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<strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong><br />
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Understanding <strong>Cremation</strong><br />
by: Frank B. Stewart, Stewart Enterprises<br />
So What is Bio <strong>Cremation</strong><br />
by: Paul Rahill, Matthews <strong>Cremation</strong> Division<br />
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CREMATION FEATURES<br />
6 Understanding <strong>Cremation</strong><br />
by Frank B. Stewart, Stewart Enterprises<br />
10 So What Is Bio<strong>Cremation</strong>?<br />
by Paul Rahill, Matthews <strong>Cremation</strong> Division<br />
12 Remembering 9/11 by Ed Horn<br />
13 <strong>Cremation</strong> Needs to be Put in its Rightful Place<br />
by Jay Dodds, Carriage Services<br />
16 Slide Show by Ed Horn<br />
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y: Ed Horn, Associate Publisher<br />
Few people are lucky enough to find a calling that matches so well to their natural dispositions. I joined our<br />
profession 12 years ago unwillingly and frankly seeking alternatives. <strong>The</strong> “death-care” profession sounded<br />
like a disease best avoided. Due to the insistence of my wife I began as a Memorial Counselor at St. Michael’s<br />
Cemetery in Queens, NY.<br />
Daily I scanned job openings hoping to find an opportunity that would save me. Celebrating New Year’s<br />
shortly after beginning at St. Michael’s I reluctantly admitted what I was currently doing when friends asked. I<br />
expect derision and scorn. Instead I was inundated with questions and stories that were genuine and caused<br />
me to view my new employment differently. As of that January I decided to really try to learn the business and<br />
found enormous satisfaction in assisting families who were suffering a loss or fearful of planning the future.<br />
That year I exceeded all other Counselors in sales. When the Sales <strong>Director</strong> moved on I was asked to assume<br />
the position. I did so requesting the additional positions of <strong>Director</strong> of Marketing and of Community Relations.<br />
To me sales could never succeed in our service profession without addressing these other components. I am<br />
proud of St. Michael’s and that the Cemetery has June been - July <strong>2011</strong> honored SFD:- 9/28/11 by 10:37 having AM Page 9 GM Dennis Werner elected to the<br />
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Understanding <strong>Cremation</strong><br />
by Frank B. Stewart, Jr. - Stewart Enterprises, Inc.<br />
Many people feel that cremation consists of<br />
ashes and gases, vapor, and intangible smoke,<br />
which is not correct. <strong>Cremation</strong> is a process<br />
which takes approximately 2 ½ hours to incinerate our<br />
physical body and remains, leaving the elements<br />
(namely the skeletal frame of our body) intact, as the<br />
calcium of our bones does not self-destruct or burn.<br />
<strong>The</strong> fact that we unearth the bones and fossils of pre-historic<br />
creatures and re-assemble them in museums is the<br />
proof that even fire and incineration cannot destroy the<br />
matter of our physical existence. Yes, these thoughts are<br />
very sensitive to dwell on and somewhat offensive or<br />
depressing to contemplate, but the truth and reality<br />
should be known by all who choose the reduction<br />
process of cremation.<br />
Many individuals ask why the incineration process, or<br />
time in a crematory, which is an oven or retort chamber,<br />
cannot be extended to eradicate all existing matter? - - -<br />
In order to incinerate our bones, which are calcium, it<br />
would take many, many hours; and even then there<br />
would still be physical material, elements, or matter remaining.<br />
If the incineration time is extended longer than<br />
2 ½ hours, the cremation chamber itself would also selfdestruct<br />
with the intense heat and require regular replacement<br />
of the fire brick. Fire brick begins to crumble<br />
in the intense heat when the temperature rises to the<br />
maximum level for a prolonged period of time. <strong>The</strong><br />
question has often been asked, - - - why then, doesn’t a<br />
cremation chamber be made of steel or metal, in lieu of<br />
fire brick? <strong>The</strong> answer to that questions is the same, -<br />
- - as the material of metal or steel (iron ore) would also<br />
melt and self-destruct in the process of trying to obtain<br />
100% incineration.<br />
Human existence in life is two parts - - half physical and<br />
half spiritual. Those who choose cremation are merely<br />
dealing with the physical component. Our spiritual existence<br />
lives on. We are going to bury our bodies, - - -<br />
- but we are not going to bury our spirits.<br />
Whereas cremation is a very clean and logical means of<br />
reduction and disposition, it does become somewhat offensive<br />
in the minds of the living to subject oneself or a<br />
loved one to such a method of incineration, or reduction,<br />
or disposition. Regardless, there is certainly nothing<br />
wrong with the choice of cremation for the obvious reason<br />
of reducing the physical content of our body to a<br />
much smaller amount of matter, hopefully to be disposed<br />
of in a very dignified, respectful manner, especially<br />
since that matter once held the spirit of our existence.<br />
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Most people have a conviction in our existence of, - - -<br />
more than the “here and now” and - - - the belief that<br />
life does not end at death, but merely transforms into a<br />
spiritual existence, which is a continuation of life and<br />
existence in a different form. As mentioned, most people<br />
believe that the reward of a life well lived, is the continuation<br />
of existence in a spiritual sense that we are not<br />
privileged to understand or can physically prove. <strong>The</strong>re<br />
is a wonderful text in scripture that reads: “No eye has<br />
been, nor ear has heard, nor has the mind of man fathomed<br />
what I have in store for those who love me!”<br />
Regardless, “cremation” is nothing more than the incineration<br />
of our body or the physical vessel of our existence<br />
by the best ability of modern mechanical means.<br />
After cremation, it is felt that the disposition of the matter<br />
that results be processed (which is further reduction<br />
of the skeletal frame to what is called “cremains”)! After<br />
the cremation itself, the skeletal frame is reduced by mechanical<br />
means to what results as small calcium gravel<br />
or sand. <strong>The</strong> calcium is crushed, ground, and pulverized!<br />
Again, the results are referred to as “cremains”.<br />
It is not ashes and gases, or smoke, as often referred to<br />
by the unknowing public; but, it is cremains!<br />
<strong>The</strong> cremains are then placed into a container known as<br />
