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Is Hating “Haters” Hateful?
Hate has a pretty bad name in the world today. No one wants to be called a hater, especially
Christians, which is probably why we get accused of it all the time by our opponents. Homosexuals
are especially fond of calling people haters. They even invented the word homophobia, which means
hate and fear of homosexuals, envisaged as a mental illness (a phobia is an anxiety disorder).
I hate being called a homophobe. It has such an ugly connotation. Its especially unpleasant because,
as a Christian, I’m supposed to have a reputation for loving people, not hating them. So I’ve worked
really hard over the years to try to get the homosexuals to stop calling me a homophobe. I’ve pointed
out the difference between hating people and hating their behavior (loving the sinner but hating the
sin). They hated that. Then I tried “walking my talk” by taking an ex-”gay” man who was dying of
AIDS into my family. My wife and I and our children loved and cared for him during the last year of
his life. They hated that even more.
Then I began asking for guidance from homosexuals themselves: “Tell me, where is the line between
homophobia and acceptable opposition to homosexuality?” I asked. “What if I just agree with the
Bible that homosexuality is a sin no worse than any other sex outside of marriage?” “No, that‘s
homophobic,” they replied. “Suppose I talk only about the proven medical hazards of gay sex and try
to discourage people from hurting themselves?“ “No, you can’t do that,” they said. “How about if I
say that homosexuals have the option to change if they choose?” “Ridiculous” they answered. “Maybe
I could just be completely positive, say nothing about homosexuality, and focus only on promoting
the natural family and traditional marriage?” “That’s really hateful,” they replied.
After I while, I realized that the only way I could get them to stop calling me a homophobe was to
start agreeing with them about everything. But here’s my dilemma: I honestly believe the Bible,
which says that homosexuality is wrong and harmful and that all sex belongs within marriage. I’ve
also read the professional studies and know that “gay” sex hurts people because it goes against the
design of their bodies. And I’m friends with a number of former homosexuals who are now married
and living heterosexual lives. Do I have to give up my religion? Ignore scientific facts? Betray my
friends? Is that the only way to avoid being called a hater and a homophobe?
There’s no escape. A homophobe is anyone who, for any reason, disapproves of homosexuality in
any way, shape, manner, form or degree. This leaves me with just two choices: agree that everything
about homosexuality is natural, normal, healthy, moral and worthy to be celebrated OR be labeled
as a mentally ill, hate-filled bigot.
Am I wrong? Is there any way to openly disapprove of homosexuality without being a homophobe?
“Gay” leaders, please set me straight on this.
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