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<strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong><br />

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Understanding <strong>Cremation</strong><br />

by: Frank B. Stewart, Stewart Enterprises<br />

So What is Bio <strong>Cremation</strong><br />

by: Paul Rahill, Matthews <strong>Cremation</strong> Division<br />

<strong>Cremation</strong> Needs To Be Put<br />

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CREMATION FEATURES<br />

6 Understanding <strong>Cremation</strong><br />

by Frank B. Stewart, Stewart Enterprises<br />

10 So What Is Bio<strong>Cremation</strong>?<br />

by Paul Rahill, Matthews <strong>Cremation</strong> Division<br />

12 Remembering 9/11 by Ed Horn<br />

13 <strong>Cremation</strong> Needs to be Put in its Rightful Place<br />

by Jay Dodds, Carriage Services<br />

16 Slide Show by Ed Horn<br />

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y: Ed Horn, Associate Publisher<br />

Few people are lucky enough to find a calling that matches so well to their natural dispositions. I joined our<br />

profession 12 years ago unwillingly and frankly seeking alternatives. <strong>The</strong> “death-care” profession sounded<br />

like a disease best avoided. Due to the insistence of my wife I began as a Memorial Counselor at St. Michael’s<br />

Cemetery in Queens, NY.<br />

Daily I scanned job openings hoping to find an opportunity that would save me. Celebrating New Year’s<br />

shortly after beginning at St. Michael’s I reluctantly admitted what I was currently doing when friends asked. I<br />

expect derision and scorn. Instead I was inundated with questions and stories that were genuine and caused<br />

me to view my new employment differently. As of that January I decided to really try to learn the business and<br />

found enormous satisfaction in assisting families who were suffering a loss or fearful of planning the future.<br />

That year I exceeded all other Counselors in sales. When the Sales <strong>Director</strong> moved on I was asked to assume<br />

the position. I did so requesting the additional positions of <strong>Director</strong> of Marketing and of Community Relations.<br />

To me sales could never succeed in our service profession without addressing these other components. I am<br />

proud of St. Michael’s and that the Cemetery has June been - July <strong>2011</strong> honored SFD:- 9/28/11 by 10:37 having AM Page 9 GM Dennis Werner elected to the<br />

Board of CANA and me to the Board of<br />

<strong>Director</strong>s of the ICCFA. <strong>The</strong> City of New<br />

Yo rk h as reco g n ized o u r c o m m u n ity<br />

in v o lv e m e n t b y in c lu d in g m e in th e<br />

C o n g ressio n al R eco rd an d b y issu in g<br />

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appreciation from many of the elected leaders<br />

of the City & State. Nothing though eclipsed<br />

my being named M an of the Year by the<br />

Christopher Santora Scholarship Fund.<br />

Christopher was the youngest Firefighter lost at<br />

the World Trade Center on September 11th. People<br />

discuss “thinking out of the box.” To meour<br />

profession has no limits and should never be defined<br />

by the boundaries ofour properties. I have<br />

been thrilled by meeting leaders of our profession,<br />

someof whom appear in this edition of the<br />

magazine. Others will present their viewsin the<br />

months that follow. Our profession has no box<br />

as the families we serverefuse to be confined by<br />

any limitations. <strong>The</strong> SFD magazine will offer insights<br />

and points of views which will educate,<br />

intrigue and perhaps create differing opinions.<br />

<strong>The</strong> promise we make to our readers is to inspire<br />

them as no other publication has.<br />

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Understanding <strong>Cremation</strong><br />

by Frank B. Stewart, Jr. - Stewart Enterprises, Inc.<br />

Many people feel that cremation consists of<br />

ashes and gases, vapor, and intangible smoke,<br />

which is not correct. <strong>Cremation</strong> is a process<br />

which takes approximately 2 ½ hours to incinerate our<br />

physical body and remains, leaving the elements<br />

(namely the skeletal frame of our body) intact, as the<br />

calcium of our bones does not self-destruct or burn.<br />

<strong>The</strong> fact that we unearth the bones and fossils of pre-historic<br />

creatures and re-assemble them in museums is the<br />

proof that even fire and incineration cannot destroy the<br />

matter of our physical existence. Yes, these thoughts are<br />

very sensitive to dwell on and somewhat offensive or<br />

depressing to contemplate, but the truth and reality<br />

should be known by all who choose the reduction<br />

process of cremation.<br />

Many individuals ask why the incineration process, or<br />

time in a crematory, which is an oven or retort chamber,<br />

cannot be extended to eradicate all existing matter? - - -<br />

In order to incinerate our bones, which are calcium, it<br />

would take many, many hours; and even then there<br />

would still be physical material, elements, or matter remaining.<br />

If the incineration time is extended longer than<br />

2 ½ hours, the cremation chamber itself would also selfdestruct<br />

with the intense heat and require regular replacement<br />

of the fire brick. Fire brick begins to crumble<br />

in the intense heat when the temperature rises to the<br />

maximum level for a prolonged period of time. <strong>The</strong><br />

question has often been asked, - - - why then, doesn’t a<br />

cremation chamber be made of steel or metal, in lieu of<br />

fire brick? <strong>The</strong> answer to that questions is the same, -<br />

- - as the material of metal or steel (iron ore) would also<br />

melt and self-destruct in the process of trying to obtain<br />

100% incineration.<br />

Human existence in life is two parts - - half physical and<br />

half spiritual. Those who choose cremation are merely<br />

dealing with the physical component. Our spiritual existence<br />

lives on. We are going to bury our bodies, - - -<br />

- but we are not going to bury our spirits.<br />

Whereas cremation is a very clean and logical means of<br />

reduction and disposition, it does become somewhat offensive<br />

in the minds of the living to subject oneself or a<br />

loved one to such a method of incineration, or reduction,<br />

or disposition. Regardless, there is certainly nothing<br />

wrong with the choice of cremation for the obvious reason<br />

of reducing the physical content of our body to a<br />

much smaller amount of matter, hopefully to be disposed<br />

of in a very dignified, respectful manner, especially<br />

since that matter once held the spirit of our existence.<br />

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Most people have a conviction in our existence of, - - -<br />