an urn that can range from a very simplistic box or metal<br />
container to a beautiful and/or elaborate urn of wood,<br />
metal, ceramic, of other material. We must always remember<br />
that whatever the physical matter that results<br />
from cremation is, technically our body is just reduced<br />
in size. It is the vessel that once held our spirit. Families<br />
do have many options and alternatives to choose<br />
from in the selection of an appropriate urn or container,<br />
which again is a very important psychological step. <strong>The</strong><br />
tangible existence of our body is merely reduced to this<br />
form of physical matter, “cremains”, and needs to be<br />
buried or disposed of in hopefully a respectful and<br />
meaningful way - - - in a meaningful location. Most humans<br />
in life have a desire to be remembered as having<br />
been significant - - namely having fulfilled their purpose!<br />
That does not mean that we want to be remembered<br />
as having been wealthy, powerful, successful, or<br />
important, - - - - but, as significant! - - - Having had<br />
meaning!<br />
Those who take cremated remains home not only subject<br />
themselves and their family to having the cremated urn<br />
get lost, misplaced, or discarded, as your remains or the<br />
remains of your loved one may end up in the closet, the<br />
basement, the attic, or just become lost in a future move<br />
to a new location. Regardless, those who take the re-
mains to their home and display them on the mantle or<br />
shelf have the constant reminder of their loved one’s<br />
presence and, the reminder of the physical loss. <strong>The</strong> importance<br />
of all families returning to a life of “normalcy”,<br />
is so important! It is much easier to do so without the<br />
daily awareness or reminder of sorrow by the urn being<br />
present in their home. It is also a very important consideration<br />
to allow other members of the family or<br />
friends to visit the physical location of the urn in their<br />
desire to occasionally relate to and to pay respect to the<br />
life that lived! Where would you like this urn to be in 5,<br />
20, or 50 years? Who remains among the living that<br />
knew the deceased in 50 years? A cemetery or columbarium<br />
is the permanent location for cremated remains.<br />
Those that choose to scatter cremains or to bury cremains<br />
at sea are eliminating future generations from<br />
equating with the physical location of what was physically<br />
left of a human life. We human creatures primarily<br />
relate to physical existence and location, in all of our reflections<br />
in life and the feeling of prior existence, both<br />
physical and spiritual. Tourists travel the world over to<br />
visit the burial locations of significant individuals and<br />
events, even back to the days of the pyramids and the<br />
Taj Mahal and Normandy, and Ground Zero in New<br />
York City.<br />
Again, we must acknowledge that all of us human creatures<br />
do normally react to and relate to the physical locations<br />
in life that have meaning. <strong>The</strong> burial location of<br />
a loved one that we knew in life is a very tangible element<br />
in our reflection and recollection of the past. Thus,<br />
we do visit the physical locations of not only burial locations,<br />
but the locations in which we worship and reflect<br />
on life and its origin and its past. Temples,<br />
churches, cathedrals, or houses of worship are the best<br />
examples of physical locations in which we frequent, to<br />
pay homage to or give tribute to, in our conviction, belief,<br />
and perception of an Almighty Creator or Maker<br />
(God). It is often said “Why do we get dressed up and<br />
go to a church or a temple to worship when we can worship<br />
and glorify our Maker at any location or point in<br />
life?” We do so, however, because it is a physical action,<br />
an outright sign, and location that we believe houses the<br />
spirit to which we relate in our faith. In some faiths it is<br />
essential to worship in a specific building in which we<br />
can sense and feel the presence of an almighty spirit and<br />
creator.<br />
<strong>The</strong>refore, those who choose to scatter cremains or to<br />
take cremains home in the form of an urn or a container,<br />
or bury cremated remains at sea, are eliminating future<br />
generations of having the privilege to relate to a permanent<br />
physical location where the remains of the vessel or<br />
body that held the spirit is buried. Psychologists and<br />
those professionals who study the human mind know<br />
well the importance of closure, - - - of relating to the<br />
physical existence that meant so much to us in life. We<br />
all know how difficult it is when the bodies or remains<br />
of our loved ones, such as the POW’s, MIA’s, or those<br />
who were killed in action, are not returned to us, or those<br />
who were tragically taken in accidents where there are<br />
no remains. <strong>The</strong> consequences and the mental hunger<br />
of those left behind want to relate to the body or the vessel<br />
that held the spirit. Again, there is seldom closure<br />
without the presence of the physical remains.<br />
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Whereas cremation is certainly an expedient and efficient<br />
means of “reduction” of space consumption for<br />
ease in disposition, it does have some consequences in<br />
the minds of the living that are left behind. It is often<br />
said by the professionals in the death care field that the<br />
whole process of “celebrating a life that lived”, in a funeral,<br />
namely choosing a means of disposition that is not<br />
only acceptable, but also comforting and that does memorialize<br />
the memories of the spirit and physical creature<br />
that died with dignity, is vitally important to the<br />
process of acceptance in the “transition of life” that we<br />
all must one day face!<br />
For the vast majority of humans who do have a deepseated<br />
conviction of, “more than the here and now”, it is<br />
most important to consider the choice of disposition and<br />
memorialization that is made when the death occurs.<br />
<strong>The</strong>re are no exceptions, - - - - as we all will physically<br />
die, but most of us have faith in the salvation of our spirit<br />
and conviction of the life to come. For those who claim<br />
to be atheists, agnostics, or who do not have faith of any<br />
kind, it is very difficult to be motivated in doing the right<br />
thing for the right reason in every choice that we face<br />
each day of existence. For the atheist, there is little reason<br />
for total honesty, integrity, ethics, and morality, as<br />
the belief of not having accountability to a Creator, a<br />
higher source in the life we live on this earth. <strong>The</strong> ultimate<br />
motivation for a proper lifestyle is eradicated or<br />
eliminated. <strong>The</strong>refore, it is truly important in cremation<br />
