R.U.D.E., or How We Get in Trouble - Metropolitan Alliance of Police
R.U.D.E., or How We Get in Trouble - Metropolitan Alliance of Police
R.U.D.E., or How We Get in Trouble - Metropolitan Alliance of Police
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Chapla<strong>in</strong>’s C<strong>or</strong>ner<br />
<strong>Metropolitan</strong><br />
<strong>Alliance</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Police</strong><br />
684 W. Boughton Road<br />
Suite 204<br />
Bol<strong>in</strong>gbrook, IL 60440<br />
630/759-4925<br />
630/759-1902 - fax<br />
E-mail: mapunion@msn.com<br />
map.legal@sbcglobal.net<br />
www.mapunion.<strong>or</strong>g<br />
Executive Board<br />
Joseph Andal<strong>in</strong>a<br />
Keith Ge<strong>or</strong>ge<br />
Richard Tracy<br />
President<br />
Vice President<br />
Treasurer<br />
Secretary<br />
Board <strong>of</strong> Direct<strong>or</strong>s<br />
Joseph Brank<strong>in</strong> Bol<strong>in</strong>gbrook<br />
Andrew Diakoumis CCDOC<br />
Barry Jackson CCSPD, retired<br />
Michael O’Brien New Lenox<br />
Raymond Violetto T<strong>in</strong>ley Park<br />
General Counsel<br />
Joseph Mazzone<br />
Additional Counsel<br />
Richard Reimer<br />
Thomas Radja Jr<br />
Chris Potth<strong>of</strong>f<br />
Jerry Marzullo<br />
David Wysopal<br />
Steven Calcaterra<br />
Ronald Cic<strong>in</strong>elli<br />
Legal Advis<strong>or</strong><br />
Jeffery Ort<strong>in</strong>au<br />
W<strong>in</strong>ter 2006<br />
By: Chapla<strong>in</strong> Tom Ross<br />
<strong>We</strong>ll, Fall is<br />
here, the<br />
holidays are just<br />
around the c<strong>or</strong>ner<br />
and our lives are <strong>in</strong><br />
full sw<strong>in</strong>g—busy,<br />
busy and then busy<br />
aga<strong>in</strong>!<br />
Sometimes <strong>in</strong> the<br />
midst <strong>of</strong> this busyness, we can become stressed<br />
with all that we take on and it usually leads<br />
to time fly<strong>in</strong>g by and we are not enjoy<strong>in</strong>g it.<br />
I came across some symptoms that are called<br />
‘THE BURNOUT CLUB.’ Take a look and<br />
see if any, some <strong>or</strong> all <strong>of</strong> these apply to your<br />
current lifestyle.<br />
1) W<strong>or</strong>k hard, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g as many holidays as<br />
possible—f<strong>or</strong> that ever-lov<strong>in</strong>g OT.<br />
2) Adhere to a diet <strong>of</strong> “FAST FOOD” and<br />
candy bars.<br />
3) Assume the responsibility <strong>of</strong> solv<strong>in</strong>g the<br />
problems <strong>of</strong> all your friends, family and cow<strong>or</strong>kers.<br />
4) Never delegate—run with the “I CAN DO<br />
IT” attitude.<br />
5) Never say NO—try to please everyone all<br />
the time.<br />
6) Never “WASTE” time relax<strong>in</strong>g.<br />
7) Never exercise.<br />
8) Don’t take time <strong>of</strong>f f<strong>or</strong> yourself—<strong>of</strong> course<br />
avoid<strong>in</strong>g “‘GUILT”’ that you are <strong>of</strong>f.<br />
9) Put everyone else FIRST bef<strong>or</strong>e yourself;<br />
make sure your needs come last.<br />
10) Be a “PERFECTIONIST,” never accept<br />
anyth<strong>in</strong>g less then perfect.<br />
So there you are: What was your sc<strong>or</strong>e Anyth<strong>in</strong>g<br />
over a 6 and congratulations—you are<br />
on your way to be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the coveted BURN-<br />
OUT CLUB!<br />
Seriously, it is a good time f<strong>or</strong> all <strong>of</strong> us to take<br />
a slowdown, take a deep breath and ensure<br />
all these th<strong>in</strong>gs that are so imp<strong>or</strong>tant to w<strong>or</strong>k<br />
f<strong>or</strong> <strong>or</strong> towards will be there f<strong>or</strong> us to enjoy.<br />
The so called ‘burn<strong>in</strong>g the candle at both ends<br />
never leads to anyth<strong>in</strong>g good. It robs our lives<br />
<strong>of</strong> enjoyment and could lead to some very<br />
serious health problems. Now f<strong>or</strong> me, writ<strong>in</strong>g<br />
this gave me time to look at my own life style.<br />
Here I am, so called retired, and some might<br />
say I am busier then I ever was bef<strong>or</strong>e w<strong>or</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g<br />
full time <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>dustry. I looked at just this past<br />
week; w<strong>or</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g at church, attend<strong>in</strong>g meet<strong>in</strong>gs,<br />
w<strong>or</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g at the hospital a few shifts, help<strong>in</strong>g<br />
family with their move and gett<strong>in</strong>g their new<br />
house <strong>in</strong> <strong>or</strong>der, etc., etc. I was tired and realized<br />
I, too, had hit over the 6 on the charts.<br />
And these are all good th<strong>in</strong>gs BUT—well, you<br />
know the answer. Need to take time, reevaluate<br />
and slow down some to enjoy the wonderful<br />
life I do have bef<strong>or</strong>e me.<br />
As this is MAP’s fall issue, as we end 2006<br />
and head <strong>in</strong>to the holidays, I wish you and<br />
your family the very best. My prayer f<strong>or</strong> you<br />
is a peaceful, happy and holy holiday, be it<br />
Christmas, Hanukkah <strong>or</strong> Kwanzaa. Allow the<br />
holidays to be a time to celebrate with family<br />
and friends, the great gifts we each enjoy <strong>in</strong><br />
our lives, and especially the gift <strong>of</strong> faith.<br />
Chapla<strong>in</strong> Tom Ross, Sr<br />
Edit<strong>or</strong>’s Note: To contact Deacon Ross, you can<br />
reach him via his e-mail <strong>of</strong> sligo8@comcast.net<br />
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