Palisades-News-March-18-2015
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<strong>March</strong> <strong>18</strong>, <strong>2015</strong> <strong>Palisades</strong> <strong>News</strong> Page 5<br />
Stress Can Provide Insight<br />
By LAUREL BUSBY<br />
Staff Writer<br />
Earlier this year, stress expert Amanda<br />
Enayati asked an assembly of about<br />
500 Marquez Elementary School<br />
students to say “bad” if stress could be really<br />
bad.<br />
“The entire assembly erupted,’” she said.<br />
“I then asked the kids to say ‘good’ if stress<br />
can be really good. Nobody said anything.”<br />
And yet, Enayati, who has written on the<br />
subject for CNN, NPR and the Washington<br />
Post, has found that stress can actually be<br />
beneficial on many levels, and it’s our cultural<br />
view that stress is always bad that is<br />
the problem.<br />
In her new book, Seeking Serenity: The<br />
10 New Rules for Health and Happiness in<br />
the Age of Anxiety” (Penguin Publishing<br />
Group), Enayati discusses ways to help<br />
people take advantage of stress and turn<br />
life’s challenges into growth experiences.<br />
“There is good stress. Stress helps you be<br />
more creative. It helps you recover from<br />
wounds better,” said Enayati, who moved to<br />
Pacific <strong>Palisades</strong> two years ago. It is important<br />
that “we try to see stress in the right way<br />
as a path to evolution, a path to growth.”<br />
Enayati became an expert on stress in<br />
part through her own life experience. She<br />
was flooded with adversity. At nine years<br />
old, while growing up in Iran, she lost her<br />
home during the Iranian Revolution and<br />
for five years became a refugee living in various<br />
parts of Europe without her parents.<br />
In September 2011, she was in New York<br />
City and saw the World Trade Center collapse,<br />
which caused severe post-traumatic<br />
stress disorder owing to her childhood experiences.<br />
Most recently, when her children<br />
were toddlers, she developed cancer, which<br />
she has fought successfully.<br />
Strangely enough, the latter event put<br />
Enayati on the path that led her to her current<br />
jobs—writing about stress for CNN<br />
Health and PBS Media-Shift. In the process,<br />
she became an expert on the role stress<br />
plays in our lives, which resulted in book.<br />
“Seeking Serenity” is full of fascinating<br />
insights about stress. For example, in one<br />
section, Enayati talks about post-traumatic<br />
growth—”the ability not only to bounce<br />
back from adversity, but also to flourish.”<br />
As an example, she describes the experience<br />
of Major Rhonda Cornum, a young<br />
flight surgeon who survived a Black Hawk<br />
helicopter crash with two broken arms and<br />
a bullet in her back only to be sexually assaulted<br />
and imprisoned, but who then triumphed<br />
through the adversity and is now<br />
a brigadier general who has helped de-<br />
Amanda Enayati<br />
velop a program to teach resilience skills<br />
to other soldiers.<br />
Statistically, the human response to extreme<br />
stress tends to lie on a bell curve,<br />
according to Dr. Martin Seligman, whose<br />
work Enayati describes. On one end are<br />
people who have an intense, long-lasting reaction<br />
and may suffer from depression, anxiety<br />
and PTSD with a higher risk for suicide.<br />
In the middle are those who are mostly<br />
resilient and may have a hard time for<br />
several months, while on the far end are<br />
those who emerge from the trauma even<br />
stronger than before it—experiencing<br />
post-traumatic growth.<br />
This skill for resilience is not necessarily<br />
in-born; it can also be learned, and Enayati<br />
provides readers the tools to develop it<br />
themselves.<br />
Drawing from scientific studies, philosophy<br />
and individual stories, she also details<br />
other ways to enhance positive<br />
reactions to stress.<br />
Her book has chapters on the power of<br />
belonging, the benefits of giving to others,<br />
and the importance of creativity. She describes<br />
skills using meditation and mindfulness<br />
that can help with handling every day<br />
stresses, such as traffic and the demands of<br />
our modern world.<br />
In addition, she delineates the physiology<br />
of stress and the stories that we tell ourselves<br />
about the inevitable stresses of life.<br />
“What can make stress dangerous is the<br />
way you see stress,” said Enayati, who has<br />
two children, Mina, 10 and Rohan, 8, with<br />
her husband Jaime Uzeta. “It’s those stories<br />
that pave the way for whether we evolve<br />
and learn and grow instead of saying<br />
‘Why me?’ and ‘Why is this adversity happening<br />
to us?’”<br />
(Amanda Enayati’s tips for helping kids<br />
handle stress can be read on Page 3 of the<br />
camp section in today’s paper.)<br />
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