a
thespian? I discovered the theatre when
I was 14 years old but got into it fully
when I was 17. So I can’t actually
remember a time when I was not
performing even at six years. My
sister and I would put together
dance routines and perform at
parties around the estate when we
were growing up. I also did some
modelling and was with Karisma
dancers before I started training at the
Phoenix Players in Nairobi.
This choice has had its moments, as does every
choice we make in life. It has brought out the best
of me and even the worst of me. The expression of
dramatic life is what we do...trust me, it spills over into
my life sometimes. It is a process of highly intense
fun explorative moments and also long quiet periods
of no work. Like any form of art, one must find their
niche and evolve constantly. So there is hardly a
comfort zone here. The bending and stretching and
the amount of vulnerability and nakedness required
is a daunting task. As we are seen to possess drama;
we unfortunately have the experience of being
misunderstood by our producers and directors.
Where a thespian demands a safe space to explore
their emotions, producers see a demand for us to
be drama queens. Or even, it is a war sometimes. Yet
there are moments when it can be magical.
If you weren’t acting, what career path do you
MARCY DOLAPO ONI
As Rume Bello
(Mary Alice Young)
But looking down on it all is Rume Bello,
who has taken her own life under mysterious
circumstances but now comments on the lives
of her former neighbours from otherworldly
utopia.
Tell me about your character, Rume Bello.
Rume Bello is probably the most mysterious of
the housewives, as only bits and pieces of her story is
known. She’s a loving, doting wife and mother who
was generous to her family and neighbours, and so,
she was the last person any of them expected to
commit suicide. Rume Bello is the voice of the show
and she sees things she would not have seen in life:
her friends’ vulnerabilities, lies and secrets. She doesn’t
judge them because of their imperfections, instead
she pities them for the ways they manipulate and hurt
those they care about most.
How does this experience differ and stand out
from other TV projects you have been involved
in?
The last TV series I was a part of was Jacob’s Cross
and that was shot in Johannesburg, which involved
me, travelling back and forth. I would say the major
difference was when I got to fully understand the
scope of the project. There were times I was on set I
would come across new cast members which goes to
show the amount of talent needed for such a show.
And of course the fact that Desperate Housewives
Africa is all shot on an estate where everything is real.
And by that I mean we shot in real, livable homes.
How has acting extensively on stage locally
and internationally and also being a celebrated
TV presenter helped you interpret your role
effectively?
think you would have
followed, and why?
Maybe I would be a chef
or a dancer. Those are the two
things I have always loved to
do. Cooking and dancing.
Brenda Strong
(Mary Alice Young)
I would say all my experiences to date cater to
any new project that I embark on. The more you get
to practice your skills the better your work becomes.
Having to play the character of Rume Bello where you
have to convey a story and emotions with only your
voice was a challenging task but my drama school
training as well as past experiences really helped me
overcome that challenge.
While making this series, how were you
impacted on personally by the storylines
depicted?
I think it is great that the show is able to highlight
issues that may not be so widely talked about in our
culture. The fact that an African housewife commits
suicide and everyone knows, is not something you
hear of everyday. Watching the show, I feel people will
be able to identify with at least one of the characters.
You get to see that because although we all try to
portray our lives as perfect, it isn’t always so.
OMOTU BISSONG
As Funke Lawal
(Lynette ScAVo)
Funke Lawal married to Shina,
has to cope with life as a
fatigued, stay-at-home mother
of four rambunctious children.
Tell us about your character Funke
Lawal?
Funke is a wife and mum of four
who loves and is dedicated to her
family. Leaving work to be a full
time mum and having four kids in a
space of five years hasn’t been easy
for her especially as she was highly
ambitious and driven while
pursuing her career, one in
which she greatly and
perfectly excelled at. She
sometimes feels she is
failing at her role as a
Felicity hUFFMAn
(Lynette ScAVo)
mother. She struggles with this a lot
of times and there are days where
she misses the work environment
but she is a very devoted wife and
mother and she takes her family very
seriously.