more than the “here and now” and - - - the belief that<br />

life does not end at death, but merely transforms into a<br />

spiritual existence, which is a continuation of life and<br />

existence in a different form. As mentioned, most people<br />

believe that the reward of a life well lived, is the continuation<br />

of existence in a spiritual sense that we are not<br />

privileged to understand or can physically prove. <strong>The</strong>re<br />

is a wonderful text in scripture that reads: “No eye has<br />

been, nor ear has heard, nor has the mind of man fathomed<br />

what I have in store for those who love me!”<br />

Regardless, “cremation” is nothing more than the incineration<br />

of our body or the physical vessel of our existence<br />

by the best ability of modern mechanical means.<br />

After cremation, it is felt that the disposition of the matter<br />

that results be processed (which is further reduction<br />

of the skeletal frame to what is called “cremains”)! After<br />

the cremation itself, the skeletal frame is reduced by mechanical<br />

means to what results as small calcium gravel<br />

or sand. <strong>The</strong> calcium is crushed, ground, and pulverized!<br />

Again, the results are referred to as “cremains”.<br />

It is not ashes and gases, or smoke, as often referred to<br />

by the unknowing public; but, it is cremains!<br />

<strong>The</strong> cremains are then placed into a container known as<br />

an urn that can range from a very simplistic box or metal<br />

container to a beautiful and/or elaborate urn of wood,<br />

metal, ceramic, of other material. We must always remember<br />

that whatever the physical matter that results<br />

from cremation is, technically our body is just reduced<br />

in size. It is the vessel that once held our spirit. Families<br />

do have many options and alternatives to choose<br />

from in the selection of an appropriate urn or container,<br />

which again is a very important psychological step. <strong>The</strong><br />

tangible existence of our body is merely reduced to this<br />

form of physical matter, “cremains”, and needs to be<br />

buried or disposed of in hopefully a respectful and<br />

meaningful way - - - in a meaningful location. Most humans<br />

in life have a desire to be remembered as having<br />

been significant - - namely having fulfilled their purpose!<br />

That does not mean that we want to be remembered<br />

as having been wealthy, powerful, successful, or<br />

important, - - - - but, as significant! - - - Having had<br />

meaning!<br />

Those who take cremated remains home not only subject<br />

themselves and their family to having the cremated urn<br />

get lost, misplaced, or discarded, as your remains or the<br />

remains of your loved one may end up in the closet, the<br />

basement, the attic, or just become lost in a future move<br />

to a new location. Regardless, those who take the re-


mains to their home and display them on the mantle or<br />

shelf have the constant reminder of their loved one’s<br />

presence and, the reminder of the physical loss. <strong>The</strong> importance<br />

of all families returning to a life of “normalcy”,<br />

is so important! It is much easier to do so without the<br />

daily awareness or reminder of sorrow by the urn being<br />

present in their home. It is also a very important consideration<br />

to allow other members of the family or<br />

friends to visit the physical location of the urn in their<br />

desire to occasionally relate to and to pay respect to the<br />

life that lived! Where would you like this urn to be in 5,<br />

20, or 50 years? Who remains among the living that<br />

knew the deceased in 50 years? A cemetery or columbarium<br />

is the permanent location for cremated remains.<br />

Those that choose to scatter cremains or to bury cremains<br />

at sea are eliminating future generations from<br />

equating with the physical location of what was physically<br />

left of a human life. We human creatures primarily<br />

relate to physical existence and location, in all of our reflections<br />

in life and the feeling of prior existence, both<br />

physical and spiritual. Tourists travel the world over to<br />

visit the burial locations of significant individuals and<br />

events, even back to the days of the pyramids and the<br />

Taj Mahal and Normandy, and Ground Zero in New<br />

York City.<br />

Again, we must acknowledge that all of us human creatures<br />

do normally react to and relate to the physical locations<br />

in life that have meaning. <strong>The</strong> burial location of<br />

a loved one that we knew in life is a very tangible element<br />

in our reflection and recollection of the past. Thus,<br />

we do visit the physical locations of not only burial locations,<br />

but the locations in which we worship and reflect<br />

on life and its origin and its past. Temples,<br />

churches, cathedrals, or houses of worship are the best<br />

examples of physical locations in which we frequent, to<br />

pay homage to or give tribute to, in our conviction, belief,<br />

and perception of an Almighty Creator or Maker<br />

(God). It is often said “Why do we get dressed up and<br />

go to a church or a temple to worship when we can worship<br />

and glorify our Maker at any location or point in<br />

life?” We do so, however, because it is a physical action,<br />

an outright sign, and location that we believe houses the<br />

spirit to which we relate in our faith. In some faiths it is<br />

essential to worship in a specific building in which we<br />

can sense and feel the presence of an almighty spirit and<br />

creator.<br />

<strong>The</strong>refore, those who choose to scatter cremains or to<br />

take cremains home in the form of an urn or a container,<br />

or bury cremated remains at sea, are eliminating future<br />

generations of having the privilege to relate to a permanent<br />

physical location where the remains of the vessel or<br />

body that held the spirit is buried. Psychologists and<br />

those professionals who study the human mind know<br />

well the importance of closure, - - - of relating to the<br />

physical existence that meant so much to us in life. We<br />

all know how difficult it is when the bodies or remains<br />

of our loved ones, such as the POW’s, MIA’s, or those<br />

who were killed in action, are not returned to us, or those<br />

who were tragically taken in accidents where there are<br />

no remains. <strong>The</strong> consequences and the mental hunger<br />

of those left behind want to relate to the body or the vessel<br />

that held the spirit. Again, there is seldom closure<br />

without the presence of the physical remains.<br />

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Whereas cremation is certainly an expedient and efficient<br />

means of “reduction” of space consumption for<br />

ease in disposition, it does have some consequences in<br />

the minds of the living that are left behind. It is often<br />

said by the professionals in the death care field that the<br />

whole process of “celebrating a life that lived”, in a funeral,<br />

namely choosing a means of disposition that is not<br />

only acceptable, but also comforting and that does memorialize<br />

the memories of the spirit and physical creature<br />

that died with dignity, is vitally important to the<br />

process of acceptance in the “transition of life” that we<br />

all must one day face!<br />

For the vast majority of humans who do have a deepseated<br />

conviction of, “more than the here and now”, it is<br />

most important to consider the choice of disposition and<br />

memorialization that is made when the death occurs.<br />

<strong>The</strong>re are no exceptions, - - - - as we all will physically<br />