to consider the process, the options, and alternatives and<br />
the manner in which we choose cremation as a means<br />
of reducing our remains to a much smaller consumption<br />
of burial space. <strong>The</strong> remains also need to be accessible<br />
in a permanent manner for future generations to be inspired<br />
by their physical presence.<br />
Life and its consequences is manifest in the manner in<br />
which we bury our dead. <strong>The</strong> great philosopher,<br />
William Gladstone, once said:<br />
“Show me the manner in which a nation cares for its<br />
dead, and I will measure with mathematical exactness<br />
the tender mercies of its people, their respect for the laws<br />
of the land and their loyalty to high ideals.”<br />
Life and death are real, - - - - and the consequences of<br />
the decisions we humans make in death care are very<br />
important to the generations we have created and that<br />
will follow our path.<br />
I have often been asked how the Catholic Church feels<br />
about cremation, and I’m pleased to respond by stating<br />
I met with the hierarchy of the Church before opening<br />
our first crematory in the State of Louisiana in 1972.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Church leaders shared with me the fact that cremation<br />
was formerly prohibited here in the United States,<br />
only because it was brought into this country and practiced<br />
by individuals who profess to be atheists or agnostics,<br />
and who were using “cremation” as an outward<br />
sign of defiance or contempt for the Catholic faith and<br />
beliefs of the Church.<br />
Naturally, in the Catholic Church the belief is that at the<br />
end of time, the day of resurrection will come when our<br />
earthly remains will be reunited, whereby our earthly<br />
bodies will resurrect and exist in a magnificent state of<br />
being. <strong>The</strong> Church’s stand presently is that they no<br />
longer have a prohibition against cremation in the<br />
United States, as long as it is not chosen as an act of defiance<br />
or contempt for one’s faith.<br />
Yes, if an individual chooses cremation because of the<br />
efficiency, convenience, or economy to be gained and<br />
they are willing to treat the remains in a respectful, dignified<br />
fashion, as the matter or substance that once held<br />
the spirit, then the Church has no objection to cremation<br />
and will allow the liturgy and ceremony of burial rites to<br />
be conducted within a Church and by a member of the<br />
clergy. Again, the desired result is to respect the cremated<br />
remains (cremains), as what remains of our physical<br />
existence. Our physical remains should always be<br />
treated with dignity. <strong>The</strong> Catholic Church has always<br />
assumed the responsibility of the corporal work of<br />
mercy of burying the dead.<br />
<strong>The</strong> Catholic Church had previously recognized cremation<br />
in earlier generations and civilizations as a means of<br />
reduction of the physical body, still conducting a ceremony<br />
and tribute celebrating a life that lived. We humans<br />
definitely relate to physical existence and the<br />
location where the physical existence of our remains are<br />
buried. As mentioned before, cremation is not burial. It<br />
is merely the reduction of our remains to a cubic foot of<br />
calcium.<br />
We often visit museums the world over to view the remains<br />
of prehistoric and animal life that roamed the<br />
earth thousands and millions of years ago. For example,<br />
the bones of dinosaurs are unearthed and reassembled,<br />
as calcium does endure the ages. Whereas<br />
cremation or consummation by fire is a harsh reality, - -<br />
- - but many people choose this method of reduction because<br />
of the economies of space consumption and expense<br />
in permanent burial locations and their upkeep.<br />
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to address you<br />
today. I appreciate all that you do to serve the families<br />
who choose our firm to assist them in their time of need.<br />
Written by Frank B. Stewart, Jr.<br />
Chairman of the Board, Stewart<br />
Enterprises, Inc.<br />
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So What Is Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>?<br />
by: Paul Rahill, Matthews <strong>Cremation</strong> Division<br />
<strong>The</strong>re has been a long lead up to the final development<br />
of technology and necessary legislative changes required<br />
to allow forward progress on a new cremation process<br />
called “Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>.” Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> utilizes a<br />
high pressure and high temperature cremation chamber<br />
with a process called alkaline hydrolysis to reduce<br />
human remains to their basic elements.<br />
<strong>Cremation</strong> by definition is reducing the body to its basic<br />
elements of bone fragments through the use of heat.<br />
CANA, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cremation</strong> Association of North America, is<br />
the world’s largest and most respected authority on all<br />
things cremation. CANA has progressively defined cremation<br />
as “the mechanical and/or thermal or other dissolution<br />
process that reduces human remains to bone<br />
fragments.” Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> technology replaces the<br />
use of flame with the utilization of water, blended with<br />
an alkali solution of potassium hydroxide (KOH). <strong>The</strong><br />
human body is placed into a pressurized<br />
stainless steel cremation<br />
chamber where water and alkali<br />
are automatically added and the<br />
temperature is raised to 350°F.<br />
Water, alkali, high-heat and highpressure<br />
working in harmony<br />
gently circulate over the body,<br />
causing a reaction that begins and<br />
completes the cremation process.<br />
Let’s face it, there are not many<br />
attractive images when we envision<br />
the “transition” of a human<br />
body to bones (B2B). Within the<br />
complete death care process, the<br />
B2B transition is inescapable.<br />
This is a journey all of us will take<br />
regardless of whether our end of<br />
life choice is burial, flame cremation<br />
or water based Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>.<br />
<strong>The</strong> end result will be the<br />
same. <strong>The</strong> difference between<br />
burial, flame cremation or Bio<br />
<strong>Cremation</strong> is the B2B transition<br />
time line and the “catalyst” we<br />
choose. With burial, the transition<br />
may take 25 years and the catalyst<br />
to reduce the body to bones is soil<br />
and micro-organisms. With flame<br />
cremation, the transition takes approximately<br />
2-3 hours and the<br />
catalysts to reduce the body to<br />
bones are heat created by a chemical fuel (CH4 natural<br />