What aspects of her character
could relate to?
I can definitely relate to her being
highly ambitious and driven, I share
that with her personally but I am truly
proud of her dedication to family.
Amidst all that goes on in her life,
Funke absolutely loves her family
life and her dedication to being the
best mum and wife she can be is
something to be proud of.
Can you remember like
when you first set out
to be an actress?
Oh yes! I can
remember the first time
I set out to be an actress
professionally although
as a child, acting was
something I always wanted
to do. I remember getting the
role to play a schoolteacher at a
church play. I was super happy and
excited about that! However, in my
later years, I mentioned to a friend
how I would really love to get into
acting. He mentioned an ongoing
audition. He took me there the next
day and I landed my first acting
role, playing the lead on a series! I
was super stoked. It has been an
interesting journey, but definitely
not an easy one. Some days you are
super excited about your career path
and some days you feel deflated, but
that’s life, right? You just have to keep
believing in God and pushing, a lot
has inspired me to get to this point.
I have my family and friends who
encourage and support me, and the
desire to learn my craft more. To be
able to be in a profession that gives
you the opportunity to see life in
different colours is truly inspiring
for me. I enjoy “living truthfully in
a make believe world”. Somebody
out there is going through the
same situation as that character and
being able to connect and touch
that person is truly a source of
inspiration.
Are you hoping that your choice
to be on Desperate Housewives
Africa, will give you more
exposure as an actress?
Every actress hopes to work on
projects that showcase their talents
as well as give them exposure. For
people to see your work and say,
“Yes, you’re doing great”, is rewarding
to every actor. So yes, being on
such a huge project showing across
Africa you do want it to give you
more exposure, and I have no doubt
Desperate Housewives Africa will.
It’s exciting. For me, becoming a
character that is way out of who I
am as a person, is such a beautiful
experience and I enjoyed it
thoroughly and I hope the viewers
will too, as well as love the actress
that I am.
LINDA OSIFO
As Rhetta mOOre
(Edie Britt)
Rhetta Moore is the most
predatory divorcée within a
five block radius; her conquests
are numerous, varied and
legendary!
Tell me about your character?
Rhetta Moore, the African version
of Edie Britt, is what I would describe
as the exotic bold wife. In other words
the woman who doesn’t care what
people say about her or her choices
in life - specifically, her urge for men.
She’s a divorcee of four different
marriages, very open minded, she
is the quintessential promiscuous
woman! She’s a very flirtatious,
self-employed woman
and most times, when
other women are not
reviling her, they are
threatened by her. She
is strong-willed and
goes for whatever she
wants. She is not your
typical wife and nothing
stands in her way. She
would rather hang out and
have the most indiscriminate fun than
stay at home doing chores. On the
other hand however, all she is really
desperate for is to belong and have
real friends.
With the popularity the show
is bound to get, you would
more often than not always be
referred to as Rhetta Moore.
Are you worried that over time,
people are only going to see the
character and not the real you?
I am not worried if over time,
people refer to me as ‘Rhetta Moore’.
My job as a professional actor is to
bring out the utmost best illustration
of a character so well that you would
believe it’s real. This is what great,
professional acting is all about. So
if people see the Rhetta Moore
character in me, it means I acted the
character well and very successfully
too. No actor could wish for more.
It is the ultimate fulfillment of any
professional actor. However, I will
always be myself so that the clear
distinction of who ‘Linda Osifo’ is can
be seen anytime people run into me.
What else can you tell us about
Season 1 Desperate Housewives
Africa?
nicollette
sheriDAn
(edie britt)
It’s a must-watch. A lot of work was
put into it to make sure it fits into our
beautiful African culture.
Itis riveting, it’s enthralling and the
first of its kind in Africa; it’s everything
you want to see in a show, despair,
mystery, murder, comedy, you name it. I
guarantee that there’s no better way to
spend your Thursday evening at 9pm!
What advice do you have for
upcoming actresses looking to
break into the business?
