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If I kept it to myself - World YWCA

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<strong>If</strong> I <strong>kept</strong> <strong>it</strong> <strong>to</strong> <strong>myself</strong><br />

started w<strong>it</strong>h the support group, and have been<br />

developing skills and organisations along the<br />

way. In March 2002, I was appointed as the<br />

Indonesian representative for APN+ (Asia Pacific<br />

Network of PLWHA), for three years, and also<br />

selected as a co-chair. I am also a board member<br />

of the Global Network of PLWHA representing<br />

the Asia Pacific region, and have become an<br />

advocate for PLWHA, especially for women in<br />

the region. I am more outspoken outside my<br />

country as <strong>it</strong> is easier, and my parents are not<br />

yet ready, as they are afraid that <strong>it</strong> will affect their<br />

business. Desp<strong>it</strong>e this, they are very supportive<br />

of my work at home and abroad. It was not easy<br />

at first because of my lack of confidence, but w<strong>it</strong>h<br />

training at conferences and other platforms, I<br />

became a speaker. I pay my bills by working part<br />

time and saving on per diems received from my<br />

work travels.<br />

Drug use is the driving fac<strong>to</strong>r behind the<br />

increasing HIV prevalence in Indonesia. This<br />

makes our work challenging as families s<strong>to</strong>p<br />

coming <strong>to</strong> the support group when children<br />

relapse in<strong>to</strong> drug use. Until children are okay,<br />

families are ashamed <strong>to</strong> come back <strong>to</strong> the group.<br />

The other problem is that elders do not want <strong>to</strong><br />

listen <strong>to</strong> youth because they believe they have<br />

more experience. The greater involvement of<br />

PLWHA is therefore about involving the affected<br />

commun<strong>it</strong>y as well. This is why we have <strong>to</strong> focus<br />

on developing the knowledge of parents about<br />

HIV and AIDS and challenges facing youth.<br />

The Global Coal<strong>it</strong>ion on Women and AIDS<br />

(GCWA) is a good in<strong>it</strong>iative because <strong>it</strong> focuses<br />

on all regions of the world, not only Africa. I<br />

was involved in the US women vis<strong>it</strong>s before<br />

w<strong>it</strong>h another three women from other regions<br />

in raising awareness for women and AIDS. We<br />

have <strong>to</strong> continue building <strong>it</strong>, speaking out and<br />

engaging women for <strong>it</strong> <strong>to</strong> be known at country<br />

levels. Similarly, the UNICEF campaign Un<strong>it</strong>e<br />

for Children, Un<strong>it</strong>e Against AIDS is crucial, and<br />

has a strong link <strong>to</strong> what the GCWA wants <strong>to</strong><br />

accomplish, as you cannot separate women<br />

from children. I represented young women of<br />

reproductive age at the launch. It is true that<br />

children are the missing face of AIDS, even<br />

paediatric treatment is lacking. I am now working<br />

as a consultant in helping UNICEF in Indonesia<br />

for the Global Campaign on Children and AIDS,<br />

‘Un<strong>it</strong>e for Children, Un<strong>it</strong>e against AIDS’<br />

Occasionally I have been denied medical care<br />

and may face discrimination at home once I<br />

disclose my status. But I am still standing here. I<br />

am a new face of HIV in Asia.<br />

22<br />

Born: 1981<br />

Country: Indonesia<br />

Organisations: Asia Pacific Network<br />

of People Living w<strong>it</strong>h HIV and AIDS<br />

(APN+),<br />

Indonesian PLWHA National Network,<br />

Global Network of People Living w<strong>it</strong>h<br />

HIV and AIDS (GNP+), International<br />

Treatment Preparedness, South East<br />

Asia Treatment Preparedness<br />

Campaigns for: support for PLWHA<br />

and their families, and an end <strong>to</strong><br />

discrimination faced by HIV<br />

pos<strong>it</strong>ive injecting drug users

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