die, but most of us have faith in the salvation of our spirit<br />

and conviction of the life to come. For those who claim<br />

to be atheists, agnostics, or who do not have faith of any<br />

kind, it is very difficult to be motivated in doing the right<br />

thing for the right reason in every choice that we face<br />

each day of existence. For the atheist, there is little reason<br />

for total honesty, integrity, ethics, and morality, as<br />

the belief of not having accountability to a Creator, a<br />

higher source in the life we live on this earth. <strong>The</strong> ultimate<br />

motivation for a proper lifestyle is eradicated or<br />

eliminated. <strong>The</strong>refore, it is truly important in cremation<br />

to consider the process, the options, and alternatives and<br />

the manner in which we choose cremation as a means<br />

of reducing our remains to a much smaller consumption<br />

of burial space. <strong>The</strong> remains also need to be accessible<br />

in a permanent manner for future generations to be inspired<br />

by their physical presence.<br />

Life and its consequences is manifest in the manner in<br />

which we bury our dead. <strong>The</strong> great philosopher,<br />

William Gladstone, once said:<br />

“Show me the manner in which a nation cares for its<br />

dead, and I will measure with mathematical exactness<br />

the tender mercies of its people, their respect for the laws<br />

of the land and their loyalty to high ideals.”<br />

Life and death are real, - - - - and the consequences of<br />

the decisions we humans make in death care are very<br />

important to the generations we have created and that<br />

will follow our path.<br />

I have often been asked how the Catholic Church feels<br />

about cremation, and I’m pleased to respond by stating<br />

I met with the hierarchy of the Church before opening<br />

our first crematory in the State of Louisiana in 1972.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Church leaders shared with me the fact that cremation<br />

was formerly prohibited here in the United States,<br />

only because it was brought into this country and practiced<br />

by individuals who profess to be atheists or agnostics,<br />

and who were using “cremation” as an outward<br />

sign of defiance or contempt for the Catholic faith and<br />

beliefs of the Church.<br />

Naturally, in the Catholic Church the belief is that at the<br />

end of time, the day of resurrection will come when our<br />

earthly remains will be reunited, whereby our earthly<br />

bodies will resurrect and exist in a magnificent state of<br />

being. <strong>The</strong> Church’s stand presently is that they no<br />

longer have a prohibition against cremation in the<br />

United States, as long as it is not chosen as an act of defiance<br />

or contempt for one’s faith.<br />

Yes, if an individual chooses cremation because of the<br />

efficiency, convenience, or economy to be gained and<br />

they are willing to treat the remains in a respectful, dignified<br />

fashion, as the matter or substance that once held<br />

the spirit, then the Church has no objection to cremation<br />

and will allow the liturgy and ceremony of burial rites to<br />

be conducted within a Church and by a member of the<br />

clergy. Again, the desired result is to respect the cremated<br />

remains (cremains), as what remains of our physical<br />

existence. Our physical remains should always be<br />

treated with dignity. <strong>The</strong> Catholic Church has always<br />

assumed the responsibility of the corporal work of<br />

mercy of burying the dead.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Catholic Church had previously recognized cremation<br />

in earlier generations and civilizations as a means of<br />

reduction of the physical body, still conducting a ceremony<br />

and tribute celebrating a life that lived. We humans<br />

definitely relate to physical existence and the<br />

location where the physical existence of our remains are<br />

buried. As mentioned before, cremation is not burial. It<br />

is merely the reduction of our remains to a cubic foot of<br />

calcium.<br />

We often visit museums the world over to view the remains<br />

of prehistoric and animal life that roamed the<br />

earth thousands and millions of years ago. For example,<br />

the bones of dinosaurs are unearthed and reassembled,<br />

as calcium does endure the ages. Whereas<br />

cremation or consummation by fire is a harsh reality, - -<br />

- - but many people choose this method of reduction because<br />

of the economies of space consumption and expense<br />

in permanent burial locations and their upkeep.<br />

Thank you for giving me the opportunity to address you<br />

today. I appreciate all that you do to serve the families<br />

who choose our firm to assist them in their time of need.<br />

Written by Frank B. Stewart, Jr.<br />

Chairman of the Board, Stewart<br />

Enterprises, Inc.<br />

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So What Is Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>?<br />

by: Paul Rahill, Matthews <strong>Cremation</strong> Division<br />

<strong>The</strong>re has been a long lead up to the final development<br />

of technology and necessary legislative changes required<br />

to allow forward progress on a new cremation process<br />

called “Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>.” Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> utilizes a<br />

high pressure and high temperature cremation chamber<br />

with a process called alkaline hydrolysis to reduce<br />

human remains to their basic elements.<br />

<strong>Cremation</strong> by definition is reducing the body to its basic<br />

elements of bone fragments through the use of heat.<br />

CANA, <strong>The</strong> <strong>Cremation</strong> Association of North America, is<br />

the world’s largest and most respected authority on all<br />

things cremation. CANA has progressively defined cremation<br />

as “the mechanical and/or thermal or other dissolution<br />

process that reduces human remains to bone<br />

fragments.” Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> technology replaces the<br />