gas or C3H8 propane gas) mixed with oxygen. With Bio<br />
<strong>Cremation</strong>, the transition takes approximately 2-3<br />
hours and the catalysts to reduce the body to bones are<br />
water (95%) and a chemical, potassium hydroxide<br />
(KOH). All of these choices begin with a body and eventually<br />
ends with bones. With the introduction of Bio <strong>Cremation</strong><br />
we can<br />
determine the<br />
residual effects our<br />
end of life decision<br />
will have on the<br />
planet.<br />
It is important to<br />
address a few common<br />
misnomers<br />
when describing<br />
10 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> Alliance <strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong>
environment. We return to the earth through a cycle of<br />
life, helping to promote new life as nature intended it to<br />
occur.<br />
Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>. First, no acid is used in this gentle<br />
water based cremation process. <strong>The</strong> chemical used with<br />
water is an alkaline called potassium hydroxide (KOH)<br />
which is a colorless inorganic compound. KOH has<br />
many industrial, commercial and personal applications.<br />
KOH is noteworthy as an ingredient to numerous health<br />
aids, cosmetics, pharmaceuticals, food processing, and<br />
cleaning supplies you would commonly find at home.<br />
For Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>, its reaction in water is strongly<br />
exothermic, meaning the process gives off significant<br />
heat which contributes to the hydrolyzing or breakdown<br />
of the human tissue in the sealed cremation chamber.<br />
Another misconception is that the process “boils” a<br />
body, which is false. This technology creates a very controlled<br />
and sophisticated environment that uniquely<br />
combines water, alkali, high-heat and high-pressure that<br />
biochemically hydrolyzes the human body, leaving only<br />
bone fragments.<br />
During a typical Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> cycle, the body is reduced,<br />
bone fragments are rinsed and the remaining byproduct<br />
is a sterile effluent (fluid). What makes this<br />
process so environmentally-friendly and even greener<br />
than flame based cremation is that there are almost zero<br />
air emissions (particulates, greenhouse gases, carbon<br />
monoxide, mercury, etc.) emitted into the atmosphere.<br />
<strong>The</strong> by-product (effluent) from Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> is sent<br />
to water recycling where it is filtered, purified and recycled<br />
back into the environment either through the<br />
aquifers, lakes, streams and non-potable water use. In<br />
essence, our body is recycled and without harm to the<br />
<strong>The</strong> foundation of funeral service has always focused on<br />
helping us create a personal and meaningful event, gathering<br />
and/or memorial service that meet the emotional<br />
and spiritual needs of both family and friends. <strong>The</strong> popularity<br />
of cremation supports the foundation for traditional<br />
services but offers a unique flexibility in choosing<br />
a variety of different memorialization opportunities (i.e.<br />
Cemetery Burial, Niche, Columbarium, Scattering, etc).<br />
Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> supports a family’s desire for a public<br />
visitation with/without a memorial service prior to cremation.<br />
Even though a traditional wood or cardboard<br />
casket cannot be consumed in the Bio <strong>Cremation</strong><br />
process (the process only accommodates protein base<br />
material), a silk cremation container with a stainless<br />
steel frame is introduced into a standard “rental casket”<br />
for viewing. Once a service is complete, the silk cremation<br />
container and stainless steel frame (holding the<br />
human remains), can be removed from the rental casket<br />
and placed directly into the Bio cremation equipment.<br />
<strong>The</strong> silk cremation container is consumed during the cremation<br />
cycle and the now sterile stainless steel insert is<br />
removed and reused.<br />
Since Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> can only accommodate protein<br />
based material, clothing on the deceased must be made<br />
of (protein based materials) silk, wool or leather which<br />
is consumed during the cremation process.<br />
In summary, the Body 2 Bones transition varies from<br />
process to process, from 2 hours to 25 years; the catalyst<br />
used differs but each process uses some form of accelerator<br />
for decomposition; transition by-products from<br />
each process are different (fluids, air emissions and<br />
gases), but the end result for all is the same, BONES.<br />
For a good source of information we recommend you<br />
consider this website: BIOCREMATIONINFO.COM.<br />
This site contains information for consumers, environmental<br />
topics, news and articles, legislative updates and<br />
support. Material is constantly added and updated on this<br />
site.<br />
Paul F Rahill is President<br />
of Matthews International<br />
<strong>Cremation</strong> Division,<br />
the world’s leader in<br />
developing and providing<br />
cremation solutions. For<br />
comments and questions<br />
he may be contacted<br />
through email at<br />
prahill@matw.com.<br />
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Sadly families will gather on September 11th at<br />
Ground Zero to honor their loved ones lost due to<br />
acts that will ever haunt civilized humanity. <strong>The</strong><br />
hatred and the blind zealotry that removed common decency<br />
permitting suicide attackers to kill without remorse<br />
is so alien that we can never accept the reality of<br />
those burning building.<br />
History records the carnage<br />
caused by stoic adherents of<br />
corrupted ideologies and religious<br />
advocacy. Be it submission<br />
to an Emperor, a<br />
dictator or a Prophet adherence<br />
to only one voice precludes<br />
alternative<br />
considerations which results<br />
in devastation, death,<br />
destruction and a legacy of<br />
sorrow. It is usually small<br />
minorities that strangle majorities<br />
plaguing the masses to unspeakable hardship and<br />
losses.<br />
Individuals at the extreme who only see black or white<br />
are mentally confined limiting and destroying alternatives<br />
that otherwise would be available. <strong>The</strong>y have<br />
painted themselves into corners restricting their conception<br />
of options that could result in far more acceptable<br />
outcomes.<br />
<strong>The</strong> blood of innocents is not only excusable but is demanded<br />
by such zealots as the price that must be paid<br />
by others. It does not matter that non-violent means were<br />
available. In the absence of compromise no compassion<br />
is tolerable. Society’s sole recourse is to exterminate<br />