They should never to settle for
anything less than their vision. In other
words, we all have a dream to be
the best in whatsoever we do, and if
something will limit you or even make
you stagnant, don’t ever settle for it
just for the sake of being an actress.
Secondly, to never sell their body/pride
for the cause of fame. If you believe
in yourself and your talent, you would
never have to go tha route. Lastly, to
work very very hard and pray to God.

It was a night full of stars from the banking world and beyond as Wema Bank celebrates success, resilience and
longevity at 70 years with a Grand Ball at the Eko Hotel & Suite on Saturday, May 2, 2015. Dignitaries, captains of
industry and other key stakeholders were treated to a night of fun, laughter and good music. Highlight of the event
was the unveiling of the new Wema Bank logo. See event in pictures.
L-R: Segun Oloketuyi, MD/CEO, Wema Bank and Chief Segun
Oshunkeye, Chairman, Lafarge
L-R: Ademola Adebise, ED, Wema Bank and Chief Dele
Fajemirokun
Mr Amin Moussalli, MD, Aim
Consultants Ltd.
L-R: Folake Sanu, ED, Wema Bank, Dr. Remi Oni,
ED, Standard Chartered Bank & Wole Akinleye,
ED, Wema Bank
L-R: Mrs. Abolanle Matel-Okoh, Director and Mrs. Folake Sanu, ED, Wema
Bank Plc
L-R: Oba Kole Ojutalayo ( Laroka of Wanikin - Ife) & Oba
Kolapo Adegboyega Ibiyemi (Alara of Araromi,Oke -Odo Ife
Adeyinka Asekun, Chairman, Board of Directors,
Wema Bank Plc
Prof. Taiwo Osipitan (SAN) and Mrs. Cecilia
Osipitan, MD, GNI
L-R: Mr & Mrs. Segun Oloketuyi; Mr. & Mrs. Adeyinka Asekun and Pastor & Mrs. Tunde Bakare
L-R: Mr. Taj Onigbanjo, son of the former MD
(1973) with Segun Oloketuyi, MD/CEO, Wema Bank
Mr. Ifeanyi Okonkwo, MD, Fidelity Bank (R)
being received by Adeyinka Asekun,
Chairman, Wema Bank
Oba Patrick Fafunwa,
the Onikoyi of Ikoyi
Eminent dignitaries during the cutting of the 70th anniversary cake - Pastor Tunde Bakare, Serving Overseer, Latter Rain Assembly; Segun Oloketuyi, MD, Wema Bank;
Sir. Kessington Adebutu; Adeyinka Asekun, Chairman, Board of Directors, Wema Bank; Mr. Alaba Okupe; Kunle Adeleke (representing the staff of the Bank)
L-R: Otunba Deji Osibogun; Prince Ade Adefioye; Segun Oloketuyi, MD, Wema Bank; Mr Awosetu,
Mrs Oloketuyi and Otunba (Mrs) Debola Osibogun (President CIBN)
L-R: HRM, Alayeluwa Oba (Dr) Victor
Adesimbo Kiladejo, Jilo II, the Osemawe
of Ondo Kingdom and Prince Juli Adeluyi-
Adelusi, Chairman, Juli Pharmacy
The new Wema Bank logo unveiled
Prince Adebode Adefioye,
Director,Wema Bank Plc
L-R: Mr & Mrs Folarin Olutimehin & Mr Kemi Pinheiro (SAN) &
Magistrate Yetunde Pinheiro
Chief Festus Ajani, former Chairman,
Wema Bank Plc
Mr. & Mrs Irochie
L-R: Otunba Niyi Adebayo &
Mr Tunde Fowler
Mr. Alaba Okupe, son of the
founder (Agbonmagbe Bank),
Late Matthew Adekoya-Okupe
Right: Mr Yinka Sanni, MD, Stanbi IBTC with other guests at the event
Mr. Tunde Lemo, former MD,
Wema Bank & former Dep. Governor,
Central Bank of Nigeria
L-R: Segun Oloketuyi, MD/CEO, Wema Bank, Mr. Adeyinka Asekun, Chairman, Wema Bank,
Chief Samuel Bolarinde and Chief Festus Ajani (former Chairmen) and Mr. Alaba Okupe
Ms. Tina Vukor-Quarshie, Director, Wema Bank
L-R: Mrs. Asekun; Mr. Ramesh Hathiramani, former Director and
Mr. Adeyinka Asekun, Chairman, Board of Directors, Wema Bank Plc