use of flame with the utilization of water, blended with<br />

an alkali solution of potassium hydroxide (KOH). <strong>The</strong><br />

human body is placed into a pressurized<br />

stainless steel cremation<br />

chamber where water and alkali<br />

are automatically added and the<br />

temperature is raised to 350°F.<br />

Water, alkali, high-heat and highpressure<br />

working in harmony<br />

gently circulate over the body,<br />

causing a reaction that begins and<br />

completes the cremation process.<br />

Let’s face it, there are not many<br />

attractive images when we envision<br />

the “transition” of a human<br />

body to bones (B2B). Within the<br />

complete death care process, the<br />

B2B transition is inescapable.<br />

This is a journey all of us will take<br />

regardless of whether our end of<br />

life choice is burial, flame cremation<br />

or water based Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>.<br />

<strong>The</strong> end result will be the<br />

same. <strong>The</strong> difference between<br />

burial, flame cremation or Bio<br />

<strong>Cremation</strong> is the B2B transition<br />

time line and the “catalyst” we<br />

choose. With burial, the transition<br />

may take 25 years and the catalyst<br />

to reduce the body to bones is soil<br />

and micro-organisms. With flame<br />

cremation, the transition takes approximately<br />

2-3 hours and the<br />

catalysts to reduce the body to<br />

bones are heat created by a chemical fuel (CH4 natural<br />

gas or C3H8 propane gas) mixed with oxygen. With Bio<br />

<strong>Cremation</strong>, the transition takes approximately 2-3<br />

hours and the catalysts to reduce the body to bones are<br />

water (95%) and a chemical, potassium hydroxide<br />

(KOH). All of these choices begin with a body and eventually<br />

ends with bones. With the introduction of Bio <strong>Cremation</strong><br />

we can<br />

determine the<br />

residual effects our<br />

end of life decision<br />

will have on the<br />

planet.<br />

It is important to<br />

address a few common<br />

misnomers<br />

when describing<br />

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environment. We return to the earth through a cycle of<br />

life, helping to promote new life as nature intended it to<br />

occur.<br />

Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>. First, no acid is used in this gentle<br />

water based cremation process. <strong>The</strong> chemical used with<br />

water is an alkaline called potassium hydroxide (KOH)<br />

which is a colorless inorganic compound. KOH has<br />

many industrial, commercial and personal applications.<br />

KOH is noteworthy as an ingredient to numerous health<br />

aids, cosmetics, pharmaceuticals, food processing, and<br />

cleaning supplies you would commonly find at home.<br />

For Bio <strong>Cremation</strong>, its reaction in water is strongly<br />

exothermic, meaning the process gives off significant<br />

heat which contributes to the hydrolyzing or breakdown<br />

of the human tissue in the sealed cremation chamber.<br />

Another misconception is that the process “boils” a<br />

body, which is false. This technology creates a very controlled<br />

and sophisticated environment that uniquely<br />

combines water, alkali, high-heat and high-pressure that<br />

biochemically hydrolyzes the human body, leaving only<br />

bone fragments.<br />

During a typical Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> cycle, the body is reduced,<br />

bone fragments are rinsed and the remaining byproduct<br />

is a sterile effluent (fluid). What makes this<br />

process so environmentally-friendly and even greener<br />

than flame based cremation is that there are almost zero<br />

air emissions (particulates, greenhouse gases, carbon<br />

monoxide, mercury, etc.) emitted into the atmosphere.<br />

<strong>The</strong> by-product (effluent) from Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> is sent<br />

to water recycling where it is filtered, purified and recycled<br />

back into the environment either through the<br />

aquifers, lakes, streams and non-potable water use. In<br />

essence, our body is recycled and without harm to the<br />

<strong>The</strong> foundation of funeral service has always focused on<br />

helping us create a personal and meaningful event, gathering<br />

and/or memorial service that meet the emotional<br />

and spiritual needs of both family and friends. <strong>The</strong> popularity<br />

of cremation supports the foundation for traditional<br />

services but offers a unique flexibility in choosing<br />

a variety of different memorialization opportunities (i.e.<br />

Cemetery Burial, Niche, Columbarium, Scattering, etc).<br />

Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> supports a family’s desire for a public<br />

visitation with/without a memorial service prior to cremation.<br />

Even though a traditional wood or cardboard<br />

casket cannot be consumed in the Bio <strong>Cremation</strong><br />

process (the process only accommodates protein base<br />

material), a silk cremation container with a stainless<br />

steel frame is introduced into a standard “rental casket”<br />

for viewing. Once a service is complete, the silk cremation<br />

container and stainless steel frame (holding the<br />

human remains), can be removed from the rental casket<br />

and placed directly into the Bio cremation equipment.<br />

<strong>The</strong> silk cremation container is consumed during the cremation<br />

cycle and the now sterile stainless steel insert is<br />

removed and reused.<br />

Since Bio <strong>Cremation</strong> can only accommodate protein<br />

based material, clothing on the deceased must be made<br />

of (protein based materials) silk, wool or leather which<br />

is consumed during the cremation process.<br />

In summary, the Body 2 Bones transition varies from<br />

process to process, from 2 hours to 25 years; the catalyst<br />

used differs but each process uses some form of accelerator<br />

for decomposition; transition by-products from<br />

each process are different (fluids, air emissions and<br />

gases), but the end result for all is the same, BONES.<br />

For a good source of information we recommend you<br />

consider this website: BIOCREMATIONINFO.COM.<br />

This site contains information for consumers, environmental<br />

topics, news and articles, legislative updates and<br />

support. Material is constantly added and updated on this<br />

site.<br />

Paul F Rahill is President<br />

of Matthews International<br />

<strong>Cremation</strong> Division,<br />

the world’s leader in<br />

developing and providing<br />

cremation solutions. For<br />

comments and questions<br />

he may be contacted<br />

through email at<br />

prahill@matw.com.<br />

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Sadly families will gather on September 11th at<br />

Ground Zero to honor their loved ones lost due to<br />

acts that will ever haunt civilized humanity. <strong>The</strong><br />

hatred and the blind zealotry that removed common decency<br />

permitting suicide attackers to kill without remorse<br />

is so alien that we can never accept the reality of<br />

those burning building.<br />

History records the carnage<br />

caused by stoic adherents of<br />

corrupted ideologies and religious<br />

advocacy. Be it submission<br />

to an Emperor, a<br />

dictator or a Prophet adherence<br />

to only one voice precludes<br />

alternative<br />

considerations which results<br />

in devastation, death,<br />

destruction and a legacy of<br />

sorrow. It is usually small<br />

minorities that strangle majorities<br />

plaguing the masses to unspeakable hardship and<br />

losses.<br />

Individuals at the extreme who only see black or white<br />

are mentally confined limiting and destroying alternatives<br />

that otherwise would be available. <strong>The</strong>y have<br />

painted themselves into corners restricting their conception<br />

of options that could result in far more acceptable<br />

outcomes.<br />

<strong>The</strong> blood of innocents is not only excusable but is demanded<br />

