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R.U.D.E., or How We Get in Trouble - Metropolitan Alliance of Police

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Chapla<strong>in</strong>’s C<strong>or</strong>ner<br />

<strong>Metropolitan</strong><br />

<strong>Alliance</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>Police</strong><br />

684 W. Boughton Road<br />

Suite 204<br />

Bol<strong>in</strong>gbrook, IL 60440<br />

630/759-4925<br />

630/759-1902 - fax<br />

E-mail: mapunion@msn.com<br />

map.legal@sbcglobal.net<br />

www.mapunion.<strong>or</strong>g<br />

Executive Board<br />

Joseph Andal<strong>in</strong>a<br />

Keith Ge<strong>or</strong>ge<br />

Richard Tracy<br />

President<br />

Vice President<br />

Treasurer<br />

Secretary<br />

Board <strong>of</strong> Direct<strong>or</strong>s<br />

Joseph Brank<strong>in</strong> Bol<strong>in</strong>gbrook<br />

Andrew Diakoumis CCDOC<br />

Barry Jackson CCSPD, retired<br />

Michael O’Brien New Lenox<br />

Raymond Violetto T<strong>in</strong>ley Park<br />

General Counsel<br />

Joseph Mazzone<br />

Additional Counsel<br />

Richard Reimer<br />

Thomas Radja Jr<br />

Chris Potth<strong>of</strong>f<br />

Jerry Marzullo<br />

David Wysopal<br />

Steven Calcaterra<br />

Ronald Cic<strong>in</strong>elli<br />

Legal Advis<strong>or</strong><br />

Jeffery Ort<strong>in</strong>au<br />

W<strong>in</strong>ter 2006<br />

By: Chapla<strong>in</strong> Tom Ross<br />

<strong>We</strong>ll, Fall is<br />

here, the<br />

holidays are just<br />

around the c<strong>or</strong>ner<br />

and our lives are <strong>in</strong><br />

full sw<strong>in</strong>g—busy,<br />

busy and then busy<br />

aga<strong>in</strong>!<br />

Sometimes <strong>in</strong> the<br />

midst <strong>of</strong> this busyness, we can become stressed<br />

with all that we take on and it usually leads<br />

to time fly<strong>in</strong>g by and we are not enjoy<strong>in</strong>g it.<br />

I came across some symptoms that are called<br />

‘THE BURNOUT CLUB.’ Take a look and<br />

see if any, some <strong>or</strong> all <strong>of</strong> these apply to your<br />

current lifestyle.<br />

1) W<strong>or</strong>k hard, <strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g as many holidays as<br />

possible—f<strong>or</strong> that ever-lov<strong>in</strong>g OT.<br />

2) Adhere to a diet <strong>of</strong> “FAST FOOD” and<br />

candy bars.<br />

3) Assume the responsibility <strong>of</strong> solv<strong>in</strong>g the<br />

problems <strong>of</strong> all your friends, family and cow<strong>or</strong>kers.<br />

4) Never delegate—run with the “I CAN DO<br />

IT” attitude.<br />

5) Never say NO—try to please everyone all<br />

the time.<br />

6) Never “WASTE” time relax<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

7) Never exercise.<br />

8) Don’t take time <strong>of</strong>f f<strong>or</strong> yourself—<strong>of</strong> course<br />

avoid<strong>in</strong>g “‘GUILT”’ that you are <strong>of</strong>f.<br />

9) Put everyone else FIRST bef<strong>or</strong>e yourself;<br />

make sure your needs come last.<br />

10) Be a “PERFECTIONIST,” never accept<br />

anyth<strong>in</strong>g less then perfect.<br />

So there you are: What was your sc<strong>or</strong>e Anyth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

over a 6 and congratulations—you are<br />

on your way to be<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> the coveted BURN-<br />

OUT CLUB!<br />

Seriously, it is a good time f<strong>or</strong> all <strong>of</strong> us to take<br />

a slowdown, take a deep breath and ensure<br />

all these th<strong>in</strong>gs that are so imp<strong>or</strong>tant to w<strong>or</strong>k<br />

f<strong>or</strong> <strong>or</strong> towards will be there f<strong>or</strong> us to enjoy.<br />

The so called ‘burn<strong>in</strong>g the candle at both ends<br />

never leads to anyth<strong>in</strong>g good. It robs our lives<br />

<strong>of</strong> enjoyment and could lead to some very<br />

serious health problems. Now f<strong>or</strong> me, writ<strong>in</strong>g<br />

this gave me time to look at my own life style.<br />

Here I am, so called retired, and some might<br />

say I am busier then I ever was bef<strong>or</strong>e w<strong>or</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g<br />

full time <strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong>dustry. I looked at just this past<br />

week; w<strong>or</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g at church, attend<strong>in</strong>g meet<strong>in</strong>gs,<br />

w<strong>or</strong>k<strong>in</strong>g at the hospital a few shifts, help<strong>in</strong>g<br />

family with their move and gett<strong>in</strong>g their new<br />

house <strong>in</strong> <strong>or</strong>der, etc., etc. I was tired and realized<br />

I, too, had hit over the 6 on the charts.<br />

And these are all good th<strong>in</strong>gs BUT—well, you<br />

know the answer. Need to take time, reevaluate<br />

and slow down some to enjoy the wonderful<br />

life I do have bef<strong>or</strong>e me.<br />

As this is MAP’s fall issue, as we end 2006<br />

and head <strong>in</strong>to the holidays, I wish you and<br />

your family the very best. My prayer f<strong>or</strong> you<br />

is a peaceful, happy and holy holiday, be it<br />

Christmas, Hanukkah <strong>or</strong> Kwanzaa. Allow the<br />

holidays to be a time to celebrate with family<br />

and friends, the great gifts we each enjoy <strong>in</strong><br />

our lives, and especially the gift <strong>of</strong> faith.<br />

Chapla<strong>in</strong> Tom Ross, Sr<br />

Edit<strong>or</strong>’s Note: To contact Deacon Ross, you can<br />

reach him via his e-mail <strong>of</strong> sligo8@comcast.net<br />

Page The Rap Sheet W<strong>in</strong>ter 2006

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