those who deem life only as a means to an end and death<br />
as a gift.<br />
As in Germany future generations may be mystified by<br />
the acts of their ancestors. Often asked is how the most<br />
advanced society in Europe morphed the Germans into<br />
genocidal murderers, or how the Japanese exploded in<br />
cruelty from the humanists who adhered to the calling of<br />
nature. Yet forgiveness and understanding is impossible.<br />
To forgive is to accept excuses for which there are no<br />
excuses.<br />
Many nations currently face the cruel realities of crushing<br />
national debts or governments unable to compromise<br />
political divides. Partisan divides that threaten economic<br />
stability and foster uncertainty create the breeding places<br />
for extremists. It is only a small step further to condemn<br />
others as alien stripping<br />
away any pretense of civility<br />
or humanity.<br />
Yet there is anger heard<br />
from those who expect and<br />
demand “closure.” It is as if<br />
the death of a loved one<br />
counts for nothing. Some<br />
expect their stories and the<br />
tragedies of their suffering<br />
and death to be but dust<br />
swept under a mental blanket.<br />
Nothing is more unlikely<br />
to occur then complying with the demands to<br />
forget yesterday.<br />
America proudly recalls its heroes and commemorates<br />
moments of national tragedy with services, parades and<br />
political theatre. As Americans we hang the flag and<br />
wave it enthusiastically at such events. We chant “USA<br />
all the way!” with voices that will not yield to any other<br />
nation.<br />
Viet Nam for many was a memory best forgotten for<br />
those who only saw it as an American defeat. Those who<br />
fought wearing our uniform were caused to pay the ugly<br />
scars of Americans turning their backs on our Vets. It required<br />
years for a monument to be dedicated with the<br />
thousands of names that fell answering the call of arms<br />
and who loyally proved their devotion by serving.<br />
Those who were innocent victims on September 11th deserve<br />
to be remembered. <strong>The</strong> First Responders who responded<br />
and marched into collapsing buildings knowing<br />
they were walking to their deaths demand our respect,<br />
thanks, awe, devotion and to never be forgotten!<br />
Ed Horn<br />
12 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> Alliance <strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong>
<strong>Cremation</strong> Needs to be Put in its Rightful Place<br />
By Jay Dodds, Carriage Service<br />
“<strong>Cremation</strong>” has generally been viewed as an ugly word<br />
within the funeral and cemetery business. It conjures up<br />
thoughts of direct service, low revenues, cheapness, disposals<br />
and most frightening the elimination of any permanent<br />
memorialization. In reality it should not lead to<br />
any of those ideas. <strong>Cremation</strong> can be simply defined as<br />
a form of body preparation, similar to embalming; it is<br />
a form of preparing the body for eternal rest. Nowhere<br />
does the definition of cremation address the real value of<br />
funeral or cemetery service. Body preparation is an important<br />
aspect but not the main value proposition of any<br />
leading funeral or cemetery company. If you understand<br />
the true value of service and permanent memorialization,<br />
the choice a client family makes in regards to cremation<br />
or burial is really irrelevant to you.<br />
It is important to understand exactly what we do and<br />
why it is important. <strong>The</strong>re have been many books and<br />
articles written by industry experts and psychologists<br />
that explain the value proposition of the funeral and<br />
cemetery business which is focused on the living, not<br />
the dead. <strong>The</strong> “new” relationship that is formed between<br />
the living relatives and the now deceased person<br />
must be recognized and transitioned properly, which is<br />
the main value any funeral or cemetery business can<br />
offer. That relationship between the living and the dead<br />
must be transitioned and some type of gathering with<br />
viewing preferably is an important component for that<br />
transition. Permanent memorialization is an additional<br />
component that offers connectivity to feelings and memories.<br />
It is often misunderstood that a client family must<br />
have closure. This is a big misconception. If you have<br />
experienced a close death in your lifetime, you will realize<br />
nothing gets “closed”, your relationship just<br />
changes. Transition is the key. A connection to the deceased<br />
will always be present and we must understand<br />
how to provide services and products that help the family<br />
stay connected in a healthy way.<br />
Here is an interesting point I stumbled on a couple of<br />
years ago. I was asked if I thought that the funeral and<br />
cemetery service business was a thing of the past. My<br />
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<strong>Cremation</strong> Needs to be Put in its Rightful Place<br />
response was that as long as our client families were<br />
human beings we would always have a valuable offering.<br />
Every human must grieve; it is how we are wired.<br />
It is also very important to understand that everyone<br />
grieves in a different manner and the difference in severity<br />
may be extreme. It is not our job to be grief healers,<br />
but I do believe it is our job to do what we can to assist<br />
the family with their mourning and help them grieve in<br />
the healthiest possible way for them. Providing and executing<br />
an array of service options accomplishes this<br />
most important part of our role. Understanding that our<br />
value proposition to our client families is in offering and<br />
designing personalized services that fit the special relationships<br />
in their lives and helps them heal is really what<br />
we are about. <strong>The</strong> choice that the client family makes<br />
concerning the preparation of the deceased, again, is actually<br />
irrelevant to our true value.<br />
With this in mind, all funeral and cemetery arrangers (at<br />
need or pre-need) must understand that their role is to<br />
be a consultant to the family and not just “accommodating<br />
to the family’s wishes.” A good consultant listens<br />
intently and then makes sensible recommendations that<br />
fit the client’s true needs. If your arrangers truly believe<br />
and understand their chosen profession and the “value<br />
offering”, their recommendations will be accepted by<br />
the client family and your business will prosper. With a<br />
burial, permanent memorialization in a cemetery is necessary<br />
and a proper memorial is critical for capturing the<br />
relationships of that life lived. <strong>The</strong> options for permanent<br />
memorialization of their cremated loved one are<br />
endless with options that will or will not include a cemetery.<br />