by such zealots as the price that must be paid<br />

by others. It does not matter that non-violent means were<br />

available. In the absence of compromise no compassion<br />

is tolerable. Society’s sole recourse is to exterminate<br />

those who deem life only as a means to an end and death<br />

as a gift.<br />

As in Germany future generations may be mystified by<br />

the acts of their ancestors. Often asked is how the most<br />

advanced society in Europe morphed the Germans into<br />

genocidal murderers, or how the Japanese exploded in<br />

cruelty from the humanists who adhered to the calling of<br />

nature. Yet forgiveness and understanding is impossible.<br />

To forgive is to accept excuses for which there are no<br />

excuses.<br />

Many nations currently face the cruel realities of crushing<br />

national debts or governments unable to compromise<br />

political divides. Partisan divides that threaten economic<br />

stability and foster uncertainty create the breeding places<br />

for extremists. It is only a small step further to condemn<br />

others as alien stripping<br />

away any pretense of civility<br />

or humanity.<br />

Yet there is anger heard<br />

from those who expect and<br />

demand “closure.” It is as if<br />

the death of a loved one<br />

counts for nothing. Some<br />

expect their stories and the<br />

tragedies of their suffering<br />

and death to be but dust<br />

swept under a mental blanket.<br />

Nothing is more unlikely<br />

to occur then complying with the demands to<br />

forget yesterday.<br />

America proudly recalls its heroes and commemorates<br />

moments of national tragedy with services, parades and<br />

political theatre. As Americans we hang the flag and<br />

wave it enthusiastically at such events. We chant “USA<br />

all the way!” with voices that will not yield to any other<br />

nation.<br />

Viet Nam for many was a memory best forgotten for<br />

those who only saw it as an American defeat. Those who<br />

fought wearing our uniform were caused to pay the ugly<br />

scars of Americans turning their backs on our Vets. It required<br />

years for a monument to be dedicated with the<br />

thousands of names that fell answering the call of arms<br />

and who loyally proved their devotion by serving.<br />

Those who were innocent victims on September 11th deserve<br />

to be remembered. <strong>The</strong> First Responders who responded<br />

and marched into collapsing buildings knowing<br />

they were walking to their deaths demand our respect,<br />

thanks, awe, devotion and to never be forgotten!<br />

Ed Horn<br />

12 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> Alliance <strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


<strong>Cremation</strong> Needs to be Put in its Rightful Place<br />

By Jay Dodds, Carriage Service<br />

“<strong>Cremation</strong>” has generally been viewed as an ugly word<br />

within the funeral and cemetery business. It conjures up<br />

thoughts of direct service, low revenues, cheapness, disposals<br />

and most frightening the elimination of any permanent<br />

memorialization. In reality it should not lead to<br />

any of those ideas. <strong>Cremation</strong> can be simply defined as<br />

a form of body preparation, similar to embalming; it is<br />

a form of preparing the body for eternal rest. Nowhere<br />

does the definition of cremation address the real value of<br />

funeral or cemetery service. Body preparation is an important<br />

aspect but not the main value proposition of any<br />

leading funeral or cemetery company. If you understand<br />

the true value of service and permanent memorialization,<br />

the choice a client family makes in regards to cremation<br />

or burial is really irrelevant to you.<br />

It is important to understand exactly what we do and<br />

why it is important. <strong>The</strong>re have been many books and<br />

articles written by industry experts and psychologists<br />

that explain the value proposition of the funeral and<br />

cemetery business which is focused on the living, not<br />

the dead. <strong>The</strong> “new” relationship that is formed between<br />

the living relatives and the now deceased person<br />

must be recognized and transitioned properly, which is<br />

the main value any funeral or cemetery business can<br />

offer. That relationship between the living and the dead<br />

must be transitioned and some type of gathering with<br />

viewing preferably is an important component for that<br />

transition. Permanent memorialization is an additional<br />

component that offers connectivity to feelings and memories.<br />

It is often misunderstood that a client family must<br />

have closure. This is a big misconception. If you have<br />

experienced a close death in your lifetime, you will realize<br />

nothing gets “closed”, your relationship just<br />

changes. Transition is the key. A connection to the deceased<br />

will always be present and we must understand<br />

how to provide services and products that help the family<br />

stay connected in a healthy way.<br />

Here is an interesting point I stumbled on a couple of<br />

years ago. I was asked if I thought that the funeral and<br />

cemetery service business was a thing of the past. My<br />

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<strong>Cremation</strong> Needs to be Put in its Rightful Place<br />

response was that as long as our client families were<br />

human beings we would always have a valuable offering.<br />

Every human must grieve; it is how we are wired.<br />

It is also very important to understand that everyone<br />

grieves in a different manner and the difference in severity<br />

may be extreme. It is not our job to be grief healers,<br />

but I do believe it is our job to do what we can to assist<br />

the family with their mourning and help them grieve in<br />

the healthiest possible way for them. Providing and executing<br />

an array of service options accomplishes this<br />

most important part of our role. Understanding that our<br />

value proposition to our client families is in offering and<br />

designing personalized services that fit the special relationships<br />

in their lives and helps them heal is really what<br />

we are about. <strong>The</strong> choice that the client family makes<br />

concerning the preparation of the deceased, again, is actually<br />

irrelevant to our true value.<br />

With this in mind, all funeral and cemetery arrangers (at<br />

need or pre-need) must understand that their role is to<br />

be a consultant to the family and not just “accommodating<br />

to the family’s wishes.” A good consultant listens<br />

intently and then makes sensible recommendations that<br />

fit the client’s true needs. If your arrangers truly believe<br />

and understand their chosen profession and the “value<br />

offering”, their recommendations will be accepted by<br />

the client family and your business will prosper. With a<br />

burial, permanent memorialization in a cemetery is necessary<br />

and a proper memorial is critical for capturing the<br />

relationships of that life lived. <strong>The</strong> options for permanent<br />

