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<strong>March</strong> <strong>18</strong>, <strong>2015</strong> <strong>Palisades</strong> <strong>News</strong> Page 5<br />

Stress Can Provide Insight<br />

By LAUREL BUSBY<br />

Staff Writer<br />

Earlier this year, stress expert Amanda<br />

Enayati asked an assembly of about<br />

500 Marquez Elementary School<br />

students to say “bad” if stress could be really<br />

bad.<br />

“The entire assembly erupted,’” she said.<br />

“I then asked the kids to say ‘good’ if stress<br />

can be really good. Nobody said anything.”<br />

And yet, Enayati, who has written on the<br />

subject for CNN, NPR and the Washington<br />

Post, has found that stress can actually be<br />

beneficial on many levels, and it’s our cultural<br />

view that stress is always bad that is<br />

the problem.<br />

In her new book, Seeking Serenity: The<br />

10 New Rules for Health and Happiness in<br />

the Age of Anxiety” (Penguin Publishing<br />

Group), Enayati discusses ways to help<br />

people take advantage of stress and turn<br />

life’s challenges into growth experiences.<br />

“There is good stress. Stress helps you be<br />

more creative. It helps you recover from<br />

wounds better,” said Enayati, who moved to<br />

Pacific <strong>Palisades</strong> two years ago. It is important<br />

that “we try to see stress in the right way<br />

as a path to evolution, a path to growth.”<br />

Enayati became an expert on stress in<br />

part through her own life experience. She<br />

was flooded with adversity. At nine years<br />

old, while growing up in Iran, she lost her<br />

home during the Iranian Revolution and<br />

for five years became a refugee living in various<br />

parts of Europe without her parents.<br />

In September 2011, she was in New York<br />

City and saw the World Trade Center collapse,<br />

which caused severe post-traumatic<br />

stress disorder owing to her childhood experiences.<br />

Most recently, when her children<br />

were toddlers, she developed cancer, which<br />

she has fought successfully.<br />

Strangely enough, the latter event put<br />

Enayati on the path that led her to her current<br />

jobs—writing about stress for CNN<br />

Health and PBS Media-Shift. In the process,<br />

she became an expert on the role stress<br />

plays in our lives, which resulted in book.<br />

“Seeking Serenity” is full of fascinating<br />

insights about stress. For example, in one<br />

section, Enayati talks about post-traumatic<br />

growth—”the ability not only to bounce<br />

back from adversity, but also to flourish.”<br />

As an example, she describes the experience<br />

of Major Rhonda Cornum, a young<br />

flight surgeon who survived a Black Hawk<br />

helicopter crash with two broken arms and<br />

a bullet in her back only to be sexually assaulted<br />

and imprisoned, but who then triumphed<br />

through the adversity and is now<br />

a brigadier general who has helped de-<br />

Amanda Enayati<br />

velop a program to teach resilience skills<br />

to other soldiers.<br />

Statistically, the human response to extreme<br />

stress tends to lie on a bell curve,<br />

according to Dr. Martin Seligman, whose<br />

work Enayati describes. On one end are<br />

people who have an intense, long-lasting reaction<br />

and may suffer from depression, anxiety<br />

and PTSD with a higher risk for suicide.<br />

In the middle are those who are mostly<br />

resilient and may have a hard time for<br />

several months, while on the far end are<br />

those who emerge from the trauma even<br />

stronger than before it—experiencing<br />

post-traumatic growth.<br />

This skill for resilience is not necessarily<br />

in-born; it can also be learned, and Enayati<br />

provides readers the tools to develop it<br />

themselves.<br />

Drawing from scientific studies, philosophy<br />

and individual stories, she also details<br />

other ways to enhance positive<br />

reactions to stress.<br />

Her book has chapters on the power of<br />

belonging, the benefits of giving to others,<br />

and the importance of creativity. She describes<br />

skills using meditation and mindfulness<br />

that can help with handling every day<br />

stresses, such as traffic and the demands of<br />

our modern world.<br />

In addition, she delineates the physiology<br />

of stress and the stories that we tell ourselves<br />

about the inevitable stresses of life.<br />

“What can make stress dangerous is the<br />

way you see stress,” said Enayati, who has<br />

two children, Mina, 10 and Rohan, 8, with<br />

her husband Jaime Uzeta. “It’s those stories<br />

that pave the way for whether we evolve<br />

and learn and grow instead of saying<br />

‘Why me?’ and ‘Why is this adversity happening<br />

to us?’”<br />

(Amanda Enayati’s tips for helping kids<br />

handle stress can be read on Page 3 of the<br />

camp section in today’s paper.)<br />

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