It is our opportunity not our “problem” to create<br />
gardens and features that draw the client families that<br />
choose to cremate. <strong>The</strong> best part of our business is that<br />
everything we believe in concerning service and permanent<br />
memorialization is truly healthy and necessary for<br />
our communities.<br />
<strong>The</strong> business aspect of what we do should not be affected<br />
significantly by families choosing to cremate.<br />
You may ask how the rise of cremation can not possibly<br />
affect the bottom line. <strong>The</strong> answer lies in the value of<br />
your service and how much you believe in creating and<br />
executing personalized service. Your average sales contract<br />
will typically be lower than a “traditional burial”<br />
but your cost structure should be lower as well providing<br />
similar if not greater dollars to your bottom line, if<br />
you are not afraid to charge a fair price for your services.<br />
This of course can be argued forever, but if you<br />
are charging and executing service to the level your<br />
communities deserve your actual dollar profit can remain<br />
very healthy. Now, can you run your business the<br />
same as you did when the cremation rate was 10%? <strong>The</strong><br />
answer is no. I don’t think the changes need to be drastic,<br />
but you will need to make sure that you are charging<br />
the correct prices for your services and that you are actively<br />
managing your cost structure, especially your personnel<br />
costs. <strong>The</strong> opportunities in your cemetery can be<br />
a wide range of products considering the lower capital<br />
costs of developing land for unique inurnments verses<br />
the cost of developing burial or entombment property.<br />
Many cemeteries have a finite number of acres available<br />
for burial, but with the options that inurnments offer, the<br />
life of our cemeteries can increase significantly.<br />
To look at cremation as the downfall of the funeral and<br />
cemetery business is just foolish. If you are convinced<br />
that your value proposition is purely to care for the deceased<br />
then you choose to be mitigated to the disposer<br />
level by strong competition. Defining cremation and not<br />
letting it define you is one of the keys to success in our<br />
industry. <strong>Cremation</strong> has a place in the preparation of<br />
the deceased, but service is how we have always touched<br />
our client families and will be how we stay relevant and<br />
profitable in the future.<br />
Jay D. Dodds is the Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer.<br />
Mr. Dodds has been in senior operations leadership for Carriage since October<br />
2000, most recently as Regional Managing Partner for the Central<br />
Region and regional Vice President of Operations. Mr. Dodds joined Carriage<br />
in 1994 as an operation Vice President. He has over 28 years of professional<br />
funeral home, cemetery and crematory operations experience.<br />
Prior to joining Carriage, he was affiliated with Stewart Enterprises for 13<br />
years serving in numerous operating positions. Mr. Dodds is a licensed<br />
<strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> and holds a Bachelors of Business Administration degree<br />
from the University of Texas Arlington. Mr. Dodds is a member of the International<br />
Cemetery, <strong>Cremation</strong> and <strong>Funeral</strong> Association where he serves<br />
as a board member, the National <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong>s Association, and the<br />
<strong>Cremation</strong> Associations of North America.<br />
14 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> Alliance <strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong>
Overweight Population Creates Challenge<br />
that Astral Addresses<br />
Because of their size, many people endure limited choices. Now, the reality of<br />
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<strong>Funeral</strong> directors are challenged in many ways to meet the needs of larger people. Costs associated with additional size<br />
are difficult to explain, much less make up in some way. As you know, the casket in many cases is the first item the family<br />
wants to change in order to stay within budget.<br />
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Adaptation to <strong>Cremation</strong><br />
Members of our profession grieve the growing popularity of cremation. To many cremation truly is an assault on the bottom line.<br />
Others attempt to create innovative marketing plans to capture some revenue from what is viewed as a financially driven clientele.<br />
Dan Isard has offered various ideas to enhance revenues from cremation that are original and due our efforts.<br />
As a cemeterian with a crematory I have learned much from dealing with the groups who demand<br />
one type of ceremony over another. I find no credence that money is the reason families select cremation.<br />
Those who view burial as their only consideration will pay the cost regardless of the savings<br />
cremation offers. For those resolved that cremation is their sole consideration all the talk in the<br />
world will not alter their decision.<br />
Photos In Remembrance of<br />
First Responders<br />
That though is the point and the obligation we accepted when we joined our profession. It must be<br />
our dedicated purpose to serve the needs, wants and desires of the families who call upon us. Fighting<br />
a tidal wave will only drown you. It is a mark of disrespect to advocate an alternative unwanted<br />
by our Client simply in the hope of enriching ourselves.<br />
I am fully cognizant that a niche, glass or otherwise, is my least costly item. Niches cost little and<br />
their sales price is a jolt to the bottom line. Frankly the cemetery would do financially better if all<br />
we sold was niches. <strong>The</strong> return for investment is startling.<br />
With that said the cemetery has accepted that memorialization is a renewable and rewarding revenue<br />
generator. Vendors to our profession continuously come up with new items that permit us to seek<br />
and receive profits from memorial property that has no future positive value to us. <strong>The</strong>se properties<br />
represent obligation and costs that will go on for generations.<br />
Smartlite Candles is an asset. It is a flickering electronic light that we rent for one, five or ten years.<br />
When the term ends we re-rent the candle. Once our cost is paid off, rental income is all profits.<br />
Memory Medallions, the brainchild of Glenn Toothman had a slow introduction to the market. With<br />
the new generation of “smart” medallions now being sold that opens the world of the internet to families<br />
who wish to create a living memorial and to enhance genealogy, popular demand is escalating.<br />
At St. Michael’s we serve an ever increasing Hindu population whose beliefs require cremation and<br />