memorialization of their cremated loved one are<br />

endless with options that will or will not include a cemetery.<br />

It is our opportunity not our “problem” to create<br />

gardens and features that draw the client families that<br />

choose to cremate. <strong>The</strong> best part of our business is that<br />

everything we believe in concerning service and permanent<br />

memorialization is truly healthy and necessary for<br />

our communities.<br />

<strong>The</strong> business aspect of what we do should not be affected<br />

significantly by families choosing to cremate.<br />

You may ask how the rise of cremation can not possibly<br />

affect the bottom line. <strong>The</strong> answer lies in the value of<br />

your service and how much you believe in creating and<br />

executing personalized service. Your average sales contract<br />

will typically be lower than a “traditional burial”<br />

but your cost structure should be lower as well providing<br />

similar if not greater dollars to your bottom line, if<br />

you are not afraid to charge a fair price for your services.<br />

This of course can be argued forever, but if you<br />

are charging and executing service to the level your<br />

communities deserve your actual dollar profit can remain<br />

very healthy. Now, can you run your business the<br />

same as you did when the cremation rate was 10%? <strong>The</strong><br />

answer is no. I don’t think the changes need to be drastic,<br />

but you will need to make sure that you are charging<br />

the correct prices for your services and that you are actively<br />

managing your cost structure, especially your personnel<br />

costs. <strong>The</strong> opportunities in your cemetery can be<br />

a wide range of products considering the lower capital<br />

costs of developing land for unique inurnments verses<br />

the cost of developing burial or entombment property.<br />

Many cemeteries have a finite number of acres available<br />

for burial, but with the options that inurnments offer, the<br />

life of our cemeteries can increase significantly.<br />

To look at cremation as the downfall of the funeral and<br />

cemetery business is just foolish. If you are convinced<br />

that your value proposition is purely to care for the deceased<br />

then you choose to be mitigated to the disposer<br />

level by strong competition. Defining cremation and not<br />

letting it define you is one of the keys to success in our<br />

industry. <strong>Cremation</strong> has a place in the preparation of<br />

the deceased, but service is how we have always touched<br />

our client families and will be how we stay relevant and<br />

profitable in the future.<br />

Jay D. Dodds is the Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer.<br />

Mr. Dodds has been in senior operations leadership for Carriage since October<br />

2000, most recently as Regional Managing Partner for the Central<br />

Region and regional Vice President of Operations. Mr. Dodds joined Carriage<br />

in 1994 as an operation Vice President. He has over 28 years of professional<br />

funeral home, cemetery and crematory operations experience.<br />

Prior to joining Carriage, he was affiliated with Stewart Enterprises for 13<br />

years serving in numerous operating positions. Mr. Dodds is a licensed<br />

<strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> and holds a Bachelors of Business Administration degree<br />

from the University of Texas Arlington. Mr. Dodds is a member of the International<br />

Cemetery, <strong>Cremation</strong> and <strong>Funeral</strong> Association where he serves<br />

as a board member, the National <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong>s Association, and the<br />

<strong>Cremation</strong> Associations of North America.<br />

14 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> Alliance <strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


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<strong>Funeral</strong> directors are challenged in many ways to meet the needs of larger people. Costs associated with additional size<br />

are difficult to explain, much less make up in some way. As you know, the casket in many cases is the first item the family<br />

wants to change in order to stay within budget.<br />

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Adaptation to <strong>Cremation</strong><br />

Members of our profession grieve the growing popularity of cremation. To many cremation truly is an assault on the bottom line.<br />

Others attempt to create innovative marketing plans to capture some revenue from what is viewed as a financially driven clientele.<br />

Dan Isard has offered various ideas to enhance revenues from cremation that are original and due our efforts.<br />

As a cemeterian with a crematory I have learned much from dealing with the groups who demand<br />

one type of ceremony over another. I find no credence that money is the reason families select cremation.<br />

Those who view burial as their only consideration will pay the cost regardless of the savings<br />

cremation offers. For those resolved that cremation is their sole consideration all the talk in the<br />

world will not alter their decision.<br />

Photos In Remembrance of<br />

First Responders<br />

That though is the point and the obligation we accepted when we joined our profession. It must be<br />

our dedicated purpose to serve the needs, wants and desires of the families who call upon us. Fighting<br />

a tidal wave will only drown you. It is a mark of disrespect to advocate an alternative unwanted<br />

by our Client simply in the hope of enriching ourselves.<br />

I am fully cognizant that a niche, glass or otherwise, is my least costly item. Niches cost little and<br />

their sales price is a jolt to the bottom line. Frankly the cemetery would do financially better if all<br />

we sold was niches. <strong>The</strong> return for investment is startling.<br />

With that said the cemetery has accepted that memorialization is a renewable and rewarding revenue<br />

generator. Vendors to our profession continuously come up with new items that permit us to seek<br />

and receive profits from memorial property that has no future positive value to us. <strong>The</strong>se properties<br />

represent obligation and costs that will go on for generations.<br />

Smartlite Candles is an asset. It is a flickering electronic light that we rent for one, five or ten years.<br />

When the term ends we re-rent the candle. Once our cost is paid off, rental income is all profits.<br />

Memory Medallions, the brainchild of Glenn Toothman had a slow introduction to the market. With<br />

the new generation of “smart” medallions now being sold that opens the world of the internet to families<br />

who wish to create a living memorial and to enhance genealogy, popular demand is escalating.<br />

At St. Michael’s we serve an ever increasing Hindu population whose beliefs require cremation and<br />

scattering of the remains. <strong>The</strong>re is no chance to sell a niche as a result. Yet as we have become accepted<br />

by the Hindu community we are beseeched by requests for memorialization.<br />

We have responded to their request by selling benches, placing markers in front of tree dedicated to<br />

a loved one. People regardless of their traditions share the common thread of needing to remember<br />

those who came before and to who we owe so much.<br />

A dear friend lost her mother. She turned to us for assistance. We recommended a <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong><br />

who had always impressed me with the obvious concern for his Clients. To him they were not business<br />

they were people suffering terribly. Our friend demanded to fulfill her mother’s request for cremation.<br />

Rather than attempting to dissuade the grieving daughter the <strong>Director</strong> listened to what was hoped for<br />

to honor the mother whose life was directed to benefit her child. <strong>Cremation</strong> was arranged after two<br />

days of viewing with a fine wood casket and all the necessities to insure the time the family insisted<br />

be shared with family and friends. <strong>The</strong> <strong>Director</strong> was rewarded for his patience and attention to the<br />

want and needs of the family by a service that financially exceeded the every expectation of what a<br />

cremation would be.<br />

Our profession is rewarding to those of us committed to it. At times it seems that we are luckier than<br />

most people. We are not workers but care providers. It is within us to find the means to insure our<br />

futures by accepting the realities of changing markets and demands. Rather than fighting for the “Old<br />

