If I kept it to myself - World YWCA
If I kept it to myself - World YWCA
If I kept it to myself - World YWCA
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<strong>If</strong> I <strong>kept</strong> <strong>it</strong> <strong>to</strong> <strong>myself</strong><br />
Frika Chia Iskandar<br />
At the time, I did not know anything. All I knew<br />
was shame, but now I am here <strong>to</strong> save lives.<br />
Mostly because of peer pressure, at the age of<br />
16, in my native Jakarta, Indonesia, I started<br />
sharing heroin using hypodermic needles w<strong>it</strong>h<br />
drug users who thought <strong>it</strong> was ‘cool’. When I<br />
was 18 years old, I went in<strong>to</strong> rehabil<strong>it</strong>ation in<br />
the Harapan Permata Hati K<strong>it</strong>a Foundation in<br />
the Bogor region, which provides de<strong>to</strong>xification,<br />
counselling, and therapy for young drug users.<br />
Before I went in<strong>to</strong> rehabil<strong>it</strong>ation, I was treated<br />
in one of the private hosp<strong>it</strong>als in Jakarta. While<br />
unconscious and undergoing de<strong>to</strong>xification in<br />
the hosp<strong>it</strong>al, the doc<strong>to</strong>r tested me for HIV and<br />
Hepat<strong>it</strong>is C. It came out that I was co-infected.<br />
I returned home. It was a horrible experience,<br />
as I did not receive any information about HIV.<br />
All I felt was fear, uselessness and anger. Not<br />
long after that I was lucky <strong>to</strong> find a place, which<br />
accepts drug users who are HIV pos<strong>it</strong>ive for<br />
rehabil<strong>it</strong>ation, because there are many centres<br />
in Indonesia that do not. It is here that I became<br />
active in the peer self support group and learnt a<br />
lot about HIV, Hepat<strong>it</strong>is C and drug use.<br />
At the time, I didn’t know anything. All I knew was<br />
shame, but now I’m here <strong>to</strong> save lives. Now I<br />
feel that I can be something and useful for other<br />
people again. I believe that by helping other<br />
people, I am helping <strong>myself</strong> <strong>to</strong>o.<br />
Shortly after my rehabil<strong>it</strong>ation, I joined the<br />
Indonesia PLWHA (people living w<strong>it</strong>h HIV and<br />
AIDS) Network and worked at the Spir<strong>it</strong>ia<br />
Foundation, which is the secretariat of the<br />
network, as a field manager until the beginning<br />
of this year. Spir<strong>it</strong>ia is a non-governmental<br />
organisation that has been working w<strong>it</strong>h and<br />
for people living w<strong>it</strong>h HIV and AIDS since 1995.<br />
It pioneered the creation of such a network in<br />
20<br />
Indonesia, and <strong>it</strong>s vision is <strong>to</strong> provide qual<strong>it</strong>y care<br />
and support, while respecting the human rights<br />
of PLWHA in Indonesia. Spir<strong>it</strong>ia is supporting the<br />
involvement of PLWHA by organising training,<br />
resources and information; this is tremendously<br />
important in a country as large and diverse as<br />
Indonesia.<br />
In<strong>it</strong>ially I experienced discrimination from<br />
my family. They might have freaked out and<br />
discriminated against me at home, but I came<br />
<strong>to</strong> understand that <strong>it</strong> was out of fear and<br />
lack of information. I believe that parents will<br />
always accept their children no matter what the<br />
s<strong>it</strong>uation. There is no such thing as an ex-child<br />
or former child. And in 2003 we started PITA, a<br />
support group for parents who have HIV pos<strong>it</strong>ive<br />
children. This is another peer approach that I<br />
find really helpful. Parents also need <strong>to</strong> share<br />
their feelings and experiences.<br />
I do not live in the same house as them anymore,<br />
as I am now married and we have our own home,<br />
but we live in the same c<strong>it</strong>y.<br />
I am now active w<strong>it</strong>h the PITA foundation, which<br />
was officially registered in mid 2005. It carries<br />
out support activ<strong>it</strong>ies for PLWHA and affected<br />
commun<strong>it</strong>ies (including parents who have HIV<br />
pos<strong>it</strong>ive children, husbands, wives, brothers,<br />
sisters) because I know that HIV pos<strong>it</strong>ive people<br />
should not live alone, as we need support and<br />
love from our family and friends, and they need<br />
support <strong>to</strong>o. Using the peer prevention approach,<br />
PITA also involves student volunteers from<br />
univers<strong>it</strong>y. The students develop information and<br />
education communication material and wr<strong>it</strong>e<br />
newspaper articles. PITA’s activ<strong>it</strong>ies include<br />
counselling, providing buddy support systems