scattering of the remains. <strong>The</strong>re is no chance to sell a niche as a result. Yet as we have become accepted<br />
by the Hindu community we are beseeched by requests for memorialization.<br />
We have responded to their request by selling benches, placing markers in front of tree dedicated to<br />
a loved one. People regardless of their traditions share the common thread of needing to remember<br />
those who came before and to who we owe so much.<br />
A dear friend lost her mother. She turned to us for assistance. We recommended a <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong><br />
who had always impressed me with the obvious concern for his Clients. To him they were not business<br />
they were people suffering terribly. Our friend demanded to fulfill her mother’s request for cremation.<br />
Rather than attempting to dissuade the grieving daughter the <strong>Director</strong> listened to what was hoped for<br />
to honor the mother whose life was directed to benefit her child. <strong>Cremation</strong> was arranged after two<br />
days of viewing with a fine wood casket and all the necessities to insure the time the family insisted<br />
be shared with family and friends. <strong>The</strong> <strong>Director</strong> was rewarded for his patience and attention to the<br />
want and needs of the family by a service that financially exceeded the every expectation of what a<br />
cremation would be.<br />
Our profession is rewarding to those of us committed to it. At times it seems that we are luckier than<br />
most people. We are not workers but care providers. It is within us to find the means to insure our<br />
futures by accepting the realities of changing markets and demands. Rather than fighting for the “Old<br />
Days” which will never return it is time to look to the future and grow in new and unexpected ways!<br />
Ed Horn<br />
16 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> Alliance <strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong>
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News Release<br />
Genesis Casket Names High Profile Leader as Special Advisor<br />
Robert G. Horn to Provide Guidance to Genesis Board of <strong>Director</strong>s<br />
Casket manufacturer Genesis Casket Company today announced<br />
that Robert G. (Bob) Horn has accepted an appointment<br />
to the Genesis Casket Board of <strong>Director</strong>s as a special<br />
advisor. Horn began serving in this capacity at the Genesis<br />
August 30th board meeting.<br />
“We are pleased and honored that Bob has accepted our invitation<br />
to serve and that he will be involved with our company,”<br />
stated Genesis President and Chief Executive Officer William<br />
Anthony (Tony) Colson. “I am personally looking forward to<br />
working with him and for Genesis Casket and all of funeral<br />
service to benefit from the wisdom and expertise he brings.<br />
His dedication to funeral service and stellar reputation will help<br />
Genesis address several of the issues facing funeral professionals<br />
today. ”<br />
Horn began his career in the funeral profession almost 50 years<br />
ago at a small family-owned mortuary and retired as CEO and<br />
Chairman of Keystone Group Holdings in 2007. Prior to cofounding<br />
Keystone, a multi-state funeral acquisition and operating<br />
firm, Bob was Chief Operating Officer and Partner of<br />
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Robert G. Horn<br />
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Genesis Casket Names High Profile Leader as Special Advisor<br />
Prime Succession, Inc. Before that, he spent 10 years as Executive Vice President of Pierce Brothers and prior<br />
to that, 16 years as Vice President at International <strong>Funeral</strong> Service. In addition to this new assignment, Horn<br />
currently serves as a consultant to a number of other companies in funeral service.<br />
“After reviewing the Genesis business plan, I am excited to be working with the company in developing ideas<br />
and concepts to help introduce Genesis Casket,” Horn stated. “Through my work with funeral directors over<br />
the past five decades, I know firsthand that these are challenging times in funeral service. I look forward to<br />
participating in the key discussions that launch the Genesis Casket product line.”<br />
Horn will participate with other members of the Genesis Board of <strong>Director</strong>s at their meetings. <strong>The</strong> appointment<br />
of Horn as a special<br />
advisor coincides with the<br />
planned start of casket<br />
production later this fall.<br />
“In the short time that I<br />
have known Bob, I have<br />
been particularly impressed<br />
with his concern<br />
for the future of the funeral<br />
profession,” added<br />
Jeffrey W. (Jeff) Wilson,<br />
Chairman of the Board for<br />
Genesis Casket. “His<br />
long and distinguished career<br />
in funeral service<br />
makes his selection very<br />
relevant and we appreciate<br />
his acceptance of this appointment.<br />
Genesis Casket is a new<br />
entity in funeral service,<br />
founded in 2010. It is<br />
headquartered in Indianapolis,<br />
IN and created<br />
in partnership with<br />
Gestamp North America,<br />
Inc., a global supplier<br />
of structural steel<br />
components for the automotive<br />
industry. Genesis<br />
plans to manufacture<br />
and distribute a line of<br />
metal caskets later this<br />
year that will be produced<br />
in its Indianapolis<br />
plant to funeral homes<br />
throughout the US.<br />
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Georgia FDA Hold Successful Summer Convention in<br />
Hilton Head. Tom Lord Elected President,<br />
Succeeding William Bowen<br />
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Georgia FDA Summer Convention<br />
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Georgia FDA Summer Convention<br />
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Georgia FDA Summer Convention<br />
Custom Casket Company<br />
Bottom Handle<br />
<strong>Funeral</strong> Coach Inventory<br />
<strong>2011</strong> S&S Medalist Cadillac - White -NEW!<br />
<strong>2011</strong> S&S Medalist Cadillac - Blue - Oval Window - NEW!<br />
<strong>2011</strong> S&S Medalist Cadillac - Black - NEW!<br />
2010 S&S Medalist Cadillac - Black/Silver - NEW!<br />
2007 S&S Medalist Cadillac - Black - 14K Miles<br />
2006 S&S Medalist Cadillac - Black/White - 21K Miles<br />
2006 Crown Sovereign - Black - 49K Miles<br />
2004 S&S Masterpiece Cadillac - Blue - w/Pull-out Table - 75K Miles<br />
1999 S&S Masterpiece Cadillac - Black/Gray - w/Pull-out Table - 51K Miles<br />
2005 S&S Limo<br />
6 Door<br />
Limousine Inventory<br />
2005 S&S 47" Cadillac w/Executive Roof - Black - 38K Miles<br />
2005 S&S Lincoln - 6DR - White - Leather - Reversible Center Seat -14K Miles<br />
2005 S&S 6DR Cadillac - Black/Silver - 18K Miles<br />
2005 S&S 6DR Cadillac - Silver - 24K Miles<br />
