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If I kept it to myself - World YWCA

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Young women intervene in a world w<strong>it</strong>h AIDS<br />

cond<strong>it</strong>ions, but the good news is that <strong>it</strong> is curable<br />

• Researching your treatment options. What trad<strong>it</strong>ional, western medicine<br />

or complementary therapies are available, accessible and will work for you<br />

• Planning a future and putting <strong>it</strong> in<strong>to</strong> action. An HIV pos<strong>it</strong>ive diagnosis does<br />

not mean that your life has <strong>to</strong> end. Set yourself goals, and start working<br />

<strong>to</strong>wards them<br />

• Expressing your feelings and dealing w<strong>it</strong>h your emotions. Anger, for<br />

example, can become destructive <strong>to</strong> your system if not well handled<br />

• Managing stress<br />

• Engaging in activ<strong>it</strong>ies you enjoy. Find a reason <strong>to</strong> live. Living w<strong>it</strong>h HIV may<br />

be a challenge, but you can also choose <strong>to</strong> live a very powerful life both<br />

mentally and emotionally<br />

• Staying f<strong>it</strong>. There is a direct relationship between health and f<strong>it</strong>ness.<br />

Exercise helps your state of mind, body and spir<strong>it</strong><br />

• Ending bad hab<strong>it</strong>s such as smoking and substance abuse, and starting <strong>to</strong><br />

respect your body. Change is a process that is never easy, but if you want<br />

<strong>to</strong> live a longer and healthier life start making changes that will enable you<br />

<strong>to</strong> do this<br />

• Disclosing your HIV pos<strong>it</strong>ive status only when you have accepted <strong>it</strong>, are<br />

ready and are well informed about HIV and AIDS<br />

• Having protected sex through consistent use of a condom so that you do<br />

not re-infect yourself or your partner<br />

• Trying as much as possible <strong>to</strong> ensure you have a balanced diet.<br />

Reduce stigma and discrimination<br />

Stigma and discrimination are often used in the same sentence, but if we<br />

look more closely, they have different meanings.<br />

“Stigma is not exactly the same as discrimination at least in terms of<br />

connotation. Stigma has an add<strong>it</strong>ional connotation <strong>to</strong> discrimination, namely<br />

of strong emotional rejection over and above structural inequ<strong>it</strong>y. ‘Stigma’<br />

is characterised by overt fear, whereas ‘discrimination’ is not always overt.<br />

We therefore propose that stigma is the extreme end of a discrimination<br />

continuum.”<br />

Taken from Self-stigma and HIV and AIDS by David Patient<br />

We can deal w<strong>it</strong>h stigma and discrimination by:<br />

• Finding out more about HIV and AIDS. <strong>If</strong> you are informed you will be<br />

able <strong>to</strong> correct people’s myths and misconceptions, usually the root cause<br />

of stigma. And don’t forget <strong>to</strong> look at your own beliefs and perceptions<br />

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