L-R: Segun Oloketuyi, MD/CEO, Wema Bank; Adeyinka Asekun, Chaiman,
Wema Bank, Dele Momodu, CEO & publisher of Ovation International;
Pastor Tunde Bakare, Serving Overseer, Latter Rain and a guest
L-R: Jide Bello, Regional Manager, Abuja and
Moruf Oseni, ED, North Bank, Wema Bank
L-R: Segun Oloketuyi, MD/CEO, Wema Bank; Dele
Adeyinka, Head, eBusiness and Mr. Mitchel Elegbe,
MD, Interswitch Nigeria Limited
Mr. & Mrs. Samuel Durojaye
Chief Ayo Adebanjo, elder statesman
Legendary King Sunny Ade, performing on stage
at the event
Olamide performing at the event

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Shoes every woman should own...
BY Mojisola Allen
The fun heel
Why we love it: Life is short and fun shoes
make it sunnier. Every woman needs a pair
of shoes that makes her friends do a doubletake.
Famous fans: Lady Gaga, Katy Perry
Designers who make a great fun heel:
Nicholas Kirkwood, Christian
Louboutin, Alexander
McQueen and Charlotte
Olympia who
once designed a
strappy sandal
with a heel that looks like a pink
poodle, complete with gold collar.
The ballet flat
Why we love it: It’s the epitome of ladylike chic. The nude hue also ensures
that it will be the most versatile shoe you own. It literally goes with everything.
Famous fans: First, Audrey Hepburn and Grace Kelly, arbiters of sartorial good
taste, swore by the ballet flat. More recently, fans include Diane Kruger,
Taylor Swift and Keira Knightley, who wore a pair of blush pink Chanel
ballerina flats to her recent wedding.
How to wear it: Play up the ballet flat’s ladylike tendencies by pairing
it with a midi length skirt and a form-fitting white
T-shirt.
Expert fashion tips on curating a shoe collection, from perfect ballet flats to classic black pumps.
The pointy toe pump
Why we love it: The pointy toe is one of fashion’s most enduring
trends. Anytime the style pendulum swings to fierce,
feminine style, the pointy toe takes centre stage.
Famous fans: Kate Moss, Rihanna and Kristen
Stewart
Expert fashion tip: Nude pumps can give
the illusion of lengthening the leg because it
creates an unbroken line from shoe to skin. Just
make sure that you choose a hue that complements
your skin tone—err on the side of rosy,
not yellowy, nudes.
The black pump
Why we love it: In a word: sexy. In another: versatile. The black pump takes you from day
to evening (office to patio) and downtown to uptown (art gallery to dinner). Think of it as
your secret style weapon.
Expert fashion tip: If you’re going to invest in any shoe, invest in black
pumps. Take your time choosing one that you love and that makes sense
for your lifestyle. (Suede, for example, is gorgeous, but requires more
upkeep.) If you’re looking for more of a day shoe, choose a rounded
toe. Looking for evening kicks? A pointy toe takes you out on
the town in style.
Iconic designer black pumps: Christian Louboutin
Décolleté patent pumps; Salvatore
Ferragamo Rilly leather
platform pumps; Manolo
Blahnik BBR 105 black
suede pumps.
Inspired by the idea of a dream within a dream and geometric
shapes, House of Marie has created a collection with
strong asymmetry lines, with colours in muted tones of
green, pink and more in a variety of fabrics with different textures.