2005 Lincoln 46" 6DR - White - 23K Miles<br />
2004 S&S 6DR Cadillac w/Executive Roof - Dark Blue - 48K miles<br />
Custom Casket Company | 1603 Gibbs Drive | Gainesville, GA 30507<br />
(877) 57 – CASKET | info@customcasketcompany.com | www.customcasketcompany.com<br />
2010 S&S<br />
Cadillac Medalist<br />
American Made<br />
2005 S&S<br />
6 Door Cadillac Limo<br />
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Tennessee FDA Elects Billy Yarbrough,<br />
President, at 108th Annual Convention<br />
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PIERCE M ORTUARY C OLLEGES<br />
E XCELLENCE IN F UNERAL SERVICE E DUCATION<br />
<strong>The</strong><br />
Right<br />
Choice!<br />
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800-221-6158 . www.mid-america.edu<br />
Patty Hutcheson, President<br />
Gupton-Jones College<br />
800-848-5352 . www.gupton-jones.edu<br />
Give Us A Call 800-527-6419<br />
IN ACCORDANCE WITH TITLE VI OF THE CIVIL RIGHTS ACT OF 1964 ( P.L. 88-352) STUDENTS ACCEPTED WITHOUT REGARD TO RACE , COLOR , NATIONAL ORIGIN , SEX , RELIGION , AGE OR DISABILITY .<br />
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SELLING your<br />
FUNERAL HOME<br />
or CEMETERY?<br />
We provide the service you expect!<br />
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• Expansion • Working Capital<br />
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CONVENTIONAL or SBA LOANS<br />
“As a family owned<br />
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FOR SALE<br />
Horse Drawn Hearse, by James<br />
Cunningham & Son. Very ornate<br />
carvings, original lamps, curtains.<br />
Fully restored ready for funerals,<br />
parades or display in funeral parlor.<br />
Call or email for info,Grant Gilbert<br />
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or sales@webejeeping.com<br />
Classified Ads<br />
Milton Fields in Georgia's ONLY state regulated endowment<br />
care GREEN cemetery. We are looking for a career<br />
minded individual seeking full time employment as a<br />
cemetery sales advisor. If you want to help families plan<br />
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www.miltonfieldsgeorgia.com or 770-751-1445.<br />
INDIVIDUAL WANTING TO PURCHASE AND<br />
OPERATE FUNERAL BUSINESS<br />
Licensed <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> and Embalmer i n two Southeastern<br />
states, wants to purchase and relocate to your town. Licensed<br />
twenty plus years, not part of a corporation or group of<br />
investors. I am an individual representing myself. Please send<br />
inquiries to: Advertiser #345, c/o <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong>,<br />
P. O. Box 768152, Roswell, GA 30076 or send emails to;<br />
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SPECIAL SUMMER OFFER!<br />
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Notice is hereby given to the public that on June 30, <strong>2011</strong>, the Chancery Court of Shelby County, Tennessee entered its<br />
Order Granting the Receiver’s Verified Petition to Approve the Sale of the Assets of Forest Hill <strong>Funeral</strong> Home and Memorial<br />
Park – East, LLC (“Forest Hill”), a funeral home and cemetery concern located in Memphis, Tennessee, and approving<br />
bidding procedures and other matters incident to such sale. All persons interested in the purchase of the assets of<br />
Forest Hill should contact Max Shelton, Receiver, for additional information concerning bidding procedures as soon as possible,<br />
but no later than August 5, <strong>2011</strong>.<br />
Contact information for Mr. Shelton is: (901) 525-1455; Fax (901) 526-4084; e-mail mshelton@harrisshelton.com<br />
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FUNERAL DIRECTOR/ EMBALMER<br />
Immediate<br />
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Large, beautiful, well established family owned<br />
funeral home and cemetery organization, East<br />
Coast FL., seeks a highly motivated licensed funeral<br />
director/embalmer or intern.<br />
Successful candidate must be able to work independently,<br />
multi task, and demonstrate exceptional<br />
integrity and customer service.<br />
Alternating weekends, easy on call schedule, no<br />
night or weekend removals, and limited prep-room<br />
work. Must be able to obtain a Florida <strong>Funeral</strong><br />
<strong>Director</strong>s License.<br />
Please contact Pamela at 386-267-1100<br />
fax your resume to: 386-267-1101<br />
or email: daytonafd@lohmaninc.com<br />
ADVERTISING<br />
All classified advertising needs to be paid in<br />
advance by check, credit card or have billing<br />
arrangements made through <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong><br />
<strong>Director</strong>, prior to printing of the issue. Rates are<br />
$1.00 per word, with a $25.00 minimum charge.<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong><br />
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Attn: John Yopp<br />
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<strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong> AD INDEX<br />
Ambulance & Coach 17<br />
Andover Marker 28<br />
Batesville Casket 13<br />
Bill Black<br />
31<br />
IBC<br />
Columbian Financial 18<br />
Custom Casket Company 23<br />
Doric Vaults 5<br />
Federal Coach<br />
2 IFC<br />
Frigid Fluid Company 15<br />
Holland Supply 7<br />
Hoyt Matise 27<br />
John A. Gupton 27<br />
Master Grave Service 9<br />
Ogeechee Tech 19<br />
Pierce Chemicals 29<br />
Pierce Mortuary Colleges 26<br />
PSI Funds 24<br />
Service Casket Company 10<br />
Super Nova Mfg.<br />
4<br />
Sutton Slover Law 30<br />
Ties for You 28<br />
Wilbert <strong>Funeral</strong> Service<br />
32 BC<br />
POSITION OFFERING<br />
A multi location <strong>Southern</strong> metropolitan full service<br />
funeral provider with cremation emphasis<br />
seeks a President who will facilitate continued<br />
growth and reputation as a market leader. <strong>The</strong> primary<br />
role will be to drive customer satisfaction<br />
through excellent operational activities, build a<br />
strong team and execute growth strategies. Experience<br />
in preneed contracting, marketing, operations<br />
and P&L responsibility is desired.<br />
<strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> license and knowledge of <strong>Funeral</strong><br />
industry is a plus. Salary and bonus package<br />
commensurate with experience and results. Please<br />
forward your resume and salary history to Advertiser<br />
#310, c/o <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>,<br />
P.O. Box 768152, Roswell, GA 30076.<br />
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A coordinated d approach<br />
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Families will<br />
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Commemorations by Wilbert © <strong>2011</strong> Wilbert <strong>Funeral</strong> Services, Inc. All rights reserved. ADV-11010402-JUN11-SFD