Days” which will never return it is time to look to the future and grow in new and unexpected ways!<br />

Ed Horn<br />

16 <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> Alliance <strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong>


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News Release<br />

Genesis Casket Names High Profile Leader as Special Advisor<br />

Robert G. Horn to Provide Guidance to Genesis Board of <strong>Director</strong>s<br />

Casket manufacturer Genesis Casket Company today announced<br />

that Robert G. (Bob) Horn has accepted an appointment<br />

to the Genesis Casket Board of <strong>Director</strong>s as a special<br />

advisor. Horn began serving in this capacity at the Genesis<br />

August 30th board meeting.<br />

“We are pleased and honored that Bob has accepted our invitation<br />

to serve and that he will be involved with our company,”<br />

stated Genesis President and Chief Executive Officer William<br />

Anthony (Tony) Colson. “I am personally looking forward to<br />

working with him and for Genesis Casket and all of funeral<br />

service to benefit from the wisdom and expertise he brings.<br />

His dedication to funeral service and stellar reputation will help<br />

Genesis address several of the issues facing funeral professionals<br />

today. ”<br />

Horn began his career in the funeral profession almost 50 years<br />

ago at a small family-owned mortuary and retired as CEO and<br />

Chairman of Keystone Group Holdings in 2007. Prior to cofounding<br />

Keystone, a multi-state funeral acquisition and operating<br />

firm, Bob was Chief Operating Officer and Partner of<br />

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Robert G. Horn<br />

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Genesis Casket Names High Profile Leader as Special Advisor<br />

Prime Succession, Inc. Before that, he spent 10 years as Executive Vice President of Pierce Brothers and prior<br />

to that, 16 years as Vice President at International <strong>Funeral</strong> Service. In addition to this new assignment, Horn<br />

currently serves as a consultant to a number of other companies in funeral service.<br />

“After reviewing the Genesis business plan, I am excited to be working with the company in developing ideas<br />

and concepts to help introduce Genesis Casket,” Horn stated. “Through my work with funeral directors over<br />

the past five decades, I know firsthand that these are challenging times in funeral service. I look forward to<br />

participating in the key discussions that launch the Genesis Casket product line.”<br />

Horn will participate with other members of the Genesis Board of <strong>Director</strong>s at their meetings. <strong>The</strong> appointment<br />

of Horn as a special<br />

advisor coincides with the<br />

planned start of casket<br />

production later this fall.<br />

“In the short time that I<br />

have known Bob, I have<br />

been particularly impressed<br />

with his concern<br />

for the future of the funeral<br />

profession,” added<br />

Jeffrey W. (Jeff) Wilson,<br />

Chairman of the Board for<br />

Genesis Casket. “His<br />

long and distinguished career<br />

in funeral service<br />

makes his selection very<br />

relevant and we appreciate<br />

his acceptance of this appointment.<br />

Genesis Casket is a new<br />

entity in funeral service,<br />

founded in 2010. It is<br />

headquartered in Indianapolis,<br />

IN and created<br />

in partnership with<br />

Gestamp North America,<br />

Inc., a global supplier<br />

of structural steel<br />

components for the automotive<br />

industry. Genesis<br />

plans to manufacture<br />

and distribute a line of<br />

metal caskets later this<br />

year that will be produced<br />

in its Indianapolis<br />

plant to funeral homes<br />

throughout the US.<br />

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Find us in more places than just campus.<br />

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Georgia FDA Hold Successful Summer Convention in<br />

Hilton Head. Tom Lord Elected President,<br />

Succeeding William Bowen<br />

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Georgia FDA Summer Convention<br />

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Georgia FDA Summer Convention<br />

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Georgia FDA Summer Convention<br />

Custom Casket Company<br />

Bottom Handle<br />

<strong>Funeral</strong> Coach Inventory<br />

<strong>2011</strong> S&S Medalist Cadillac - White -NEW!<br />

<strong>2011</strong> S&S Medalist Cadillac - Blue - Oval Window - NEW!<br />

<strong>2011</strong> S&S Medalist Cadillac - Black - NEW!<br />

2010 S&S Medalist Cadillac - Black/Silver - NEW!<br />

2007 S&S Medalist Cadillac - Black - 14K Miles<br />

2006 S&S Medalist Cadillac - Black/White - 21K Miles<br />

2006 Crown Sovereign - Black - 49K Miles<br />

2004 S&S Masterpiece Cadillac - Blue - w/Pull-out Table - 75K Miles<br />

1999 S&S Masterpiece Cadillac - Black/Gray - w/Pull-out Table - 51K Miles<br />

2005 S&S Limo<br />

6 Door<br />

Limousine Inventory<br />

2005 S&S 47" Cadillac w/Executive Roof - Black - 38K Miles<br />

2005 S&S Lincoln - 6DR - White - Leather - Reversible Center Seat -14K Miles<br />

2005 S&S 6DR Cadillac - Black/Silver - 18K Miles<br />

2005 S&S 6DR Cadillac - Silver - 24K Miles<br />

2005 Lincoln 46" 6DR - White - 23K Miles<br />

2004 S&S 6DR Cadillac w/Executive Roof - Dark Blue - 48K miles<br />

Custom Casket Company | 1603 Gibbs Drive | Gainesville, GA 30507<br />

(877) 57 – CASKET | info@customcasketcompany.com | www.customcasketcompany.com<br />

2010 S&S<br />

Cadillac Medalist<br />

American Made<br />

2005 S&S<br />

6 Door Cadillac Limo<br />

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Tennessee FDA Elects Billy Yarbrough,<br />

President, at 108th Annual Convention<br />

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PIERCE M ORTUARY C OLLEGES<br />

E XCELLENCE IN F UNERAL SERVICE E DUCATION<br />

<strong>The</strong><br />

Right<br />

Choice!<br />

John Braboy, President<br />

Mid-America College<br />

800-221-6158 . www.mid-america.edu<br />

Patty Hutcheson, President<br />

Gupton-Jones College<br />

800-848-5352 . www.gupton-jones.edu<br />

Give Us A Call 800-527-6419<br />

IN ACCORDANCE WITH TITLE VI OF THE CIVIL RIGHTS ACT OF 1964 ( P.L. 88-352) STUDENTS ACCEPTED WITHOUT REGARD TO RACE , COLOR , NATIONAL ORIGIN , SEX , RELIGION , AGE OR DISABILITY .<br />