Exploiting fully the idea of juxtaposing fabrics and colours,
the collection is girly and easy to wear yet chic enough
to transition the average lady from day to night. It’s time to
show your colours and paint the town with the urban chic
“Ethan Frame” collection from House of Marie.
The leather loafer
Why we love it: The loafer has shrugged off its preppy
roots to become one of the fashion world’s most beloved
shoes. That’s partly because designers are showcasing the
loafer’s range, by pairing them with boho looks and flirty
sundresses.
Famous fans: Anne Hathaway, Charlize Theron, Reese
Witherspoon. How to wear it: Our favourite loafer
look offers a playful take on preppy style. Pair a white
button up (buttoned to the top), light wash denim
cut-offs, bright red lipstick and leather loafers. Result?
Classic, but with a downtown edge.
The strappy heel
Why we love it: They’re a fun, chic alternative
to a classic pump. Plus, they offer the perfect
showcase for your fresh pedi.
Where to wear it: Out dancing! Or
somewhere
fabulous on a
jetset vacation,
like playing blackjack
at the famous
casino
or strolling.
HOUSE OF MARIE’S
2015 COLLECTION
BY FUNKE BABS-KUFEJI
The running shoe
Why we love it: It’s an essential part of a healthy lifestyle.
Plus, good running shoes are like pillows for your feet.
Expert fashion tip: Skip pale blue
and grey and go for a running shoe
in a poppy colour, like coral or
fuchsia. We guarantee it
will add an extra spring
in your step, even if
you’re heading out for
a run at dawn.
The black flat
Why we love it: It’s the fashion equivalent of a BFF, it’s always
there for you. Heading to brunch in a flirty skirt and T-shirt?
Add a black flat. Going to the movies in jeans and your favourite
shirt? Add a black flat. Commuting to work in cropped
black pants and a coral blazer? You get the idea.
Famous fans: Victoria Beckham, Lauren Conrad, Katy Perry
Expert fashion tip: Wear black flats when you’re travelling.
They add an instant chic upgrade to any look, and
they’re also easy to slip on and off, both in
the security line and on the
plane.
Dear
Watcher
of
TONYE COLE
Times…
Where
does THAT
title go?
Two separate comments this past
week got me thinking once again
about titles. A Ugandan friend
of the family came visiting for
Christmas and asked casually
about the penchant for Nigerians to all
seem to carry an appellate to their names.
Everyone she met was either Engr this, Dr
that, Chief so and so, Surveyor this and
that, Alhaji and Alhajas and a retinue of His
Excellencies, Honorables, Majesties and
Highnesses. The clergy wasn’t exempt with
Pastors, Imams, Bishops, Sheiks, Reverends
and Primates a many. We even came across
a traditional ruler who had the elevated
title of His Eminence. Added to all this are
all sorts of abbreviated qualifications SAN,
OFR, CFR etc with JP being the ultimate.
The second was in a discussion
with a Vice Chancellor about creating
an endowment chair wherein it was
observed that the once revered practice
of bestowing honorary doctorates on
exceptional individuals had now been
so widely abused, it has lost its luster.
Making matters worse is that individuals so
honored carry the title of Dr with so much
ego it leaves actual PhD holders somewhat
ashamed to be classed alike. So pervasive
and common are titled beings in our
society that the simple Mr. starts to take on
an appeal that none of the various plethora
of titles offer. Genuine holders of the Mr.
class, who have excelled in their field of
endeavor display a sense of humility that
comes from knowing who they truly are.
God in His infinite wisdom gave man the
ability to acquire wisdom and man in so
doing devised genuinely honorable means
by which to distinguish on individual from
the other by the titles they were given.
When considered properly, every title is
originally aimed to remind the bearer that
they are in a servant-leader role for which
the people are the ultimate benefactors. All
such individuals are called into service by
God and will therefore be held accountable
for how they used the title so eagerly
awarded them in their service to mankind.
Would your title condemn or confirm
you?
God bless and keep you in Him always

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