Me2moro Magazine

smile. From what you are communicating
now, I’d say you are a good friend and you
sound like a Christian too. Firstly, no matter
the circumstances surrounding her, going
out with a married man is totally wrong; it’s
non-negotiable. Doing this is partaking in
adulterous practices, which God is strictly
against. However, it may be very difficult for
your friend to hear you because she may be
consumed by both her needs and the lavish
supply by this married man. You do have some
options though. You can talk to someone elderly
who she respects, to talk to her. I think it would
also be necessary to inform her parents about
this, so they can take the appropriate actions.
Most of all however, you need to pray for her,
so that her eyes will be opened to see the reality
of the situation and she can adhere to counsel
and also for the Holy Spirit to guide her on
what next to do. Finally, to aid her financial
situation, you can come together with a group
of friends and discretely put some funds together
to help her gain some grounds and establish
something lasting. You’re a good friend.
Hello P.E.A; I am a 16 year old lady in form
3, I fell in love with a guy because of his inner
qualities, he is funny and smart but he is not
handsome, so I cannot introduce him to
my friends. What should I do? I think I am
embarrassed about his looks, I do not want to be
looked down upon and laughed at…you know
how friends talk? Hmm #ANITA
Wow. This is actually quite funny. First of all,
Anita what are the indicators of love? If you
love someone for his inward qualities, does it
really matter how he looks? Answer is, YES!!
It matters how he looks, not how he looks to
others though, but to you. Even the Bible lets
us know, beauty is fleeting. The true beauty
of an individual is seen on the inside. If you
have been able to spot that quality of beauty in
anybody, trust me, it doesn’t matter what they
look like on the outside, their inner beauty will
always shine right through. Remember, our
faces will not remain the same forever, first
will come the wrinkles, then the folds and
the dimmed eyes and weakened muscles.
What would you have to hold on to then?
Never be ashamed of what a friend, family
or anyone you love looks like. Be proud of
the investments of their personalities and
showcase them to the whole world. Ever
wondered why supermodels aren’t the
richest people in the world? Be real, enjoy
beauty that’s concrete and lasting. Enjoy
love
Hello P.E.A, I am a 17 year old boy in
the boarding house, in my first year, I just
realized that my school father is gay, and he
keeps trying to convince me to have sex with
him, I fear I will be raped one day by he and
his friends. I want to leave the school and tell
my parents, but I am afraid. What should I
do? #BRIGHT
Hello Bright. I’m truly sorry to hear that
you have to go through such an ordeal.
It’s a good thing that you’ve been able to
stand against his advances so far. However,
you’ll have to report this matter both to
your parents and to the school authorities.
Truth is, you’re not the only one, even in
your school, going through this. Somebody
will have to get this out so that others can
also be saved from the ordeal. Moreover,
even if you leave this school to another,
what’s to say that you won’t meet the same
situation where you’re going? This is what
you need to do; Say NO, report the matter
to the authorities and keep away from such
relationships. Now, reporting them is not a
means to get them punished, but rather, a
means to get them the help they need. In so
doing, you’ll save yourself, others like you
and even those trying to get you to do the
wrong thing. So, my dear, be bold, stand
out and stand up for what’s right. Don’t
let fear dominate you. You can do this. For
you and for everyone else.
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