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SELLING your<br />

FUNERAL HOME<br />

or CEMETERY?<br />

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We also can simplify loan processing for:<br />

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• Expansion • Working Capital<br />

• Inventory • Equipment<br />

CONVENTIONAL or SBA LOANS<br />

“As a family owned<br />

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business, you have<br />

my guarantee of<br />

personal service.”<br />

DICK MATISE<br />

1-800-341-0100<br />

www.matise.com<br />

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FOR SALE<br />

Horse Drawn Hearse, by James<br />

Cunningham & Son. Very ornate<br />

carvings, original lamps, curtains.<br />

Fully restored ready for funerals,<br />

parades or display in funeral parlor.<br />

Call or email for info,Grant Gilbert<br />

256-729-1980<br />

or sales@webejeeping.com<br />

Classified Ads<br />

Milton Fields in Georgia's ONLY state regulated endowment<br />

care GREEN cemetery. We are looking for a career<br />

minded individual seeking full time employment as a<br />

cemetery sales advisor. If you want to help families plan<br />

a simpler, more economical, natural alternative, we would<br />

like to talk with you.<br />

www.miltonfieldsgeorgia.com or 770-751-1445.<br />

INDIVIDUAL WANTING TO PURCHASE AND<br />

OPERATE FUNERAL BUSINESS<br />

Licensed <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> and Embalmer i n two Southeastern<br />

states, wants to purchase and relocate to your town. Licensed<br />

twenty plus years, not part of a corporation or group of<br />

investors. I am an individual representing myself. Please send<br />

inquiries to: Advertiser #345, c/o <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong>,<br />

P. O. Box 768152, Roswell, GA 30076 or send emails to;<br />

johnyopp3@aol.com<br />

SPECIAL SUMMER OFFER!<br />

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Order today www.hearttoheartsite.com<br />

or call Dick Perl @ 1-866-269- 0861<br />

Notice is hereby given to the public that on June 30, <strong>2011</strong>, the Chancery Court of Shelby County, Tennessee entered its<br />

Order Granting the Receiver’s Verified Petition to Approve the Sale of the Assets of Forest Hill <strong>Funeral</strong> Home and Memorial<br />

Park – East, LLC (“Forest Hill”), a funeral home and cemetery concern located in Memphis, Tennessee, and approving<br />

bidding procedures and other matters incident to such sale. All persons interested in the purchase of the assets of<br />

Forest Hill should contact Max Shelton, Receiver, for additional information concerning bidding procedures as soon as possible,<br />

but no later than August 5, <strong>2011</strong>.<br />

Contact information for Mr. Shelton is: (901) 525-1455; Fax (901) 526-4084; e-mail mshelton@harrisshelton.com<br />

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FUNERAL DIRECTOR/ EMBALMER<br />

Immediate<br />

Opening<br />

Large, beautiful, well established family owned<br />

funeral home and cemetery organization, East<br />

Coast FL., seeks a highly motivated licensed funeral<br />

director/embalmer or intern.<br />

Successful candidate must be able to work independently,<br />

multi task, and demonstrate exceptional<br />

integrity and customer service.<br />

Alternating weekends, easy on call schedule, no<br />

night or weekend removals, and limited prep-room<br />

work. Must be able to obtain a Florida <strong>Funeral</strong><br />

<strong>Director</strong>s License.<br />

Please contact Pamela at 386-267-1100<br />

fax your resume to: 386-267-1101<br />

or email: daytonafd@lohmaninc.com<br />

ADVERTISING<br />

All classified advertising needs to be paid in<br />

advance by check, credit card or have billing<br />

arrangements made through <strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong><br />

<strong>Director</strong>, prior to printing of the issue. Rates are<br />

$1.00 per word, with a $25.00 minimum charge.<br />

<strong>The</strong> <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong><br />

Classifieds<br />

Attn: John Yopp<br />

404-513-9405 | 678-691-7431 Fax Only<br />

johnyopp3@aol.com<br />

1750 Peachtree Street | Atlanta, GA 30309<br />

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<strong>Cremation</strong> <strong>2011</strong> AD INDEX<br />

Ambulance & Coach 17<br />

Andover Marker 28<br />

Batesville Casket 13<br />

Bill Black<br />

31<br />

IBC<br />

Columbian Financial 18<br />

Custom Casket Company 23<br />

Doric Vaults 5<br />

Federal Coach<br />

2 IFC<br />

Frigid Fluid Company 15<br />

Holland Supply 7<br />

Hoyt Matise 27<br />

John A. Gupton 27<br />

Master Grave Service 9<br />

Ogeechee Tech 19<br />

Pierce Chemicals 29<br />

Pierce Mortuary Colleges 26<br />

PSI Funds 24<br />

Service Casket Company 10<br />

Super Nova Mfg.<br />

4<br />

Sutton Slover Law 30<br />

Ties for You 28<br />

Wilbert <strong>Funeral</strong> Service<br />

32 BC<br />

POSITION OFFERING<br />

A multi location <strong>Southern</strong> metropolitan full service<br />

funeral provider with cremation emphasis<br />

seeks a President who will facilitate continued<br />

growth and reputation as a market leader. <strong>The</strong> primary<br />

role will be to drive customer satisfaction<br />

through excellent operational activities, build a<br />

strong team and execute growth strategies. Experience<br />

in preneed contracting, marketing, operations<br />

and P&L responsibility is desired.<br />

<strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> license and knowledge of <strong>Funeral</strong><br />

industry is a plus. Salary and bonus package<br />

commensurate with experience and results. Please<br />

forward your resume and salary history to Advertiser<br />

#310, c/o <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Funeral</strong> <strong>Director</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong>,<br />

P.O. Box 768152, Roswell, GA 30076.<br />

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Commemorations by Wilbert © <strong>2011</strong> Wilbert <strong>Funeral</strong> Services, Inc. All rights reserved. ADV-11010402-JUN11-SFD

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