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ASK A VOLUNTEER<br />

by Paulette Macdonald<br />

Our Club is running<br />

well, but I have one<br />

or two Members that<br />

are new and shy. They like the<br />

Club but don’t participate or<br />

contribute as much as the others.<br />

Any suggestions as to how to get<br />

this Member more engaged in<br />

the Club - Region 5 Volunteer<br />

Dear Region 5 Volunteer,<br />

As 4-H Leaders we are blessed to meet<br />

a wide variety of youth at our meetings,<br />

at 4-H events, or other opportunities. It<br />

is true that sometimes we know all the Members are having a great time<br />

yet there can be one or two who just don’t seem to respond, or engage, the<br />

same way the others do. This can leave us at a loss for ideas.<br />

It is important to note whether the Member is shy because that is their<br />

character or whether they are shy because of the task at hand. Keep in mind<br />

that sometimes we, as Leaders, assume they are shy because we compare<br />

them to Members we have known in the past. We can also be quick to label<br />

the situation as ‘a problem’ where in reality it’s not a problem at all. It is an<br />

invitation to get to know a young person better!<br />

Here are a few suggestions that come from an experienced Leader and a<br />

couple of shy Members I talked to:<br />

• Take time to get to know the Member as an individual first.<br />

• Give them compliments and positive reinforcement.<br />

• Using peer partnering to let Members teach each other works wonders<br />

for new or shy Members. TIP: Ask Members who are good at welcoming<br />

others to be the club ambassadors.<br />

• Each Member learns through a different teaching method. TIP: Use<br />

variety at your meetings.<br />

• Social recreation is an important aspect of every 4-H meeting; it<br />

integrates Members and builds self-confidence. TIP: Have a getacquainted<br />

activity at the beginning of each meeting and a social rec.<br />

game at the end.<br />

These ideas work! One of the Members I interviewed also mentioned that<br />

what she wants at times is to be accepted as a shy person and to allow her<br />

to get involved on her own when she is ready. Just because they are shy<br />

doesn’t mean they are not just as interested as the others. Thanks for the<br />

question! Obviously, you are a dedicated Leader who wants to learn more<br />

and do the very best for your Members!<br />

“I’ve thought about<br />

applying to be an<br />

Ambassador but<br />

want more details. Can<br />

you explain the role more<br />

- Leslie, Temiskaming 4-H Member<br />

Hi Leslie!<br />

The 4-H <strong>Ontario</strong> Ambassador role<br />

is one that requires a lot of energy,<br />

enthusiasm and dedication but also<br />

comes with huge rewards! The job<br />

allows you to travel all over the<br />

province, attending 4-H events and<br />

speaking to lots of different people!<br />

My favourite ‘adventures’, as I call<br />

each Ambassador event I attend,<br />

include facilitating at NOOLA,<br />

helping at two P.L.A.Y events and<br />

going to fairs in the summer! The<br />

most exciting part for me is the<br />

people. I’ve made friends from<br />

almost every county in <strong>Ontario</strong>, but<br />

only because I got to travel so much<br />

as a 4-H <strong>Ontario</strong> Ambassador! I<br />

hope that I inspired you to apply!<br />

The 4-H <strong>Ontario</strong> Ambassador<br />

program is proudly sponsored by<br />

GROWMARK, Inc. and UPI Energy LP.<br />

Paulette Macdonald is the contributing Volunteer writer for this column, and is a 12 year Sudbury<br />

4-H Volunteer. Got a question! Submit it to communications@4-hontario.ca<br />

Leadership In Action • Winter 2011

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